Squirting can be an intense and exciting experience for both of you and knowing how to encourage it can really improve your sex life.
We'll show you the essential techniques, positions, and advanced tips to increase the chances of her squirting, making sure both of you enjoy the process and the outcome.
In this article, we'll cover:
What Is Squirting?
Squirting is the release of fluid from a woman's urethra during sexual stimulation or orgasm.
Squirting can be a powerful and intense experience for women, often accompanied by feelings of pleasure and release.
The fluid released during squirting is different from urine, but more on that a bit later.
Let's first uncover the best and most significant techniques you need to swimmingly make a girl squirt —no pun intended.
Techniques to Make Her Squirt
To successfully make a woman squirt, there are three main aspects you should focus on: physical stimulation, mental preparation, and emotional connection.
Let's start with the most commonly known aspect: the physical stimulation.
Technique 1: Use the Spiderman Grip
The Spiderman grip is a specific hand position that mimics Spiderman shooting his webs.
And yes, you can make a woman squirt using it, let me explain to you how.
To use this grip for G-spot stimulation, insert one or two fingers into the vagina with your palm facing up.
Common Myth
When using the Spiderman grip, you should aim to apply pressure to the front wall of the vagina.
This is where the G-spot is typically located, about 2-3 inches inside.
The G-spot can often be recognized by a slightly rougher texture compared to the rest of the vaginal wall.
Applying pressure here can help lead to squirting.
When pulling up, you want to lock your arm in so that you can create enough pressure to stimulate the G-Spot accordingly.
How much pressure you need to use will vary from woman to woman.
Start gently and gradually increase the pressure until you find the level that she responds to positively.
Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH
Some women may prefer a firmer touch, while others may find lighter pressure more pleasurable. Listen and adjust based on her comfort and pleasure to make the experience enjoyable and successful.
Lastly, pay attention to the squishy noise that will occur when she is close to squirting.
Technique 2: Get Her on Board Mentally
Turn on her mind, and her body will follow, as they say.
Squirting like great sex starts in the mind. I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but it's true.
If she's somewhere else mentally, she will not be there with you, in her body, feeling all the good emotions that she wants and needs to feel.
Solution
While she's up in la-la land in her head, she's probably worried about these two big questions, which could be the reason why she cannot squirt.
Many women worry that the fluid released during squirting might be pee.
Research isn't 100% clear whether or not it is pee. Technically, it is produced by the kidneys, comes from the bladder, and gets released through the urethra, which is similar to pee.
But the liquid released while squirting is usually odorless and clear. This leads to the assumption it is not pee.
In the heat of the moment, you don't want to get too scientific.
Some women may feel anxious about not being able to squirt.
You should reassure her that squirting isn't necessary for a great sexual experience and that it doesn't happen for everyone during every sexual experience.
Make sure she understands the goal is to have fun and feel good together, whether or not she squirts.
Encourage her to tell you what feels good and what doesn’t, and reassure her that there’s no need to meet any expectations.
Words You Can Say
Technique 3: Allow Her To Feel Safe
Masculinity and masculine are words that get tossed around, but what do they actually mean?
It's a serious question. Think about it.
Masculine Presence
Aside from the obvious reasons why these emotions are important, they also make squirting possible.
So how do you allow her feel safe using your masculine presence? Our female sexuality coach Isabel has some first-hand advice for you.
A Woman's Perspective..
On Allowing Her To Feel Safe So That She Squirts
Feeling safe as a woman, especially inside the bedroom, has two main elements to it:
Allowing her to relax and welcoming all her emotions. Here is how your masculine presence can facilitate both easily.
Step 1: Allow Her To Relax
There are a few things you can do as a man to help your partner to feel completely relaxed and get in the right mood to squirt.
Here is the secret trick: Show up as the man that you are, lead the situation, and guide her through the experience. See below what that could look like...
Practical Tips
You want her to stay in her body focusing on sensation and not stepping back into her head.
Step 2: Welcome Her Emotions
Words You Can Say
This kind of acceptance helps build trust and strengthens your connection, making her feel valued and safe to be herself with you.
Hot Tip
2 Easy Positions to Make Her Squirt
These sex positions are designed to help you more quickly and effortlessly stimulate the G-spot and increase the chances of her squirting.
Position 1: On Her Back
In this position, the woman lies on her back with her legs either bent at the knees or resting.
This position allows for easy access to the G-spot.
You have easy control over the intensity and angle of stimulation.
Laying on her back is comfortable and relaxing, allowing her to focus more on the sensations and less on physical effort.
It makes it easier for her to relax her pelvic floor muscles, which is important for achieving squirting.
It also has plenty of opportunities for deep, controlled stimulation, increasing the likelihood of a squirting orgasm.
Isabel
SEXUALITY COACH
Position 2: Standing
In the standing position, the woman can either stand facing her partner or turn away with the partner behind her.
- 1If facing away, she can lean forward slightly, perhaps with her hands resting on a wall, piece of furniture, or her partner for support.
- 2If facing her partner she can hold onto his shoulders or just rest her arms next to her body on each side. While stimulating her, he can now also hold her up more easily, pushing his flat hand or forearm against her chest, using the wall in her back as support.
Don't be afraid if she sinks down after a while and ends up on the ground shaking in a puddle of her own squirt.
I even turned one of my ex-partners into a living mop by grabbing her by her hips, lifting her up, and "mopping" the floor with her hair after she squirted multiple times.
I am not saying this is the ultimate goal, but remember, sex is fun, messy, and explorative.
Andrew's Advanced Squirting Tips
After coaching 1,000s of men and spending over a decade of my life learning from the best mentors worldwide, I've learned a thing or two.
I don't want to brag, but these tips will, without a doubt, help you make any girl squirt.
I. Use Sex Toys
Some of my favorite sex toys for making women squirt are a standard metal G-Spot wand, a vibrating G-Spot wand, and sometimes a few other toys to help her get in the mood and stay there.
The standard metal G-Spot wand is a firm, straight tool designed specifically to press firmly against the G-Spot, an area inside the front vaginal walls.
Especially with women who don't like vibration, I had huge success with the metal G-Spot wand.
The vibrating G-Spot wand works similarly to the metal wand but has the added feature of vibrations.
It’s shaped to hit the G-Spot easily, and the vibrations can offer different intensities and patterns.
This is especially good for women who like more intense sensations and might need a bit more stimulation to squirt. My #1 toy I recommend to my clients.
Besides these specific G-Spot tools, I also like to use other toys to help her relax and get in the mood.
These can include vibrators or suction devices for clitoral stimulation during foreplay or sensory items like feathers and massage oils.
Benefits
II. The Full Experience
To allow her to surrender to you fully combine squirting with an extended pussy massage.
Yes, you heard correctly - SQL is renowned for its infamous pussy massage.
Here is How
This type of massage helps women relax completely and become very aroused, which is important for squirting.
The gentle start with a pussy massage followed by more intense G-spot stimulation can make the whole experience enjoyable and empowering. It focuses entirely on her pleasure and response.
III. Penetrative Sex
Sometimes penetrative sex can allow a woman to squirt or even just experience an intense orgasm but I have to warn you, especially for beginners penetrating her with your cock to make her squirt isn't the easiest.
Here is How
Try hitting her G-Spot with your cock while playing with her clitoris manually or with a toy for extra stimulation.
When you start hearing the squishing noise, you are almost there; don't change anything!
Then pull out and allow her juices to splash out.
There might just be a little bit of fluid, but it depends on the intensity of her experience, the level of relaxation, and the hydration of her body.
Frequently Asked Questions
As a sex and relationship coach, I often receive questions about how to make a girl squirt. Here are some common questions I receive about squirting from men like you.
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