Are you tired of jokes like this one when you're looking for real advice on how to make your woman wet?
Are you interested in taking your sex life to the next level? Read on to transform your intimate moments into unforgettable experiences.
In this article, we'll cover:
Do The Ground Work First—Tried and Tested Must Knows to Make Any Woman Wet!
Cause usually women need to feel safe and mentally as well as emotionally stimulated before they actually get turned on by physical touch.
Done correctly, this can open the door for further exploration together and help you to understand female arousal on a deeper level, making her even wetter.
I. Engage Her Mind
"Good Morning my love, have the best day ever! xx"
"You are the hottest woman, with your tiny little waist and big blue eyes. Don't you forget that."
"Get yourself close 3 times during your lunch break today and send me a voice note each time. xx"
The brain represents our most important sex organ. All sexual impulses are created here and communicated to the body via hormones and neurotransmitters.
All her sexual responses and pleasurable associations with sexual activities are generated here. If you want to unlock her body, you first have to unlock her mind.
By stimulating her mind, you shift focus from daily thoughts to the sensations in her body, which can ultimately help her to fully enjoy pleasure or get wet.
Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH
II. Connect With Her Emotionally
Without connecting with her emotionally, you will struggle to turn her on.
Most women need an emotional connection to open up and enjoy the experience, while men usually tend to deepen an emotional connection after the physical act.
You can create more depth by
Connecting deeply with her emotionally involves creating a judgment-free space where she feels completely safe to be herself.
When a woman feels emotionally understood and safe, she's more likely to relax and open up sexually, allowing her to tap into deeper levels of surrender, pleasure, and arousal.
Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH
III. Explore Her Entire Body
Now that you engaged her mind and established a deep emotional connection with her, you are ready for some action. Start by exploring her erogenous zones, some of the spots you should focus on are her;
Take your time. Touch her body from head to toe and see what jumps out to you as being her "special spot." If you need a bit of help, let her guide you. Ask questions, listen, and watch her body language.
So many guys miss out on opportunities to truly turn a woman on because they think she has only two erogenous zones: her nipples and her clitoris. That's far from the truth.
In reality, she has erogenous zones all over her body, and each one can be incredibly sensitive and pleasurable when touched or stimulated correctly. Play with her whole body and split-test what works best for her.
Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH
Great stuff, the foundation is set, now you are ready to add the techniques to your toolkit. Let me introduce to you my bulletproof step-by-step guide to making her dripping wet. Let's dive in...
Step By Step Guide With Techniques to Make Her Wet
Be warned! Some of these steps might surprise you, but if you follow them, I promise you the results will speak for themselves.
Step 1: Set Up the Room
Get the room ready for a cozy, intimate evening.
Light some candles to add a soft glow and maybe some incense for a nice scent.
Make sure the sheets are fresh, and the room is tidy. Put on some background music she likes.
This sets a relaxed, romantic vibe and shows you’re thinking about what makes her happy.
Step 2: Use Your Voice
Keep good eye contact when you talk to her; it shows you’re there with her.
Tell her what you appreciate about her, and let her know how sexy you find her. Keep things light and pressure-free.
Step 3: Touch Her Gently
Start by getting close and giving her a warm hug. As you just hold her, casually stroke her arm or brush your hand against hers.
These subtle touches should feel natural and comforting.
Holding her hand can also convey a lot of affection and assurance, helping to build more physical connection gradually.
Step 4: Bite Her Neck
When the moment feels right, lean in and gently kiss or nibble on her neck while whispering something like, "I found your spot."
This can be an electrifying experience for her, as the neck is highly sensitive and generally a weak spot for most women.
The mix of your breath and the light bite can send shivers down her spine.
Step 5: Vocalize Your Desires
Slowly and clearly express what you want to do to her, using a confident tone with a downward inflection.
Be specific about your intentions, which can be incredibly arousing.
This vocal affirmation of your attraction to her and what you envision can intensify the atmosphere and her anticipation.
Step 6: Kiss Her Passionately
Go in for a deep, passionate kiss.
Use your tongue gently and pull her in close, holding her tight.
This kind of kissing is intimate and intense and can dramatically increase the heat between you.
Make sure you match her rhythm and speed.
Step 7: Tease Her
Keep her on the edge by building anticipation and creating sexual tension.
You can do this by varying your touch and the intensity of your interactions.
Playfully withholding what she expects next can increase her longing for more, making every touch and kiss feel even more powerful.
Step 8: Undress Her Slowly
Take your time as you remove her clothes, making each movement deliberate and attentive.
This slow reveal can be incredibly sensual and adds an element of anticipation.
Kiss her body with every inch of skin that gets revealed.
Step 9: Give Her A Sensual Massage
Give her a sensual massage, using smooth, slow strokes to relax and arouse her.
Focus on areas like her back, shoulders, and legs, applying gentle pressure to release tension.
This not only soothes but prepares her body for more sexual acts later on.
Step 10: Go Down Town
Give her oral sex. Show how much you love being close to her by going down on her. Use a flat tongue on her vulva for broad strokes, and mix it up with licking, sucking, and nibbling.
Show her how into it you are by being vocal. Tell her, "You taste so good" or "I love this!"—the key is to enjoy yourself and get turned on by eating her out.
After following those 10 steps, she is most likely not just soaking wet but also head over heels for you.
If you want to go the extra mile and really impress her, plan a date night for the two of you—and by planning, I mean organizing the when, the where, and what you will do.
Tell
her, "Babe, this Friday, I want you to be ready by 7 p.m. Wear your [describe one of her dresses] and the [insert color] heels. We will go out; everything is organized."
Alone the fact of you taking the lead can get her turned on and excited for more.
Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH
Expert Advice: What To Do If She Still Doesn't Get Wet?
Sometimes, despite all attempts, she won't get wet. Don't take it personally, either.
You might not be the reason she can't get wet—around 43% of women experience sexual dysfunction at some point. There are a variety of reasons why this might happen.
These are, from my experience working with countless couples for over a decade now, THE most common reasons why she's not getting wet with you.
Common Reasons She Doesn't Get Wet
Now that we've explored reasons why she doesn't get wet, let's take a closer look at how to solve this and find alternatives to watch out for.
Solution No. 1 - Lubrication
If you still want to be intimate with her, get a high-quality lube to help her get wet. Using lube can be an excellent solution after warming up her whole body.
Solution No. 2 - Read Her Body Language
Knowing the way her body reacts, moves, and, of course, what it likes and needs will help you understand whether or not she is aroused and ready for further action.
Watch out for these physical signs that she might be turned on.
Keep in mind that every woman is different, and her special signs might be unique to her. However, these rules generally apply to most women.
Frequently Asked Questions
As a sex and relationship coach, I get asked this question very often. By “this question,” I mean, “How do I get a girl wet?” Have a good read of this article; if you still have questions, these answers will help!
If a woman doesn't get wet, it doesn't automatically mean she isn't attracted to you. She might be stressed, not hydrated, or facing her own issues that are affecting how her body responds.
The time it takes for a woman to become wet can widely vary. It depends on many things, including her personal preferences, age, how well she knows her own body, and how strong her connection is with her partner. Often, women need more time to become aroused, sometimes up to 20-30 minutes of warm-up through foreplay or other activities.
Yes! Every person needs different things to get wet. What works on one might not work on another, so yes, there is a difference.
First and foremost, be honest about your intentions; if you are not interested in seeing her again or prefer to stay friends, voice that instead of telling her how amazing she is just to get her wet and horny.
Otherwise, you are manipulating her into penetrative sex or any sexual experience and emotional turmoil you both didn't sign up for.
When the ground rules are set, getting a girl wet on a first date is simple. Start slowly by using eye contact.
Make the girl feel special. This can be done by simply telling her how you feel about her, asking genuine questions, and leading the date by ordering food, opening the door for her, or moving the chair for her.
Also, incorporating gentle touch to different body parts, like her hand, neck, or feet, throughout the night can help turn her on.
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