How to Use a Vibrator: The Ultimate Guide

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When it comes to enhancing your sex life, there are a plethora of toys and tools at your disposal. There’s dildos, butt plugs, ball gags, sex swings, and so much more.

But let’s get back to the basics and take a look at the vibrator.

Vibrators can be found in the bedrooms of millions of people worldwide. And for many women, they’re the first true “sex toy” they encounter.

If you haven’t had the pleasure of owning a vibrator, though, then why should you consider one now? This guide will answer that question and many others, like:

  • What types of vibrators are available, and which one is right for me?
  • How can I use a vibrator for maximum pleasure if I’ve never even used one before?
  • What are some ways I can incorporate the vibrator into couple’s play?

And more.

So if you’re ready to learn about the sex toy that can turn your solo and couple’s sex life on its head, then keep reading.

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Why Add a Vibrator to Your Sex Life?

A vibrator is only for women whose men aren’t pleasing them. Right? Not so!

The sentiment above is outdated and just plain wrong.

The fact of the matter is, a vibrator can be an exciting addition to an otherwise fulfilling sex life.

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It helps if you think of a vibrator as a tool in your otherwise varied toolbox. And the more you use it, the more you’ll find yourself wanting to come back for more.

And just like other sex toys, the vibrator can be used alone or with a partner. It can be used by men and women alike, and there are many different types available to please your tastes.

The Different Types of Vibrators

If you’ve tried one vibrator, you’ve tried them all. Right? Not exactly.

There are many different types of vibrators. And this means there’s likely one that will fit your needs and your pleasure.

The Classic Vibrator

When you think of a vibrator, you likely think of the ‘Classic’: a straight, dome-shaped vibrator coated in a soft, silicone material.

While simple, this vibrator is actually quite versatile.

Classic vibrator

The design makes it possible to use as a dildo, or as a clitoral stimulator. You can even use it on nipples or the taint.

If you’re just getting started, you can’t go wrong with a classic vibrator.

After all, they’re easy to use and lower cost than many other options on this list.

The Bullet Vibrator

Are you looking to achieve a quick, efficient climax? Or maybe you’d like to bring your personal pleasure device on the go?

Either way, the bullet vibrator may be just what you’re looking for.

A bullet vibrator is a miniature version of the classic vibrator mentioned above. It’s cylindrical design makes it easy to use, and versatile.

The difference is in the smaller, sleeker design.

The majority of bullet vibrator models are between three and five inches. They’re also thinner, quieter, and much more subtle than the classic model.

This makes them perfect for use during travel, or otherwise on-the-go.

The G-Spot Vibrator

Ahhh, the mystical g-spot. While there are some who say it doesn’t exist, I’d have to argue to the contrary.

But whatever your thoughts on the g-spot, one thing is for certain: a g-spot vibrator can provide you with immeasurable pleasure.

Even if you know where your g-spot is, and you know how to stimulate it, it’s not always easy to do on your own. Even with a partner, it can be difficult to hit just the right spot.

With a g-spot vibrator, though, that’s no longer a problem.

The g-spot vibrator is designed specifically to target the g-spot. This means you can hit it at just the right angle, and with the right amount of pressure.

To use it, just insert into your vagina. The vibrating motions will tell you exactly where your g-spot is. You can then slowly slide the vibrator in and out to put varying levels of pressure on the g-spot.

You can similarly use the vibrator for a ‘come hither’ motion.

Instead of pushing and pulling the vibrator at an angle, do so in a straight motion.

The walls of the vagina will prevent the slightly-angled vibator head from exiting, but it’ll stimulate the g-spot similarly to how your partner’s fingers would.

The Rabbit Vibrator

Are you looking for a little more

The rabbit vibrator is an upgrade to the Classic. This model similarly features a cylindrical design, though it includes a curved, bulbous end.

In addition, the rabbit vibrator includes a ‘rabbit ear’ extension on the front. It’s purpose? To stimulate the clitoris while also stimulating the g-spot.

Rabbit vibrator in hand

As you might imagine, the rabbit vibrator can bring intense pleasure.

When inserted into the vagina, the vibrating bulbous end will send pleasure through the g-spot. The rabbit ear will similarly vibrate and stimulate the clitoris so as to bring you to an explosive, full-body orgasm.

The great thing about rabbit vibrators is that they can be used by beginners and long-time users alike. They’re easy to use, but they also pack a powerful punch.

The Wand Vibrator

If g-spot orgasms are difficult for you to achieve, or if you’d just prefer an external device, then check out the wand vibrator.

A wand vibrator, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand, consists of a cylindrical wand structure, and is capped with a somewhat flexible, rubber head. The wand vibrator is different than most vibrators in that it has a distinct head, while the other types are often more uniform in design.

How do you use it?

The wand vibrator is a bit less versatile than other vibrators on this list. It can’t be inserted into the vagina or anus, but it can be applied directly to the clitoris, taint, and nipples.

Wand vibrators will often have multiple intensity and speed settings.

The wand is on the large size when compared to other types of vibrators. It’s not ideal for travel or use on-the-go, but it can be used by yourself or with a partner.

The Egg Vibrator

The egg vibrator can be a great addition to your at-home collection of sex toys.

But if you want to appeal to your kinkier side, then you should know that the egg vibrator can be used anywhere, anytime.

How is that possible?

I mentioned that the bullet vibrator is small and easy to travel with. It’s not so easy to use discreetly in public, though.

But what if you want to have a kinky sexual adventure in the park? Or at the movies? Or really anywhere where touching yourself in open is prohibited? Then consider the egg vibrator.

The egg vibrator is smaller and even more discreet than the bullet. It’s also quieter.

But how can you use it anywhere, anytime?

The main difference between the bullet and the egg is the shape.

Egg vibrator

The egg vibrator is shaped, well, like an egg. It’s oval design means it’s possible to insert into your vagina and it won’t fall out. (Don’t worry, there’s a string you can pull to easily remove the device when you’re done.)

This means you can insert the rabbit vibrator at home, or in an otherwise private place. You can then turn it on and walk around in public with your dirty little secret.

If you’re looking for some extra excitement, there’s even remote control vibrators. You can use it yourself while out and about, or give it to your partner for a truly fun time.

You can, of course, incorporate the egg vibrator into your at-home sexual relations. How?

Insert it during foreplay. Or simply “wear” it around the house while your partner turns it on and off at their pleasure.

The Clitoral (Oral) Vibrator

Do you want the intense pleasure of oral sex but your partner isn’t available? There’s a device for that!

The clitoral vibrator, also known as an oral vibrator, is a personal pleasure device with a unique design.

There are actually a few different kinds, though they all achieve the same thing: direct clitoral stimulation for a truly mind-blowing climax.

The most common oral vibrator is a cylindrical device that’s thicker than the Classic model (and most other types). It also has an open-ended tip that’s about an inch in diameter.

How do you use it?

The opening is placed on the clitoris. The vibrations are then targeted directly at your most sensitive erogenous zone. The feeling mimics those of someone sucking on your clitoris.

These devices often allow you to increase (or decrease) the intensity and speed of the vibrations. So you can make the session long and slow, or short and explosive.

You no longer need to depend on others for an experience that’s eerily similar to that of oral sex. The clitoral (oral) vibrator is definitely a game changer!

The Prostate Vibrator

This one’s for the men out there!

It’s not often that vibrators are thought of as a male sex toy. They can be a powerful tool in your arsenal, though.

How does it work?

It’s helpful to think of the prostate vibrator as the male counterpart to the g-spot vibrator.

A prostate vibrator can contain one head, or two.

The vibrator is inserted into the anus. The main head will then vibrate, or otherwise stimulate the prostate (such as by moving in a “come hither” motion).

If the vibrator has two heads, then the second head will stimulate the taint as the same time as the prostate is stimulated.

The prostate is thought of as the male g-spot, or the p-spot. It’s stimulation, then, can send powerful shockwaves throughout the body and conclude in an overwhelming climax.

And just like other vibrators, the prostate vibrator can be used as a masturbatory aid or with your partner. So experiment and, most importantly, have fun!

The Cock Ring Vibrator

Do you want something that both of you can enjoy? The cock ring vibrator offers pleasure for both him and her.

As the name implies, a cock ring vibrator is a cock ring. It’s placed at the base of the penis and, once turned on, will vibrate and pulse.

The cock ring aspect along should be tempting. After all, it can make a man’s penis harder and make him last longer. The vibration, though, will be felt by both the man and the woman (while penetrated).

If you use it at the right angles, you can even get the vibrating cock ring to hit the clitoris on every thrust. This will be sure to send shivers down her legs!

And while the cock ring vibrator seems to have a very specific role, it can be used on the clitoris, nipples, or taint if you’re in a pinch.

The Nipple Vibrator

Vibrators aren’t just for the vagina and anus. They can be used on other erogenous zones, too, like the nipples.

The nipple vibrator is similar in design to the clitoral vibrator. It’s a handled device with a open-ended tip.

Similar to the clitoral vibrator, the nipple vibrator can be placed over the nipple. It will then vibrate, pull, and ‘suck’ on the nipple for stimulation.

You may be wondering if this is a worthwhile investment. After all, why use a vibrator unless it can bring you to climax?

But if you’ve never had a nipple orgasm, you’re missing out.

A nipple orgasm is an orgasm (duh!). But instead of coming from clitoral stimulation or vaginal/anal penetration, it comes from intense nipple stimulation.

The vast majority of people can achieve nipple orgasm with the right techniques. One way to make it easier, though, is with a specialty device like a nipple vibrator.

And just like with many of the other options on this list, the nipple vibrator is very versatile. You can use it solo or during sex, and it can be used on both men and women.

Which Vibrator is Right for You?

When it comes to finding the right vibrator for you, it’s ultimately based on preference.

The only way to find the right vibrator for you? With experimentation.

If you’re a beginner and you aren’t quite sure where to start, then the Classic vibrator is a great option. It’s versatile and easy to use, and there are models available in a variety of price ranges.

Once you’ve gotten used to the Classic model, you can then begin to expand your horizons based on your experience.

Do you wish your vibrator was curved instead of straight? Try out a g-spot vibrator.

Are you looking for a vibrator that can penetrate while also stimulating the clitoris? Then the rabbit vibrator is a good choice.

Or perhaps you want to get your male partner in on the fun. They may be willing to give a cock ring vibrator a try!

There really is a vibrator for everyone.

So if one doesn’t seem to work for you, don’t give up. You may need to experiment more, both by yourself and with your partner. But you’re bound to find a vibrator (or a few!) that fulfills your needs.

3 Tips for Beginners

Are you new to vibrators? While it seems that vibrators are a sex toy that almost every woman owns, there are still many people (men and women) who have yet to discover the pleasure.

If you’re one of those people, then you may be wondering: “Why do I need to be told how to use a vibrator? I just turn it on and go, right?”

There’s no wrong way to use a vibrator. But there is a riiiiiight way. The way which will leave you shaking, quivering, and short of breath.

So if you’d rather learn some tips on getting to that point now, then these are for you.

Take the Time for Yourself

When you introduce vibrators and other sex toys into your sex life, it can do wonders for your relationship. If you’re just getting started, though, it’s good practice to take the time to explore their use by yourself.

This goes for women and men.

Even if you intend to add a vibrator to your partnered sex, it can be important that you take separate time to explore and experiment.

See how it feels. Use it as intended, and even explore a bit with some fresh ideas.

And even before a partnered session, you can take a few minutes for yourself to warm up. Settle down in a quiet room, and just tease yourself. This is a good way, especially for women, to prepare for sex.

Experiment

Whether you only plan to use the vibrator on yourself, or you’d like to use it on a partner in the near future, it’s important to experiment.

Why?

The main reason is so that you can get a clear idea of just what the vibrator can do.

But if you intend to use it on a partner, the use of a vibrator on yourself can give you a reference point for when you use it on them. You don’t want to use it with too much intensity, or with too much gusto!

For Men

The idea of using a vibrator can be foreign to men. There aren’t very many vibrators marketed towards men, after all.

The good news is that vibrators aren’t restricted to female use.

Even the vibrators which aren’t specifically designed for men can be used and enjoyed by them.

Once you’ve found a vibrator you think you’ll like, you’ll want to become acquainted.

Is it easy to use? How fast does it go? Does it vibrate only? Does it pulse, too? What does it feel like against your penis, testicles, and taint? How about against your nipples?

It may seem silly to ask yourself these questions, and even sillier to test out the vibrator with hopes of answering them. But it’s a great way to become more comfortable using a vibrator, as well as learn about your body and your likes and dislikes.

For Women

The majority of vibrators are created with women in mind. This makes it easy to experiment, and you have plenty of options to test out.

If you’ve never used a vibrator before, you should first become accustomed to its controls.

Inspect your new vibrator and play with the settings and controls before you use it on yourself. It helps to have a reference for intensity and speed before you begin.

The only logical next step is to put it to use.

Start slow, with the vibrator on its lowest speed and intensity. Press it against your clit or vulva, and just feel the vibrations flowing through you.

Don’t focus on trying to orgasm. The point of this session is to learn what you like and what you don’t like. You can then use this in your future sessions, either alone or with a partner.

Use Lube

Even without penetration lubricant can make the experience all that more enjoyable.

Lubricants make it possible for your vibrator to glide across your skin. This will prevent the usual catching or tugging that can occur when a plastic-based toy is rubbed against the skin.

You know how masturbation and sex feels better for women when they’re already turned on? That’s because their body has produced a natural lube. A lubricant can take the place of that so as to ensure a breathtaking experience.

A good lubricant will also make it easier to direct your vibrator to just the right spot. It can also help to deliver the vibrations, and this slight increase in intensity will be just enough to make your experience that much more pleasurable.

While I recommend lube for even non-penetrative uses, my recommendation is even more enthusiastic where penetration is involved.

Just imagine the silicone of your sex toy tugging on your vaginal wall or anal lining. No thank you!

A good rule of thumb? If you think you’re using too much lube, you’re not. You really can’t ever use too much lube, especially when it comes to penetration.

Pro tip: When buying lube to use with your vibrator, be sure to buy one that’s specifically intended for use with sex toys.

On that note, it’s best to consider water-based lubricants. You may think a silicone-based lubricant is best because your vibrator is made of silicone. But silicone DOES NOT mix well with silicone sex toys.

How to Incorporate Vibrators into Couple’s Play

Do you want to spice up your love life?

Vibrators (and other sex toys) can be an easy way to do so. Here’s how.

Let Your Partner Take Control

Whether you’re male or female, the vibrator can be a very welcome addition into your sex life.

One way to take it to the next level? By giving your partner complete control over the device.

It’s easy to think of a vibrator as a personal pleasure device. That’s how it’s most often marketed, anyway.

But you achieve two things by giving your partner control over your vibrator:

  1. You add a touch of anticipation and surprise to your lovemaking session; and
  2. You increase the trust between you and your partner, which is sure to lead to a hotter, more intense connection.

It may seem like a small thing. When you give your partner control, though, you’re sending a very clear message that you trust them with your pleasure. That’s a big deal in intimate relationships.

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Now that your partner has control, what should you do?

Lie down and enjoy.

Tell your partner what you like as they do it, but also allow them to learn more about your body by exploring for themselves. And adding in some moans, signs, and groans is always a welcome sign of encouragement.

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You’ll soon be wriggling, squirming, and begging for more.


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Climax Together

In movies, television shows, and porn, it seems natural for couples to climax together every time. That can’t be farther from the truth for most couples, however.

The truth is that not all women can climax from penetration alone.

It doesn’t mean that her man isn’t capable of pleasing her. It just means she needs a different kind of stimulation to achieve orgasm.

That’s where a vibrator comes in. If the woman can only climax with clitoral stimulation, or if stimulation of sensitive areas (like the clitoris, or nipples) makes climax easier, then the vibrator can be your new best friend.

Depending on the sex position you’re in, either you or your partner can use the vibrator while also being penetrated.

Is the woman being taken from behind? Then the man will likely have very easy access to her clitoris by simply reaching around or under her.

Are you doing cowgirl, missionary, or another position that puts you face to face? The woman should be able to access her clitoris easily.

She can even use a vibrator while giving a blow job! This will be sure to intensify the encounter for both.

There’s really no wrong way to use a vibrator during couple’s play as long as both partners are fully on board with its use.

Add It Into Foreplay

You can use a vibrator during sex, sure. But why not use it before sex to get things heated up?

Foreplay is a crucial part of any healthy sexual relationship. It’s also necessary for many women if they are to fully enjoy the sexual encounter.

Sometimes foreplay can seem like more of a burden than a pleasure. On those days, why not try using a vibrator?

A vibrator may seem like the lazy way out, but it can actually enable you to focus on other areas. Use the vibrator to gently stimulate the nipples, clitoris, taint, or testicles. You can then focus on kissing, touching, and caressing your partner.

Remember to start on the lowest speed and intensity, and only increase them as you/your partner becomes more aroused.

Put On a Show

Hey ladies! Are you looking for a way to add some sizzle to your foreplay? Then it’s time to put on a show featuring your vibrator.

If there’s one thing that will drive a man crazy, it’s watching his woman please herself. Add some negligee and your favorite vibrator, and you’ve got a winning combination.

Have your man sit or lie down in a comfortable position.

Then position yourself directly in front of him, either on a couch, bed, or chair.

First use your hands to explore your body. Your breasts, your stomach, your ass cheeks, and finally your vulva and pussy.

Then pull out the vibrator, and start slowly.

Begin at your least sensitive zones, and slowly move towards the more sensitive areas of your body. Be sure to show your man just how much you’re enjoying it with moans, sighs, and gasps.

If you want to make it particularly pleasing for him, you can instruct him to touch himself while he watches. Or if you’re feeling feisty, you can even instruct him not to touch himself.

You can even make it into a game.

Give him control by allowing him to tell you where to move the vibrator. He can tell you to increase or decrease intensity, increase or decrease speed, or to stop entirely.

By the end, both you and your man will be bursting with passion and ready for a good fucking.

Practice Mutual Masturbation

Do you fondly remember mutual masturbation from your teen years? You and your partner just engaging in heavy petting and fondling without taking it beyond?

While the idea of mutual masturbation may seem a bit tame, it’s actually one of the easiest ways to heat up your sex life.

Mutual masturbation is when you and a partner engage in masturbation together. It can include kissing, fingering, handjobs, and dry humping. And of course, let’s not forget vibrators!

With mutual masturbation it’s about exploring your partner’s body and giving them pleasure.

When using a vibrator, start off slow.

You should start with just your hands, caressing their body and slowly working your way towards their most intimate areas. Wait until yourself and your partner and hot and bothered. Now it’s time to break out the vibrators.

Whether you have one, two, or an entire collection, you can use a vibrator to bring yourselves to mutual climax.

If your partner has never used a vibrator before, let them use one on you. Once they see how much fun you’re having, they’ll be eager to try themselves!

You can take turns pleasing each other – using a vibrator to stimulate their most sensitive spots – or each use one simultaneously on each other.

The Best Sex Positions to Use a Vibrator

You can use a vibrator in just about any sex position you can imagine. There are some positions where vibrator use is more easily accommodated, however.

The Amazon

Are you a woman who wants to feel dominating and powerful? Or maybe you’re a man who wants to be taken with gusto by your lady. Then the Amazon sex position is for you.

The Amazon sex position gets its name from the all-female tribe of Amazon warriors. It’s a position where the woman is on top and in full control.

How is this position done?

The man will lie flat on his back. He will then bend his knees and bring them closer to his chest, sort of in a horizontal squatting position.

The female partner will then grab the man’s legs for stability, and then squat over him so as to align her vagina with his penis. She will then slowly squat onto his penis, where either her or him can guide it fully into the vaginal opening.

In this position, the woman can grind or ‘jump’ on his penis.

But the best part? The man has full and easy access to her clitoris.

With just a bit of adjustment, the man can easily bring a vibrator to her clitoris for stimulation. As she grinds, the vibrator will get to work and bring her towards an incredible climax.

The Cowgirl

Also known as ‘the woman on top,’ this technique is another one where the woman has the power.

The man will lie flat on his back with his legs extended in front of him. The woman will then place her knees on either side of his thighs so her vagina is over his erect penis.

As she glides down onto his shaft, she can then adjust her legs. If she brings them forward (closer to his naval), this will give her greater ability to target her g-spot. If she brings them backwards (closer to his knees), she’ll more easily be able to lean forward and grind her clitoris for stimulation.

With a vibrator, though, she can work on hitting her g-spot while the man stimulates her clitoris.

All her partner has to do is bend his arm at the elbow and place the vibrator against her clitoris. The woman may have to adjust her angling slightly for just the right amount of contact.

The Reverse Cowgirl

As the name suggests, this position is simply a reversal of the cowgirl position mentioned above.

In this position, the man will still lie on his back with his legs in front of him. The woman will squat over his erect penis, but she’ll do so with her back facing toward him. She can then kneel or squat to ride his penis as slowly or as quickly as she’d like.

This position is another which gives the female control. There’s one other benefit, though, and that’s easy access to the clitoris.

In the reverse cowgirl position, both the woman and the man have easy access to the clit with a vibrator.

The man can reach around the woman, and she can guide the vibrator to her clit. He can then hold it in place for her as she grinds and rides her way to climax. Or the woman can place and hold the vibrator there herself.

The Doorway

It’s true that vibrators are often thought of as a female-only pleasure device. They can be used to pleasure your man, too! And with the doorway position, you can easily use a vibrator on your male partner.

To achieve the doorway position, the woman will stand with her back against the inside of a doorway. She will bend her knees slightly with her legs spread more than hip-width apart.

The man will then stand in front of her. He’ll lean back until his upper back makes contact with the door frame.

Once in position, the woman will place one of her legs on her partners shoulder. He’ll grab her by the hips, guide his penis toward her vagina, and then thrust forward to insert.

This position will create the perfect angle for the woman to reach under her raised leg. She can then use a vibrator to stimulate his balls, taint, or anus.

Advanced Techniques for Her and Him

Are you ready to go beyond the most basic of uses for a vibrator? Do you want to writhe with pleasure and experience the most intense orgasm of your life? Then let’s explore some more advanced techniques for using your vibrator.

Try Edging

There are many techniques for making your orgasm (or your partner’s) the most intense you’ve (they’ve) every experienced. One technique in particular is edging.

So, what is edging?

Edging is the practice of getting as close to an orgasm as possible (on the edge), and then pulling back right before climax. The process will be repeated numerous times until you finally go over the edge.

The resulting orgasm will be blindingly powerful and intense.

You can practice edging by yourself or with your partner, and you can do so with or without sex toys. But a vibrator adds an extra kick to your edging sessions.

Use a vibrator with multiple controls to reduce the intensity as you get closer to the edge. Or use a vibrator with just an on/off switch to go from “almost there” to “nothing at all.”

Are you into a bit of sadism? You can even use a vibrator to edge your partner!

Practice Cum Denial

If you want to take your sexual exploits to a new level, then move on from edging to full on cum denial.

You may be asking, “what is cum denial? And why would I want to prevent myself or my partner from cumming?”

There are various types of cum denial, but the type we’ll be referring to is basically next level edging.

For this type of cum denial, you’ll stimulate your partner with a variety of techniques – oral sex, manual stimulation, intercourse, sex toys, and more. And just like with edging, you’ll bring them to the brink and then stop before they can climax.

The main difference is that with edging, you or your partner will eventually cum during that session. With cum denial, that’s not so.

You’ll bring your partner to the brink over and over, but then stop entirely. This may happen again the next day, or even the next week. But every time, you’ll stop just short of them orgasming.

You and your partner can decide how long is too long to continue cum denial, but eventually you’ll allow your partner to cum.

And with all of that pent up sexual frustration released, their orgasm will be perhaps the most powerful they’ve ever experienced.

The tools you use for your cum denial sessions are up to you, though a vibrator is obviously a great addition.

Using a vibrator, you can bring your partner to the cliff again and again and again. And because you won’t be doing all of the work, you can also focus on other sensitive areas of your partner to drive them truly crazy.

You and your partner can even practice cum denial together. Use your own personal massage devices while together, or use them on each other.

Get Taken by Surprise

I mentioned above that certain vibrators (like egg vibrators) can be used discreetly in public. This is because they can be inserted in private, they stay in place, and they have remote controls.

If you want to up the ante, though, then give your vibrator’s remote to your partner.

Whether you’re out for dinner, taking a stroll through the park, or at the movies, your partner can use the small remote to control the intensity and speed of your vibrator.

This adds a naughty twist to just about any daily activity you take part in.

Conclusion

Did you think vibrators were just for lonely schoolgirls, or women who can’t be pleased by their partner? Think again!

While simple in design, a vibrator can deliver unlimited depths of pleasure. And with so many types to choose from, there’s one for everyone.

The great thing about vibrators is their versatility.

They can be used by men and women, solo or with a partner, and by beginners and experienced users alike.

Their use has many other benefits, too, aside from just pleasure.

When you use a vibrator, you’re more likely to know what you like and how you like it. This will translate to more intense sexual experiences with your partner.

So what are you waiting for? Bring a vibrator into the bedroom and you won’t regret it!

7 thoughts on “How to Use a Vibrator: The Ultimate Guide”

  1. I recently bought a vibrator for myself (one of those magic wands), can’t wait to try out the stuff from this article!

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  2. Hi Laura, I love your ideas so much, I wanted to know how to use a vibe to make my girl cum. The thing she liked best was cowgirl with the vibe on my ‘landing strip’. She started doing this crazy side to side grinding so it popped off her clit, after a few minutes she had the most intense climax ever. You’re incredible Laura!

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  3. Hey…cool tricks, can I add one? ok so I bought this remote controlled prostate massager for myself but it really didn’t do much, so I shared it with my girlfriend (don’t worry I sterilized it in boiling water first!). She was a little weirder out at first cos u know it’s like a gay sex toy, but then she tried it and it blew her mind! I’ve swear I’ve never see her get off like that. I think it’s b/c the prostate massager has two motors – one inside and one on the smaller bit. So my girl used it in her pussy and say the inner bit was right on her gspot and the outer bit was on her clit. Plus it’s small enough that I can get my dick inside her too – we were doing reverse cowgirl and she came so hard she started shaking!

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  4. Hi Laura, thanks so much for your tips, they really work! I wasn’t sure about using a vibrator with my girlfriend for the first time so I was looking for some tips. I tried using a rabbit vibe on her while I licked her clit and she loved it!

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    • Vibrators can sometimes be an intimidating addition to lovemaking, but they offer some excellent results!

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