12 Super Sensual And Hot Shower Sex Positions to Try

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12 Super Sensual And Hot Shower Sex Positions to Try

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This is THE guide for you if you want to learn 12 steamy hot shower sex positions and how to safely do them with your partner.

For a full rundown on how to have shower sex, make sure to read this article on how to fuck in the shower.

Let's start with easier positions and transition to harder (no pun intended) and more thrilling ones later.

In this article, we'll cover:

  • Learn the pros and cons of each shower sex position and how to get into the positions
  • Variations that can be used in a bathtub instead of a shower
  • Preparation and troubleshooting so you can focus on enjoying the moment

Easy Shower Sex Positions to Get Started

These shower sex positions are ones that everyone can do, since they suit most couples' height or weight differences and can be altered to fit different preferences. 

Important Tip

You should move carefully. Don't switch positions too quickly, and always keep a firm grasp on something stable. 

Position #1 - Standing

How to do it: This classic shower sex position has both partners standing facing away from each other.


The penetrating partner wraps his arms around the receiving partner's waist for better balance after inserting himself inside from behind.

Pros

  • Close skin-on-skin contact
  • Slow and intimate

Cons

  • Limited range of movement
  • The position not work for all body types

Position #2 - Doggy Style Against The Wall

How to do it: This is one of the best shower sex positions because it's so easy to do.

For standing doggy style, the woman faces the wall and bends over slightly, hands pressed against the wall for support.

The man enters from behind.

Pros

  • Standing doggy style allows deep penetration
  • The wall provides support, making it easier to maintain for longer periods 

Cons

  • Movements can be limited
  • The wall can be uncomfortable after some time 

Position #3 - Ballet Dancer

How to do it: The woman stands on one leg, the other leg wrapped around the man's waist. The receiving partner holds onto the penetrating partner for balance and support.

Pros

  • Body-to-body contact 
  • Opportunities for kissing, hand-holding, and more

Cons

  • It can be difficult to maintain, depending on body type 
  • Needs more caution because she has a higher risk of slipping 

Position #4 - Yab Yum

How to do it: The penetrating partner sits on the shower floor. The receiving partner sits on his lap, facing him, with her legs wrapped around his back.

Pros

  • Extremely intimate
  • Lower risk of slipping as both partners are seated and supported

Cons

  • Limited movements 
  • Likely to become mundane

Oral Positions in the Shower

Steamy oral sex isn't just about getting clean... It's about getting down and dirty in a whole new way. 

Whether you're the giver or the receiver, these positions will make your next shower anything but routine.

Position #5 - Standing Oral

How to do it: The receiving partner stands while the penetrating partner kneels.


From this kneeling position the giving parther begins to perform oral sex.


The position can be adjusted based on height for comfort.

Pros

  • The receiving partner can relax and enjoy without needing to balance
  • Easy access 

Cons

  • Can be tough on the knees
  • Water can interfere, making oral less enjoyable.

Position #6 - Kneeling Cunnilingus

How to do it: The man stands with one leg slightly raised and spread. The woman comes behind, lowers herself, and takes his penis in her hand while giving him a rim job.

Pros

  • Elevating the leg means easy access 
  • Shower wall or rail for stability

Cons

  • Requires a bit of balance
  • Kneeling on a hard surface might be uncomfortable after some time

Advanced Positions in the Shower

Had enough of the basic sex positions?

These advanced ones will add a splash of excitement and challenge. Just make sure you have a good grip!

Position #7 - Stand and Carry

How to do it: The man stands and lifts the woman by her thighs or buttocks while she wraps her legs around his waist.


The woman holds onto the man’s shoulders for support.

Pros

  • Close body contact
  • Intense and a bit of a challenge

Cons

  • The man needs a lot of stamina
  • Risk of slipping

Position #8 - The Hook

How to do it: The receiving partner stands back against her partner with one leg lifted and hooked around the penetrating partner’s knee.

The penetrating partner supports the receiving partner with one hand while using the other for stability against the wall.

Pros

  • Deeper penetration
  • The wall provides additional support

Cons

  • Balance is required, particularly from the receiving partner
  • It might not be accessible for couples with height differences or mobility issues

Position #9 - Wheelbarrow

How to do it: The woman places her hands on the floor of the shower, outside the shower area if possible, for better stability. The man holds the woman’s legs at the waist and enters from behind.

Pros

  • Playful
  • Exciting angle

Cons

  • Demands strength and balance
  • Not suitable for slippery shower floors 

Variations for Bath Tub Shower Sex

For those of you with a bathtub instead of a walk-in shower, there's still plenty you can do to have a bit of fun in the shower, whether you prefer the tub filled with water or drained to a wet floor.

Position #10 - Cowgirl

How to do it: In this classic sex position, the man sits or lays in the bathtub, either with water or in a drained tub, depending on preference. The woman straddles him, facing towards him, while he enters her.

Pros

  • The woman controls the speed and depth of penetration
  • The man gets to sit back and enjoy

Cons

  • Restrict movement
  • It might not be suitable for larger body types

Position #11 - Lapdance

How to do it: The penetrating partner sits down with legs extended out in the bathtub. The receiving partner faces away and lowers herself onto her partner, using the sides of the tub for support and control.

Pros

  • Full body contact 
  • Slow and controlled movement

Cons

  • Balancing can be tricky without using the sides of the tub
  • Hard surfaces of the tub might be uncomfortable

Position #12 - Chair

How to do it: Assuming there's enough space, the woman sits on her partner as if he were a chair with her legs open. His legs are extended, and his arms support stability while he enters her.

Pros

  • Full body contact 
  • Easy to play with her breasts or pull her hair

Cons

  • Might be cramped in smaller bathtubs
  • Not great for couples who typically struggle with more athletic positions

Andrew's Expert Tips To Spice Up Shower Sex

I enjoy doing it in the shower right after a long day at work or in the morning when I'm getting ready for work, and my wife slips in the shower to join me.

That said, I've picked up a few tips here and there from both my own personal experience and from hearing countless client stories. 

So, here I am to help you to turn up the heat in your shower.

Shower Tip #1 - Use The Shower Head

Adjust the spray setting to focus the water stream where it feels best.

This tip works because the detachable shower head can act as a substitute vibrator or wand, where direct spraying stimulates her clit.

Have your partner kneel on the shower floor or lift one leg up and onto the edge of the bathtub, aim the shower head at her private parts, lay back, and enjoy!

That's not all, use a double shower head; the extra stream of warm water running down your naked skin can spice up your steamy make-out session even more.

Shower Tip #2 - Don't Forget Silicon-Based Lube

Just because she's wet doesn't mean she's "wet". But be mindful that water-based lube is not the answer here.

It's likely to wash off. The better option is silicon-based lube because it doesn’t rinse off as quickly, so things stay slick longer.

Make sure it’s compatible with your shower-safe sex toys, which brings us to tip #3.

Shower Tip #3 - Add Some Waterproof Sex Toys

Now that sex toys are on your mind, it's a good time to mention that you should bring one or two in there with you.

Not all toys are waterproof, so read the instructions included in the box first. Opt for a high-quality toy and be creative.

There is a huge variety of waterproof sex toys. My go-to toy is the wand and I also enjoy adding clit suction devices, or anal plugs, just to mention a few.

Shower Tip #4 - Try Out Suction Cup Dildos

Suction cup dildos are one of my favorites.

This little guy does exactly what it sounds like.

It's a dildo that sticks to the wall, edge of the tub, or another surface for her to ride and enjoy.

Shower Tip #5 - Restrain Her With Suction Handcuffs

You know, you can get kinky in the shower, too. Don't let the wet environment stop you.

Instead of using bedroom handcuffs, try suction handcuffs.

They attach to the wall, so you can lock her hands up and introduce a bit of dominance, submission, and kink into your shower sex session.

A Woman's Perspective...
On Setting Up A Shower Sex Date Night

from Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH

Why not turn a regular evening into something extraordinary with a shower sex date night?

Trust me, I've guided many of our clients through this one, and it's usually a success.

This date night idea is a change of pace that adds some newness and excitement to your next date night.

I. Preparation Time

  • Clean the shower and don’t forget to tidy up the bathroom too. Doing so will set the right mood.
  • Take away all the miscellaneous bottles and replace some of them with soy candles or incense.
  • Charge all your toys because nothing kills the vibe like a low battery.
  • Check the water temperature; a warm but not too hot shower can make all the difference.

Women really appreciate it when their partner takes the time to get these details just right. It shows you care. 

II. Get Turned On

  • Start by massaging her with body wash.
  • Washing her hair or giving her a scalp massage can be incredibly intimate and soothing.

This kind of attention is a sensual act between you and her that allows her to forget all the challenges she faced during the day and instead allows her to get into her body.

Important Tip

The more turned on she is, the better the experience and the more likely she is to orgasm or even squirt! 

III. Enjoy The Main Event

  • Once warmed up, it’s time to try some of the hot shower sex positions mentioned above.
  • The steam, the water, and the intimacy of the closed space combine to create a very intense connection.

Moving together with the water cascading over you will make every touch and kiss feel amplified.

IV. Don't Forget Aftercare

  • Wrap her in a cozy towel.
  • Offer her water to hydrate.
  • Gently brush her hair.

These little acts of kindness show affection and appreciation. They’re also a wonderful way to wind down together.

Frequently Asked Questions

I've been asked 100s of questions about sex positions, and shower sex positions are no different! These are the most commonly asked questions my clients ask me, laid out for your viewing pleasure.

Does shower sex avoid pregnancy and STDs?

Shower sex does not prevent pregnancy or protect against STDs. Protection methods such as condoms are still necessary to reduce these risks, regardless of where sexual activity takes place.

How long after sex can a pregnancy test show positive?

You can expect a pregnancy test to show positive results about two weeks after sex. This timeframe allows for the hormone hCG, which pregnancy tests detect, to reach a detectable level.

How do you position yourself in sitting showers without a bathtub? 

You can sit in the shower on a sturdy plastic chair or stool. To avoid accidents, check that the chair is stable and safe to use in wet conditions.

How can we make shower sex less slippery?

To make shower sex safer and less slippery, place a non-slip mat in the shower. This mat provides a better grip and reduces the chance of slipping. 

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Andrew Mioch is one of the world’s leading sex coaches and best-selling author after spending 10 years learning from experts all over the world.

Currently pursuing his Master’s Degree in Sexology, Andrew has personally coached over 5,000 men. His expertise is regularly sought in publications such as Men's Health, Medium, and Cosmopolitan Magazine.

These days, Andy spends most of his time coaching clients privately and also through SQL’s online Mastery Academy.

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