What is a Squirting Orgasm?

A squirting orgasm is the flow of tasteless, odorless liquid from the urethra during climax, usually caused by G-Spot stimulation.

So you may be wondering, “Is it common to squirt without orgasming?” The answer is yes.

While some women will squirt at the same time as they climax, others will squirt prior to a climax. They may also squirt without having an orgasm at all.

The goal, however, is to get your partner to have a squirting orgasm. This can be immensely pleasurable and satisfying.

I. What Happens Inside Her Body..

The G-spot, or Gräfenberg spot, is a spongy area at the top of the vagina and can similar to the male prostate lead to intense pleasure.

During a squirting orgasm, the intense stimulation of the G-spot causes a buildup of fluid in the bladder. 

The squirting fluid gets produced by the kidneys on overdrive and is usually clear and odorless, sometimes with a slightly sweet taste.

The amount can vary from just a few milliliters to larger amounts up to a liter depending on her hydration and ability to squirt.

This fluid, is expelled through the urethra when the muscles around it contract.

It is to differentiate from female ejaculate, a milky fluid, which gets expelled by the skene's glands, the so-called female prostate during female ejaculation.

II. Why Squirting Orgasms Are So Powerful

The experience is intense, providing a peak of pleasure that extends through her entire being. When reaching climax and squirting at the same time, she might feel;

When a woman experiences a squirting orgasm, it is often a strong emotional release full of waves of ecstasy.

III. Benefits of Squirting Orgasms

Squirting O's from penetrative sex, fingers, or toys can be an intense sexual experience.

For the woman, it is both a physical and emotional release, which often feels euphoric but can also bring up other stored emotions like grief, anger, or laughter.

For her partner, it is visually appealing and a way to facilitate a unique sexual experience that requires a strong masculine frame, a foundation of trust and also allows to form a deeper connection between both partners.

How to Give Her Squirting Orgasms

If you want to bring your partner to an intense orgasm that soaks your bed sheets in her liquids, then take a look at the steps below.

Step 1: Preparation

This first step is important. Set up the room;

This works because setting up a thoughtful and relaxing environment helps her feel valued and safe. Proper preparation with the right supplies also means you can stay focused on the pleasure of the experience. 

Step 2: Get Her in the Mood

After setting up the space, you want to make sure she is ready and prepared for your shared exploration; this can look like this; 

Those points are essential because your partner must trust you to open up such an intimate part of herself. If the foundation isn't built, getting her squirt will be difficult.

The goal is to be able to meet her exactly where she is at and where she needs you.

This will go a long way in furthering that trust and emotional connection, which can ultimately allow her to surrender and experience more pleasure later.

Step 3: Enhance Her Arousal

While it’s not true for every woman, many women indeed tend to require a bit more to get their engines revving.

With that in mind, there are things you can do to enhance her arousal prior to your session.

And this tip leads directly to the next…

Step 4: Focus On Foreplay

Now that she’s aroused, she’s good and ready to go. Right? Not so.

Foreplay is important due to both the physical and emotional aspects. It will help your partner to transition from her many everyday roles to just one: being your lover.

You don’t need to be creative. There are plenty of classics you can rely on. For example:

Step 5: Hit the Right Spots

Sure, it’s possible to get your partner to a squirting orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

For most women, though, there’s one spot in particular that will get the job done: The G-Spot;

To stimulate the G-Spot you can use the Spiderman grip, this is a specific hand position that mimics Spiderman shooting his webs.

When using the Spiderman grip, you should aim to apply pressure to the front wall of the vagina, which can lead to squirting.

Step 6: Add More Stimulation

Do you want to increase the odds of hitting the sweet spot and getting her to a gushing orgasm?

Then, stimulate the clitoris and the G-spot simultaneously. You can do so yourself with vaginal penetration, fingering, or oral sex.

Another tip for creating additional stimulation is focusing some attention on her nipples, her butt, or other erogenous zones that turn her on and help with building up the arousal.

Step 7: Encourage Her To Let Go

Listen up because this is very important. She will not squirt if she does not let go. What does it mean to let go?

She'll need to let go when she feels the urge to pee, and you hear a squishy noise from stimulating her G-Spot.

It's your job to encourage her to let go by saying something like, "Let go," "I got you!" or "It's okay."

Be supportive, make her feel at ease, and don't forget to pull out so the fluid expels.

Step 8: Engage In Aftercare

Aftercare is important because of how intense this experience can be.

She might feel vulnerable, emotionally connected to you, and in need of water, a snack, or even just cuddles.

Aftercare is not a "maybe;" it's a must.

What she needs depends on her, but this is a great place to start! You cover her physical needs and emotional needs when you do this. 

Andrew's Expert Insights To Intensify The Experience Even More

With over a decade of experiences in learning from worlds best sexuality mentors techniques and tips to gift your partner screaming squirting orgasms, I am now going to share with you some of my favorite squirting toys to intensify the experience even more. 

Why sex toys? Well, sex toys can give her an experience that fingers and penetrative sex sometimes just cannot.

Let’s take a look at a few, which can make it easier for your partner to achieve a mind-blowing squirting orgasm.

I. G-Spot Stimulator

If you want to really take things up a notch, use a G-Spot wand that vibrates but make sure it is specifically designed for G-Spot stimulation.

I love a good vibrating G-Spot wand and have used it on multiple women in the past with huge success rates when it comes to squirting. 

II. Wand or Vibrator

Both a vibrator and wand will give her those gushing, squirting orgasms.

Most men who successfully master the art to make her squirt with fingers and toys, oftentimes ask whether it is aslo possible to make their lady squirt through penetrative sex... so lets have a closer look.

Penetrative Squirting Orgasms? Try These Positions..

Yes, a woman can squirt with penetrative sex when you use the right sex positions.

The ‘right’ position will depend on many factors, though there are some sex positions that are more ‘squirt friendly’ than others. Which ones? Read below...

Position 1 - Missionary

This position helps her to relax, which is necessary for women during sex, especially when trying to squirt.

Position 2 - Cowgirl

If your partner still wants to be face-to-face but wants more control than what Missionary position allows, try Cowgirl.

Position 3 - Butterfly

Intimacy is important, but face-to-face intimacy isn’t always necessary for your female partner. In that case, I’d suggest you give Butterfly position a try.

Position 4 - Tabletop

This position, called Tabletop, works great for penetrative sex that leads to squirting! In this position, you are in direct contact with the G-spot.

Position 5 - On Her Back

This position is great for when you want to reach her G-Spot with your fingers or a toy. 

Position 6 - Standing

This one is another favorite of mine, it brings some excitement to the mix and allows you to fully

Most of my clients have had no issue trying this position in the past. The only problem that could occur is that you are either too tall to comfortably reach her spot without bending very far down.

Talking about obstacles that might occur while trying to give her a squirting orgasm..

Common Reasons She Might Not Experience a Squirting Orgasm

There are various reasons, they can be physical, mental, or emotional. She might experience one or more of the following. 

I. Physical Reasons

Anatomical differences can change a woman’s ability to experience squirting and orgasms. Some common physical reasons include;

II. Mental Reasons

It’s not uncommon for a woman to experience any of these mental issues and not be able to squirt as a direct result.

III. Emotional Reasons

She might not be able to relax and enjoy herself due to emotional disconnect. Common issues include;

Any of these reasons above can decrease her ability to squirt, even if all techniques are solid and she’s in the right state of mind.

Since we've looked into all different aspects of squirting orgasms, one missing bit is how does a woman actually experience it. To answer this burning hot question, Isabel is going to take over from here. 

Squirting orgasms are an incredibly intense and liberating experience. It feels like a huge emotional release, which can cause laughter, screams, even tears, or anger.

Afterward, you usually feel extremely relaxed and almost spaced out for a while.

There’s a powerful sense of bonding with your partner as you feel completely open and connected.

It’s also a moment where you feel deeply understood and cherished by him. It’s unlike any other experience due to the unique combination of all these factors.

Frequently Asked Questions About Squirting

As a sex and relationship coach, I get asked countless questions about squirting and female ejaculation. Here are a few of your burning questions.

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