While a blowjob can be an exciting sexual encounter in a new relationship, it can soon become tired and even boring.

That’s because many couples get comfortable with their routines, and this may mean using the same positions over and over.

But there are almost as many blowjob positions as there are sex positions. And finding the ones that work best for you and your partner can be fun.

One category of blowjob positions is kneeling. These will give your man a sense of power which is a turn on all on its own. When combined with incredible blowjob techniques, though, you can take this intimate activity to the next level.

Are you ready to give your male partner the most intense orgasm of his life? Then read on!

The Basics of a Blowjob

The blowjob may seem like a simple oral sex technique. The blowjob consists of three separate parts, though. They include the tease, the buildup, and the climax.

The Tease

You might want to jump right into giving the blowjob. But before you even begin, you’ll want to build your man up. How?

First and foremost, take it slow.

You don’t need to go right for the penis. And in fact, I’d recommend against you. You should instead focus on other sensitive areas of his body – also known as erogenous zones – to get him all hot and bothered.

Start with his nipples, for example. You can gently rub your fingers across them, kiss them, and suck them. You can then slide your fingers down his torso, and trail your tongue from his nipple to his belly button, and from his belly button to his groin.

Or you can work your way up if you’d prefer.

Start at the feet with a gentle massage, and slowly glide your fingertips up his calves. From there you can move to his thighs, and work ever-so-slowly towards his groin so as to build great anticipation.

You can even combine these techniques – first working down, and then working up – all before you’ve even touched his penis.

It can be easy to forget that most men enjoy these soft, sensual moments just as much as women. And it’s also a great way to get both of you in the mood for the upcoming blowjob.

The Buildup

Now that his engine is running hot, it’s time to kick it into overdrive. Take your man’s penis into your mouth, and slowly work your way up and down the shaft. You can do the typical head bobbing motion, or you can use your tongue to flick around the sides of his shaft.

You’ll eventually find a rhythm that works well for you, and that your partner enjoys. But you should also feel free to mix it up a bit. Use your tongue to flick his frenulum, which is a little bit of skin that connects his shaft to his glans. The frenulum is filled with millions of nerve endings and is quite similar to the female clitoris.

While doing so, you can also use your hands to jerk the bottom of the shaft. Or you can use them to massage the balls, or gently stimulate the perineum. You’ll know he’s getting close when his breathing quickens and his muscles tighten. Even when he climaxes, though, your job isn’t done.

The Climax

Once your partner has passed the point of no return, they will reach climax. It’s at this point that your partner will orgasm and ejaculate.

But if you want him to have a truly mind-boggling orgasm, then you’re not quite finished yet.

It’s at the point of climax that he will be the most sensitive. It’s important that you don’t stop stimulation too soon, but you should also be mindful not to overstimulate the area.

So, what are some things you can do to increase pleasure but not overdo it?

One thing you can do if he finishes in your mouth is to hum. The gentle humming sensation will offer additional stimulation without being too overwhelming. You can also continue to massage his balls if you were doing so leading up to climax, or jerk the base of his shaft just a bit as the final waves ride over him.

Toys and Tools for Your Blowjob Session

You don’t need much to perform a mind-numbing blowjob. But you also don’t have to do it alone. There are plenty of toys and tools at your disposal. Let’s take a look at just a few.

Lubricant

The fact is that spit isn’t a great lubricant. This is why a high-quality lubricant should be added to your arsenal. Lubricant comes in many different varieties, including water-based, silicone, and hybrids. You can even buy lubes that are flavored.

So, how do you find the right lubricant for you and your man?

Let’s take a look at the different types of lubes on the market. These include:

• Water
• Silicone
• Oil
• Hybrid

A water-based lubricant is the most versatile. It can be used with condoms (even latex ones), and there’s little risk of allergy from the lubricating ingredients.

If you have sensitive skin, though, then silicone-based lubricants are the way to go. Silicone is hypoallergenic. It also tends to be longer lasting than other lubricant varieties, which means a little goes a long way.

And what about flavors?

There are flavored lubricants available in all varieties. The most popular flavors include:

• Strawberry
• Watermelon
• Chocolate
• Caramel
• Apple

And why not consider having a different lube for blowjobs than the one you use for penetrative sex? This would allow you to be more adventurous in your selections, as you wouldn’t have to worry so much about vaginal sensitivity and hygiene.

You can experiment with different kinds of lubricants, and even different flavors. After all, you’ll be the one that comes into the most contact with the lubricant during these blowjob sessions. So it makes sense that you’d want it to taste good, and be of a high quality.

Pillows and Wedges

The kneeling blowjob can be an enjoyable experience for you and your man. It can be quite uncomfortable after awhile, though. That’s why you should consider pillows and wedges to make the experience more comfortable.

Pillows can of course be used to protect your knees from the hard ground. You don’t want to end up with bruises or sore knees! You can also use pillows to better prop up your body, or as an armrest, during certain positions.

The man can benefit from pillows and wedges during the blowjob session, too. A wedge can be great for oral sex positions where he’ll be in a sitting or lying position. And wedges and pillows can be used as lower back support if he happens to be leaning against a wall or other hard surface.

Chairs

The standard couch, bed, or kitchen chair can be used for many of the positions we’ll mention below. But why not also take a look at some sex furniture to spice up the session? In particular, you may be interested in sex chairs.

There are many varieties of sex chairs, including:

• Inflatable chairs
• Sex stools
• Sex thrones
• Sex loungers

These chairs offer versatilty and ease of access in many sex and oral sex positions. The ones you may find particularly helpful for your session include sex thrones and sex loungers. With these, your man can be comfortable and you can have easy access while on your knees.

4 Kneeling Positions to Try

There are dozens of oral sex positions to choose from, but a good classic is the kneeling blowjob. Such a  blowjob position can increase the feeling of power, and this can be particularly exciting to your partner. So if you’re ready to begin, take a look at just a few techniques you can incorporate into your session.

The Traditional

The man stands with his legs at shoulder width apart. The woman kneels — preferably on a pillow or other soft, padded surface — in front of him. By sitting back on her haunches, the woman can become almost level with the man’s groin. She can then wrap her arms around him, resting her hands on his buttocks, and take his penis into her mouth.

If the woman is comfortable with her partner, the man can gently guide your head movements. In this way, he can control the rhythm. The woman can also have full access to her partner’s penis, testicles, and taint with either one or both hands.

The Boss’s Chair

For this position, the man will be in a seated position. You can do so on a rigid seat, or on a more relaxed one such as a couch or bedside.

As for the woman, there are two variations of this position. For the first variation, the woman will kneel on either side of the man’s legs. She will then lean over his side to reach his penis with her mouth. For the second variation, the man will spread his knees apart. The woman will then kneel in between his legs and simply lean forward to perform the blowjob.

The variation you choose will depend on preference. You should feel free to experiment, though.

The Therapist’s Couch

A variation of the Boss’s Chair is the Therapist’s Couch.

For this position, the man will lie flat on his back on a couch, bed, or similar surface. The woman will kneel in front of the couch and lean over to gain easy access to the groin. The man can tilt slightly towards the woman by adjusting the position of the leg farthest from her. Or he can lie completely flat.

If you want to get kinky, this would be a great position to use handcuffs or other restraints.

Advanced: The Staff

This position is advanced not for the giver, but for the receiver. The position requires that the man stands on his head. His arms are bent at the elbow and placed next to his head. The woman will kneel in front of him, and from this angle she can suck his penis.

The oxygen rushing to his head will give him a lightheaded feeling, and this can increase the intensity of the sexual experience. You may want to perform this position near a wall or other such support. Your man can then place his body against the surface to further stabilize himself.

Pillows or other padding is also recommended. These can be placed under your man’s elbows to protect from soreness.

This position is not recommended for beginners, or for men who aren’t used to such physical activities. If your man becomes lightheaded or woozy, it’s best that he slowly returns himself to an upright position and another position is used.

How to Give Your Man a Mind-Blowing Orgasm

The basics of a ‘good’ blowjob offered above are a great start. There are some techniques you can use, though, that will take his orgasm to the next level.

Let’s look at just a few techniques you can use in any blowjob position, including a kneeling blowjob.

Introduce Butt Play

Butt play should never be added to your session as a surprise. It’s something you should discuss with your partner prior to the engagement.

But it’s an easy way to spice up the blowjob and bring his orgasm from “meh” to “WOW!”

So, what do I mean by butt play? It can be as simple as a finger or two inserted into the anus. You can use your fingers to circle the rim, or even go so far as to stimulate the prostate (also known as the male G-spot).

If you’re feeling particularly adventurous, you can even do some oral-to-anal play. One technique is to use your tongue to stimulate the entrance to the anus. You can then trail back up to the testicles and shaft by way of the perineum, or the taint.

If you’ll be using your mouth at all during anal play, it’s best to avoid direct mouth-to-penis contact afterwards. The risk of urinary tract infection increases significantly.

Instead, you can use your mouth to stimulate the balls while finishing your man off with a handjob. You don’t have to stimulate the anus manually only, though. You can also incorporate any sex toy of you and your partners choosing. These include vibrators, dildos, anal beads, and butt plugs.

IMPORTANT! Whenever you insert something into the anus, be sure that it has a flared base or is otherwise unable to entirely enter the anal cavity.

Practice Edging

Edging is a sexual practice that has you bring your partner to the brink of orgasm. Right before the climax, though, the simulation is stopped. The practice is continued over and over until you finally bring your partner to completion. The orgasm they experience is then usually increased by ten-fold as the buildup is able to release.

Edging does require some practice. To do it successfully, you’ll need to know your partner’s cues and body language. But edging is a great technique to combine with your blowjob for an extraordinary experience.

Give Sultry Glances

This may seem simple, but a sensual glance at just the right moment can send your man over the edge. So even though you’re focusing on the task at hand, be sure to look into your partner’s eyes every now and again. You may even get a glance at the pure look of pleasure on his face, and that can be a great boost for your morale.

Swallow, Don’t Spit

It’s not uncommon for partners to spit after their man cums in their mouth, or to not even let him finish in their mouth.

But this one simple thing can add great depth to the sensual experience.

Swallowing certainly adds a deeper physical pleasure. It also increases your man’s sense of power. This, combined with the kneeling blowjob, will be sure to give him one of the best orgasms of his life.

Do you want to push him even further over the edge?

Then be sure to look deep into his eyes as he finishes inside your mouth. That’ll make it one blowjob he’s sure to never forget!

Advanced: Deepthroating

If you want to try an advanced technique, then consider deepthroating. Deepthroating is a blowjob technique where the entirety of the penis (or, as much as the giver can fit) is placed in the mouth. The penis will oftentimes hit the back of the throat, or even surpass it.

This technique is considered advanced because it can be difficult to do. It takes patience and practice, and it also takes a lot of trust in your partner.

A deepthroating session can be particularly enjoyable for your man.

Conclusion

A kneeling blowjob can give your man a sense of control. And for many men, that’s a major turn on.

So, what do you say? Are you ready to give your man the sense of control he craves by using one of the positions above? And are you ready to implement some of the more advanced tips outlined above to give him a mind-numbing orgasm he won’t forget?

With some practice, and perhaps some helpful toys and tools, you can ensure that every blowjob is the best one you ever give.

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