Giving the woman you love the true sexual pleasure that she CRAVES is NOT easy…
But in this article (and in our training videos), I’ll show you exactly how you can make it not only EASY but effortless.
Do you want to give her an orgasm that runs up her spine and makes her toes curl just thinking about it?
Then read this article from start to finish.
The truth is, if you don’t know about these techniques then you risk losing your woman to a guy who does know them…
I’m going to show you how to eat a girl so that you almost guarantee she has an orgasm.
I’m going to show you how to use your tongue to make a woman addicted to you.
Eating pussy is an art form – and it’s something every guy should learn how to do if he wants to give his partner the ultimate gift.
The Art Of Foreplay & Arousal
Getting your woman in the right frame of mind is one of the most crucial aspects of being able to give her an orgasm.
Women are emotional creatures, and it’s literally impossible to give her an orgasm while she remains in a logical frame of mind (like when she’s just finished work or is stressed out).
This is why scientists always find it hard to study the female orgasm.
It is your duty and responsibility to get her relaxed, and turn her on so that she forgets about the stresses and worries of life. Foreplay is literally the art of taking a woman’s mind from a logical state to a physical/emotional state.
REMEMBER: When it comes to arousal, logic is the enemy.
No woman has ever had an orgasm whilst doing algebra. Yet guys often tell me the only times their girlfriends have had orgasms is during makeup sex after an argument when emotions are running wild.
Your only goal in foreplay is to help her get into this emotional state where she can let go.
Getting “turned on” is about turning on the emotional/physical side of her mind and body.
And unlike men, women take much longer to get in the mood. Maybe you can get an erection and get ready for sex within 10 seconds, for women it could take half an hour or more.
We have an entire article about the time it takes for women to orgasm.
This is when the sexual energy and arousal build up.
Teasing & Anticipation
Teasing and foreplay are where the power of the orgasm comes from. Imagine you have a huge bucket at the top of a ladder. The bucket holds water, but first, you need to fill up the bucket with water.
Your aim with the bucket is to make the biggest and most dramatic explosion possible when you finally decide to push the bucket of water off the ladder. You could just put a little bit of water in the bucket and then push it off. But the explosion of water wouldn’t be very big.
You could spend more time filling up the bucket and when you finally pushed the bucket off the ladder the explosion was huge.
The water is like female sexual energy. It needs time and foreplay to build up, but the longer you take to build up her energy, the bigger the orgasm explosion will be at the end. I’ve written a complete guide about how to make a woman wet right here.
Using A Blindfold To Increase Anticipation
One of the best ways to increase anticipation and excitement is to use props.
Because women can also be very self-conscious about sex, and especially about when they get their vagina licked out, a blindfold can be a great way to make her feel less self-conscious, and instead just enjoy the sensations.
Using a blindfold on her also has the extra effect of reducing one of her senses. When her sight is switched off her perception of touch will massively increase.
She will feel the sensations and stimulation from her pussy so much more.
It’s also slightly scary wearing a blindfold. You will have complete control over her (which women love) and her sense of excitement and anticipation will increase.
Using Handcuffs/Belt/Tie To Make It Exciting
You can take her level of excitement and kink further by handcuffing her to the bed. You can either use prop handcuffs, for a more spontaneous feel, use your belt or a tie to tie her hands to the bed.
This, in combination with the blindfold and what I’m about to teach you, is the beginning of what will be one of the most exciting, powerful, sensual, and loving orgasms she will ever have.
No other guy will be able to compare to the orgasm you will give her if you follow these instructions carefully.
The Basic Techniques Of How To Eat Her Pussy Out
There are 5 different ways to stimulate her pussy with your mouth. Each technique has its own advantages and sensations, so you’ll want to use all methods at different stages of arousal.
You should also study her reactions to she which method she likes the most. Some women have very sensitive vaginas, they prefer the lighter methods.
Some women need a stronger sensation to have an orgasm, so you will need to start with methods 1 and 2 before going on to the rest.
Don’t go straight to her vagina. Start by kissing her body and then work your way down. Tease her. Make every single nerve in her body come alive with sexual tension.
Blowing
Blowing on her pussy is a great form of arousal, foreplay, and teasing. The light, subtle sensation will begin to create sexual energy and tension (which gets released in an orgasm).
The blowing is very light, it teases and tickles her. It draws her attention and focus to the subtle sensations she feels in her pussy. This is exactly what you want. You want her in a state of hypersensitivity. Every never in her vagina will start tingling with sensations.
This is setting the stage for the other methods that will eventually tip her over the edge and into a body-trembling orgasm.
Licking
Licking is next. You can now start to use your tongue in light motions across her sensitive parts.
It’s important to make your movements light and unpredictable to start with. You still want to tease her. You still want her to be waiting in anticipation (as her sexual energy continues to build).
Keep her guessing about when and how you will lick her next.
As her level of sexual arousal continues to rise, now you can begin to really start licking her out (and most importantly her clit).
The up and down motion, softly across her clit is usually the best option.
You should vary your strokes. From slow and soft to fast and hard. Always look for her reactions so you can see or hear what she likes best.
Kissing
Kissing her cooch is a great way to show how much you care about her. You shouldn’t kiss her vagina for too long though, but your kissing should be mixed in with the other methods.
Sucking
Sucking is the next stage of pleasure and most women LOVE having their pussy sucked. Now you can start using your whole mouth to stimulate not just her clit, but the rest of her too.
As her arousal levels climb higher and higher she’ll soon be ready for orgasm but you should continue building more and more.
Increase the speed and intensity of the sucking.
Always remember to tease and go two steps forward, one step back. Suck on her female bits for a while, then step back and kiss, lick and blow before carrying on.
Motorboating And Humming
Motorboating is the final method that you’ll use. It is perhaps the most powerful. Here’s how to do it…
Rest your lips gently around her pussy. Have your lips so they are just lightly touching and then blow out so that your lips vibrate back and forth.
This is called motorboating and sends vibrations down through her pussy. These act like shockwaves that can trigger an orgasm to take place.
Many women claim this is one of their favorite sensations.
You can alter the speed, power, and frequency of the vibrations by holding your lips tighter, or blowing harder.
Don’t go crazy though.
With the motorboating method, you’ll want to hold your lips over her clit and the opening to her vagina, although you can move it around and see where provides the best stimulation.
Humming is similar to motorboating but instead of actually letting your lips move, you simply rest your mouth against her vagina and hum softly.
This sends vibrations directly into her pussy that are extremely pleasurable.
For the best results, go back and forth between the methods. Mix it up and keep her guessing.
However, when you feel like she is very close to orgasm, then stick to the method that got her there and don’t change it too much.
Put Your Finger In Her Mouth
This is a great little trick that can really drive a woman wild and can be a great way to learn exactly how your girlfriend or wife likes to have her pussy eaten.
As you continue to eat her out, take your thumb or index finger and slowly insert it into her mouth. Tell her that you want her to lick and suck on it exactly how she wants it on her female parts.
As she begins to lick and suck on your finger, copy that motion exactly onto her pussy. She will know what she likes and she will show you.
Copy her motions as she licks, sucks, massages and swirls your finger.
This is a neat trick to learn how your partner likes it. But don’t use it too often. Women like the man to take control, and they like to relax as you do the work.
Put 1 Or 2 Fingers Inside Her
Eating her out with your mouth is one thing, but now you need to add another sensation to the mix.
This will involve inserting a finger or two into her so that you can stimulate her g-spot at the same time as her clit.
As you can imagine, stimulating her g-spot and her clit at the same time will give her twice the amount of pleasure and the ‘simultaneous orgasm’ that will happen as a result is extremely powerful and intense for her.
Insert 1 Or 2 Fingers In Her Bum
Slipping a finger in her puss isn’t the only way you can give her even more pleasure.
You can massage her ass using your fingers – something a lot of women find intensely pleasurable and exciting – and it’s also possible to give them anal orgasms.
You will need to use lubrication for this though – it is absolutely essential.
I also recommend using a condom. Put your two fingers inside a condom and take a large dollop of lube onto the fingers.
As you continue to eat her out slowly tease her ass. As she relaxes, begin inserting your two fingers (with a condom on and plenty of lube) slowly into her ass.
Be gentle and slow and make sure she stays relaxed.
Learn more about how to finger a girl here.
The sensation of having her clit stimulated by your tongue – plus the sensation of having her bum massaged with your finger up her bum will be unique, exciting, and extremely pleasurable.
Or Use A Butt Plug Instead
Some women love this sensation so much, but since you only have two hands you may need to remove your fingers at some point.
In this case, you can use a butt plug to give her a similar sensation while you continue to use both your hands in other ways.
This brings me onto my next trick…
Using A Vibrator To Guarantee Her Orgasms
Using a vibrator can be a sneaky trick to give her even more pleasure as the vibrations move through her body almost forcing her to have an orgasm.
However, as guys, most of us don’t have a vibrator, so this is what I recommend and have found to work amazingly well.
Most convenience stores sell condoms, but many now also sell lube and vibrating cock rings. Go and grab one of the Durex vibrating cock rings (and grab the lube as well).
You won’t be using the cock ring yourself (unless you want to) but the vibrator is the perfect, and discreet toy to rest on the top of your girl’s pussy.
Yes, that’s right, take the vibrating cock ring (Durex make a small, cheap, and disposable version which is perfect) and hold it with two fingers.
Place the vibrator gently onto the top of your girl’s pussy, just above the clit.
Do this very slowly at first. Tease her.
She will love it.
Women love a man who takes control and shows experience in the bedroom, so don’t worry about using a vibrator on her.
It will show that you are thoughtful and experienced and you know how to please her sexually.
With the vibrator pressed against the top of her vagina, begin eating her out again – follow the instructions before.
Move the vibrator closer to her clit, as you continue to eat her out.
The double sensation of the vibration plus the movement of your tongue on her clit will drive her absolutely wild.
Do this right and she will have orgasm after orgasm – she won’t be able to control herself.
She will beg you for more.
Now, as you rest the vibrator on her clit, and you continue to massage her labia with your mouth, take your other hand.
Using the lube (and a condom if necessary) begin to tickle her bum.
Slowly and gently insert one or two fingers into her bum, as you continue to eat her out and with the vibrator held in place with your other hand.
This is the ultimate stimulation for a women. Some women even find the huge amounts of pleasure unbearable.
Her body will tremble and shake when you do this.
When you lick her out you should also have a feel for her state of arousal.
If you feel like she’s about to have an orgasm, slightly slow down the pace and bring her back from the edge of climax. Doing this a few times will allow her to get into a higher and higher state of arousal before she finally climaxes.
And when she finally does cum with your tongue on her clit it will be one of the most intense orgasms she’s ever had.
Making Her Squirt While You Eat Her Pussy
Making her squirt while you eat her pussy can be even more pleasurable. It will be an experience that she never forgets.
Because this is a more advanced technique I’d like to show it to you in detail inside our training course, Squirting Triggers.
Other Positions Than Missionary
There are plenty of positions that you can eat her pussy from.
The most common and one that I have described these techniques from is with her lying on her back with knees bent and you sitting or lying by her legs.
You can also try with her on all fours (doggy position) and eating her out from behind.
If you want to see all of these techniques I’ve just described in vivid action and you want to learn more about giving your girlfriend or wife the most amazing and addictive orgasms of her life then get our video training course – Squirting Triggers TONIGHT.
Oral Choke
A personal favorite of mine is the ‘oral choke’ as we call it.
With her on her back and you eating her out, extend one arm up and lightly grip around her neck.
This is a test to see if she responds positively.
If you get the feeling she likes being choked while you go down on her, you can continue and potentially tighten your grip.
Some women find the sensation of being choked (lovingly) enjoyable. It can be an effective (and novel) way to heighten the sensation of your mouth on her clit.
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Listen to What She’s Not Saying
A woman will very rarely tell you exactly what she wants. That’s just not sexy for her to have to tell you.
But…
She will give you clues about what she wants most.
This is super important because, at the end of the day, not all women are the same. And they respond differently to different things.
What you’ll want to do it try a few different techniques, and let her body do the speaking for her.
If she moans like crazy when you do one particular movement across her clit – DON’T STOP.
If you find the perfect rhythm, keep going at the same pace and don’t change it up.
One of the biggest reasons women give for not being able to orgasm with a guy is that just before she orgasms she’ll start moaning louder and louder, and this will cause the guy to change his movement or rhythm, which then causes the girl to stop moving towards her climax and preventing her orgasm.
Become a master and listening to what her body is telling you, so she doesn’t have to say a word.
Become good at this, and women will be amazed that you ‘just know what to do.’
You’ll be able to read her like a book. No one else she’s ever been with was able to do that.
The Next Step?
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