78 Top Secret Places to Have Sex

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78 Top Secret Places to Have Sex

Things getting a bit boring in the bedroom? Maybe a new location is what you need.

I'll walk you through some of the most thrilling and sexy places where you can unleash your fantasies and bring them to life.

So, grab your partner and get ready for one of the most exciting date nights you've ever had.

In this article, we'll cover:

  • Sexy and fun places inside and outside your home
  • Public locations and outdoor adventures
  • Step-by-Step and practical tips to not get caught

The Best Places To Have Sex

Routine leads to boredom. Sometimes, going out of your comfort zone and having sex in a new, exotic, or just unique location will;

  • Revamp your sex life
  • Spice up your relationship
  • Bring the spark back to a long-term relationship

I'll start first with locations within your home for easy access. Then, we'll work our way up to more spicy, thrilling locations.

After each location, I'll give you a few ideas for sex positions and toss in a some tips and techniques to protect your privacy and (depending on your local laws) stay on law enforcement's good side.

Unconventional and Risqué Settings At Home

To have sex in a new location, you don't always have to step outside your front door.

There are a few places that come to mind when I think of sex in exciting places that are probably right around the corner or arm's reach from you right now.

In Front of a Camera (Make a Porno)

Creating your own erotic film is a lot of fun for the simple reason that watching yourself later on adds a bit of voyeurism, which a lot of couples enjoy.

Inspirations

  • Start it off filming each other masturbating and getting yourself close 10 times before you step into more exquisite topics.
  • Missionary position works well with a tripod-mounted camera at the foot of the bed.
  • Doggy Style and Standing Doggy are also good to give the camera full view of you and her 
  • Watch your naughty video together and get turned on again.

On Money 

Did you ever think of swimming in money? How about making love on it instead.

The unconventional setting of lying on paper money adds fantasy and luxury. It feels both decadent and naughty.

Inspirations

  • Pull out some cash and spread those bills all over your bed
  • Get down with your partner on top of you in Cowgirl
  • The sweatier your session gets the better the money will stick to your bodies, give her a little spank and attach a note to her booty

In Front of a Window

Sex in front of the window adds a layer of excitement and daring because you're visible to the outside yet protected by the thin barrier of the glass.

You can quickly pull the curtains closed if any of your neighbors get a little too close for comfort. 

Inspirations:

  • Stand facing the window while your partner gives you oral. Switch it up and have her stand in front of the window with you in front between her legs, eating her out.

 

In Front of a Webcam 

Adding an audience sometimes is just as fun or even more fun than having sex in a public location because you can always pull the plug if things get a bit too much for either of you — a luxury you don't have in a public restroom, for example.

Knowing that strangers are watching is what makes this exciting.

Inspirations:

  • Have sex in Cowgirl or Reversed Cowgirl to give your audience the best view.
  • Sit facing each other, wrapping her legs around you, ensuring the camera captures both of you.
 

In Front of a Mirror

Seeing yourselves in action is incredibly hot.

It's like being both the viewer and the performer, which doubles the excitement.

Inspirations:

  • Sit on a chair facing the mirror with your partner in your lap.
 

On Silk or Satin Sheets

Silk or satin sheets are easy enough to obtain yet fancy and 'different' enough to be exciting and new.

Inspirations:

  • Give your partner some oral action while she lies on the satin sheets.
  • Add some more sensation play into the mix using feathers, ice cubes or wax.
 

On Rose Petals

Rose petals are romantic, which is why she will enjoy this one! Put the rose petals down on the bed and invite her into the room.

Inspirations:

  • Missionary on a bed of petals works wonders.
  • Spooning among the petals is also a nice, romantic touch. 
 

On a Waterbed

The motion of a waterbed paired with your own body movements is unlike anything you ever tried. You'll love this one because you can't predict the movements of the bed.

Inspirations:

  • Try Missionary for something easy.
  • Go for Butterfly with yourself standing on the floor while your partner lies on the edge of the moving bed.
 

On a Soft Rug in Front of a Fireplace

Combining the warmth of a fireplace with the comfort of a soft rug makes for a cozy and romantic setting. The crackling fire can also be incredibly romantic.

Inspirations:

  • Sit facing each other with legs intertwined in Yab Yum or Lotus sex position, moving together by the fire.
 

On a Piano

Most women have seen that scene in Pretty Woman where she walks in on her partner playing the piano, and then the camera pans away...

Why not recreate that scene for your partner in your own home?

Inspirations:

  • Have your partner sit on the piano bench, pressed against the keys. Stand in front of her, pressing her body deeper against the keys so that with every movement, a different key is struck.
 

Trying new and daring spots at home breaks the routine.

It can create more excitement by making the usual places feel new and adventurous.

These settings challenge your established norm, and each new spot also brings about a new experience, keeping your connection strong.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Sensual Sanctuaries at Home

Getting dirty at home once again doesn't have to be complicated. Try these hot and steamy at-home sex ideas next.

Bathroom

The bathroom can cater to different hot sex positions.

There's too much to cover here about bathroom sex; check out all the different shower sex positions you can try out.

Inspirations

  • Have a bath together and make gentle love while she sits on top of you.
  • Bent her over the sink for support in a standing doggy position.
  • In the shower, lean on the wall for stability under the water while she wraps one leg around your hips.

Living Room

Here, you'll find sofas, cushions, pillows, and soft carpets — all of which can be used for great sex.

This is the perfect place for sex because the living room has both comfort and flexibility.

Inspirations

  • Toss all the pillows on the floor, get down, and go wild while wrestling on top of the carpet and pillows.
  • Sit on the sofa, grab your partner, and make love to her in Lap Dance sex position.
  • Push her onto the sofa, get on your knees, and give her oral sex.
  • Get comfy on the sofas and masturbate while watching each other.

Against the Front Door

The thrill of potentially being seen by someone outside while staying hidden is what makes this location fun.

It's also one that's great for spontaneous quickies.

Inspirations:

  • Stand and press your partner against the door, and make love in a standing sex position.
  • Press your partner against the door, get down on your knees, and give oral sex. Or, switch roles and become the receiver. 
 

Laundry Room

The laundry room, particularly the top of the washing machine, feels fantastic!

Don't forget that the soft laundry pile means there is a second place to make love afterward.

Inspirations:

  • Sit your partner on the machine during the spin cycle so she can enjoy the vibrations.
  • Lift your partner up and onto the machine, standing in front, and give her a pussy massage.
  • Toss her onto the pile of clothes on the floor and spontaneously make love in missionary.
 

Kitchen

The sturdy counters and tables are practical surfaces for sex because sometimes the worst thing about trying new sex positions is that they're uncomfortable or not easy to navigate.

Inspirations:

  • Lift your partner onto the counter and have penetrative sex.
  • Bend her over the kitchen island into Doggy Style.
  • Get creative with some aphrodisiac food, melt some dark chocolate on her breasts and lick it off, or feed her strawberries.
 

Walk-In Closet

The walk-in closet has an enclosed space, which means no distractions while you're in the middle of making hot, passionate love to each other.

Inspirations:

  • Stick to standing sex positions here, such as Standing Doggy or even CEO.
  • Toss a few clothes onto the floor and use them as a makeshift blanket.
  • Family dinner at your place? Go have a quickie in your closet before conversations get heated.
 

Rooftop & Balcony

The outdoor setting, combined with the height and view, is an experience.

This location is good for couples who want to try out exhibitionism.

Inspirations:

  • Stand and use the railing for support, enjoying the view.
  • Bring a blanket and make love on the floor while you lie under the stars.
 

Backyard

You don't have to venture far to have great sex among nature, not if you have a backyard.

A backyard or porch lets you connect with the outdoors and "connect" with your partner at the same time.

Inspirations:

  • Use a lounge chair or porch swing during sex. 
  • Go outside at night and use the darkness and stars to keep you hidden from the neighbors.
  • Put a blanket onto the ground, find a spot behind a tree, and have sex there during the daytime.
 

Garage

The garage has seclusion and solid setups like a workbench or all the boxes with Christmas decorations.

Since you're surrounded by tools, why not surprise your partner by wearing just your tool belt and nothing else?

Inspirations:

  • Make love in the Butterfly position on top of a spare set of car wheels.
  • Bent her over your workbench while entering her in Doggy Style.
 

Treehouse

Do you have a treehouse for your kids? Maybe a bouncy house, ball pit, or trampoline instead?

These places (kids removed, of course) make for fun places to try out some new sex positions.

Inspirations:

  • Set up a surprise picnic inside a treehouse and star gaze together while giving each other head.
  • Go out at night and have sex after bouncing on the trampoline together.
  • Early birds? Sneak out before sunrise and start the day with some lovemaking; the gentle movements of a bouncy house will add some extra spice to it.
 

Most women enjoy exploring new places within their home because of the convenience, it allows them to be spontaneous and stress-free while also feeling safe and secure.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Unexpected Encounters For Sport Enthusiasts

These next locations are a bit more risky... Sports fans, be aware!

There's another pair of balls flying towards you.

Tennis Court

Make better use of your local country club by using its tennis court for more than its intended use.

Enjoy the fresh air and the freedom of the outdoors while having the novelty of such an unconventional setting.

Inspirations

  • Use the tennis net for support while enjoying each other in standing doggy.
  • After a steamy match, pull her in close, whisper sweet nothings into her ear while inserting a finger under her tennis skirt.
  • For more coverage, go into the locker room (tips below) or wait until the court clears out at night.

Locker Room

This is another location where you'll use it better by going beyond its intended use.

Find a mixed-gender locker room or wait until the male or female one clears out at the end of the day.

Then, capitalize on the adrenaline from your workout.

Inspirations

  • Press her against the lockers while making her squirt.
  • Lean against a locker for a standing position.
  • Use the bench for Lap Dance or another seated sex position.

Golf Course

A golf course has plenty of secluded spots.

You can take advantage of the vast open spaces during less busy times.

Your partner will love the romantic and picturesque surroundings.

Inspirations:

  • Find a secluded spot behind a hill or in a bunker for privacy.
  • Use the golf cart for a hot lovemaking session.
 

Swimming Pool

The swimming pool is perfect when you want something quick and spontaneous.

Plus, you're already half-naked anyway. Might as well remove the last remaining bits of clothing that stand between you and her.

Inspirations:

  • Float on a pool lounger together.
  • Pick her up, use the water to help, and hold her in the Caveman sex position.
  • Test how long you can hold your breath and go down on her underwater.
 

Yoga Studio

A yoga studio is probably one of her favorite places.

Now, it can be yours, too, when you use the room once everyone has had a chance to go home.

Inspirations:

  • Do some naked yoga together, and spice it up by "supporting" each other in more advanced poses.
  • Have sex in Yab Yum, Lotus, or Doggy on top of her yoga mat.
 

Gym

The gym combines physical activity with some additional "extracurricular" activities.

Do yourself a favor...

Wait until you hear the door shut once the last remaining other person has gone home, and well... I think you know what comes next.

Inspirations:

  • Use a workout bench for various seated positions.
  • Or try the TRX suspension bands to get a bit kinkier.
 

Like men, women have a release of endorphins after a workout.

She's already in a good mood from exercising, and her heart is racing. This is the perfect time to initiate sex.

There's another benefit, too. Women love seeing their men hot, sweaty, and masculine.

You might not know it, but you're most likely very attractive at that moment.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Urban Excitement Spots

Now, you're going to love these next few locations. The ante is upped ever so slightly.

You'll find easy-to-access locations, ranging from super seduced to very risky.

Dressing Room

It's the perfect location because everyone knows where to find at least one.

Plus, it's ideal since it is in a public place, yet hidden behind a curtain.

Inspirations

  • Go for a sneaky blow or hand job when trying on that new pair of pants.
  • Have sex in only standing positions that make efficient use of the limited space.
  • Combine your quickie with some sexy lingerie shopping. She will remember the passion you shared whenever she wears her new sexy set in the future.

Library

It's an unusual date night idea, but here's what you're going to do.

Find your closest library, say you just want to "check something out," and go in together.


Find a little quiet, secluded space between the bookshelves or hidden corners.

Just be careful not to get caught. 

Inspirations

  • Those old massive library ladders will provide you with a sexy view if she wears a skirt. Tell her to remove her panties before climbing up. Do you dare eat her out from there?
  • Have a passionate make-out session.
  • Ask her to hand you a book from the bottom shelves while giving you a blowjob.
  • Are there some secluded sitting areas or desks? Use them for a quickie in a seated position.

Public Restroom

Public restrooms might seem unorthodox, but at least you don't have to worry about the secrecy and the need for discretion because you're already hidden from view.

Also, public restrooms are everywhere, ranging from super clean and hygienic to more raunchy locations.

There's no excuse, then, not to try having sex here at least once.

Inspirations:

  • Opt for quick, quiet positions that minimize noise, such as Standing Doggy. 
  • Go into the family bathroom and use the counter for support if it's sturdy enough.
 

Movie Theater

Tell her you're going on a date night. It's just the movies, she'll think.

This is when you buy seats to the back row, sit down, and let the movie play for a bit.

Then, use the cover of darkness and privacy of the back rows to have sex in a semi-public location.

Inspirations:

  • Reach down and start moving your hand between her skirt or dress. Insert a vibrating egg with remote control for some extra spice.
  • Lift her hand and guide it towards yourself for a spontaneous handjob to make use of the limited space.
 

Pool Table

Wait until closing, then head back into the pool hall for some after-hours fun.

Inspirations:

  • Lean over the table for a standing sex position. 
  • Press her against the table and slightly grab her hair by the roots in Doggy Style.
 

Photo Booth

A photo booth is an unexpected choice. If you can find one, use a completely closed curtain for a bit more cover.

Inspirations:

  • Coordinate sex positions or flashing body parts with the camera’s flash to take home a souvenir when you're done. 
 

Ferris Wheel

Make it a date and take her to your local fair.

Once there, make a case for why you two should ride the Ferris wheel for the 100th time.

When the ride reaches the top, you go in for a little more than wholesome fun.

Inspirations:

  • Reach down and caress her thigh, exposing her underwear and legs.
  • Lean in for passionate kissing while you guide her hand towards your pants.
 

Museum

Go into one of the quiet galleries or hidden corners and appreciate the art while appreciating her beautiful body.

Inspirations:

  • Find a secluded gallery or corner and reach into her pants. Guide her hands over your body while you passionately kiss and then go down for oral sex. 
  • Keep your clothing and go for only clothed sexual activities just in case someone walks in on you.
 

In a Planetarium

A planetarium is a dark, expansive space under a simulated starry night, perfect for a romantic date. 

For your next date night, go here instead of your usual location. When you arrive, head to the darkest corner you can find.

Inspirations:

  • In your dark corner, go down on your partner. 
  • Press her against your chest in a romantic embrace, and then guide her hand down your pants.
 

Sex in any of these locations is one of the more risky options on this list.

The risk of someone running in on you at any moment, is what creates the thrill and excitement which is a major turn-on for most couples.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

On The Road Again

Planning a road trip or short journey soon?

If yes, now is the time to be extra spontaneous, pull over on the side of the road, and get a little freaky.

Car Sex

Pull over your car. If you're in a rural area, kiss on top of the vehicle's hood before transitioning into sex.

If you're in a more urban spot, find the most secluded area possible and stay in the vehicle. Cover the windows, and enjoy.

Inspirations

  • Pull into a nearby parking lot, open your pants, pull up her skirt, and enjoy while she grinds on top of your lap on the front seat.
  • Move to the backseat for more privacy and comfort, try sitting or laying sex positions to fit the space.
  • During heavy traffic, reach over and touch her inner thighs, and slowly move your fingers further upward to her entrance. 
  • In a car wash, use the privacy and cover of soap suds.
  • At a drive-in movie, take advantage of the dark setting.

Alternatives to Cars

If you don't have a car available, try those alternatives for some fun together.

Inspirations

  • On a motorcycle: The vibration during your ride combined with the adrenaline kick can turn her on, she might also enjoy the openness and the rush of the wind. Try stopping at a scenic overlook for a quickie.
  • On a tractor: Typically in a more rural setting, gives a rustic and unconventional location that’s both exciting and private. Take advantage of the slow pace and private farmland.

Wild and Natural

For the next group of locations, get ready to get wild somewhere far away from an urban setting...

Fiking = Fucking & Hiking

'Fiking' combines the beauty of nature with sex.

She will appreciate the spontaneity and the adventurous aspect of blending hiking with sex. 

Inspirations

  • Find a secluded spot off the trail for a private, scenic encounter in the woods or next to a waterfall.
  • Push her against a tree while going downtown.
  • Hide in the bushes for some private action with a light breeze.
  • Make a fire and set up a romantic spot together. Spend the night under the stars and let your fantasy run wild.

Camping

Camping offers various options, from the coziness of a tent to the sway of a hammock. You can enjoy the tranquility of nature, and she will appreciate the romantic setting under the stars or inside a tent.

Inspirations:

  • In a tent or inside a sleeping bag, use the confined space to stay close and warm.
  • A hammock has a unique rocking motion she might enjoy.
  • On an air mattress for comfort in the rugged outdoors. 
 

Public Park

A public park or botanical gardens feature beautiful, lush settings for romantic escapades. You can discover hidden spots among the trees or secluded benches.

Inspirations:

  • Look for hidden alcoves or behind large bushes for privacy.
  • Use a remote bench during less busy hours. 
 

In a Maze

Navigating a maze, wandering through a cornfield, lying in a field of wildflowers, or playing in a pile of leaves can be fun and sensual.

Inspirations:

  • In a maze, find a hidden corner. Pull her slip aside and give her a pussy massage she'll never forget. 
  • Use the soft ground in a field of flowers for something more romantic. Cover her entire body with flowers, complimenting her with every flower you place onto her body.
 

Vineyard

A vineyard combines the elegance of cultivated rows of grapes with the possibility of seclusion among the vines.

Inspirations:

  • Walk between the rows where you’re hidden from casual view for more privacy. 
  • Have a blanket with you for a more romantic setting and wait for the sun to set, then start with a passionate love-making session.
 

Cave 

Exploring a cave or finding shelter under an overhang can be the perfect location for mind-blowing sex due to the rugged, natural setting.

Inspirations:

  • Bring on your neandertal vibes, pull down your pants and enjoy her going down on you while you are holding onto the cave walls for support. 
  • After an intense hike, head to a cave. Bring a blanket and use it to have sex in the position of your choice.
 

There's something very primal about sex in nature.

Most women love the feeling of being free and wild, connecting with nature in an exhilarating and intimate way.

Plus, the added risk and adventure makes it even more exciting for both of you.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Wet & Dirty Outdoors

Get wet and dirty on your next beach walk, adventure near a lake, or any time you find yourself near a body of water. 

Midnight Skinny Dipping

The beach, with its soft sand and the sound of the waves, has a lot to offer.

Pick a secluded part of the beach, on a private island, or during a midnight skinny-dipping session.

Inspirations

  • On the beach, find a secluded spot for privacy, especially under the moonlight. Laying positions like missionary or seated positions like YabYum or Lotus are great options on shore.
  • Make sure to face away from the water to not get the salty waves inside your eyes.
  • Inside the water pick her up and grind her up and down, making sure the water covers your lower body. Use the movement of the water to your advantage. And keep an eye on other people who might swim past.

Middle of the Ocean 

The gentle rocking of the waves is both exciting and novel. Whether you are on a fishing boat, a yacht, or a surfboard, there are many options to have some fun in the open water.

Inspirations

  • On a jet ski, find a secluded area to make love. 
  • On a cruise ship, find a less frequented part of the deck during off-hours for more privacy.

On A River

A canoe or paddle boat is a quiet place to make love.

You can enjoy the gentle movement of the boat and the surrounding natural beauty, and she will love the tranquility and the simplicity of being away from the shore.

Inspirations:

  • Take your paddle boat or canoe far out, turn towards your partner, and passionately kiss her before reaching down towards her legs.
  • Get a bit more creative with positions and have your partner sit on your lap, without tipping the boat, to have sex.
 

Houseboat

A houseboat offers the comforts of home combined with the beauty of being on the water.

Inspirations:

  • Utilize the deck for a scenic view as you make love under the stars. 
 

Near The Lake 

You can relax in the serenity of the lakeside while enjoying your time together.

Inspirations:

  • Use the blanket for comfort as you enjoy the view and each other’s company. 
  • Grind her on top of you in Cowgirl or switch it up and be the Cowboy.
 

Waterfall

Being by or under a waterfall offers a thrilling experience with its powerful sound and spray, and she will love the impressive beauty and energy of the setting.

Inspirations:

  • Near the waterfall, use the rocks for support in a standing or seated position.
  • Under the waterfall make sure to have a stable stand and use the splashing water as your hideout.
 

Hot Springs

Hot springs offer a naturally warm, relaxing, and romantic setting, where you can enjoy the soothing waters and she will appreciate the secluded, spa-like atmosphere that adds luxury to your outdoor adventure.

Inspirations:

  • Find a private corner of the hot springs where you can soak and enjoy the warmth together.
  • Sitting positions like Lapdance are great here.
 

Outdoor Shower

An outdoor shower merges the freshness of being outdoors with the invigorating feel of the shower.

Inspirations:

  • Use the shower walls for support in a standing position.
  • Give each other a soapy massage with a happy end.
 

In The Rain

Dancing in the rain is on most women's bucket list, so why not combine it with a little naughtiness?

Inspirations:

  • During the next rainstorm, go outside, lie on the wet ground, and make love after a little dance and makeout session.
  • Be playful, jump from puddle to puddle, while teasing each other with passionate kisses and touches. Who gives in first and craves for more?
 

Outdoor sex is something that can awaken your primal instincts and anmalistc side.

It brings us back to nature and adds an element of freedom and relaxation. It can also have a calming and grounding impact on your nervous system.

The new and unpredictable environment stimulates the brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine, which enhances pleasure and excitement.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Jet Setter Seduction

Everyone loves going on holiday. Now, pair going on holiday with exciting sex, and you have a recipe for good fun.

These locations are going to offer you a unique chance to get down and dirty in some very spicy and novel locations.

Mile High Club 

Joining the Mile High Club offers a thrilling and memorable adventure with discreet sex on a plane, appreciated for its daring.

Inspirations

  • Cover her with a blanket and enjoy a BJ up in the air.
  • Sneak into the toilet when everyone else is asleep on your flight. Prioritize standing positions like Ballet Dancer or CEO.
  • An airport lounge provides a relaxed yet exciting setting during waiting periods. Find a secluded corner or a less crowded area.

Hotel Room

A hotel room offers a versatile setting for intimate adventures, giving you privacy and a break from the ordinary.

Inspirations:

  • Use the comfort and privacy of your hotel room to experiment with new positions.
  • Go out onto the hotel balcony, have sex in Doggy Style, or press against the glass for Standing Doggy.
 

Back of a Taxi 

The back of a taxi or a limo has a compact, private space that’s perfect for spontaneous sex.

Inspirations:

  • In a taxi, wait for a traffic jam or a night drive for more privacy.
  • In a limo, use the spacious backseat and tinted windows for a more luxurious and private experience.
 

Restaurant or Bar

You can find dark corners or secluded booths, and she will enjoy the thrill of being in a bustling place yet sharing a secret moment.

Inspirations:

  • Spice things up by telling her to take off her panties under the table next time you are at a restaurant. 
  • Add a vibrating remote-controlled egg into the mix when you go out for a dinner date night.
 

Sauna,  Spa, or Jacuzzi

A sauna, spa, or jacuzzi blends relaxation with hot sex, offering a steamy and sensual atmosphere.

Inspirations:

  • Get a hotel room with a private jacuzzi, take a hot shower together, and then move into the jacuzzi after you've warmed up there. 
  • Hire an area of your local sauna and
 

Women love it when their men plan holidays and trips away together.

Now, when you then go the extra mile to make it romantic by initiating sex in a location she would not normally expect, it makes her feel desired even more.

It also makes you look like Superman for putting in all the effort.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Office Escapades

Most of us are stuck in the office these days.

Might as well make the most of it and get a little freaky with your partner during one of your lunch breaks.

On Your Desk

The classic fantasy of an office rendezvous on your desk involves the excitement of breaking the usual professional routine. 

Inspirations

  • Create a little roleplay inviting your "secretary" into the office to go over some reports together.
  • Get a blowjob under the desk while on a business call.
  • Clear the desk for a spacious, sturdy surface ideal for various positions and the ultimate quickie during your lunch break.
  • Try after hours for added privacy and to minimize the risk of interruptions.

Copy Machine

An encounter on the copy machine adds a playful twist to office sex.

Inspirations:

  • Use the copy machine as a sturdy platform for sitting or leaning positions.
  • Don't forget to press "copy" a few times while having fun to ensure a sexy souvenir for later.
 

Elevator

The confined space of an elevator offers a quick and exhilarating opportunity for intimacy.

Inspirations:

  • Wait for a moment when the elevator is least likely to be used, like late evenings.
  • Press the stop button on an older elevator for a moment of privacy, but be mindful of security cameras.
 

Janitor's Closet

The janitor's closet in an office building provides a hidden, if unconventional, spot for a quick rendezvous.

Inspirations:

  • Ensure the closet is secluded and lockable for privacy. 
  • Use shelves or sturdy storage units for support if needed.
 

Extreme Adventure Zones

These next tips aren't for everyone, to say the least.

However, if you find yourself in one of these locations, take advantage of it and get down and dirty with your partner.

Lifeguard Stand

A lifeguard stands on an empty beach, which has a great vantage point and a fun, casual setting.

Wait for a time when the beach is less crowded, like early morning or late evening.

Use the height of the stand for a unique perspective on your surroundings.

Inspirations

  • Sit on the lifeguard stand while she is giving you head after you went for a swim together.
  • Use a seated sex position like Lap Dance to make use of the space.
  • Or have her sitting on the stand, spreading her legs while you eat her out.

Lighthouse

A lighthouse is both romantic and secluded, often with breathtaking views.

Inspirations:

  • Climb to the top for a panoramic view that adds to the romance. Have a passionate makeout session while the sun sets.
  • Use the stairs for the staircase position or hold onto the handle for stability when you slip your cock inside her.
 

Greenhouse

A greenhouse offers a lush and vibrant setting with plants and flowers, making it an overwhelming sensory experience.

You can enjoy the warmth and natural beauty while she appreciates the exotic, fragrant environment.

Inspirations:

  • Find a secluded corner among the foliage for privacy
  • Bring a blanket, put it on the ground, and enjoy making love there.
 

Boathouse

A boathouse combines the charm of a waterfront setting with the privacy of an enclosed space.

Use the interior space for privacy or the deck to view the water.

Inspirations:

  • Use the interior space for privacy or the deck to view the water. 
 

Dark Cemetery

A dark cemetery might not be for everyone, but it is a quiet and private setting for those who dare.

Choose a secluded area away from frequently visited graves.

Also, remember to be respectful. Be discreet and minimize noise.

Inspirations:

  • Bring a blanket, put it on the ground somewhere nearby just for the two of you
 

In A Chapel

Sex in a chapel adds a forbidden twist to intimacy, blending sanctity with seduction.

Ensure the chapel is private and not in use for services.

Be mindful of the setting and keep the encounter respectful and discreet.

Inspirations:

  • Go into a small backroom and use a desk, chair, or whatever else is free for you and your partner.
  • Get some privacy inside the confessional and share your naugthiest sins.
 

Abandoned Buildings

Abandoned buildings are edgy and adventurous settings.

Ensure the building is safe to enter and relatively free of hazards.

Inspirations:

  • Use your coat or jacket as a blanket and make a comfortable space for you and your partner.
  • Explore the building and get creative some abandoned buildings offer spectacular environments for some sexy moments.
 

A Crowded Party / Festival

The energy and anonymity of a crowded party or festival is the perfect cover for public sex.

Inspirations:

  • Find a hidden spot away from the main activity, like behind tents or in less trafficked areas.
  • Use the noise and the crowd as a cover to minimize the visibility of your actions.
  • Depending on the event there might even be a bedroom available or some cozy workshop spaces that you can get down and dirty in.
  • Open for a threesome, events can be a great opportunity to find a third person who is down for an adventure.
 

Although a bit unorthodox, many people like sex in unusual or unique locations such as these because it's unexpected.

As humans, we like surprises that are fun it's the element of the taboo that makes it thrilling and creates that secret bond between us.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Exotic Places for Sex

These unique, once-in-a-lifetime locations aren't only good for photos and souvenirs but for having passionate sex with the woman you care about.

Ski Lift

Pick a secluded lift where you won't be interrupted. Time it for the longest, most private part of the ride.

Some lifts have tinted windows which helps you creating a bit more privacy.

Inspirations

  • Chairlifts are a bit tricky but a great handjob or heavy makeout session is definitely doable even with the narrow seats and security bar.
  • Gondola lifts are much more comfy and allow for more variations. Try out the Lap Dance position or ask your partner to kneel down and give you head.

Desert

The vast, open desert has a sense of freedom and adventure.

Choose a time when the temperature is comfortable, like early morning or late evening.

Find a secluded spot with soft sand to lay a blanket or towels.

Inspirations:

  • Use the Spooning position on the blanket.
  • Missionary, Cowgirl, and other simple sex positions are also good choices. 
 

Safari

Being on a safari is already an exciting location for sex, so make it even more so by having sex on one.

Make sure you're in a safe, private area, perhaps inside a tent or vehicle.

Inspirations:

  • Sit face-to-face in the back seat of the vehicle in a seated sex position. 
  • Make love inside a tent facing the wilderness.
 

Hot Air Balloon

A hot air balloon ride is romantic. Make sure you're with a pilot who can give you privacy, however.

Inspirations:

  • The basket may be small, so use standing or semi-seated positions.
  • Standing while holding onto the basket's edge for a view of your surroundings.
 

Exclusive Erotic Playgrounds

Lastly, try sex in one of these locations.

They are perfect for open-minded couples who want to try something a bit more exciting in a location that's actually designed for sex.

Dungeon

Dungeons are a controlled environment for BDSM. Use the provided equipment, like benches, chains, whips, or toys. 

Inspirations

  • Get kinky and try out a spanking bench with your partner. 
  • Make full use of the toy box and use props like blindfolds or handcuffs.
  • Give impact play a chance and use whips, flogger, cains or a paddle.
  • Restrain her or attach a spreader bar before you go down on her making her cum over and over again.

Sex Party

Sex parties are a lively yet safe and usually more private environment. Usually with rooms set up in different moods and for different interests.

Make sure you are clear on your relationship agreements before you enter the space.

Ensure you're comfortable and consensual with all participants. Find a spot to enjoy the atmosphere.

Inspirations:

  • Pick a playroom and use the toys and props there. Ask the host or other participants for support if you are unsure on how to use them.
  • Find a bedroom and have sex in your position of choice while others watching.
  • Masturbate together while observing others.
  • Invite a third person into the room with you.
 

Swingers Club

Swingers clubs are designed to be a safe space for exploring with others.

Communicate boundaries clearly and only do what you’re comfortable with. Get a feeling for the people first, and see whether or not you get curious to interact with anyone.

Inspirations:

  • Explore with your partner the feeling of having sex in front of others.
  • If you feel shy at first, go into a more private area, makeout, touch each other and transition into having sex when you are more comfortable.
  • Stay in a public area and let others watch or sit by and watch others.
 

Strip Club

A strip club might not come to mind.

However, it’s a dark environment designed for sex and other activities.

Choose a private room or a secluded booth to enjoy your time together without interruptions.

Inspirations:

  • Have your partner give you a striptease first.
  • Go into a private booth and have sex in the chair. 
 

Pay-By-Hour Hotel

Pay-by-hour hotels are what you need for spontaneous sex.

Inspirations:

  • Have sex in any position on the bed with plenty of pillows for support.
  • Make the most of the room's amenities, like the mirror, to watch yourselves.
 

These locations are not for everyone, but if you are curious, definitely try them out.

The benefits are clearly that they’re designed for play, so the mood is set right from the start.

I like to call it a safe container of chaos in which you can explore and test your own limits.

You also have access to props and other things you might not own at home which can spice up your adventure even more.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Andrew's Expert Tips To Find Exciting New Places To Have Sex

When the bedroom becomes too predictable and you crave excitement, venturing outside the usual setting and finding new places to have sex can be just what you need to get things moving in the right direction.

I've been in your shoes. Many years ago, I came up with this list of top-secret tips I usually only give to my clients. I'm about to give them to you.

This is how you should get freaky in a public location. Be advised! This might not be legal in your area, so check carefully first. All good? Then do this!

Tip #1 - How To Find The Best Place For You And Your Partner

To find the best place, watch for cameras and people, and seek out areas that muffle sound well.

List all the places you’ve fantasized about getting freaky at.

What are the positions you’d like to try there?

Get your partner to write her ideas down, too. Go into the depths of your imagination and your fantasies, then act on them.

Be discreet. Otherwise, instead of a day of fun, you might have to explain to a lovely officer just how you ended up in his custody.

Tip #2 - How To Prepare and Set This Up

Setting up requires some preparation. The goal here is to have fun, not get caught!

Therefore, read and follow each step carefully. 

  • Know the local laws about public decency to avoid issues.
  • Choose a time and place with your partner. 
  • Check that the place is empty or semi-empty around this time. 
  • Go to the secluded location.
  • Keep a low profile.
  • Stay aware of your environment at all times.
  • Be discreet to avoid drawing attention.
  • Confirm that your partner is comfortable and excited about the plan.

There's no need to go all the way. Enjoy the thrill itself; full intercourse isn’t necessary for a memorable experience. 

Tip #3 - How To Ensure Privacy in A Public Place?

Sometimes, there is no way around it.

Someone might be nearby within eye or ear distance of what you two love birds are up to.

In that case, you might need one or multiple of these tricks to save the day.

  • Bring and use a blanket.
  • Keep your clothes on to be able to pretend nothing happened if you're caught. 
  • Constantly watch for interruptions or passersby. Don't get too lost in the moment. 

Let me know if the comments if you used any of these techniques and what the result was.

Remember, half of it is technique, and the other half is the location.

The wrong location could be disastrous, so do yourself a favor.

Stick to the locations on this list. Learn your local laws. Practice discretion.

Frequently Asked Questions

All your burning hot questions about sex in unique, exotic, and risky locations with answers right here!

Is it illegal to have sex in a public place?

Yes, having sex in public is illegal in most places. You can face charges like public indecency or lewd conduct, leading to fines or even jail.

What is the appeal of having sex in unconventional places?

People enjoy sex in unusual places because it feels exciting and risky. The thrill of possibly getting caught or doing something forbidden adds to the excitement.

Are there specific public places that are considered more taboo for having sex?

Yes, places like religious buildings, public parks during the day, and busy restrooms are especially taboo and risky for public sex.

How can I communicate with my partner about exploring public sex fantasies?

Start by having a talk with your partner in a private setting. Share your interests and listen to her feelings.

What are the risks of having sex in public places?

There are risks such as legal troubles like arrest for public indecency, exposure to bystanders, or embarrassment.

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Andrew Mioch

Andrew Mioch is one of the world’s leading sex coaches and best-selling author after spending 10 years learning from experts all over the world.

Currently pursuing his Master’s Degree in Sexology, Andrew has personally coached over 5,000 men. His expertise is regularly sought in publications such as Men's Health, Medium, and Cosmopolitan Magazine.

These days, Andy spends most of his time coaching clients privately and also through SQL’s online Mastery Academy.


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