16 Foreplay Games You’ve Never Tried—But Definitely Want to Tonight!

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16 Foreplay Games You’ve Never Tried—But Definitely Want to Tonight!

You’re all set for a steamy night, candles lit, music on, but then you both end up staring at each other like, “So… now what?”

Turns out, 65% of couples feel exactly the same way, craving more adventure in their foreplay. In a study of 152 couples, both men and women reported wanting foreplay to last longer than it usually does. The kicker? 68% of women underestimated how much their partners actually craved more.

Well, you’re in luck! Here are 16 foreplay games that’ll have you both laughing, blushing, and begging for more.

In this article, we'll cover:

  • Learn different sexy games you can play to spice up foreplay
  • Explore fun and expert-vetted ways to make foreplay exciting.
  • Find tips to deepen pleasure and connection.

Foreplay Games—The What, Why, and How of Turning Up the Heat

Foreplay games aren’t just some warm-up act but the main event. It’s all about cranking up the tension, teasing her, and making her crave what’s next.

Forget boring routines—let’s make this fun.

What Exactly Are Foreplay Games?

Foreplay games are the gateway to building sexual tension, activating her responsive desire, and creating an arousal arc that amplifies the whole experience.

We're talking about sensory play, teasing scenarios, and erotic challenges that draw out her pleasure without rushing into penetration.

It’s about tapping into her psychological arousal, using anticipation to activate dopamine pathways, making her crave what's next.

Why Foreplay Games Totally Work (And Why You Should Try Them)

Here’s the deal: foreplay games aren’t some lame party trick. They’re magic for building intimacy and excitement. By the time you get to the main event, the room's practically on fire. No fumbling, no rush—just two people totally in the moment.

Pros

  • Cranks Up the Anticipation: The teasing and buildup create a tension that makes everything way more explosive when it finally happens.
  • Kills the Routine: Same old routine? Nah. Foreplay games keep things fresh. You’re not just going through the motions; you’re playing.
  • Boosts Connection: You’ll learn more about what turns her on through these games. You both explore, connect, and discover each other naturally.

Cons

  • Might Feel Weird at First: Yep, the first time can feel awkward. But that’s the whole point—to shake things up. Laugh it off and keep going.
  • Needs the Right Moment: Sometimes, it’s game night. Sometimes, she’s just not in the mood. Read the room. If she’s tired, save the game for another time.

How to Play Foreplay Games the Right Way (Yes, There’s a Right Way)

Let’s get one thing straight: you’ve got to approach this the right way. It’s not complicated, but there are a few things you need to keep in mind so it doesn’t end up feeling awkward or forced.

  • Make Sure She’s Down for It. Consent is sexy. You don’t want to throw something at her that catches her off guard. Test the waters, like, “Hey, wanna try something fun tonight?” If she’s into it, you’re on the right track.
  • Stay Playful. This isn’t about some performance or test. It’s about laughing, connecting, and teasing. Be goofy, let things flow naturally, and enjoy the moment.
  • Keep It Safe, Keep It Fun. For the more daring games, agree on a safe word. It might sound intense, but it's about respect and ensuring you’re both having a blast. If anything feels off, it's totally cool to hit pause.

Foreplay games are about fun, connection, and building excitement that rivals the main event. Drop the nerves, lean into it, and trust me—she’ll love it.

Alright, enough talk—let's get down to the fun part. Here are 16 sexy foreplay games that'll have you both fired up in no time!

Game #1 – Strip Chess

Chess? Really? But hear me out. Strip Chess is nothing like your usual board game—you’re not just strategizing to win pieces; you’re setting up a slow, seductive strip tease that keeps you both on edge.

This foreplay game is for those nights when you want to tease her until she’s practically begging you to end it…checkmate—in the best way possible.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A chessboard and some clothes to take off.
  • How to Play: Here’s the deal. Every time you lose a piece, you strip. It’s that simple. Pawns go first, then shirts, pants—you get the idea. Want to make it more fun? Add challenges for each piece lost, like “Kiss me here” or “Nibble my ear.” Trust me, this turns into a slow, heated build-up that gets her thinking of nothing but your next move.

Game #2 – Body Painting

Let’s talk about foreplay that involves all the senses. Body painting isn’t just about throwing some edible paint on each other and calling it a day. No, it’s about making her squirm as you trace lines over every inch of her body, building up that tension. It’s a mix of creativity and seduction—and, yeah, it’s messy, but that’s the point.

How to Play

  • What You Need: Edible body paint and a brush—or just your fingers if you want to get really hands-on.
  • How to Play: Here’s how it works. You paint on each other, taking your sweet time. No rushing here; it's all about the slow strokes that make her skin tingle. Once you’re both painted up, start licking or touching it off—whatever feels right. It’s teasing, sensual, and a bit of a turn-on watching her react to each move.

Body painting is a game-changer; you can lay a white bedsheet on the floor, obviously to protect and cover but also to use it as a blank canvas


While painting each other allow paint to drip down to the floor, walk, roll or crawl over the bedsheet leaving colorful marks on it. Be messy, have some fun, enjoy every brushstroke, and just melt together. 


It's a sensory overload—in the best way. Plus, it’s an excuse to get really hands-on, which, we all need more of in foreplay.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #3 – Wrestle Date

Alright, this one’s a little unconventional, but yes, it's wrestling. It taps into that playful, primal energy you don’t get from your usual foreplay. There’s something about pinning each other down and teasing with little touches that makes everything much more charged. And yeah, it’s goofy at first, but trust me, it heats up fast.

How to Play

  • What You Need: Mattresses, pillows, and some music to set the mood.
  • How to Play: Create a space where you won’t knock into things (or break stuff). Put on some music that makes you both want to move. Then start circling each other like you’re about to pounce. The goal isn’t to ‘win’—it’s to get close, pin each other down, and maybe sneak in a kiss or a whisper that makes her melt. Keep it playful, and let things go where they go.

Wrestle Dates are pure, raw energy. It’s not about who wins; it’s about feeling that rush of adrenaline, the teasing touches, the laughing until you’re both out of breath.


It’s almost a workout, and definitely allows you both to really tap into your savage side. To spice things up even more try it just in shorts and lingerie or if you dare to completely naked.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #4 – Hot Twister

Remember Twister? Yeah, it’s about to get a lot more interesting. Hot Twister is perfect for throwing in a little competition and a lot of skin. It’s all about getting tangled up, laughing, and oh, did I mention? Clothes come off.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A Twister mat and the willingness to get tangled up.
  • How to Play: Set up the mat and start your game as usual. But here’s the kicker: the loser of each round has to strip. Suddenly, every move becomes a lot more intense. You’re not just trying to win—you’re trying to keep your clothes on as long as possible. Spoiler: you probably won’t.

Hot Twister is that perfect mix of goofy and sexy. You’re laughing one minute and find yourself enmeshed in each other the next. And by the time clothes start coming off, you’re both in the mood for something much hotter.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #5 – Sexy Foreplay Jenga

Jenga just got a lot more interesting. Foreplay Jenga is about mixing teasing with unpredictability. Each block is a little challenge, a dare, something that makes you both hold your breath as you pull it out. It’s a slow build, one block at a time until you’re both ready to lose control.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A Jenga set and a marker to write on the blocks.
  • How to Play: Write down different sexy actions on the blocks (for example, “kiss me for 30 seconds,” “strip tease”). Stack up the tower and take turns pulling out blocks. Whatever you pull, you do. The tension builds, and by the time the tower crashes, let’s say things won’t be staying upright for long.

Game #6 – The Classic Strip Poker

Strip Poker is a classic for a reason. It’s competitive, it’s flirty, and it gets you both slowly undressed, one card at a time. The best part? It’s all about the reveal.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A deck of cards and some layers to lose.
  • How to Play: Play a regular game of poker, but add one simple rule: the loser of each hand removes a piece of clothing. Want to up the stakes? The winner can make a cheeky demand from the loser, like “Kiss me here” or “Tell me your naughtiest fantasy.”

I believe everyone has heard about Strip Poker at least once. It’s a classic, each card leading to more skin and more sexual arousal. By the end, you’re both practically jumping on each other. And really, isn’t that the whole point?

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #7 – Who Am I - Foreplay Edition

Time to play detective, but with a naughty twist. The Foreplay Edition of Who Am I is about getting you both laughing, guessing, and maybe blushing a little. And when the guessing’s over, the real fun begins.

How to Play

  • What You Need: Sticky notes and a pen.
  • How to Play: Write bedroom-related words or actions on sticky notes (think: “strip tease,” “naughty nurse”) and stick them on each other’s foreheads. Ask yes-or-no questions to guess what’s written. Whoever guesses first wins, and the loser has to perform a sexy act as their ‘reward.’

Game #8 – Dirty Uno

Uno just got an adult upgrade. Dirty Uno turns every card into a moment of teasing or action. It’s fun, unpredictable, and lets you slowly turn up the heat without diving straight into the deep end.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A standard Uno deck.
  • How to Play: Assign each color card to a foreplay act (e.g., red = kissing, blue = oral). Play as usual, but you perform the corresponding action each time you play a card. Special cards like Reverse or Skip can get interesting fast, adding an extra layer of surprise.

Game #9 – 5 Senses of Sin

This one's all about teasing every sense until the tension is sky-high. 5 Senses of Sin turns the bedroom into a playground where touch, taste, and sound drive each other wild. It's a sensory overload in the best way possible, making your sex life a whole lot more thrilling.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A blindfold, and various objects for teasing (ice cubes, feathers, chocolates—get creative).
  • How to Play: Blindfold your partner and start stimulating her senses. Use your hands, mouth, or different objects to tease her skin, whisper in her ear, and let her taste something unexpected. The idea is to leave her guessing what's next, building up that delicious anticipation.

One of SQL's classic's, 5 Senses of Sin is like a tease-fest. The blindfold took it to a whole new level. Having a blindfolded partner adds an element of surprise to every touch, keeping her guessing. It's intense, but that’s exactly what makes it work.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #10 – Willy Wonka

This one's for when you want to turn things up and get messy. The Willy Wonka game is all about using chocolate to make things sensual, fun, and extra steamy.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A bar of chocolate (dark chocolate works best) or another treat she enjoys. No chocolate with nuts—it'll ruin the mood.
  • How to Play: Have her lie down. Place a piece of chocolate on her stomach and wait for it to melt. Then, slide it around her body with your tongue or fingers. If you don’t want to wait, melt it in the microwave for a few seconds and drizzle. Not into chocolate? Use strawberry sauce or whipped cream instead. Just avoid white sheets—they’ll be a mess to clean.

An extra hot tip for a Willy Wonka Game Night is to melt the chocolate between both your bodies gently sliding over each other.


Licking, sucking and eating it off each other can also add to the excitement. It's a wild ride. It’s playful and spontaneous, and you get to explore each other’s bodies in a way that feels like an adventure. You’ll both feel like exploring a candy store—but way hotter.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #11 – Hot & Cold Teasing Game

The Hot & Cold Teasing game is about using different touches to find out what turns her on ("hot") or doesn’t ("cold"). It’s a simple way to discover her preferences.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A feather, ice cube, or warm oil—get creative.
  • How to Play: Tease her with light touches—feather down her neck, ice cube on her wrist, or soft kisses along her collarbone. If she says "hot," keep going. If she says "cold," switch it up. The goal? Learn what she loves and build anticipation. Then switch roles and let her explore your body.

Game #12 – Erotic Memory Game

Marco and Ivy playing an erotic memory card foreplay game, using cards to reveal and act out intimate actions for added excitement.

This isn't your grandma's memory game. The Erotic Memory Game is all about pairing up sexy actions and turning every match into a moment of pleasure. Think of it as foreplay that keeps you both on your toes.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A deck of cards with different sexual actions written on them.
  • How to Play: Lay the cards face down. Take turns flipping over two cards, trying to find matching pairs. The twist? Whenever you find a match, you perform the action on the cards. Trust me, you’ll start ‘accidentally’ remembering exactly where that kiss card is.

This one’s pure fun. It’s cheeky, it’s unpredictable, and every match adds a new layer to the anticipation. Plus, the more you play, the more you learn what drives each other wild.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #13 – Sexual Scavenger Hunt

Marco and Ivy engaging in a sexual scavenger hunt foreplay game, searching for hidden items that lead to playful and sensual rewards.

Who doesn’t love a good scavenger hunt? This one’s a little different, though—think sexy clues, hidden surprises, and a big reward at the end. The Sexual Scavenger Hunt turns your space into an adventure playground, with every clue leading to a new tease.

How to Play

  • What You Need: Little objects to hide and some creative clues.
  • How to Play: Hide small objects around the house, each paired with a clue that leads to a sexy reward (like a kiss, a sensual massage, etc.). The final clue? That’s where things get really interesting. It’s about building excitement as you get closer to the grand finale.

This is a great way to surprise your wife or girlfriend in a very thoughtful and sexy way. Prepare a sexy scavenger game night for the two of you and watch her getting lost in a mix of adventure, lust and pure gratitude for the man you are.


It’s a total tease-fest that builds up the anticipation until you’re both practically bursting with excitement. Highly recommend for adventurous couples.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #14 – Erotic Storytelling

Erotic Storytelling isn't for the faint of heart. You get to create a steamy scene together, taking turns adding the next line—until one of you decides to bring that fantasy to life.

How to Play

  • What You Need: Just your words and a lot of imagination.
  • How to Play: Take turns telling a sensual story, adding more detail and heat with every line. The catch? You can dare each other to act out parts of the story while you’re telling it. It’s fun and unpredictable and lets you both explore fantasies, a sex position you want to try, or a sexual fetish you might not usually talk about.

This one is especially great for long-distance relationships or if you want to build up anticipation throughout the day.


We discovered so many new fantasies we didn’t even know we had. And that’s the beauty of Erotic Storytelling.


It’s foreplay for the mind, allowing you both to explore without pressure. And when you are in person and start acting it out... oh, it can get steamy fast.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

Game #15 – 7th of Heaven

This isn't your usual foreplay game. The SQL 7th of Heaven foreplay game allows you both to explore yourself, testing each other's desires until neither can hold back. It’s intense, it’s challenging, and it’s so worth it.

How to Play

  • What You Need: Just each other and some patience..
  • How to Play: The rules are simple: when both of you are completely naked, masturbate in front of each other, but here’s the kicker—bring yourself close to climax seven times without going over the edge. Whoever "loses" first has to fulfill a sexual favor for the winner. It’s all about self-control and the thrill of building tension until it’s too much to handle.

Game #16 – Strip Scrabble

Marco and Ivy playing "Strip Scrabble," building sexual tension as each word leads to playful teasing and removing clothing.

Words have never been this sexy. Strip Scrabble adds a whole new level of tension to spelling things out. It’s smart, seductive, and slowly builds the heat until there’s nothing left but skin and a lot of anticipation.

How to Play

  • What You Need: A Scrabble board and some layers you’re ready to lose.
  • How to Play: Play as you normally would, but every time a player scores a certain number of points, the other has to take off a piece of clothing. Want to spice it up more? Try creating naughty words for bonus points.

Strip Scrabble is clever, sexy, and a little bit sneaky. It makes every word count and leaves you both feeling more and more daring with each turn. Perfect for those who like a bit of mental stimulation with their foreplay.

Isabel

SEXUALITY COACH

These foreplay games aren’t just fun—they’ll crank up the excitement and make tonight unforgettable. So, go ahead, dive in, and let the games begin!

Frequently Asked Questions

Let’s clear up some common questions about foreplay games. You want answers? Let’s get right to it.

What is an Interactive Online Sex Game?

They're digital ways to spice up your sex life. Think foreplay apps that set up dares, role-play, or even sexy dice games. It’s an easy, fun way to break routine without leaving the bedroom.

Why Do Women Love Foreplay Games?

Women love the anticipation. It’s not about rushing into sex—it’s about building intimacy. Foreplay games like strip poker or a sensual massage tap into desires, creating a deeper connection. Simple, but powerful.

What Online Foreplay Game Is Best for Couples?

It depends on your vibe. Want a classic game? Try online strip poker. Want a surprise? Go for foreplay apps with daring challenges. The best game is the one that gets you both excited.

Is Role Play a Foreplay Game? Any Inspirations?

100%. Roleplay is like the ultimate foreplay game. Think Fifty Shades or a naughty first date encounter of two strangers in a bar. It’s a fun way to explore fantasies, set the mood, and break out of the usual routine.

What Is the Most Pleasurable Foreplay Game?

Hands down, Hot & Cold Teasing. It’s all about exploring your partner's body through different sensations. Use a feather, ice cube, or warm oil to tease and discover what turns them on. Let your partner say "hot" for what feels good and "cold" for what doesn't. This playful game builds excitement and helps you learn what she really loves.

How Do I Use Foreplay Games to Explore My Partner's Desires?

Listen and watch how she reacts during the game. Whether you’re exploring new sex positions or trying a daring time bomb challenge, these games let you learn what gets her going. Always check if anything feels uncomfortable and adjust to deepen the intimate connection.

Do Foreplay Games Make Intercourse More Enjoyable for Parties Involved?

Absolutely. They create an arousal arc that makes the transition to intercourse feel natural and explosive. It's not just physical; it's about building a world where you can express your desires openly, leading to a more enjoyable experience.

Can Foreplay Games Help Explore New Sex Positions?

Definitely! Some sex games are designed to explore different sex positions while keeping things fun and playful. Use games like "Hot Twister" or "Strip Chess" to loosen up and try new moves. These games give you the perfect excuse to experiment and discover what matters to you and your partner.

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Andrew Mioch

Andrew Mioch is one of the world’s leading sex coaches and best-selling author after spending 10 years learning from experts all over the world.

Currently pursuing his Master’s Degree in Sexology, Andrew has personally coached over 5,000 men. His expertise is regularly sought in publications such as Men's Health, Medium, and Cosmopolitan Magazine.

These days, Andy spends most of his time coaching clients privately and also through SQL’s online Mastery Academy.


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