Making your partner squirt through intercourse (using your dick) is considered much harder than making her squirt using your fingers, so the first step is to make sure you can do it with your fingers first and that you’re comfortable with your partner before you go on to squirting via intercourse.
If you have a long term partner that that want to make squirt through intercourse I would recommend reading up about the ‘orgasmic potential massage’ because you will want to stack the odds in your favor. The orgasmic potential massage will help your partner become more easily orgasmic and squirt more quickly, with larger volumes, more often.
If you’re trying to make a girl squirt through intercourse that you’re not very familiar with then you’ve got your work cut out, but don’t worry, you’re about to learn everything you need to know, alternatively you may learn faster with videos. Us men have much less control using our penises rather than our fingers to make a woman squirt. If you have problems with ‘getting it up,’ ‘keeping it up’ or premature ejaculation then take it one step at a time and fix those problems first.
Foreplay and Psychology
I can’t overemphasize how important the psychological/ emotional realm is when helping a woman squirt. As men we always like to simplify things down to the physical technique and this is usually why most guys who have a made a girl squirt can only do so inconsistently. Real mastery in learning how to make a girl squirt comes from how well you can build trust, be non-judgmental, hold space and be her guiding masculine energy without being pushy. There’s already as much information as you need about this on the School Of Squirt website so I won’t go through it again here. Just let me reiterate not to underestimate how important it can be, and this is equally so for squirting during intercourse.
Choose your position carefully if you want to make your woman squirt during intercourse because the only way you will be able to do it is if your dick is stimulating her g-spot (ie the glans of your penis rubs past her g-spot as you thrust.) Length of the penis is considered unimportant in this respect because the g-spot is only a few inches inside the vagina. However penis girth can be important because it helps maintain good contact with the g-spot, and also helps to ‘seal’ the vagina creating alternating pressure and vacuum that’s helps turn the woman on and bring her to orgasm.
Stimulating the Clit
It’s important to choose a position where you can stimulate her clit whilst you thrust, if not you will have to get her to do it, or hold a vibrator against it during intercourse. Using a vibrator against the clit will probably give you the highest success rate. If you don’t have a vibrator use a wet thumb or finger and ping it back and forth lightly across the clit, building up to maximum speed as she reaches her climax. You will want to continue the clit stimulation even/especially when you pull out.
Pull Out At The Right Time
It’s funny when men complain to me that they can’t make their girlfriends squirt during intercourse and I find out that they had their dicks inside the vagina the whole time. Of course, just like the finger squirting technique, you will need to remove your penis as the pressure grows and she is about to squirt. Timing is everything at this point, you can read more about squirting timing here. The feeling of release and the vacuum that creates is what usually triggers the rhythmic squirting to take place, especially when used alongside vigorous clitoral stimulation. As you pull your penis out of her vagina try rubbing it quickly across her vaginal opening (with vibrator still placed in her clit) and watch those lovely female juices come squirting out.
We want to make girls squirt, especially with women we’ve just met it can be an exhilarating and noble challenge. However there is a problem. Often times articulating that this is your aim can be off-putting for the woman, it can make her tense-up and become outcome dependent, thereby reducing the likelihood of such an event happening.
This isn’t always the case because some women already know how to squirt and just need a bit of communication from you so there is some mutual understanding that you know what’s going on. With longer term partners making your mission clear won’t be such a problem. However a lot of the time it’s better to leave some things inarticulated whilst promoting an unspoken feeling of understanding.
In light of this many men have found it particularly effective to make women squirt during sex without that being their spoken intention. The woman may feel more comfortable and actually less able to control herself from holding back, which is a common problem when using the fingering technique if you don’t put her in a logical frame of mind. This is one of the downsides of the finger technique because if you’re working hard with your fingers that can sometimes leave her isolated which will reduce her horniness and engage her logical (the opposite of emotional/sexual) frame of mind reducing the chances of her squirting.
What I am saying in simple terms is that an effective way to make a new or short-term partner squirt is to do so during sex. This has proved especially effective with Tinder dates for some reason. So how in the world do we go about making this happen? It’s a good question especially because in general making girls squirt during sex is considerably harder than using the finger technique.
The first point is that you’ll need her to be highly aroused. This is essential because it will fill her Skene’s gland with the liquid that will become the female ejaculate. To make this technique consistent you will need at least 30-60 minutes of foreplay, or more if you have the time, up to the point where she is becoming highly frustrated that you’re not entering into intercourse with her.
When she is finally aching to be filled up with your penis then you will want to continue to build arousal during intercourse.
What are the best positions to make her squirt during sex?
This is a common question and rightly so because it is very important and can make a difference between normal sex and squirting sex. There are two main reasons for this. The first is that the angle of the penis must be right in order to stimulate the g-spot. This is why the finger technique is so useful because it allows us precision in the pressure, angle, position and rhythm that we use to stimulate her g-spot – which then leads to the female ejaculation.
The second point is that in most cases you will need an extra hand to be rubbing her clit whilst you have sex. This adds a second degree of stimulation that is essential for squirting. Of course if your partner is willing you can have her stimulate her own clit, either with a finger or a vibrator with plenty of lube, but this is unlikely to happen with a short-term partner and we are therefore limited in the positions that can be used.
1. The best position by far is doggy-style. Although the angle of the penis in this case is not ideal, because it’s easy to reach over and stimulate her clit with one hand whilst thrusting this has proved the most effective position.
In some cases, for those of us who aren’t highly dexterous it can be enough just to apply a light pressure to the clit without rubbing it whilst thrusting. However when you remove your penis – which we’ll get to in a bit then it will require something more vigorous.
2. The second best position is almost the opposite of doggy-style, in that the angle of the penis is much better because it will be hitting the g-spot but it’s a harder angle to rub her clit from.
This also has the added advantage in that you will be able to read her facial expressions and body language much more clearly and therefore make your ‘pull out’ timing much more in sync.
Pulling out is crucial and although it’s so obvious (your penis is stopping her squirt) it is often missed out or mis-timed. Timing is absolutely critical and you get better at timing it right with experience. Although that’s not to say she won’t squirt on the first time. One of the keys is to build up a steady rhythm, if it looks like she is enjoying it and it’s building to a climax try to simply maintain this pace. Sometimes disrupting the pattern can make her fall out-of-state so it’s better to keep it steady then try to increase it too fast and then lose control by cumming too soon or become fatigued.
Maintain a steadily growing pace and let the climax build over time. When you feel she is coming close to orgasm then increase the rate at which you rub her clit. Don’t peak too early with the clit rubbing otherwise it may become desensitized just as you need it most. The stimulation of her clitoris is like the final rockets getting her into outer space once your foreplay and penis have done the hard work of lift off. If you time the clit stimulation right she will be ready to blow.
All you need to do now is rapidly remove your penis. Often it will work best if she doesn’t know you’re going to do this. That means she won’t have time to contract her PC muscles and stop her Skene’s gland from squirting her lovely female ejaculate. Because many women find it embarrassing to squirt on the first time you are more likely to make it work if it’s done involuntarily.
As you pull out continue rubbing her clit, either with your finger or dick. Do this all quickly and without her realising what is happening. Please be emotionally sensitive when you do this. After all this is about giving her intense pleasure in a way that she may not have felt before. She may be emotionally vulnerable if she squirts everywhere without knowing what has really happened or that it was even possible. She may be embarrassed so this is a good point to build a strong emotional connection and help her become more of a sexually confident and self expressive woman.