7 Steps to Eat Her Pussy Out – For Max Pleasure

  • Laura Rose Halliday
  • Published: June 12, 2023

Giving the woman you love the true sexual pleasure that she CRAVES is NOT easy…

But in this article (and in our training videos), I’ll show you exactly how you can make it not only EASY but effortless.

Do you want to give her an orgasm that runs up her spine and makes her toes curl just thinking about it?

Then read this article from start to finish.

The truth is, if you don’t know about these techniques then you risk losing your woman to a guy who does know them…

I’m going to show you how to eat a girl so that you almost guarantee she has an orgasm.

I’m going to show you how to use your tongue to make a woman addicted to you.

Eating pussy is an art form – and it’s something every guy should learn how to do if he wants to give his partner the ultimate gift.

The Art Of Foreplay & Arousal

Getting your woman in the right frame of mind is one of the most crucial aspects of being able to give her an orgasm.

Women are emotional creatures, and it’s literally impossible to give her an orgasm while she remains in a logical frame of mind (like when she’s just finished work or is stressed out).

This is why scientists always find it hard to study the female orgasm.

It is your duty and responsibility to get her relaxed, and turn her on so that she forgets about the stresses and worries of life. Foreplay is literally the art of taking a woman’s mind from a logical state to a physical/emotional state.

REMEMBER: When it comes to arousal, logic is the enemy.

No woman has ever had an orgasm whilst doing algebra. Yet guys often tell me the only times their girlfriends have had orgasms is during makeup sex after an argument when emotions are running wild.

Your only goal in foreplay is to help her get into this emotional state where she can let go.

Getting “turned on” is about turning on the emotional/physical side of her mind and body.

 

And unlike men, women take much longer to get in the mood. Maybe you can get an erection and get ready for sex within 10 seconds, for women it could take half an hour or more.

We have an entire article about the time it takes for women to orgasm.

This is when the sexual energy and arousal build up.

Teasing & Anticipation

Teasing and foreplay are where the power of the orgasm comes from. Imagine you have a huge bucket at the top of a ladder. The bucket holds water, but first, you need to fill up the bucket with water.

Your aim with the bucket is to make the biggest and most dramatic explosion possible when you finally decide to push the bucket of water off the ladder. You could just put a little bit of water in the bucket and then push it off. But the explosion of water wouldn’t be very big.

You could spend more time filling up the bucket and when you finally pushed the bucket off the ladder the explosion was huge.

The water is like female sexual energy. It needs time and foreplay to build up, but the longer you take to build up her energy, the bigger the orgasm explosion will be at the end. I’ve written a complete guide about how to make a woman wet right here.

Using A Blindfold To Increase Anticipation

One of the best ways to increase anticipation and excitement is to use props.

Because women can also be very self-conscious about sex, and especially about when they get their vagina licked out, a blindfold can be a great way to make her feel less self-conscious, and instead just enjoy the sensations.

Using a blindfold on her also has the extra effect of reducing one of her senses. When her sight is switched off her perception of touch will massively increase.

She will feel the sensations and stimulation from her pussy so much more.

It’s also slightly scary wearing a blindfold. You will have complete control over her (which women love) and her sense of excitement and anticipation will increase.

Using Handcuffs/Belt/Tie To Make It Exciting

You can take her level of excitement and kink further by handcuffing her to the bed. You can either use prop handcuffs, for a more spontaneous feel, use your belt or a tie to tie her hands to the bed.

This, in combination with the blindfold and what I’m about to teach you, is the beginning of what will be one of the most exciting, powerful, sensual, and loving orgasms she will ever have.

No other guy will be able to compare to the orgasm you will give her if you follow these instructions carefully.

The Basic Techniques Of How To Eat Her Pussy Out

There are 5 different ways to stimulate her pussy with your mouth. Each technique has its own advantages and sensations, so you’ll want to use all methods at different stages of arousal.

You should also study her reactions to she which method she likes the most. Some women have very sensitive vaginas, they prefer the lighter methods.

Some women need a stronger sensation to have an orgasm, so you will need to start with methods 1 and 2 before going on to the rest.

Don’t go straight to her vagina. Start by kissing her body and then work your way down. Tease her. Make every single nerve in her body come alive with sexual tension.

Blowing

Blowing on her pussy is a great form of arousal, foreplay, and teasing. The light, subtle sensation will begin to create sexual energy and tension (which gets released in an orgasm).

The blowing is very light, it teases and tickles her. It draws her attention and focus to the subtle sensations she feels in her pussy. This is exactly what you want. You want her in a state of hypersensitivity. Every never in her vagina will start tingling with sensations.

This is setting the stage for the other methods that will eventually tip her over the edge and into a body-trembling orgasm.

Licking

Licking is next. You can now start to use your tongue in light motions across her sensitive parts.

It’s important to make your movements light and unpredictable to start with. You still want to tease her. You still want her to be waiting in anticipation (as her sexual energy continues to build).

Keep her guessing about when and how you will lick her next.

As her level of sexual arousal continues to rise, now you can begin to really start licking her out (and most importantly her clit).

The up and down motion, softly across her clit is usually the best option.

You should vary your strokes. From slow and soft to fast and hard. Always look for her reactions so you can see or hear what she likes best.

Kissing

Kissing her cooch is a great way to show how much you care about her. You shouldn’t kiss her vagina for too long though, but your kissing should be mixed in with the other methods.

Sucking

Sucking is the next stage of pleasure and most women LOVE having their pussy sucked. Now you can start using your whole mouth to stimulate not just her clit, but the rest of her too.

As her arousal levels climb higher and higher she’ll soon be ready for orgasm but you should continue building more and more.

Sucking her pussy

Increase the speed and intensity of the sucking.

Always remember to tease and go two steps forward, one step back. Suck on her female bits for a while, then step back and kiss, lick and blow before carrying on.

Motorboating And Humming 

Motorboating is the final method that you’ll use. It is perhaps the most powerful. Here’s how to do it…

Rest your lips gently around her pussy. Have your lips so they are just lightly touching and then blow out so that your lips vibrate back and forth.

This is called motorboating and sends vibrations down through her pussy. These act like shockwaves that can trigger an orgasm to take place.

Many women claim this is one of their favorite sensations.

You can alter the speed, power, and frequency of the vibrations by holding your lips tighter, or blowing harder.

Don’t go crazy though.

With the motorboating method, you’ll want to hold your lips over her clit and the opening to her vagina, although you can move it around and see where provides the best stimulation.

Humming is similar to motorboating but instead of actually letting your lips move, you simply rest your mouth against her vagina and hum softly.

This sends vibrations directly into her pussy that are extremely pleasurable.

For the best results, go back and forth between the methods. Mix it up and keep her guessing.

However, when you feel like she is very close to orgasm, then stick to the method that got her there and don’t change it too much.

Put Your Finger In Her Mouth

This is a great little trick that can really drive a woman wild and can be a great way to learn exactly how your girlfriend or wife likes to have her pussy eaten.

As you continue to eat her out, take your thumb or index finger and slowly insert it into her mouth. Tell her that you want her to lick and suck on it exactly how she wants it on her female parts.

As she begins to lick and suck on your finger, copy that motion exactly onto her pussy. She will know what she likes and she will show you.

Copy her motions as she licks, sucks, massages and swirls your finger.

This is a neat trick to learn how your partner likes it. But don’t use it too often. Women like the man to take control, and they like to relax as you do the work.

Put 1 Or 2 Fingers Inside Her

Eating her out with your mouth is one thing, but now you need to add another sensation to the mix.

This will involve inserting a finger or two into her so that you can stimulate her g-spot at the same time as her clit.

As you can imagine, stimulating her g-spot and her clit at the same time will give her twice the amount of pleasure and the ‘simultaneous orgasm’ that will happen as a result is extremely powerful and intense for her.

Insert 1 Or 2 Fingers In Her Bum

Slipping a finger in her puss isn’t the only way you can give her even more pleasure.

You can massage her ass using your fingers – something a lot of women find intensely pleasurable and exciting – and it’s also possible to give them anal orgasms.

You will need to use lubrication for this though – it is absolutely essential.

I also recommend using a condom. Put your two fingers inside a condom and take a large dollop of lube onto the fingers.

As you continue to eat her out slowly tease her ass. As she relaxes, begin inserting your two fingers (with a condom on and plenty of lube) slowly into her ass.

Be gentle and slow and make sure she stays relaxed.

Learn more about how to finger a girl here.

The sensation of having her clit stimulated by your tongue – plus the sensation of having her bum massaged with your finger up her bum will be unique, exciting, and extremely pleasurable.

Or Use A Butt Plug Instead

plugSome women love this sensation so much, but since you only have two hands you may need to remove your fingers at some point.

In this case, you can use a butt plug to give her a similar sensation while you continue to use both your hands in other ways.

This brings me onto my next trick… 

Using A Vibrator To Guarantee Her Orgasms

Using a vibrator can be a sneaky trick to give her even more pleasure as the vibrations move through her body almost forcing her to have an orgasm.

However, as guys, most of us don’t have a vibrator, so this is what I recommend and have found to work amazingly well.

Most convenience stores sell condoms, but many now also sell lube and vibrating cock rings. Go and grab one of the Durex vibrating cock rings (and grab the lube as well).

You won’t be using the cock ring yourself (unless you want to) but the vibrator is the perfect, and discreet toy to rest on the top of your girl’s pussy.

Durex vibrating cock ringYes, that’s right, take the vibrating cock ring (Durex make a small, cheap, and disposable version which is perfect) and hold it with two fingers.

Place the vibrator gently onto the top of your girl’s pussy, just above the clit.

Do this very slowly at first. Tease her.

She will love it.

Women love a man who takes control and shows experience in the bedroom, so don’t worry about using a vibrator on her.

It will show that you are thoughtful and experienced and you know how to please her sexually.

With the vibrator pressed against the top of her vagina, begin eating her out again – follow the instructions before.

Move the vibrator closer to her clit, as you continue to eat her out.

The double sensation of the vibration plus the movement of your tongue on her clit will drive her absolutely wild.

Do this right and she will have orgasm after orgasm – she won’t be able to control herself.

She will beg you for more.

Now, as you rest the vibrator on her clit, and you continue to massage her labia with your mouth, take your other hand.

Using the lube (and a condom if necessary) begin to tickle her bum.

Slowly and gently insert one or two fingers into her bum, as you continue to eat her out and with the vibrator held in place with your other hand.

This is the ultimate stimulation for a women. Some women even find the huge amounts of pleasure unbearable.

Her body will tremble and shake when you do this.

When you lick her out you should also have a feel for her state of arousal.

If you feel like she’s about to have an orgasm, slightly slow down the pace and bring her back from the edge of climax. Doing this a few times will allow her to get into a higher and higher state of arousal before she finally climaxes.

And when she finally does cum with your tongue on her clit it will be one of the most intense orgasms she’s ever had.

Making Her Squirt While You Eat Her Pussy

Making her squirt while you eat her pussy can be even more pleasurable. It will be an experience that she never forgets.

Because this is a more advanced technique I’d like to show it to you in detail inside our training course, Squirting Triggers.

Other Positions Than Missionary

There are plenty of positions that you can eat her pussy from.

The most common and one that I have described these techniques from is with her lying on her back with knees bent and you sitting or lying by her legs.

She can use the handcuffs on you next. This is one of my favorite positions to eat out a girl from.

You can also try with her on all fours (doggy position) and eating her out from behind.

If you want to see all of these techniques I’ve just described in vivid action and you want to learn more about giving your girlfriend or wife the most amazing and addictive orgasms of her life then get our video training course – Squirting Triggers TONIGHT.

Oral Choke

A personal favorite of mine is the ‘oral choke’ as we call it.

With her on her back and you eating her out, extend one arm up and lightly grip around her neck.

This is a test to see if she responds positively.

If you get the feeling she likes being choked while you go down on her, you can continue and potentially tighten your grip.

Some women find the sensation of being choked (lovingly) enjoyable. It can be an effective (and novel) way to heighten the sensation of your mouth on her clit.

See below:

Listen to What She’s Not Saying

A woman will very rarely tell you exactly what she wants. That’s just not sexy for her to have to tell you.

But…

She will give you clues about what she wants most.

This is super important because, at the end of the day, not all women are the same. And they respond differently to different things.

What you’ll want to do it try a few different techniques, and let her body do the speaking for her.

If she moans like crazy when you do one particular movement across her clit – DON’T STOP.

If you find the perfect rhythm, keep going at the same pace and don’t change it up.

One of the biggest reasons women give for not being able to orgasm with a guy is that just before she orgasms she’ll start moaning louder and louder, and this will cause the guy to change his movement or rhythm, which then causes the girl to stop moving towards her climax and preventing her orgasm.

Become a master and listening to what her body is telling you, so she doesn’t have to say a word.

Become good at this, and women will be amazed that you ‘just know what to do.’

You’ll be able to read her like a book. No one else she’s ever been with was able to do that.

The Next Step?

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      1. I don’t know what I doing wrong because I can’t get my wife to cum like I use to. I have ask her what she likes me to do, but lately she’s just lay there and doesn’t make sounds or cum like she use to and by time I get ready to put my cock in her pussy I go limp. Maybe I waiting too long to get her needs met.

        1. Just read this if your waiting so long that your going limp then yes your waiting to long it you need to spark something to get you aroused. Because just because you love someone doesn’t mean that your completely aroused and you also should try other things to respark the sex life

  1. I’m going to try these out tonight – my biggest takeaway – more passion whilst going down on her. If I don’t enjoy then neither will she

  2. I as a woman found this interesting..but i do love to be spread open and i do love to have my clit sucked …and yes i also love when my guy tells me he wants me to cum in his mouth..my God does that send shivers through me…but yes plz dont rush..long slow movements in the beginning…btw reading this has really got me going ..now my,question is..can every girl squirt..and what exactly is it??

    1. Hey Martina, thanks for your input – long and slow in the beginning is a great tip. Yep, most girls can squirt, some just need more practice (and training than others initially)

      1. It is not practice or training on the woman’s end…thanks for putting it on us! The man (or partner) needs to know what he’s doing! There’s a certain angle, pressure and speed that will just make you squirt everywhere, independent of the woman and complete lack of “training”.

        1. yes- agreed! i squirted with one guy only, and i’ve had more than my fair share of partners. haven’t ever been able to do it with anyone else except for the one partner. he knew how to make me, i try to tell someone to do what he did, but it doesn’t work ;/

      2. Why would a woman want to be made to squirter? Squirtting is not Cummings or a female orgasm really it may just be something that turns guys on and hetero women seem to be so into turning a guy on they sacrifice there own pleasure to do so and than wonder after the last stage why they aren't getting off kinda hard to backtrack and say I was faking it for two years or whatever buy this is actually how I get off if u r really interested. Some women get more wet some even have a small gush of wetness maybe a tablespoon full that may fill your mouth but other than that my research and hands on experience lead me to conclude the Squirt or shower of liquid or pee is just fir show or from women that never or don't actually orgasm at all

    2. I’ve had the honor to have MANY squirting partners and I’ve learned at a young age to PAY ATTENTION!!!……you women have a subtle way of guiding us and by looking up n seeing the responses helped me immensely. So hey guys watch n learn

  3. wow. I would love for my new bf to read this.. He isn’t terrible but I am certainly not 100% satisfied.. How could I get him to read this or even bring it up without shooting his (Big) ego.. This is something thats very important to me and I’m sure to most women. I try not to compare him to my ex bf, who mastered 85% of your tips.. How did you take it when your gf told you.. did you read up about how?

    Thanks

    1. Hi, thanks, yes we definitely need more boyfriends reading SOS hehe. It’s a tough one, for Jakob his girlfriend breaking up with him was what lead him to master these skills (he overheard her talking about his lack of prowess in the bedroom.) Try praising him for qualities that don’t exist yet, that sometimes works but it depends on his character. or you could try showing him SOS 🙂

        1. Yeah, but guys still cum during sex. That’s a given because male organism signifies being done with sex. Women, on the other hand, often don’t organism during penetration, so without getting her off orally, there’s no point in doing it with a guy when she does it better with herself.

    2. Lee, I see your dilemma. So I’ll tell you how I stumbled upon this rare gym. Got to keep an open mind and the willingness to experiment. I want to learn how to eat pussy. I have asked the fiance to teach me. This is a fantasy of mine. Him showing me on another girl. He is phenomenal at oral. But, from what I’ve read so far, there is always room for improvement. About to buy the course. Once I’m done, I’ll lead him to the water.

  4. My husband loves pleasuring me orally, he even plans for it and whispers in my ear how he wants to do it, he leaves messages taped to my steering wheel, leaves text messages and will leave voice mails throughout the day and gets me wet. I can’t wait to get home because he is very skilled at what he does, he can apply enough pressure to get me off in just seconds or really draw it out so it can last literally hours. He uses props, vibrators at times. He will tie my ankles to hooks in the ceiling and then with my legs in the air he has access to everything and I so much LOVE LOVE LOVE it. I love to have my clitoris sucked even more than intercourse, my husband says my clit gets very swollen and long when I get aroused and he can suck the whole thing in to his mouth and just work me into an altered state of consciousness. I am also multi orgasmic so he uses that to his advantage until I’m too sensitive to have him continue. He tells me that he is giving me a female blowjob because of the size of my clit, I never heard of such a thing, but if it resembles what I do for him with my mouth then I guess I can’t complain. My favorite position is to have him lie on his back, then I kneel over his mouth and hold on to the headboard and then grind against mouth and his tongue just swirls all around my bits until I can’t even kneel anymore, then I roll off and he just continues while I lie on my back. My girlfriends are oh so jealous.

    1. Wow, amazing Robin. You’re definitely a lucky woman and i can imagine that your girlfriends are jealous with your husband having those kind of skills. 🙂

    2. Hi Robin… Nice to hear you have clitoral orgasms, But is your bf also giving you vaginal orgasms through intercourse ????.

    3. Sounds right it's becuz your husband actually loves it and tha is half the battle us women know if the person is into it ir is just doing it to get to shove thir dick in. Your husband sounds incredible in very much into u and loving every drop u have

  5. I suck the clitoris and played my tounge like a roller coaster to the tip of the clitoris. Continiously. Thats my final touch that meet the sensitivity. After 1st sensitivity. I wait few seconds, i suck it again and just pushing my head away to her pussy like a wild dog begging to stop what im doing.

  6. Good article. I’ve been going down on women for a good while and developed similar technique(s); though there’s always something more/good to learn! My “problem” is that my girl mostly turns down the opportunity for a tongue lashing. Tell me, what red-blooded women turns down the opportunity to receive a good old fashioned licking? (besides mine). Must confess, I think about & fantasize going down on someone almost on a daily basis. There has been a few times in the past when I’ve approached some hot thing and asked. Six out of ten times I’ve had good lick….er,,,,luck!

    1. Yes, when you know how to do it right, it’s hard for any woman to say no. The tongue is a great instrument for giving incredible orgasms. Lots of women are insecure about how the look and smell (down there) so helping her overcome these fears is one of the first steps.

  7. You are a guru my dear. i did all you thought and suprprise my woman turned round about the bed 360° ×2. I couldnt believe my woman screaming and pouring heavy all over me and i ensured i.didnt waste any juice from her.

    1. Whyte Yes alex and the woman are indeed guru,s but they dont teach orgasms during intercourse on command for women. energy orgasms during interecourse for both women and men. erotic hypnosis. etc etc, you must study behind Mark Cunningham and David Shade. they are allround sex coaches.

  8. Well your Absolutely correct about men not taking the time to learn or to take their time building a woman up to an explosive orgasm. I do all of these things including stopping and taking a short break to kiss my girl. Men have definitely lost the art of foreplay and I make sure that I let a woman knew that she’ll be in for a big surprise when we have sex and just about every woman I have played with and gave the attention that most men don’t do– have told me how incredibly awesome of a lover I am because I do take the time to build her instead of just going right at it. Men you’d better pay attention to what these people and I have said about taking your time and caressing a woman and building her to orgasm because if you don’t–Then people like me will swoop in and do it for you and before long I’ll be having fun with your woman on a regular basis as well as my woman to because she’s Bi

    1. Great point Scott. The guys who learn how to do it right can have his pick of the women. Thanks for contributing

  9. These are some really great tips….I personally have never had a complaint in my method. But, you can always learn something new.

    Here is what has always worked for me….it differs slightly from the method you mentioned.

    I like to slowly lick and kiss my girls side, right above her hips (just under the rib cage – this causes her to tense up and usually she gets wet from this alone). I then work my way down in between her legs. Instead if getting right to work, try licking and blowing around the out die if her pussy lips (between the thigh and pussy).

    After you have teased her like this for a while…you are ready to start paying attention to the pussy itself. Slowly start from the bottom and lick your way up, just missing the clit…in fact go right over the top of it or barely graze it. I then lick the inside of her lips before applying pressure to her pussy with my tounge.

    Definitely use the French kissing method mentioned above. That is the best way to describe what happens from there. Let your nose gently rub her clit, but not to often.

    Once you sense she is in sexual bliss. Finally take the clit into your mouth and slowly suck it. Then use your tounge and firmly press it back with just the tips of your tounge, twirl it a few times amd repeat the entire process over again (once you have started on the pussy).

    I usually end by sucking her clit rather hard while flicking my tounge against her clit or twirling around it rapidly.

    She has squirted several times just using this method alone. Not always….besides using these methods, because the one here in this article is definitely a solid foundation….try either talking dirty or tell her how amazing she looks. That will depend on the woman. This will intensify her feelings toward the encounter and helps with getting her to a level where the orgasm is amazing.

    I’m in no way trying to disregard your method…just wanted to share my experience as well. Excellent article.

  10. very arousing read, but where’s the anal action? try a few tongue tickles throughout your session. when she’s almost there, still having your tongue on her clit and 2 fingers in her pussy, slide a finger up her ass. it always sends me over the edge. when you do finally fuck her, spend a few minutes gently licking each nipple. she should orgasm at least twice

  11. It’s a very nice tip,for how long should the girl feel serouslly f**ked,,,or does depend on the method and vary from girl to girl

    1. All girls are different. There are indicators that you should look out for that show when she is aroused, when she is ready to orgasm, and when she is ready to stop. Learn how to read what her body is telling you and you can’t go wrong.

  12. I had sex with my girl but never licked her pussy.. The soon i start kissing & rubbing her her pussy becomes wet & then i dont like that smell & taste. Wat should i do to lick her pussy without smelling & taste.?

  13. I love how good your steps are on here in a Virgo and I have this women who is willing to teach me the right ways to please a women and is willing to have sex with me. I’m not hung I got a 5″ cock and I’m really nervous about not performing and leaving her not satisfied but we are going to fuck tonight and I’m gonna do your steps on eating pussy and know I’m doing it the right way. She told me that she doesn’t care about size and knows I a Virgo but I just want to surprise her with what I can do in the bedroom. She says she is a freak and trust me I love the sound of that but my two questions are what is the best position to fuck her? The last question is since she loves it freaky and wild what should I do to shock her and would 100% get her off because I want my first time to be awesome and I want to show her how much I want to please her and how good I was having sex for the very first time. Hope you like what I messaged you. Well thank you for giving us all answers to brighten up and improve our sex skills your Awesome. P.S I can’t wait to be squirted on in my face. With her flinching and screaming with pleasure.

    1. Hi Charlie, it sounds like you’re in for a night of fun.
      There is no overall best sex position, but generally I would say most women love doggy style. When you lick her out, make sure it’s clear 100% how much you’re enjoying it, this will massively turn her on. Size doesn’t matter too much, it’s much more important to be able to last, and to hit the right spot. For example, her g-spot is on the upper, inside part of her vagina, so with her lying on her back, angle your dick upwards so that it hits the spot more easily, otherwise it will just slide right past it. Hope that helps 🙂

    1. There is a danger if she already has an infection. Although it’s unlikely, with a girl you just met you might want to check. But with a regular partner it should be fine

  14. My frustration isn’t not performing, but she won’t let me finish the job giving her an orgasm with eating pussy. She always pulls me up on top of her before I can get her to have an orgasm. I tell her I want to give her an orgasm while eating her pussy, but she has only let me a few times. Her breathing gets fast and she bites her lip and curls her toes and all that so I know she’s getting close, but that’s when she insists on stopping and having sex. I want to taste her cum, but I can’t unless she actually let’s me give her an orgasm before we have sex.

    1. Hey Super, sounds like you’re doing a good job to start with. Some women can feel isolated when you’re all the way ‘down there’ and she may want to be right next to you when she orgasms. She may feel insecure, of selfish having an orgasm from you eating her out. Maybe next time try teasing her… Get her to the point where she is about to have an orgasm (and she tries to pull you up) then cool her back down again (but stay down eating her) by reducing your speed and intensity. After a while bring her back up to the edge of orgasm, then back down again. This is called stacking! When she finally goes over the edge she won’t have much choice.

  15. Boy this read got me going! I’m addicted to this site. Just wanted to add a personal point: I hate sucking, biting, nibbling, quick tongue flicks and any kind of light or soft touches. It immediately causes me to lose my arousal. I just wanted to say that to let everyone know that every girl is different. I think everything in this post is excellent advice as long as everyone understands its not for everyone.
    Signed, a happy squirter!

  16. Very clear and simple, i use to do most techniques explained and totally succesfully. But for a good pussy eating you really must enjoy pussy eating with your five senses and mind too.

  17. Hey there, my gf wanted me to eat her pussy and I also want to eat but i tried first time and it smells different and I stopped. I really want to lick her but don’t know if you cam give me suggestion that how would I start then I would be really appreciate it.

  18. Make sure you lick and suck on her clit, and also rub the area just below her clit after its well lubed up. Get your middle finger wet in her pussy for a few minutes and make sure you go in and out, and when going out, bring that wetness down to her ass hole. Get that area nice and wet. Then slowly insert that finger form her pussy into her asshole, all while licking and sucking her clit (hum and vibrate your lips while on her clit). Then take your index finger and insert it into her pussy ….. fuck her pussy and asshole slowly with both fingers in rhythm, while licking and sucking her clit (remember the vibrating with your lips all along), and using your thumb to rub just under her clit, from clit to her pee hole inside her lips. This method will usually take 3 to 5 minutes and she will cum multiple times – fucking massively hard. Afterwards, lay back and enjoy her mouth as she gives you the most appreciative blowjob ever. Even if you tell her you are cumming she will just keep sucking, and she will suck your cum out of your dick into her mouth and swallow.

    This is 100% effective. Never let me down. he girl is always so appreciative you gave her such a massive orgasm that she wants to return the favor and give you one ……. she is fine with swallowing your cum at t his point. Your dick will thank you!!

  19. I just got married today and my husband is a freak who just knows how to eat me out.. He does exactly as the article, just that he wants to continuously eat my pussy instead of fucking me. I don’t mind him doing it because I give excellent blowjobs but he just knows how to eat me.

    He came home today all happy after the wedding, when we decided to have a little party, just me and him. We started off with a dance with slow music, candles around us, a bottle of champagne and kisses. We eventually ended up on our bed naked and him at my pussy. I tried warding him off but he just kept me feeling like I was about to cum. He teased my pussy for about 1 hour even though I was having orgasms. He truly has a great tongue and knows how to get a woman turned on.

    This article has been truely great and arousing to me as I know what a man can do when he wants you vulnerable..

    Thank you for showing me these amazing techniques!

    Signed- Just got married to my amazing husband Showen

    1. Hi Nikkii, that’s great to hear that your husband loves to eat your pussy. You’re a lucky lady. It’s a rare thing that a man knows what he is doing down there, so many men have absolutely no idea what to do.

  20. Don’t forget to have sex with her shortly after eating her out! Penetration after great head is a combination made for squirting 🙂

  21. You want him To do better. Be honest
    As a guy yes it hurt my pride when my wife finally told me I suck at eating her out.
    And talked about it. Be sure not to ever mention anything about past lovers he already know thats how you know what you like. He don’t want to here about that.it will just cause a fight. So just stick to I like this or that. Look stuff up together watch pussy eating porn together and show him see how they do that I like that.
    When she told me I sucked it hurt yes but it also made me want to learn her body. I’m now much better and still learning new stuff all the time.

    1. Thanks Rick. Good on you for taking the time and effort to learn about how to please her. I couldn’t think of a better way to spend your time. Also, good idea to watch something erotic together.

  22. I am 92 as of last Monday. I have several men from the nearby golf course that take turns licking me after 18 holes. The best of them thrusts his tongue like a sherman canon into my vagina at least 100 times before he often needs a nap. When he wakes, we have tea and he licks my clitoris until I squirt.

    1. Thanks for the comment Betty – good to hear you and your friends are still going strong and loving your sex life.

  23. Hi I’m Ebenezer from west africa – ghana , I honestly love eating ma woman pussy at all times, and I feel much better when I taste her cum in ma mouth. thanks a lot for this topics.

  24. I would love some advice on how to get my wife off like the first time we had sex. Lately she just lays there and don’t make sounds. I have ask her what can I due different to make her cum. I love licking her pussy and lick her anal. I also love suckling her brest. She tells me she not in the mood for sex with me anymore. So what should I due because I getting bored playing with myself.

  25. Great info! Kind information to the ladies though, please take care of your happy parts. No guy, even if he cares for you will ever give his all, or anything for that matter if you are not hygienic down there. Goes the same for the guys.

    1. Agreed Ronnie, personal hygiene is super important for a great sex life. Women might also want to watch out for certain foods that can make them smell not so nice downstairs.

  26. I do have a question I will lick her clit and she says she loves but after abit she will start to (I hope I’m spelling this right) writhe but then she always wants me to stop because she says it tickles too much and she cant stand it we will switch from oral and switch to sex mostly her on bottom because she loves me on top I know I lack in so much experience but if it tickles am I going it wrong?

  27. My woman wants a suck on her but it gets me irritated doing so… How do I start, judging from other smelly past experience with girls. Tnx

  28. its really interesting. i have been doing this for quite a time now and even though my woman enjoys it, i still want her to crave for it often by . thanks Laura

  29. Great tips!!! You girls almost have me cumming thinking how bad you like your pussys being pleasured!!!

  30. Pls reading this is really confusing to me, do u have a video I can use to understand eating pussy better?

  31. Thanks Laura… I love vagina licking so much.. the smell of it just gets me going. I have tried all these tips on my partner and it works great. She just loves my tongue inside her… She splits her leg wide apart so that my tongue can actually go deeper… Lots and lots of orgasms fill my mouth and unexpected squirts just sprays my face clean. But I am mad on vagina and it’s really makes us wild when I go for tongue fucking deep in her vagina.

  32. Hi all girls here. I’m a man that’s trying to learn something. If u are afraid to talk to your bf about that don’t, most of the men like myself are willing to learn anything to make their girlfriends to have unforgettable orgasms It is just something that we want to to for our gf. I’ve met my girl about 3 months ago although I am inexperienced I have successfully give her 3 orgasms the first time we had sex which felt great for her and me however I haven’t made her squirt which is something I want to do so she can have best orgasms with me that’s why I’m on this site.
    So if you are afraid to tell you bf about this site don’t be they would love to learn the methods to make u squirt.

  33. My wife and I are both 46 and have been married for 19 years. Oral sex has always been a big part of our sex life. I love to eat her pussy! What really gets her worked up…… After a bit of foreplay, when she’s really gotten wet and I’m super hard, I’ll slide the tip of my cock inside her and tease her for a good 5-10 minutes. I’ll rub the tip of my cock over her clit and then again slide it just a little inside her–enough to get her really worked up. She’ll usually start masturbating and begging me to fuck her. Sometimes I’ll start masturbate while watching her. But I keep teasing her with my cock as she gets wetter and wetter. Then I’ll slide down and start licking her clit. She’ll usually have her lips spread wide for me (using her fingers) as I lick away at her clit and labia. I’ll slide 2 or 3 fingers inside her while I’m licking her clit. In a matter of usually 5 minutes, she’ll start cumming and I always keep licking away at her clit and labia as she’s orgasming. When she’s starting to come off her orgasm I’ll then slide my cock all the way inside her and fuck her really hard. By this time, she’s super wet and begging to get hammered–hard–any way I want to give it to her (she likes to be fucked really hard–not softly)–doggy, missionary, her on top, whatever. Or, if I want a blowjob and for her to swallow my load or let me jack it all over her face, she’ll be game for that, too.

    The moral to the story is this: Always put your woman first. It’ll make her feel special and good and it’ll pay dividends.

    1. Thanks for sharing Alex, I love hearing these kind of stories. Your wife is very lucky to have you and I totally agree, put your woman first and it will pay dividends.

  34. I think one step that has been left out is basic. When you want to please a woman make sure to ask her how it feels and what she likes. Also for some women sex is an all the time affair so you should touch her often and kiss and put your finger in her and lick it off while she watches and do other things during the day to make her feel comfortable or aroused. Oral pleasure can also be combined with intercourse if you do not mind mfm.

  35. So much loved the tips. There’s one i found quite intriguing. I can’t wait to try it on my girl

  36. Wao!! After reading the article plus all the comments, I’m so fucking turned ON!!… Please I want someone to bite off my clit.

  37. I think i become a professional guy in eating out pussy,
    in last 5 years of relationship with my GF i did only one thing each and every time is licking my gf pussy
    nd my gf loves getting licking out from me and i had tried each and every position to make her happy ….
    if any one want some deep explaintaion or some tips they can mail on my email id

  38. A few observations over the years. Take your time. Give her oral first. Listen and feel what her body tells you. Be willing to give her oral before and after intercourse. If she wants you to passionately kiss her after, do it. Don’t be afraid to get your face and hands “dirty.”

  39. The first time I ate my wife’s pussy she called me her babe and at the time we didnt use the babe word. I love to eat my wife’s pussy. And she tells me she loves that I love doing it.
    The way she tastes is amazing and I make sure I tell her everytime. So I always ask her what she likes or wants me to do to her. If it means she wants foreplay and to be affectionate I do it or sometimes she just wants to skip the foreplay and tells me to start kissing her pussy I do it till she starts saying “oh fuck” over and over and when she’s done she laughs telling me to stop cause it’s to sensitive, so she pushes my head away. Then I look at her face and her look gets me rock hard. I’m happy to have my dream pussy. Cause I’ve tried many funky pussies and I’m happy I found someone who’s pussy tastes good and let’s me eat it when I want.

  40. I love eating pussy the cum is delicious it's all about you baby I will get mine I want her pussy to quiver for days I want her pussy and ass to beg for my tongue then when I'm done with that beautiful flower I want her to put a 12" strap on and start slow on my man pussy then give it to me baby then I want her to skull fuck me

  41. Good article, although I have some suggestions on improving the wording of some sentences. By saying that women are the emotional creatures, it might be viewed by some as also saying that men arent or that they don’t need to receive as much emotional pleasure from sex as women, which neither are true. We’re all emotional creatures who want to fulfill our sexual needs at the end of the day. Thank you and have a good day!.

  42. I am a female I have eaten a lot of pushy experienced alot of female orgasms my own and those from my partners and I can tell u your advice about how to give a female an orgasm from oral sex is way off in many areas sorry ,either women are faking an orgasm with u or just being honest and hopefully telling u the truth but obviously they are not. Get advice from a lesbian or a women that eats pushy. Women fake it with men way too much obviously it passes me off

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