20 Tips to Make Your Valentine’s Day Sex Extraordinary

Valentine’s Day sex? You can go through the motions… or you can make it a leg-shaking, mind-blowing, “holy f, let’s do that again” kind of night. If you’re gonna do it, do it right—here are 20 expert-backed tips to make it so hot that Cupid himself would need a cold shower.

Tip #1 - Prime Her Mind—Tease Her All Day Long with Sexting

Foreplay starts in her head, not in the bedroom. Tease her with sexts that make her squirm in her seat—explicit details, whispered voice notes, or a filthy challenge that keeps her aching for you all day.

Tip #2 - Turn Undressing Into the Ultimate Ritual of Desire

Most guys strip her down like they’re opening a bag of chips. Slow. The f*ck. Down. Every inch of skin that’s revealed should feel like a promise. Kiss her hip before sliding her panties off. Pull her dress down just enough to see her shiver. Make undressing its own kind of foreplay.

Tip #3 - Play Naughty Foreplay Games That Leave Her Begging for More

Forget Monopoly. The best games are the ones where the only rule is that someone ends up naked. Strip poker, sexy truth or dare, or a round of “Guess where I’m touching you” while she’s blindfolded.

Tip #4 - Add Excitement to Your Sex Life With Role-Play

Your partner isn’t just your partner tonight. She’s the mysterious woman at the bar you’ve never met, and you’re the stranger who can’t stop staring. Or maybe she’s the naughty student, and you’re the teacher making her stay late.

Tip #5 - Watch Porn Together (If She’s Into It)

Porn isn’t just something you watch alone in the dark—it can be a turn-on, a conversation starter, and a serious game-changer for your sex life. The trick? Make it about her. Ask what kind of erotica she’s into—maybe it’s not videos, but audio porn, written fantasies, or a sexy scene from a movie long ago that got her all hot and bothered.

Tip #6 - Explore a New Sex Location for an Unforgettable Experience (Don’t Just Stick to a Hotel Room)

Hotel room? Classic. Car? Been there. Ever fucked on a tennis court or up against the balcony of a restaurant overlooking the world? Changing the scene changes the dynamic—the thrill of breaking the rules, the tension of almost getting caught? Absolutely electrifying.

Tip #7 - Explore Gentle BDSM

BDSM isn’t about pain—it’s about power, control, and trust. Try blindfolding her, restraining her wrists, or teasing her with hot wax before you let her have what she’s been waiting for.

Tip #8 - Use Eye Contact to Deepen the Passion

Most people avoid eye contact during sex because it’s too intense. That’s exactly why you should hold it. Look at her while you kiss her. Watch her as she unravels.

Tip #9 - Talk Dirty and Make Her Lose Control

Dirty talk isn’t just about what you say—it’s how you say it. Whisper it low, make her wait, and let your words hit like a slow burn. Paint the scene, tease what’s coming, and watch her squirm. The dirtier, the better.

Tip #10 - Bring Her to Multiple Orgasms and Blow Her Mind

One orgasm? Cute. Two? That’s when her legs start shaking. The trick? Don’t stop after the first. Keep the momentum going—use your fingers, your mouth, or a sex toy. Make her ride the aftershocks straight into the next wave.

Tip #11 - Master the Art of Making Her Squirt

Squirting isn’t a myth—it’s a pressure, angle, and patience game. The go-to move? Find her G-spot, use deep, rhythmic pressure, and don’t stop when she gets close. She’s not about to pee—it’s a sign you’re doing it right.

Tip #12 - Explore Food & Temperature Play to Keep It Spicy

Chocolate-covered strawberries? LOL! Try melted chocolate, warm honey, an ice cube trailing down her spine. Food play isn’t just fun, it’s foreplay that indulges every sense. Want her to melt in your hands? Drip something warm on her skin, then cool it down with your tongue.

Tip #13 - Switch Up Positions to Keep Her Guessing

Tip #14 - Soothe Her With an Erotic Massage She’ll Never Forget

After an insane night, the best way to celebrate? Skin-to-skin, slow, teasing strokes, and a promise that you’re not done yet. Start at her neck, make her wait before you even get close to where she wants you. Because the best massages end with her begging and not relaxing.

Tip #15 - Channel Willy Wonka—Splash Your Bodies With Chocolate (and Maybe Bring Some Sex Toys)

Forget flowers—melted chocolate dripped over her nipples is the real gift. Cover her in sweetness, make her wait, then lick it off inch by inch. If it doesn’t end with both of you sticky and satisfied? You’re doing it wrong.

Tip #16 - Turn Each Other On by Masturbating Together

Most people masturbate alone. Watching each other? Next-level turn-on. Let her see exactly how you like to be touched, then watch her do the same. It’s not just hot—it’s an instant chemistry booster.

Tip #17 - Explore Anal Play for a New Level of Pleasure

If she’s interested? Go slow, use lots of lube, and let her take control. Anal is all about comfort and trust—if she’s tense, it’s not happening. Start with fingers, move at her pace, and make sure she’s into it before you dive in.

Tip #18 - Try a Threesome to Take Things to the Next Level

A threesome is not just a go-to fantasy—it can be a relationship-changing experience. But only if everyone involved is on board. Talk about it before the evening starts, set boundaries, and make it about fun, not pressure.

Tip #19 - Shoot a Porn or a Sexy Photoshoot

Forget selfies—grab a camera, dim the lights, and turn your bedroom into a set. Whether it’s a full video or just some sexy shots to send next week, knowing you’re both on film? Instant turn-on.

Tip #20 - End With Gratitude and Connection

The best lovers? Don’t just f*ck and roll over. Hold her, whisper in her ear, tell her how good she felt. Because sex isn’t just about getting off—it’s about feeling wanted, seen, and worshipped.

If you’re gonna have Valentine’s Day sex, make it fucking count. Now? Go turn these tips into the best night of your sex life.

Oops, but before that, let’s talk execution. Whether you’re feeling romantic, filthy, or downright sinful, these V-Day sex positions will have her seeing hearts... and stars.

Andrew’s Favorite Sex Positions for Valentine’s Day Sex

Legend has it that the ancient Romans celebrated Lupercalia, a festival of fertility, feasting, and, well… a whole lot of f*ing. Fast forward to today, and Valentine’s Day is still about pleasure, passion, and giving Cupid a reason to blush. So, if you’re gonna honor tradition, do it in a position that would make the gods jealous.

Position #1 – For New Couples—The Side Spooning

New couple? You don’t need acrobatics—just skin, heat, and the kind of slow, teasing strokes that make her whimper. Side Spooning is that lazy-but-dirty, let’s-do-it-again-in-the-morning sex. It’s deep, close, and perfect for whispering the filthiest things in her ear while grinding so slow it’s borderline cruel.

Position #2 – For the Conservative Ones—Modified Missionary

Missionary isn’t boring. You are. Done right, it’s pure, unfiltered, “I wanna ruin you” sex. This is deep eye contact, hands gripping legs, slow grinding that turns into desperate thrusts until she’s clenching the sheets.

Position #3 – For Those Prioritizing Intimacy—Yab Yum

This isn’t just sex—this is soul-merging, breath-stealing, “we might cry after” sex. Yab Yum is a full-body connection, chest to chest, lips brushing, deep, slow grinding that melts time itself.

Position #4 – For Those Looking to Spice Things Up—The Waterfall

Ever wanted to bend reality (and her spine) in the best way possible? The Waterfall flips the usual dynamics—blood rushes to your head, gravity does its thing, and she gets strokes so deep she might accidentally say your name like a prayer.

Position #5 – For Adventurous Couples—Standing Shower Love

There’s hot, steamy sex, and then there’s “we might break the shower rod” sex. If you haven’t lifted her against the tiles, water dripping down both of you, tongues tangled in a desperate, soaking-wet kiss—what are you waiting for?

Sex on Valentine’s Day should feel like a movie scene that’s too hot for TV. Whether you’re making love, humping like animals, or trying a position that should come with a warning label, the goal is the same—make it unforgettable.

But here’s the real question—does Valentine’s Day sex need to happen at all? Some say it’s a must, others call it overrated. So, what do women really think? Let’s find out.

Valentine’s Day comes with a lot of expectations. The flowers, the gifts, the perfectly planned date—and, of course, sex. But is sex on V-Day a passionate tradition or just an obligation wrapped in red lace?

As a woman, I know how this night can feel like a test of romance, desire, and whether the relationship is “good” or “bad” based on what happens between the sheets. But here’s the thing—real intimacy isn’t measured in orgasms.

What’s It Gonna Be, and What Really Matters Most to Women?

So, is sex a must on Valentine’s Day? No. But should it feel like an opportunity for deep, uninhibited pleasure if both partners are in the mood? Absolutely.

Because here’s what really matters—feeling wanted, cherished, and adored, whether that leads to sex or not. Some women crave the hot, passionate “I need you now” kind of sex, while others just want to curl up in their partner’s arms and feel like the most loved woman in the world. The best gift you can give your partner? The freedom to want it—not the expectation that she should.

Sex or no sex, the real magic of Valentine’s Day isn’t in what happens between the sheets—it’s in how deeply seen and desired you make her feel. If you get that part right? She won’t just want you on Valentine’s Day—she’ll crave you all year long.

But hey, that still leaves a few burning questions, right? Let’s clear up the biggest Valentine’s Day sex dilemmas once and for all.

Frequently Asked Questions

Valentine’s Day comes with expectations, pressure, and a million questions about what’s “normal.” Let’s cut through the noise and get straight to the answers that actually matter.

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