Reverse Cowgirl | Ultimate Guide to this Position

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Have you ever wondered why the reverse cowgirl position is featured so prominently in almost every sex guide, and is a staple in pretty much every PORN video?

Well, it isn’t by accident. The reverse cowgirl is widely regarded as one of  THE GREATEST sex positions as it offers mind-blowing pleasure for BOTH women and men (only if you know how to do it properly – as we’ll teach you in this guide!)

Think of it as the regular cowgirl position on steroids, if you will. Or its naughtier, more exciting twin!

If this fabulous girl-on-top position isn’t in your bedroom repertoire, you’re missing out!

Unfortunately, many couples try the reverse cowgirl position only to be left wondering what all the fuss is about.

With the wrong approach or technique, the position can feel more awkward than awesome.

That’s why I put together this COMPLETE GUIDE to the reverse cowgirl.

I’ll show you the ins and outs of this unbeatable sex position, and explain exactly how both men and women can master this phenomenal position.

I intentionally made this guide super detailed so that I don’t miss anything out for those who want to discover everything there is to know about the reverse cowgirl.

If there’s something specific you want to find out, feel free to click on any of the above links to skip ahead to the info you want!

1. What Is The Reverse Cowgirl Position?

The reverse cowgirl position is simply the regular cowgirl reversed. In regular cowgirl, the girl faces her partner and straddles him with her knees on either side of his hips. Reverse cowgirl is just the same thing but with her facing away.

Check out this (non-explicit) video demonstrating the motion of this great position:

The reverse cowgirl is also known by a range of other names including the ‘Backward Cowgirl’, ‘Half Way Around the World’, and ‘Rodeo Drive’. For any Karma Sutra fans out there, it’s most similar to the Tigress.

2. Why Is Reverse Cowgirl So Popular?

The reverse cowgirl is a girl-on-top position that offers a variety of benefits for both partners. It’s versatile, highly adaptable and has a reputation as one of the best all-round sex positions.

Don’t believe me?

Well, consider the evidence:

• Cosmopolitan says it “should definitely be” in every girl’s repertoire.
• Men’s Health gave it five out of five on their heat index.
• More bluntly, GQ described it as “one of the only Karma Sutra positions worth bothering with”.
• Heck, even Women’s Health Australia included it as one of their must-try sex positions for 2018 and beyond!

As every couple has different needs and preferences, there’s obviously no such thing as the ‘perfect’ sex position.

But when you’ve got such as disparate range of sources going gaga over the same position, it’s probably worth taking note!

So, what’s so special about the reverse cowgirl?

In short, the reverse cowgirl offers numerous benefits for both women and men because it’s highly customizable and has plenty of variations.

As you’ll discover in this guide, the reverse cowgirl can be adapted and modified to satisfy almost any couple regardless of age, size or levels of physical fitness.

Why do women love reverse cowgirl?

No two women are identical and the reverse cowgirl has something for everyone.

Here are some of the main reasons why women love the reverse cowgirl:

• Reverse cowgirl can be adapted to suit any woman, no matter her fitness level or body type.

• This position gives women total control over the angle of their partner’s penis, helping to ensure that it hits just the right spot!

• Women can expect strong G-spot stimulation as they slide backward and forward or bob up and down on their partner during reverse cowgirl.

• Dominant women love the control over the pace and depth of penetration that this position offers.

• Reverse cowgirl gives amazing P-spot (posterior fornix) stimulation that can lead to mind-blowing orgasms!

• Reverse cowgirl gives amazing clitoral access and is perfect for introducing manual stimulation or even sex toys such as vibrators.

• For women who like being spanked or want to try out anal play, there’s simply no better position!

Why do men love reverse cowgirl?

Yes, guys, you can just lie back with a pillow under your head and enjoy the show.

But there are many other unbeatable advantages of the reverse cowgirl that you should explore.

Most men love reverse cowgirl because:

• You can easily reach around and stimulate your woman’s breasts or clitoris which really adds to her excitement and enjoyment.

• You can support your partner’s hips and help guide her into the best positions.

• Reverse cowgirl is one of the best sex positions to try if you want to last longer in bed. You can easily change up the motions and positions when you get close to coming.

• Reverse cowgirl doesn’t have to be a passive position; you can actively thrust upward using your core muscles while your woman remains static.

• If you or your partner is into spanking or anal play, reverse cowgirl is one of the greatest sex positions for living out your fantasies!

3. Five Myths About The Reverse Cowgirl That You Probably Believe

While every couple has sex positions that they’d gladly go without, some women hate reverse cowgirl with an unbridled passion!

For the most part, this is due to misconceptions about what the position is and how it’s done.

I call these misconceptions ‘reverse cowgirl myths’ and here are five that I can debunk completely.

Myth #1. Reverse cowgirl is only pleasurable for men

True, from a guy’s perspective the reverse cowgirl offers a hugely erotic view and sexual gratification without having to exert much effort.

Guys love it and it’s probably one of the most popular positions for shooting porn as it offers a great view of the action.

You’d be forgiven for thinking that the reverse cowgirl was dreamt up by men, or even porn directors!

In fact, according to Antonia Hall, author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life, the reverse cowgirl is one of the best positions for women to learn to be in control and become more attuned to their bodies.

In this position, far from being a passive recipient, the woman can do exactly as she pleases to get the maximum pleasure.

She can change up the angles to her heart’s content, flexing her back so that her lover’s penis hits her most sensitive spots.

Best of all, reverse cowgirl is awesome for introducing fingering or some buzzy action and helping her charge towards multiple powerful orgasms!

Myth #2. Women can’t come in reverse cowgirl

A surprising number of women rule out even trying reverse cowgirl because they think they can’t or won’t come.

This simply isn’t true!

According to sex researcher Nicole Prause, Ph.D., reverse cowgirl is one of the best positions for women to try using a sex toy and also offers some of the strongest G-spot and P-spot stimulation of any sex position!

Simply put, reverse cowgirl puts the woman in charge and lets her do anything and everything to come, no excuses.

So, if you’re a girl who struggles to climax during reverse cowgirl, there’s likely so much more that you could be doing:

• If you don’t like up and down thrusting and find it tiring, have you tried grinding back and forth or in circles?
• If you find reverse cowgirl tiring, have you tried remaining static and having him thrust upward into you?

What I’m saying is, if you can’t come in this position, there’s more to try, I promise you.

That’s the joy of reverse cowgirl; you can do whatever feels best for you!

Myth #3. Reverse cowgirl is inconvenient

This is a fairly common misconception and it’s understandably prevalent.

There’s really no other move quite like the reverse cowgirl and it doesn’t seem to flow smoothly from any other sex position.

However, the variations and techniques that I’m going to share with you in this guide will FULLY debunk this myth!

I’ll show you how to effortlessly move into reverse cowgirl from a range of positions including sitting and the Sixty Nine position.

I’ll also share some incredible variations of the reverse cowgirl that will make sliding into the full reverse cowgirl position a breeze.

Myth #4. Reverse cowgirl is too tiring to be enjoyable for the woman

Some women think that reverse cowgirl is some kind of twisted, hunched-over cardio-hell that is best avoided at all costs.

Surely if you’re busy squatting up and down, the last thing you have the energy for is climaxing, right?

Wrong! This myth stems from a misunderstanding of what reverse cowgirl is and a lack of knowledge of the myriad of ways in which it can be done.

True, squatting and bobbing up and down is tiring. But there are so many other ways to switch things up and start enjoying yourself!

Firstly, nowhere in the Karma Sutra or any other sex guide does it say that the guy just gets to lie there.

Sex is a two-way street and there’s no such thing as a free ride.

As a woman, you can kneel down in a static position (known as the Galley) while your guy thrusts up into you. Far from becoming tired, you’ll likely find yourself complaining when he stops!

If you still aren’t convinced, I’ve got plenty of other tips and tricks such as rocking and grinding motions that I’ll share with you later in this guide.

If you want to take a break from riding your man’s shaft, I’ll show you a non-penetrative variation of reverse cowgirl that is awesome for clitoral stimulation.

Myth #5. The vagina doesn’t flow in that angle!

The fifth common reverse cowgirl myth goes something like this: the upward-sloping angle of the vagina makes regular cowgirl or missionary position enjoyable but isn’t a good fit for reverse cowgirl.

Again, this is where variations come into play. There’s no rule book that says you have to stay at any particular angle during reverse cowgirl.

The beauty of the reverse cowgirl is that the woman is free to angle her man’s penis exactly as she pleases.

Let’s face it; no two dicks are exactly the same. Almost 10 percent of men have bent or curved penises that make any sex position somewhat challenging.

The bottom line is – if you’re a girl and you’re not loving reverse cowgirl, you need to learn how to get the most out of being on top.

Get handsy, get buzzy, find your groove, do whatever it takes and you’ll get there!

So, having addressed those myths, I’ll move on to how to master the basics of reverse cowgirl.

4. How To Do The Reverse Cowgirl: Mastering The Basics

Whether you’ve yet to try reverse cowgirl or have already given it a go and been left feeling nonplussed, here’s a complete guide to mastering the basics of the reverse cowgirl position.

Moving into position

The challenge of reverse cowgirl is discovering which angles and depths feel best.

Don’t just jump on and start bouncing away!

There are two main ways that I recommend moving into the reverse cowgirl position:

• From a sitting position known as the Chair.
• From a sixty-nine position known as the Pendant.

Option #1. Start from the Chair position

The Chair is a seated variation of reverse cowgirl that’s far easier to get started with.

The guy sits on a bed or on the edge of a bed and she sits down on his lap.

As she lowers herself down on him, he enters her vagina with his shaft.

Some sex guides refer to a seated variation of regular cowgirl as the Chair.

If you’re familiar with this position, I’m suggesting reversing this with the guy sitting on the edge of the bed and the woman facing away.

Unlike regular reverse cowgirl, this position doesn’t require any tricky balancing as both of your feet remain on the floor.

It’s an easy way for both partners to get comfortable with the sensations of having sex from behind.

You can explore the depths and positions that you are most comfortable with before moving into full reverse cowgirl.

Moving from the Chair into reverse cowgirl is simple.

The guy lies back and she bends her knees to bring her feet backward until her knees are either side of his thighs.

She can support her weight and maintain balance by placing her hands on top of his thighs.

Option #2. Start from the Pendant position

Another way to move into the reverse cowgirl position is to start from a variation of the sixty-nine position known as the Pendant.

He lies on his back while she kneels either side of his shoulders.

While he performs cunnilingus, she stretches forward to give him a blowjob. In the Pendant, the woman has good control over the intensity of the oral stimulation that she receives.

She can raise herself up when it gets too intense or lower herself down for a stronger sensation.

As a guy, you can work your tongue magic on her clitoris and really turn up the heat.

From the woman’s perspective, moving into reverse cowgirl from the Pendant position is simple.

Starting with your knees near your man’s shoulders, swing your legs over your guy’s arms one by one.

Support your weight on his thighs and slide forward so that your vagina is near his penis.

With your knees either side of your man’s thighs, you can reach down and grab his shaft to find the perfect angle for him to enter you.

Lower yourself down to enter him and support your weight by placing your hands on his thighs.

Mastering the basic movement

The standard reverse cowgirl movement calls for the woman to bob up and down with the guy remaining fairly passive.

A more tiring variation is for her to squat up and down.

This provides deep, intense thrusts but isn’t particularly pleasurable for most ladies.

That’s where reverse cowgirl variations come in handy.

In the next section, I’ll share three common variations that are far easier to perform and will be far more pleasurable for her.

5. What To Do When You Get Tired: Reverse Cowgirl Variations

The standard kneeling or squatting thrusts of reverse cowgirl can be quite demanding for most women.

Fortunately, there are several easier reverse cowgirl variations that you can explore.

The main three options that I suggest are as follows:

The Galley

To move into the Galley position, she leans forward as if moving into doggy style position.

She can rock back and forth against her man’s shaft, or he can thrust into her.

The Double Decker

Another option is for her to lie back on her man in what’s known as the Double Decker position. This takes the pressure off her legs and helps her relax as her man thrusts into her.

Non-penetrative Reverse Cowgirl

You can also explore non-penetrative options if she sits on his erect penis with it angled upwards along his pelvic region.

Rocking or sliding back and forth on top of his cock will produce strong sensations for both partners, including good clitoral stimulation for her.

If you’re looking to master the basics of reverse cowgirl, that’s about it!

It’s a girl-on-top missionary position with her spun around.

However, there are gender-specific tips and tricks that we need to cover so I’ve created both a woman’s and a man’s guide to mastering the reverse cowgirl.

6. Her Guide to Mastering The Reverse Cowgirl

Ladies, you’ve probably heard rave reviews about the reverse cowgirl before and maybe you’ve even tried it.

If the experience left feeling more tired than turned-on, I’m here to help!

With the right tips and tricks, this naughty position will help you get off like crazy.

Mastering the movement

Bouncing up and down on your guy’s shaft can be fairly tiring and isn’t always that pleasurable.

If you want to climax, you need to feel relaxed, not like you’re trying to make it through a spinning class!

There are three main movements that are totally hot and will help get you there in no time without much effort:

1. Grinding
2. Rocking
3. Bobbing

I’ll explore each of these movements separately and explain exactly how to pull them off.

1. How to grind

One of the best ways to hit your G-spot and wake your P-spot during reverse cowgirl is to lean back and grind on your guy.

Instead of hunching forward and supporting your weight on your guy’s thighs, lean back and place your hands on his chest.

This is similar to the Chair position discussed above except the guy is lying down instead of sitting.

If supporting your weight on your arms gets tiring, you can lean back and rest on your elbows in the Double Decker position.

To master grinding, simply use your hips to move forward and backward or in small circular motions.

This will give you amazing clitoral stimulation for relatively little effort, helping you to climax without even breaking a sweat.

2. Try rocking

Many men believe that the reverse cowgirl is a good excuse for them to just lie there like a starfish. It isn’t.

From a kneeling position, lean forward as if moving into doggy style and get your guy to thrust upward into you using his core muscles.

This is similar to the ‘Tigress’ from the Karma Sutra.

In this position, you can arch your back up and down and rock back and forth on your guy’s shaft.

This is far less demanding than the up-and-down movement of regular reverse cowgirl.

If rocking is a struggle, one tip is to have him place a small cushion or pillow under his butt.

This will bring his shaft to a more comfortable height so that you don’t have to rock back too low.

This rocking movement is great for you; not only is it highly empowering but you can concentrate on getting there yourself without much effort.

3. Try bobbing

Many women don’t like the reverse cowgirl due to the way that the natural upward curve of the penis seems at odds with the position of the vagina.

However, the reverse cowgirl is one of the best positions for hitting your P-spot (Posterior Fornix) which is located near the cervix on your posterior wall, opposite the G-spot.

In reverse cowgirl, your man’s penis is ideally positioned to hit the back lower wall of your vagina and send you to heaven.

This is where the Galley position comes in.

This variation of the reverse cowgirl calls for you to lean forward so that his penis glides across the lower wall of your vagina.

If you aren’t used to this, bear in mind that strong stimulation of this area of your vagina can prove painful, so take it slow!

The Galley isn’t meant to be a deep penetration position.

You can bob back and forth, or he can gently push you back and forth as he thrusts up into you.

If you’ve tried the reverse cowgirl in the past, only to be left disappointed, these three movements won’t fail to get you off.

Whether you prefer to grind, rock, or just raise yourself up and have your guy go at it, these movements will help.

Who knows, with a little practice, the reverse cowgirl could become your new go-to position!

7. His Guide To Mastering The Reverse Cowgirl

I know that I don’t need to sell any of you guys on the virtues of the reverse cowgirl!

If there’s anything better than seeing your woman bounce up and down on your cock, well, they haven’t discovered it yet.

Unfortunately, reverse cowgirl isn’t enjoyable for most women and consequently is one of the positions that typically gets left off most couple’s bedroom routine after a few attempts.

My goal for this guide is to help you make the reverse cowgirl position sexual nirvana for your woman so that she gets off on it like nothing else.

I’ll cover a wide range of tips and tricks that will help you power your woman towards multiple intense orgasms.

Helping her find the best position

The typical reverse cowgirl up-and-down motion that you see in sex guides is rarely pleasurable for most women.

Kneeling or squatting will make her too tired and uncomfortable to even begin to think about orgasming, let along fondling your balls.

Your job is to help her find the most pleasurable position and take on your fair share of the effort.

There are three main options:

1. Try grinding instead of thrusting
2. Take charge of the action
3. Support her weight

1. Try grinding instead of thrusting

To ease your woman into reverse cowgirl, try the Chair position which is a seated version of spooning.

Sit on the edge of the bed and support your woman as she sits onto your shaft.

Instead of having her bob up and down, try grinding into her with small circular motions.

Support her weight by placing one of your hands on her hips.

Help her to discover the most comfortable angles and depth of penetration.

She’ll find this grinding motion much less tiring and more enjoyable than the standard reverse cowgirl movement.

Once you’ve mastered this move, you can ease into reverse cowgirl by bringing your woman’s legs backward and laying back on the bed.

2. Take charge of the action

The up and down motion of reverse cowgirl is very demanding for most women so you need to explore less tiring variations.

One such variation is called the Galley where you encourage her to lean forward as if in doggy style.

One added benefit of this position is that your penis will glide over the lower wall of her vagina, helping to wake her P-spot.

This should help her along to some amazing orgasms.

When in the Galley position, you should be aware that thrusting too hard or too deeply can be painful for her, so go slowly!

Instead of having her rock up and down, hold her hips and gently rock her backward and forward.

She’ll find this incredibly relaxing and when she’s relaxed, orgasms are sure to follow!

3. Support her weight

While the girl-on-top movements you see in most sex guides may look sexy, your woman is never going to climax if she’s hunched over and pounding you like a porn star.

The key to making reverse cowgirl work for both of you is to help her relax by supporting her weight.

One alternative to the Chair position is the Double Decker.

From the seated Chair position, you can easily lie back and encourage her to relax on your chest.

This variation still has the rear-entry action of reverse cowgirl but will leave her much less tired.

The Double Decker gives her the option of either supporting her weight on her elbows (which is easier for you) or lying on your chest, which frees up her hands.

With her lying back on you, put your hands on her hips and grind into her or thrust upward using your core muscles.

This relaxing position will help her climax.

From this position, she may want to finger herself to provide more clitoral stimulation.

You can also reach around with one hand to help out, or even introduce sex toys such as a vibrator.

I’ll discuss these options later in the guide.

An alternative to the Double Decker is to try the Tigress from the Karma Sutra.

As with the Galley position, the Tigress lets you thrust up into your woman instead of having her do all the work.

However, the Tigress also lets her introduce a subtle rocking movement if she arches her back.

You can support her weight by placing your hands on her hips.

This makes the position far more comfortable for her.

Hopefully, these ideas will help both of you experience the hidden virtues of the reverse cowgirl.

The key is to switch things up so that as you tire of one position, you can move into one of the other variations.

8. Getting Handsy During Reverse Cowgirl: Everything You Need To Know

While the standard reverse cowgirl position leaves most girls too tired to climax, the low stress, high-pleasure variations described earlier in this guide should let most women focus on climaxing.

Sometimes though, that isn’t enough.

That’s where your hands and fingers come in.

The amazing thing about reverse cowgirl is that it gives amazing clitoral access and usually leaves both partners with at least one hand free.

This section of the guide is primarily aimed at her, but the techniques described below can be used by both partners.

I thoroughly recommend putting your roaming hands to good use and giving her clitoris some love during reverse cowgirl!

3 Orgasmic Tips For Getting There In Reverse Cowgirl

Every woman responds differently so I’m not suggesting that every technique will make the earth move for every woman.

It takes trial and error (and a lot of fun!) to discover what works best.

But, here are three manual stimulation tips that will help most women climax during reverse cowgirl, if done correctly.

#1. Finger your clit

The best reverse cowgirl variation for getting handsy is without a doubt the Double Decker.

This position keeps your clitoris exposed and ready for action while at least one of your hands remains free.

There’s no ‘right way’ to finger your clit; it takes trial and error to see what you find most pleasurable.

I suggest that you lie back on your guy’s chest so that both of your hands are free.

Use your non-dominant hand to part your labia majora and lift up the prepuce (the hood of skin over your clitoris).

Using your dominant hand, gently use a finger or two to trail over your clit, focusing on the movements that are most comfortable.

A really powerful movement is to use two or three fingers in strong, deep circles over your clit as your guy grinds into you.

A tip for him

If you’re keen to help your woman come in this position, there’s nothing stopping you reaching around and offering an extra hand.

Wet your fingers with saliva or lubricant and find her clit or have her guide your hand into position.

Use your index, middle and ring fingers to apply circular motions over her clitoris.

#2. Applying pressure from the top

One reason you might not come from reverse cowgirl is that your vagina or G-spot isn’t getting enough pressure from the inside.

This is why top-down squeezing may be helpful.

You can use your free hand(s) to apply pressure from the outside and increase the vaginal and G-spot stimulation manually.

With your guy inside you, place one or both of your hands on top of your mons pubis, just above your pubic bone.

 

Gently pushing down in this area will give your G-spot far more pressure than normal, resulting in a lot more pleasure for you!

In variations of the reverse cowgirl such as the Double Decker where both of your hands are free, you can also combine pressure with fingering your clit.

A tip for him

You can try this technique too, gentlemen! Just be careful not to apply a painful amount of pressure.

Ask her what feels good and respond accordingly. The answer may be teamwork: she can press down while you reach around and finger her clit.

#3. Try anal fingering

If you want to experiment with anal stimulation, the Galley position is the best variation to use.

Exploring this area can be highly sensual (not to mention erotic for him!) but a little prep is required.

Be sure to trim your nails and consider using some lube because the anus doesn’t self-lubricate in the same way the vagina does.

From the Galley position, you’ll be leaning forward as if doing doggy style.

Simply reach behind your back and start to insert your index or middle finger into your anus.

You can either leave your finger there for the added stimulation or push it in and out. Find out what feels best.

A further option is to use your other hand to simultaneously provide clit stimulation while you finger your anus.

This calls for a slight variation of the Galley called the Sledge.

 

In the standard Sledge position, your hands should be outstretched to stabilize yourself.

However, it is possible to rest the side of your head and your upper chest on the mattress to support your weight. I suggest using a pillow.

This variation of the Sledge frees up both your hands to provide both clitoral and/or anal stimulation.

A tip for him

With her permission, you can explore anal fingering too. The same precautions apply: trimmed nails and lubricant is a must.

When starting out, non-penetrative fondling and rubbing may provide enough stimulation to for her to climax.

9. Getting Buzzy During Reverse Cowgirl: How To Get Started

Sex toys aren’t exactly everyone’s cup of tea. I get it.

That’s why I left this section until last.

But if you’re puzzled by the plethora of rave reviews about the reverse cowgirl and you own attempts fail to live up to the hype, sex toys are likely the missing part of the equation!

You see, easy clitoral access is one of the best things about the reverse cowgirl position and nothing beats a vibrator on your clit if you want to feel the earth move.

You can use almost any vibrator with almost any variation of reverse cowgirl and it will help turn the experience from ordinary to orgasmic faster than you can hit the ‘on’ button.

Why’s the reverse cowgirl so good for betting buzzy?

Back in the 1970s, David Lampert began developing a sex tool that would eventually become known as the Sybian.

Through extensive research within the field of sex therapy and counseling, Lampert developed a revolutionary ride-on device that produced intense clitoral and G-spot stimulation for women, leading to multi-orgasmic experiences for many of those who tried it.

Lampert’s research indicated that a straddling position similar to the reverse cowgirl was the most sexually satisfying position for the majority of women.

Today, the Sybian has a worldwide reputation for producing results and has thousands of satisfied owners.

The reverse cowgirl puts you into one of the best possible positions to receive intense vaginal and G-spot stimulation.

The addition of a vibrator helps add intense clitoral stimulation and takes the position to a whole other level.

Once you try the combination or a straddling position with vibrating action, you’ll be hooked!

Which vibrator should you choose?

A small tethered vibrator that can be easily held with one hand and used on one finger is perfect.

You can find many of these on online sex stores, as well as your local one (although that takes quite a bit of guts).

Since you only need one hand to operate it, it’s great for buzzing your clit while riding your guy. A gentle rocking movement such as the Tigress is great for introducing a small vibrator like the Fin.

This is discreet enough to whip out during the throes of passion and go down for some targeting stimulation. Your clitoris will love it!

Anal Toys

The reverse cowgirl also offers some amazing rear-entry opportunities and is the perfect sex position for experimenting with a range of anal toys. All of the following toys should be used with lubricant.

If pain or discomfort is a concern, you can buy special desensitizing lube, especially for anal play.

Anal Wand

Anal wands are the easiest type of toy for getting started with anal play.

Beginner wands are molded pieces of silicone with a flexible core and with a set of spherical shapes along their length.

The smallest bead at the tip should be small enough to enter the anus without causing pain, provided that lubricant is used.

The beads along the wand increase in size to accommodate different needs and preferences.

More advanced wands come in a range of sizes and can be vibrating, helping to enhance the pleasure.

Anal Beads

Anal wands are sometimes referred to as anal beads as the spheres resemble beads.

However, whereas anal wands have a solid, flexible core, anal beads are typically connected with cord or string.

This makes them much more flexible and versatile.

Inserting one or several beads into her anus during reverse cowgirl can help provide more stimulation and excitement.

A huge variety of sizes are available, so you’ll want to start small and see how it goes.

Most couples find that inserting one or two balls and then gently pulling them out is highly sensual and erotic.

Butt Plugs

Butt plugs come in huge range of shapes and styles and may be either vibrating or non-vibrating.

The smallest, slimmest vibrating butt plugs are perfect for beginners who want to experiment with anal play during the reverse cowgirl position.

Slightly larger plugs can accommodate vibrating modules, some of which are remote controlled.

These help to heighten the pleasure for both partners during reverse cowgirl but will take some practice to use.

Handing Over The Reins

Of course, using a vibrator or anal toy can make it hard to stay balanced while you ride your guy.

Some women are fine with just one hand for balance, while others prefer two.

That’s why it’s a great idea to hand over the reins to your guy.

Have him reach around and stimulate you with a vibrator, or experiment with an anal wand, some anal beads or a butt plug.

10. Conclusion

If you want to know everything there is to know about the reverse cowgirl, that’s about it.

Hopefully, this informative guide has helped to debunk many misconceptions surrounding the reverse cowgirl and convinced you that it’s one of the best sex positions ever!

I’ve shared with you a wide range of techniques, tips, tricks, and variations that should help you introduce reverse cowgirl into your sexual repertoire.

Also, if you want to check out our SUPER comprehensive guide on sex positions with illustrations for each, check it out here.

You’ll learn the best oral and penetrative positions that feel the best both for you and your partner.

If you have any questions, feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to get back to you!

Thanks for reading!

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