Tit wank, breast sex, boob bang, mammary intercourse… whatever you call it, it’s pretty great. Thanks to porn, most men and women are aware of the classic titty fuck, and many fantasize about trying it out.
A recent study found that
64% of men and 41% of women have fantasized about breast sex — clearly, those curves are on a lot of minds.
If you’re one of them, you’re in the right place. We’ve put together this ultimate guide to booby sex with everything you need to know to add this hot act to your sexual repertoire.
In this article, we'll cover:
Why Titty Fuck? The Benefits
First off, let’s talk about why breast sex is even worth talking about. Sure, it looks great on porn, but is it actually worth doing? After all, it might not be as satisfying or stimulating as vaginal, anal, or even oral sex.
But here’s the thing — it doesn’t need to be.
Titty fucking isn’t supposed to be the main event, and it’s not something you do every day. It’s better to think of it as a top-tier, mix-it-up activity. You can use it to spice things up and add some variety to your usual bedroom rodeo.
Here are some of the main reasons it’s such a great mix-it-up activity:
Sure, titty fucking has its perks — but if you're just mashing and dashing, you're doing her (and yourself) dirty. Girls know when it feels good, and trust me, her breasts deserve more than a quick squeeze-and-go!
The Basics of Breast Sex (Because Her Breasts Deserve More Than a Drive-By Squeeze!)
This isn’t rocket science.
Simple, right?
Of course, if you’ve never done it before, it still might sound a little intimidating. If you’re nervous, I’d recommend easing yourself into it.
Now that we’ve covered the basics let’s move on to the more advanced tips and tricks.
Andrew’s Top 10 Expert Tips for Titty Fucking (Because the Best Way to Her Heart Is Through Her Cleavage!)
There’s a big difference between a good tit wank and a bad one. To help you get it right, here are some expert tips.
Tip #1 - The Build-Up Matters
Diving straight into a tit fuck without any preamble isn’t the most natural thing in the world. If you’ve never done it before, she might not be expecting it. Don’t get me wrong, spontaneity is great, but it can also come across a little awkward if it’s completely out of the blue.
What You Do Instead
A great way to kick things off?
If she throws in some dirty talk — asking what you want her to do next — you both know exactly where this is going.
When it feels natural, guide your dick between her breasts and let her take it from there.
Tip #2 - Finish In Style
The finish is where things go from hot to scorching. One of the best perks of titty fucking? You’re lined up perfectly to unleash on her chest or face — and for most guys, that’s the money shot.
If she’s down, it’s like the grand finale of a fireworks show, but aimed straight at her cleavage.
Want to take it up a notch?
Just make sure she’s as into it as you are, because the best finishes are the ones where everyone’s wrecked in the best way possible.
Tip #3 - Decide Whose In Control
Think about who you’d prefer to be in control of the action ahead of time as it will help you to choose an appropriate position and work out who’s on top.
We’ve explained both of these positions in more detail below.
Tip #4 - Wetter is Better
Unlike the vagina, the breasts aren’t self-lubricating. As such, it’s important to add some lube into the equation. If you don’t, there might be too much friction for it to be enjoyable. And trust me, nobody wants a friction burn on their junk.
There are lots of different kinds of lubes on the market that are great for mammary intercourse; we’ll explore some of the best ones later on in this article.
Other Options
Another alternative is to save breast sex for when you’re in the bathtub or the shower. Not only will the water take care of the lube for you, but it’s also super hot.
Tip #5 - Consider Keeping the Bra On
One of the biggest drawbacks of this technique is that she needs to hold her breasts together. Not only does this get tiring for her arms, but it also takes up both of her hands.
What To Do Instead
It’ll hold her boobs together while still leaving room for you to slide in under it and thrust. That way, she can go hands-free and use them to explore your body (or hers).
Of course, keeping the bra on can also make things a little physically trickier, and for some men, it’s a little less erotic than going topless, but it’s an option.
Tip #6 - Eye contact is Important
Eye contact is like a shot of pure erotic adrenaline — it amps up the heat and keeps the arousal flowing.
Want to take it up another notch?
Tip #7 - Incorporate Some Sex Toys For Her
It’s no secret that a tit wank is more of a treat for him than for her. The focus is on your pleasure, but there’s not much stimulation available for her.
To make things worse, she can’t even use her hands to pleasure herself as she’ll be using them to hold her breasts together.
Guys, make sure she gets hers, too, by incorporating some sex toys into the mix or using your hands to add some spice for her.
For example, you could place a vibrator under her or have her wear a pair of vibrating panties that you’re in control of. That way, you both get to enjoy the experience equally.
Tip #8 - Don’t Neglect the Nipples
This is another tip for you. Her nipples are erogenous zones, so you can give a little back by giving them some love.
While you’re holding her breasts, maybe lightly pinch them, rub them, blow some cold air, or draw circles around them – whatever works best for your partner.
Check out our guide to nipple play for more advice on this.
Tip #9 - Use Your Mouth
Titty fucking isn’t all about the titties, despite what the name might suggest – it’s important to use your mouth too.
As you’re rubbing or thrusting, try using your tongue or lips to stimulate her nipples.
Trust me; it’ll really ramp up the pleasure for her.
Tip #10 - Move On When The Time’s Right
And finally, don’t feel like you have to stick with booby sex right through to the very end, because that’s going to get old fast.
Breast sex will rarely be enough to make her climax, and will almost certainly not be enough to give her an orgasm, so treat it like foreplay and move on to the good stuff when you’ve had enough.
Bonus Tip - Try Out Titty Fuck Toys
Think of it like this — if big boobs are your favorite thing and you wanna make your titty fucking work feel less like “work” and more like a sexy, slippery dream, titty fuck toys got your back.
Those toys come in different sizes and shapes to accommodate your personal preferences. Sex dolls are another high-quality alternative to traditional titty fuck toys.
Large bouncy breasts and endless practice in any great position you can think of, and one thing’s for sure: this is hands-on training that can pay off… for both of you.
You’ve got the tips, you’ve got the technique — now let’s talk about positions. Because knowing how to titty fuck is one thing, but knowing where to put her and how to move? That’s where the real magic (and mind-blowing pleasure) happens!
Best Titty Fuck Positions to Maximize Pleasure and Connection
If you thought the sex position possibilities of breast sex were limited, think again. There are actually plenty of exciting positions you can experiment with to mix things up. Here are some of my favorites.
Position #1 - Chest Straddle (Cock to Mouth)
Technique:
Why It’s Great
It’s also the perfect position for a facial (not the one that makes her skin glow).
Position #2 - Reverse Chest Straddle (Ass to Mouth)
Technique:
Make it hotter: As you thrust, your butt should push back over her face. If you’re into anilingus, she can use her tongue to explore your asshole when this happens. You can also reach down to play with her clit or finger her vagina or use your hands to play with her nipples.
Why It’s Great
This is something that a lot of other positions lack. It also gives the women a great view of their partners’ rear as they’re thrusting and puts them in the perfect position for a little anilingus.
Unlike the position above, you won’t be facing towards her face, so it’s not a great setup for a facial, but it’s a nice position to finish with a body shot over her stomach if that’s something she’s into.
Position #3 - Kneeling Tit Wank
Technique:
Make it hotter: As she's stroking you with her boobs, keep the tip of your penis in her mouth and she can gently suck on it or draw circles with her tongue. Meet her eyes with your lustful gaze.
Why It’s Great
She gets to be the boss, and you get the thrill of being at her mercy. Perfect for a little playful teasing and there’s something insanely hot about letting her take charge.
Another bonus? This position is super similar to a classic blowjob setup. That means it’s ridiculously easy to switch between titty fucking and oral.
If you two are just starting out with this, it’s a smooth, no-pressure way to ease into it.
Position #4 - Lying Tit Wank
Technique:
Why It’s Great
Sure, you’re not facing each other directly, so there’s less opportunity for eye contact — but that’s not always a bad thing.
If locking eyes while she’s working those breasts feels a bit too intense or awkward, this position takes off the pressure. It’s just you, her, and those soft, warm curves giving you exactly what you need.
Position #5 - Sideways Tit Fuck
Technique:
Why It’s Great
Plus, because you’re on your side, gravity’s got your back, helping keep her breasts pressed together for that tighter, juicier squeeze.
And here’s the kicker: since she only needs one hand to keep things snug, her other hand is free to wander. She can stroke your body, tease your balls, or give herself some love and rub her clit.
Basically, this position is like a two-for-one pleasure package — and who doesn’t love a good deal?
Position #6 - Modified 69
Technique:
Pro Tip: If she’s a bit taller, this lines up perfectly. If she’s shorter, no worries — she just lifts her breasts a little to keep things flowing smoothly.
Why It’s Great
It’s like the universe decided to mash up two of the hottest acts into one mind-blowing position.
Her boobs are working you, her mouth joins in when she wants to drive you wild, and your tongue’s busy sending her over the edge. Seriously, what more could you ask for?
Position #7 - Modified Upside-Down Facefuck Position
Technique:
Why It’s Great
Also, because you're standing, you also get a great view of the action and can see her entire body. Plus, since she’s handling the squeeze, your hands are free to do, well, whatever you want — grip her hips for even more thrusting power, rub her clit, or slip a finger inside to hit her G-spot.
It’s a little more intense than some of the positions above and definitely not for the faint of heart. That being said, it can be an incredible way for experimental partners to turn the heat up a notch.
Seven positions, endless pleasure — whether you're straddling, kneeling, or going upside-down, her breasts are now your favorite playground. So grab those curves and get to work… because those tits aren’t going to fuck themselves!
You’ve nailed the positions — now let’s talk about making those tits slicker than a greased-up Slip ‘N Slide. Time for the best lube for booby sex!
A Woman's Perspective..
On Best Lube for Booby Sex
Alright, guys, let’s talk lube. Because while you might think you’re ready to go, if those puppies aren’t moistened up, things are gonna get rough — and not in the fun way.
Lube makes sure your shaft glides through her cleavage like it’s on a silky water slide, not a sandpaper track. The slicker, the better. Here’s the lowdown:
Pro Tip
No Lube? No Problem...Sort Of... If you’re out of lube, spit works too. But be ready to keep reapplying. It’s like a DIY slip ‘n slide — fun, but high maintenance.
So, lube up, slide in, and make sure those tits get the smooth, friction-free ride they deserve!
Alright, you’ve got the moves, the lube, and the slippery fun — but I know your brain’s still buzzing with questions. Don’t worry, I’ve got answers. Time to tackle those Frequently Asked Questions and clear up any lingering mysteries!
Frequently Asked Questions
Before we wrap up, here are answers to some commonly asked questions about breast sex.
Thanks to porn, a lot of men and women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to body shapes. Titty fucking might look great with pornstars using their perky, surgically-enhanced DD cups, but, in reality, most women don’t have those same assets to work with.
The good news is women don’t need giant knockers to enjoy this activity. Whatever her cup size is, she can find a position to get him off. The trick is adapting the technique to fit her equipment.
If she has smaller breasts, like a B/C cup or below, she'll probably not going to be able to completely ‘trap’ your penis between them. In that case, it’s more about rubbing them and her nipples against your penis while kissing the tip than squeezing it between them.
She might also want to rely a little more on her mouth. Mix up rubbing her breasts on you with some oral, and she is still going to drive you crazy. Don’t let insecurity stop her or yourself!
Nipples are erogenous zones, which means they have hundreds of sensitive nerve endings, and it can cause some stimulation for her when you touch them.
Plus, it’s not all about the sensation either— it’s about the idea too. Some women find the thought of tit fucking, and the knowledge of how much their partner enjoys it, arousing. As such, it can be a great foreplay activity to get her excited before moving on to full penetrative sex.
Most people don't feel the need to use a condom for breast sex. Since there is no direct penetration of the vagina or anus involved, which obviously means, you can’t impregnate someone that way either.
The risk of contracting STIs is much lower. However, some people enjoy the sensation and lubrication they provide.
The risk of contracting STIs is much lower. As a non-penetrative sex act, there’s no direct contact between mucous membranes and bodily fluids, which is how many STIs are spread.
You may still be at risk of certain STIs that are spread through skin-to-skin contact but, overall, mammary intercourse is a relatively safe alternative to penetrative sex.
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