Squirting And Spiritual Experiences: How To Make Sex Feel Like A Spiritual Awakening

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Squirting And Spiritual Experiences: How To Make Sex Feel Like A Spiritual Awakening

Marco and Ivy in squirting and spiritual experiences during intense full-body orgasm

Squirting and spiritual experiences might sound like an odd pair, but you have probably seen that moment when she is not just coming, she is completely gone. Up to 48% of women describe their most intense squirting releases as “transcendent, spiritual, or mystical.” Interesting? Keep reading to learn how to turn her physical release into something sacred, healing, and deeply bonding for both of you.

In this article, we'll cover:

  • The science behind squirting and spiritual experiences
  • Real women's experiences of ego-dissolving, mystical releases
  • Expert tips to make squirting feel sacred, not just physical

What Is A Spiritual Squirting Experience?

Ivy is having  anal sex with Marco, she is squirting showing squirting and spiritual experiences

A spiritual squirting experience is an intense orgasmic release that triggers altered states of consciousness, including loss of self, time distortion, feelings of oneness, and profound emotional or spiritual connection with her partner. Her nervous system is letting go so completely that she touches something beyond the physical.

What It Is NOT

  • Not about religion or believing in a specific god
  • Not about forcing or performing to reach a "spiritual" label
  • Not something you can demand or expect every time

What It Actually IS

  • A state of surrender where her brain stops monitoring and judging
  • A hormonal flood of oxytocin that creates bonding and safety
  • A physical release that often unlocks stored emotion or past tension
  • A moment of profound connection between two people

Now that we are clear what spiritual experiences are and what they aren’t, here the signs she is having a spiritual squirting experience.

  • Time distortion: She says "that was five minutes" when it has been thirty
  • Loss of self: She cannot form sentences or remember her own name for a moment
  • Uncontrollable emotion: Tears, laughter, or shaking that comes out of nowhere
  • Profound peace: She lies completely still afterwards, not moving, just breathing
  • Oneness with you: She says, "I felt like we were the same person."

A spiritual squirting experience happens in her brain and her heart when her body lets go completely. And once you understand that, you stop chasing the gush and start chasing the state. That is where the real magic lives, mate. Now, let us look at what science has to say about it.

What Science Says About Squirting And Spiritual Experiences

Marco and Ivy exploring scientific accounts and sites to learn about squirting and spiritual experience

You think it is just fluid. Her brain thinks she is having a mystical experience. Here is what the research found.

  • Study Evidence – Brain Overdrive Feels Like A Spiritual High
    A 2017 fMRI study showed orgasm lights up her reward, emotion, memory, and sensory centers all at once. That intense sexual experiences can affect brain function in ways that overlap with meditative states, making her sense of self quiet down completely.
  • Research Insight – Letting Go Mirrors Spiritual Surrender
    A systematic review found that women describe intense orgasms as "surrender," "ego-drop," or "loss of control." The peak of sexual energy is often compared to a 'death of the ego,' which is exactly what happens during deep meditation.
  • Hormonal Study – Oxytocin Creates Soul-Level Bonding
    Research on slow, intimate sexual practices like orgasmic meditation (OM) shows that intimate sex spikes oxytocin, the bonding hormone. Both sexual and spiritual experiences activate the limbic system, so the moment feels emotionally safe and sacred, not just physically intense.
  • Clinical Findings – The Body Links Orgasms To Spiritual Emotion
    A mixed-method study on women’s orgasmic experiences reported that many women describe powerful orgasms as emotionally overwhelming, cathartic, or even mystical. The intense pleasure and full-body surrender can lead to altered states of consciousness known as 'cosmic orgasms,' where release feels like a breakthrough, not just a contraction.
  • Neuroscience Evidence – Pleasure Turns Into Spiritual Meaning
    A 2021 brain-imaging study found that focused sexual stimulation activates the same regions as meditation. Participants reported profound spiritual experiences, including intense feelings of connectedness and unity, demonstrating that sex and presence create meaning.
  • Biological Evidence – The Sacred Part Is The Feeling, Not The Fluid
    A systematic review on spiritual experiences during sex found that what people call “mystical” has nothing to do with the physical mechanics and everything to do with the emotional, psychological, and consciousness shift happening in the moment.
  • Research Findings – Syncing With Your Partner Feels Like Oneness
    Research on partnered practices like orgasmic meditation found that couples often report feeling “merged,” “connected,” or “in sync,” and brain imaging shows overlapping activation patterns between partners during intimate stimulation.
  • Psychological Evidence – Emotional Release Feels Like A Breakthrough
    Squirting is associated with a release of emotions stored in the vagina, so stored shame, pressure, and fear are released right along with the fluid. A mixed-method study on women’s orgasmic experiences found that many describe powerful orgasms as cathartic, emotionally overwhelming, or “like something inside them finally let go.”

Science says her brain is not lying, mate. Sexual energy is a primordial superpower that can lead to spiritual awakening. Now, let us look at why women actually describe it that way.

What Do Women Say About Squirting As A Spiritual Experience? (Real Experiences)

Marco stimulates Ivy during squirting and spiritual experiences with oral stimulation

Science explains the how. Here is what women actually say about the spiritual side of squirting.

Experience #1 – “He made me see God… I was squirting”

Today I (29F) felt like he made me see GOD… I was squirting… experiencing every synapse… —r/DoesAnybodyEls

Shared by an anonymous user on Reddit (r/DoesAnybodyElse), describing a real, first-hand experience of an intense, full-body orgasm paired with squirting.

Experience #2 – “Ego-dissolving… connecting to something greater”

Squirting is an ego-dissolving force that connects them to something greater. —Glamour

From a feature compiling women’s experiences with prolonged and deeply intense squiring experience, highlighting the psychological and emotional depth behind them.

Experience #3 – “You might… thank god, see colors, or feel spiritual”

You may cry… see colors… thank god… [squirting can be] a physical, emotional, mental or spiritual experience. —Allure

From an expert-backed article explaining the wide spectrum of squirting responses, including spiritual and sensory reactions.

Experience #4 – “For a moment you enter the kingdom of God”

Squirting is like a drug high… for a brief moment you enter the kingdom of God. —Actualized

Shared on a forum, where users discuss the psychological and spiritual interpretation of peak sexual experiences.

These women are not exaggerating, mate, when they say they saw God or left their bodies, believe them. Now that you have heard what women actually feel, let us look at what ancient traditions have been saying about squirting and spiritual experiences for thousands of years.

What Ancient Traditions Say About Squirting And Spiritual Experiences

Marco stimulates Ivy during squirting and spiritual experiences with spiritual symbols

Squirting is not some new internet sex trend. Ancient cultures were already documenting female sexual fluids and treating them as powerful, meaningful, and connected to energy and vitality. They did not call it squirting, but they clearly described the same kind of release.

Connection #1 – Taoist Sexual Classics & Female Essence As Life Force

Ancient Chinese Taoist texts spoke openly about women releasing fluids during arousal and orgasm. Female fluids were seen as yin essence, a form of life force energy. A strong release signaled deep arousal, high vitality, and an active energetic exchange between partners.

Connection #2 – Kama Sutra & Female “Seed” As Essential To Full Pleasure

The Kama Sutra acknowledged that women produce their own sexual fluids during peak pleasure. Female release was treated as part of complete sexual union. Pleasure had to be mutual, and a woman’s arousal was central to the depth and quality of the experience.

Connection #3 – Ananga Ranga & Fluid Release As A Sign Of Peak Satisfaction

Visible fluid release was linked to deep arousal and satisfaction. It was used as a clear indicator that a woman had reached a high level of pleasure.

Connection #4 – Amrita In Tantra & Sexual Fluids As “Divine Nectar”

In Tantric philosophy, sexual fluids were symbolically tied to amrita, the nectar of immortality. Fluid and pleasure were associated with bliss and transcendence. The experience pointed beyond the physical into altered states of awareness and connection.

Connection #5 – The Yellow Emperor’s Classic of Internal Medicine & Fluids As A Sign Of Health & Energy

Ancient Chinese medicine approached female fluids from a health and balance perspective. Strong fluid response reflected balanced energy and vitality in the body. Reduced response was seen as a sign of imbalance or low internal energy.

Connection #6 – Taoist Bedchamber Arts & Stimulating Female Fluid Flow

These practices included instruction on how to build and sustain female arousal. Men were taught to stimulate women until fluids flowed freely, not as a goal but as a sign of activated energy. The focus was on circulation and depth, not rushing the experience.

Ancient traditions knew the fluid was never the point, the transcendent state she enters is the real sacred gift. Understanding the why is one thing. Here is how you actually make it happen, practical tips to help her turn physical release into a spiritual experience.

Andrew's Expert Tips On How To Make Squirting Feel More Spiritual (Not Just Physical)

Ivy experiencing intense pleasure during squirting and spiritual experiences

Most men focus on technique. Curl your fingers. Press here. Do the come-hither motion. That gets the fluid out. But if you want her to feel like she touched something sacred, you need to shift your approach from mechanic to mystic. Here is how.

Tip #1 – Speak To Her Flower Before You Touch It

Her G-spot is not just a cluster of nerves. Certain sacred sexuality teachings identify the G-spot as a 'gateway to the soul.' She has a lifetime of messages telling her that her vagina is dirty or shameful. You need to counter that before your fingers or penis ever go inside.

Do This

Before you touch her, place your hand on her lower belly. Say "this part of you is sacred. Thank you for letting me near it." That one sentence rewires the shame loop her grandmother, her church, and every purity culture message installed in her.

Tip #2 – Use The "Three Breaths" Rule Before Every Shift

When you change speed, angle, or intensity, her nervous system can interpret the shift as a threat. Squirting often requires a deep state of surrender, and sudden changes pull her out of that state.

Do This

Before you speed up, slow down, or go deeper, take three conscious breaths together without moving. Say "breathe with me. In... out." Then shift. The breaths act as a neural bridge, telling her body, "we are still safe, just changing gears."

Tip #3 – Press Her Sacrum, Not Just Her G-Spot

The sacrum (the flat bone at the base of her spine). Kundalini energy is said to rise from the base of the spine (sacrum) through the chakras. Pressing there while stimulating her front wall creates an energy circuit that most men completely ignore.

Do This

While your fingers work her G-spot from the front, press the heel of your other hand firmly against her sacrum. The pressure from both sides creates a "sandwich" effect that makes the urethral sponge swell faster, and the release feels less localized and more full-body.

Tip #4 – Pull Her Hair (Gentle) At The Moment Of Peak Fullness

Hair pulling, done correctly, activates the same nerve pathways as a deep tissue massage, releasing stored tension in her neck and scalp. That tension is often where she holds back.

Do This

When she says "I feel like I need to pee" (the signal that fluid is built up), gather her hair gently at the base of her skull and pull just enough to lift her head slightly. The slight sting releases endorphins and lowers her inhibition, making the release easier.

Tip #5 – Block Her Vision With A Silk Scarf

Vision is the primary sense that keeps her in "monitoring" mode. She is looking at the ceiling, at you, at the wet spot forming. That keeps her prefrontal cortex online.

Do This

Before you start, ask, "Would you like me to cover your eyes?" Use a silk scarf or soft fabric. Without visual input, her brain shifts to internal sensation, the same mechanism that makes sensory deprivation tanks produce mystical experiences.

Tip #6 – Place A Crystal (Or Any Cold Object) On Her Lower Belly

The contrast between internal heat and external cold creates a neurological pile-up that her brain cannot fully process. That overload is the gateway to altered states. In many spiritual traditions, there is a strong link between intense sexual experiences and expanded consciousness.

Do This

Rest a smooth stone, a chilled crystal, or even a cold spoon on her lower belly, just above her pubic bone, while you stimulate her. The cold draws blood to the surface, while your fingers generate heat deep inside. The opposing sensations force her brain to stop analyzing and start feeling.

Tip #7 – Moan Her Name On Her Out-Breath

Both sexual and spiritual experiences activate the limbic system, and the limbic system is highly responsive to vocal tone and the sound of her own name.

Do This

As she exhales, moan her name. Not a whisper. A low, guttural sound from your chest. Time it so the vibration of your voice lands right as her pelvic floor releases. She will associate the sound of her name with that moment of surrender, and eventually, just hearing you say it will trigger the response.

Tip #8 – After She Squirts, Press Your Palm To Her Tailbone For 60 Seconds

The release is not the end. It is the beginning of a window where her nervous system is wide open. Practices that involve sexual energy can help release stored emotions and traumas, and the 60 seconds after squirting is prime time for that release.

Do This

Immediately after she stops releasing fluid, place your palm flat on her tailbone. Apply steady, gentle pressure for a full 60 seconds. Do not rub. Do not move. Just press. That pressure activates the parasympathetic nervous system and helps her body integrate the release, preventing the emotional crash that sometimes follows.

Your technique gets her there physically and spiritually, but your words are the surefire way to unlock her spiritual surrender. Here is Isabel to run you through what women need to hear from you for that mind-blowing spiritual squirting release.

A Woman's Perspective..
On What Women Need From You So They Can Spiritually Surrender

from Isabel
CERTIFIED SEXOLOGIST
Isabel certified sexologist at SQL and SOS sharing a woman’s perspective on emotional connection and spiritual surrender

You can have the perfect technique, the right angle, the steady rhythm. But if she does not feel safe in her heart and her head, her body will not follow. Here is what she needs to hear from you before she can ever reach that transcendent place.

"There Is No Goal Tonight"

Performance anxiety is not just for men. She is worried about letting you down, about taking too long, about whether she can even do it. When you say, "There is no goal," you give her permission to just feel.

"You Are Not Going To Pee On Me"

When that "have to pee" sensation builds, her instinct is to clamp down and stop everything. She needs you to give her explicit permission to release.

"I've Got You. You Are Safe."

Spiritual surrender only happens when her nervous system feels completely safe. Not just physically safe, but emotionally safe. She needs to know that you will not judge her, laugh at her, or pull away.

"Do Not Hold Back. Let It Go."

Women are conditioned from childhood to hold. Hold their pee. Hold their emotions. Hold their pleasure. Hold their mess. Squirting requires the opposite. It requires release. She needs explicit permission to let go. Not just implied. Not just assumed. She needs to hear the words.

"I Will Handle The Mess. Do Not Think About It."

Even with a towel down, she is thinking about the wet spot, the sheets, the cleanup. That worry lives in the back of her mind, keeping her from fully surrendering. When you take the mess off her mental to-do list, you free up all her attention for pleasure.

"You Are Beautiful When You Let Go"

After she squirts, especially the first few times, she may feel vulnerable, embarrassed, or even ashamed. Your reaction in that moment seals her memory of the experience. She needs immediate reassurance that she did not disgust you, that you are not weirded out, that you still desire her.

Say these things before you touch her, while you are touching her, and after she releases. Your voice is her permission slip, gentleman. Now go be the man she can finally surrender to.


You have the words, the space, and the mindset. Let me clear up the questions still rattling around in your head before you overthink this whole thing.

Frequently Asked Questions

You have explored the scientific and sacred sides of squirting and spiritual experiences. Now, let me answer what is still on your mind.

Can squirting feel spiritual for her even if it happens by surprise?

Yes. In many spiritual traditions, there is a strong link between intense sexual experiences, including female ejaculation, and profound spiritual experiences of union, surrender, and expanded consciousness. Even a surprise release can trigger that same altered state because her body knows how to surrender even when her mind does not.

Is there a way for squirting to help her release past sexual shame or guilt?

Absolutely. Many women experience numbness or disconnection from their pleasure due to past trauma or societal conditioning, and practices that involve sexual energy can help release stored emotions and traumas. When she squirts in a safe, held space, the physical release often unlocks emotional blocks stored in her hips, thighs, and subconscious for years.

Can squirting make me feel spiritually connected too, or is it only for women?

You can feel it too, mate. Both sexual and spiritual experiences activate the limbic system, and when you are fully present, breathing with her, and holding space, your brain can enter a similar altered state. Sexual energy is considered a deep reservoir of life force, and men who learn to channel it instead of just dumping it report feeling expanded, connected, and even transcendent.

What is the difference between female ejaculation and regular squirting, and does one feel more spiritual than the other?

The liquid released during female ejaculation is primarily produced by the urethral sponge near the G-spot and contains prostate-specific antigen (PSA). Regular squirting is a larger volume of fluid from the bladder, but spiritually speaking, neither is "better." What matters is the state of surrender she reaches, not the chemistry of what comes out.

Some traditions call squirting and other forms of female ejaculate "sacred waters." Is there something spiritually significant about it?

It is not just poetry. In Tantric traditions, the fluid expelled during squirting is called Amrita or kalas and is seen as a manifestation of a woman's sexual energy. Taoist texts describe the mystical and healthful properties of female ejaculate, linking it to health, transformation, and enlightenment. When you treat her fluid as sacred waters instead of something to clean up, you shift the entire energy of the experience.

When I watch videos of squirting online, it looks so easy and dramatic. Why does real life feel so different?

Those porn videos are often edited, exaggerated, or performed using essential cookies and similar technologies that track what keeps you watching, not what is real. Companies use ads and meta products to push a fantasy, but sexual energy is considered a deep reservoir of life force, and real surrender takes time, not a scripted 30-second clip on your browser.

How do I filter out the fake performances on social media and focus on creating a genuine spiritual squirting experience with my partner?

Stop scrolling through morning videos intended to sell you something, and start having real talk with your partner about what feels good. Workshops on sacred squirting often emphasize the importance of surrendering to the experience, not performing for a camera, and when you get familiar with her actual responses, you will create a safer experience than any curated world of optional cookies and targeted improve content algorithms could ever offer.

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Andrew Mioch

Andrew Mioch is a certified sexologist and one of the world’s leading sex coaches and best-selling author after spending 10 years learning from experts all over the world.

Andrew has personally coached over 5,000 men. His expertise is regularly sought in publications such as Men's Health, Medium, and Cosmopolitan Magazine.

These days, Andrew spends most of his time coaching clients privately and also through SQL’s online Mastery Academy.


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