Tit wank, breast sex, boob bang, mammary intercourse… whatever you call it, it’s pretty great. Thanks to porn, most men and women are aware of the classic titty fuck, and many fantasize about trying it out.

If you’re one of them, you’re in the right place. We’ve put together this ultimate guide to booby sex with everything you need to know to add this hot act to your sexual repertoire.

We’re going to be showing you how to do it, sharing some awesome tit-fuck sex positions that you might want to try, and answering all your other burning questions.

Whether you’re a gal looking for advice on how to give your man the ultimate tit wank, or a dude looking for inspiration for some new titty sex positions to try with your partner, you’ll find all you need to know right here.

Let’s get started!

Why Titty Fuck? The Benefits

First off, let’s talk about why breast sex is even worth talking about. Sure, it looks great on porn, but is it actually worth doing? After all, there’s not much in it for her. It also might not be as satisfying or stimulating as vaginal, anal, or even oral sex.

But here’s the thing: it doesn’t need to be.

Titty fucking isn’t supposed to be the main event, and it’s not something you do every day. It’s better to think of it as a top-tier, mix-it-up activity. You can use it to spice things up and add some variety to your usual bedroom rodeo.

Here are some of the main reasons it’s such a great mix-it-up activity:

• Tighter Squeeze – let’s face it, ladies, we can use ben wa balls and do all the kegel exercises we like, but at the end of the day, we’re not fully in control of how tight things are down there. But with titty fucking, we are. The harder you push them together, the tighter things will feel for your man. Sure, you can do the same thing with a handjob, but it’s not nearly as erotic.
• Show Off Your Assets – if your partner is a boob-man, he’ll probably jump at the chance to experience more of them in the bedroom. Tit wanks bring your breasts into the limelight. It’s a nice confidence boost for you to see them being appreciated so *cough* thoroughly, and a great opportunity for him to enjoy them to the fullest.
• Sexploration – good sex is all about trying out new things and exploring each other’s bodies together. If you’ve never tried booby sex before, it’s a new opportunity to experiment together, which can bring you closer and build intimacy.

The Basics of Breast Sex

This isn’t rocket science. The basic idea is that you put his penis between your cleavage, push your breasts together to ‘grab it’ between them, then move them up and down to rub him and get him off.

Depending on the position you’re in, he can share some of the work and thrust between them instead, while you focus on holding your breasts together. Your breasts are basically there to provide friction. They’re doing the same job that your hand would be doing if you were giving him a handjob.

Simple, right?

Of course, if you’ve never done it before, it still might sound a little intimidating. If you’re nervous, I’d recommend easing yourself into it. Maybe speak to your partner beforehand to let him know you want to try it out if you think that’ll alleviate some of the nerves.

It might just be that you’re not at the stage in your relationship yet where you feel sexually confident enough to try something like this out. In that case, maybe give it a little time. It’s more of a sixth- or seventh- time thing than something you do the first time you have sex.

Now that we’ve covered the basics let’s move onto the more advanced tips and tricks.

Top 10 Titty Sex Tips

There’s a big difference between a good tit wank and a bad one. To help you get it right, here are some expert tips. Following the guidelines below will help make sure that both of you enjoy it more.

1. The Build Up Matters

Diving straight into a tit fuck without any preamble isn’t the most natural thing in the world. If you’ve never done it before, he might not be expecting it. Don’t get me wrong, spontaneity is great, but it can also come across a little awkward if it’s completely out of the blue.

It’s much better to build up to it, both to increase his anticipation and desire and so that he knows where you’re heading. That way, when you do get on with it, it’ll feel more natural and less like a total surprise.

A great way to start is with your usual foreplay. Use your hands to stimulate his dick and get him hard, then slowly kiss your way down his body until your chest is level with his groin. Lean in so that your breasts are beside his penis and then slowly start to rub them on it.

If you like, you can incorporate some dirty talk here and ask him what he wants you to do next (but you already know, right?).

When it feels natural, slide his penis in between your breasts and take it from there.

2. Finish In Style

The finish is even more important than the build-up. One of the best things about this act is that it puts him in the perfect position to finish on your chest or face. This is a huge part of the appeal of tit wanking to many men, so letting him finish on you is bound to be a welcome treat for him.

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To make it more intense, let him come over your chest and then run your fingers through it. If you enjoy swallowing, you might want to collect some of it on your fingers and lick it off, leaving some on your lips. It’s a super dirty and erotic way to finish, as long as you’re comfortable with it.

3. Decide Whose In Control

Think about who you’d prefer to be in control of the action ahead of time as it will help you to choose an appropriate position and work out who’s on top.

If you’d prefer to hold the reins, the ‘kneeling tit wank’ position is better as it gives you a better angle and more leverage to move your breasts up and down. If you’d prefer him to be in charge, a thrusting-oriented position like the ‘chest straddle’ would be better. We’ve explained both of these positions and more in detail further below.

4. Wetter is Better

Unlike your vagina, your breasts aren’t self-lubricating. As such, it’s important to add some lube of your own into the equation. If you don’t, there might be too much friction for it to be enjoyable for him. And trust me, nobody wants a friction burn on their junk.

There are lots of different kinds of lubes on the market that are great for mammary intercourse; we’ll explore some of the best ones later on in this article.

If you’d prefer to not use real lube, a great way to add some moisture is to start from a blowjob to get his dick wet ahead of time, or spit on it before you get started. Your saliva will function as lube, but it won’t last long.

Another option is to save breast sex for when you’re in the bathtub or the shower. Not only will the water take care of the lube for you, but it’s also super hot.

5. Consider Keeping the Bra On

One of the biggest drawbacks of this technique is that it requires you to hold your breasts together. Not only does this get tiring for your arms, but it also takes up both of your hands.

To get around this problem, you can always keep your bra on if it has a loose middle. It’ll hold your boobs together while still leaving room for him to slide in under it and thrust. That way, you can go hands-free and use them to explore your body (or his).

Of course, keeping your bra on can also make things a little physically trickier, and I guess it’s a little less erotic than going topless, but it’s an option.

6. Eye contact is Important

Eye contact is an important component of eroticism and helps with arousal, so try to incorporate it. While you’re using your breasts to stimulate your partner, look up at him and hold his gaze for a few seconds to make it extra hot. You can also try throwing in some dirty talk if you want to really spice things up.

7. Incorporate Some Sex Toys For Her

It’s no secret that a tit wank is more of a treat for him than for her. The focus is on his pleasure, but there’s not much stimulation available for her. To make things worse, she can’t even use her hands to pleasure herself as she’ll be using them to hold her breasts together

Guys, make sure she gets hers too by incorporating some sex toys into the mix. For example, you could place a vibrator under her or have her wear a pair of vibrating panties that you’re in control of. That way, you both get to enjoy the experience equally.

8. Don’t Neglect the Nipples

This is another tip for the guys out there. Her nipples are erogenous zones, so you can give a little back by giving them some love. While you’re holding her breasts, maybe lightly pinch them, rub them, draw circles around them – whatever works best for your partner. Check out our guide to nipple play for more advice on this.

9. Use Your Mouth

Ladies, titty fucking isn’t all about the titties, despite what the name might suggest – it’s important to use your mouth too. As you’re rubbing or he’s thrusting, try using your tongue or lips to stimulate the end of his penis. Trust me; it’ll really ramp up the pleasure for him.

10. Move On When The Time’s Right

And finally, don’t feel like you have to stick with booby sex right through to the very end, because that’s going to get old fast. Breast sex will rarely be enough to make him climax, and will almost certainly not be enough to give her an orgasm, so treat it like foreplay and move onto the good stuff when you’ve had enough.

Best Titty Fuck Positions

If you thought the sex position possibilities of breast sex were limited, think again. There are actually plenty of exciting positions you can experiment with to mix things up. Here are some of our favorites.

1. Chest Straddle (Cock to Mouth)

Technique: She lies down on a chair or bed. He climbs on top and straddles her chest so that his penis is between her cleavage and pointing towards her mouth. She uses both hands (unless wearing a bra with a loose middle) to push her boobs together and provide the friction, while he thrusts. Alternatively, he can use his hands to push them together while she uses hers to attend to herself.

Why it’s great: This is the classic titty-fuck position. It puts him in control as he’s literally ‘fucking’ her breasts, which feels more natural and powerful for him, and more submissive for her. It’s also the perfect position for a facial.

2. Reverse Chest Straddle (Ass to Mouth)

Technique: This is essentially the same position as above, but with him facing the other way. Again, she lies on her back while her partner straddles her chest. This time, his ass should be pointed towards her face. He cups her breasts in both hands to squeeze them together, then slides his penis between them, before thrusting back and forth.

Make it hotter: As he thrusts, his butt should push back over her face. If you’re into anilingus, she can use her tongue to explore his asshole when this happens. He can also reach down to play with her clit or finger her vagina, or use his hands to play with her nipples.

Why it’s great: The direction he’s facing allows him to stimulate her while he’s thrusting, which means both partners can get off at the same time without using sex toys. This is something that a lot of other positions lack. It also gives the gals a great view of their partners’ rear as they’re thrusting and puts it in the perfect position for a little anilingus.

Unlike the position above, he won’t be facing towards her face, so it’s not a great setup for a facial, but it’s a nice position to finish with a body shot over her stomach if that’s something he’s into.

3. Kneeling Tit Wank

Technique: He starts by perching on the end of a couch, bed, table, or any other surface. She kneels in front of him so that her chest is at the same level as his groin. After lubing up, she presses her boobs together around his shaft and slides them up and down. To mix it up, she can alternate between using her breasts, hands, and mouth.

Make it hotter: As you’re stroking him with your boobs, keep the tip of his penis in your mouth and gently suck on it or draw circles with your tongue. Meet his eyes with your lustful gaze.

Why it’s great: Unlike the positions above, she’s in control here. He isn’t doing any of the thrusting, so she totally controls the pace of the action while he just sits back to enjoy it. She can enjoy being the boss while he enjoys being at her mercy. It’s the perfect position for some playful teasing.

Another great thing about this position is that it’s similar to a basic blowjob position, which means it’s easy to transition from and to fellatio. This makes it ideal for couples that are new to this technique and want to ease into it gradually.

4. Lying Tit Wank

Technique: This is very similar to the above position, the main difference being that it’s more horizontal than vertical. He lies down on a bed while she climbs on top, positioning herself so that her breasts are at the same level as his penis. She lowers herself down so that her breasts are around her penis, presses them together, then rubs them up and down to provide the stimulation.

Why it’s great: This is a slight variation of the kneeling tit wank, but arguably a little more comfortable for both partners as you’ll both by lying down on a mattress. Again, she’s the one in the driving seat here as she controls the stimulation.

It’s less intimate than the kneeling tit wank as you won’t be directly facing each other, so there’s less opportunity for eye contact. This can be a bad or a good thing. On the one hand, it’s less intimate, but on the other hand, it can be less awkward and more comfortable for both of you. Not everyone is comfortable staring into their partner’s eyes while they’re getting frisky.

5. Sideways Tit Fuck

Technique: Both partners lie down on a bed on the side of their bodies. She should be lower down than him so that her boobs are at the same level as his dick. She wraps them around his penis and uses one hand to press down on the one on top, squeezing it between the top one and the one against the mattress. She can slide her breasts up and down with her hand; he can thrust, or you can do both at the same time!

Why it’s great: This position might seem a little physically awkward, but it can be super hot. The main advantage is that both of you are in equal control of the thrusting, so no one has total control. Also, because you’re on your side, gravity does some of the work for you in terms of holding your breasts together. You can get a tighter squeeze and only have to use one hand to push them together, leaving the other free to roam his body, rub your clit, or do anything else you want to do!

6. Modified 69

Technique: This is a variation of the 69 sex position, but with the female partner using her breasts instead of her mouth to provide the stimulation. He lies down on his back while she lies on top, facing the other direction. Her chest should be roughly at his groin level, while his head should be between her legs. She pushes his penis between her breasts and rubs them, moving back and forth between using her mouth and her breasts to drive him crazy.

Tip: This works best if she’s slightly taller so that her chest naturally falls at the groin level. If she’s shorter and there is a big height difference, it can be trickier to pull off. She might have to lift her breasts a couple of inches upwards to make it happen.

Why it’s great: This is my personal favorite sex position for booby banging. It’s probably a familiar one for most of you – we’ve all heard of the classic 69, right?

Well, this takes what was already great about the 69 (oral stimulation for both of you at once) and combines it with everything that we love about the titty fuck for a truly awesome sex position. He can stimulate her clit with his mouth while she gets him off with her boobs and mouth. What more could you want?

7. Modified Upside-Down Facefuck Position

Technique: This is a variation of the classic upside-down facefuck position. She lies on her back on a couch or bed, with her head dangling off the end. He stands up and positions himself behind her so that his penis is next to her head. Instead of thrusting into her mouth, he steps forward so that his legs are on either side of her head and thrusts between her breasts. She reaches up with both hands to squeeze them together.

Why it’s great: This is an incredibly powerful, dominant position for him. He’s in full control, and the standing position gives him leverage for more powerful thrusting. Because he’s stood up, he also gets a great view of the action and can see her entire body. Because she’s holding her own breasts together, his hands are free to grab hold of her hips for even more leverage, stimulate her clit, or finger her G-spot.

It’s a little more intense than some of the positions above and definitely not for the faint of heart. That being said, it can be an incredible way for experimental partners to turn the heat up a notch.

Best Lube For Booby Sex

As we mentioned earlier, lube is super important. You need to moisten those puppies up before you begin so that his shaft can slide through more smoothly without worrying about any friction burns. The more slippery it is, the more comfortable it is.

There are lots of lubes out there, and most of them will do pretty much the same job, but some are better for tit wanks than others.

Body-safe silicone lubes are a great option, as they’re long-lasting (so you don’t have to reapply it often), easy to clean, and feel great. You can also use water-based or oil-based lubes.

A lot of couples prefer oil-based lubes because they’re super long-lasting, which is important with a friction-heavy activity, and because they find them more erotic. Sure, they’re greasier and harder to clean, but something about the greasy sensation just feels more animalistic.

You can buy commercially-made oil-based lubes or use a natural alternative, like coconut oil or petroleum jelly. The usual drawbacks of oil-based lubricants like these (incompatibility with latex condoms, less body-safe, etc.) don’t apply as they’re not being used internally, and you’re less likely to be using a condom.

Start by choosing which type of lube (i.e., water-, oil-, or silicone-based) you prefer and then shop around.

If you’re looking for recommendations, my top pick would be the Boob Lube by Ann Summers. As the name suggests, it’s specifically designed for breast sex and handles friction well. Check it out!

If you really don’t want to invest in lube, you’ll have to rely on spit alone. That’s cool, a lot of people do, but be prepared to reapply often.

FAQ

Before we wrap up, here are answers to some commonly asked questions about breast sex.

Can You Give a Tit Wank With Smaller Breasts?

Thanks to porn, a lot of men and women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to body shapes. Titty fucking might look great with pornstars using their perky, surgically-enhanced DD cups, but, in reality, most women don’t have those same assets to work with.

The good news is you don’t need giant knockers to enjoy this activity. Whatever your cup size is, you should be able to find a position to get him off. The trick is adapting your technique to fit your equipment.

If you have smaller breasts, like a B/C cup or below, you’re probably not going to be able to completely ‘trap’ his penis between them. In that case, it’s more about rubbing them and your nipples against his penis while kissing the tip than squeezing it between them. But don’t worry, he’ll still enjoy it.

You might also want to rely a little more on your mouth. Mix up rubbing your breasts on him with some oral, and you’re still going to drive him crazy. Don’t let insecurity stop you!

Is Titty Sex Good For Her?

Not in the same way that vaginal sex is. She can’t orgasm through her breasts (duh), so it’s never going to be good for her in the same way that stimulating her clit or g-spot is.

However, nipples are erogenous zones, which means they have hundreds of sensitive nerve endings, and it can cause some stimulation for her when you touch them.

Plus, it’s not all about the sensation either – it’s about the idea too. Some women find the thought of tit fucking, and the knowledge of how much their partner enjoys it, arousing. As such, it can be a great foreplay activity to get her excited before moving on to full penetrative sex.

Should You Wear a Condom?

First off, I’m not a doctor or health expert, so absolutely don’t consider my advice to be accurate or reliable here. However, I don’t think most partners would feel the need to use a condom for breast sex.

Obviously, you can’t impregnate someone that way (duh), and I think the risk of contracting STIs is much lower, so there’s not much benefit to using them unless you enjoy the sensation and lubrication they provide.

Can You Get STIs From Titty Fucking?

Again, I’m not a doctor or health expert, but, as I said above, I think the risk of contracting STIs is much lower. As a non-penetrative sex act, there’s no direct contact between mucous membranes and bodily fluids, which is how many STIs are spread.

I think you may still be at risk of certain STIs that are spread through skin-to-skin contact but, overall, mammary intercourse is a relatively safe alternative to penetrative sex.

Final Thoughts

That’s all the advice we have to share on the art of the titty fuck. Hopefully, this guide has given you some inspiration to bring a little boob banging into the bedroom and try it out.

If you do try it, I’d recommend starting with a beginner-friendly position like the ‘kneeling tit wank’ while you’re just starting out before moving onto some of the more advanced stuff.

Have fun!

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