How To Make A Girl Squirt Effortlessly – 6 Steps To Mega Pleasure

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So you’ve heard about squirting, or seen it in an adult video and now you want to try it for yourself. Well you’ve come to the right place my friend. In this article I’m going to reveal 3 simple, but wildly effective ways to make any girl squirt. Even if she’s never squirted before.

If you’ve ever asked a group of women or done your own research on squirting before you’ll realise that the ‘squirting orgasm’ is one of the most powerful and enjoyable sensations a woman can have. But unless you know what you’re doing, it’s unlikely it will happen by accident.

(Hence why I started School Of Squirt back in 2012)

WARNING: You will need to get used to changing your bedsheets after reading the tips in this article.

Now, I’m going to set the record straight on most of the squirting you see in adult videos… it’s actually fake. But what is real, is that with the right technique almost any woman can experience this unique (and highly addictive) type of orgasm. And it will probably be the first time she does so.

So if you want to give your girl the gift of an orgasm she’ll never forget, read on, because these 3 techniques are going bring your sex game up to Jedi level.

If you’re ready to provide your woman with an experience so intense she’ll be begging you for more, make sure you read this article from start to finish.

Don’t believe me that it’s possible?

Here’s what I mean by giving her “an experience she’ll never forget“, just read the WhatsApp message below:

“Orgasm running up my spine”

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“Toes are curling up thinking about it”

Sounds like an experience she’ll be thinking about for a long time doesn’t it?

So, get ready because if you want the woman you love to think only about you when she has sexual fantasies then you’ve come to the right place.

We’re Jakob and Laura and we started School Of Squirt just for people like you, who want to learn how to give women the ultimate form of sexual pleasure.

We are going to be your ‘Sexpert‘ teachers while you’re here today.

By the way, at the end of this article I’m going to share something amazing with you.

It’s a massage technique that you can use on your partner to give them a squirting orgasm much more easily!!

So if you’ve tried to make your girlfriend or wife squirt before and it hasn’t worked…

Well, this is most likely the secret key to making to gush out her juices and soak your bedsheets for the FIRST TIME EVER.

Ready to get started?

Good, let’s begin…

What is Squirting

In 2014 the UK passed a law that banned squirting in porn. The lawmakers saw squirting as a form of urination, and since urination is banned in porn, it fell under this category.

Clearly no one in the UK government had ever had a squirting orgasm before. Shame! If they had they would have known that it isn’t urine that comes out during ejaculation. The texture, smell and quanity is completely different than urine.

In fact, the liquid which comes squirting out comes from the Skene’s gland and is nothing like urine. The two can be easily confused though, and one of the main reasons most women don’t squirt is that they are worried they will pee and therefore ‘clench‘ or ‘hold back‘.

Later on in this article I’ll show you how to overcome this.

How does it feel for a woman?

Soaked bedsheets Whatsapp messageIf you’re a guy reading this, think about if you ever had an orgasm but didn’t ejaculate. It would feel weird right? Almost incomplete. Well most women don’t know what they are missing until they’ve had their first squirting orgasm.

Hence why learning this will turn you into a total sex god in her eyes.

Making her Squirt: Preparations

Preparation is important, and there are 4 steps for good preparation. Let’s discuss each step in detail before we get into the main techniques:


Your fingernails must be cut and filed short to attempt the following techniques. There’s nothing worse from a woman’s pespective than the feeling of being scratched inside your vagina.

Even a small amount of nail can do this, so take some time to give yourself a man manicure and get those nails nice and tidy and trim.


Lubrication is crucial to avoid any sort of friction that could make it uncomfortable for her. Later on in this article when I explain the techniques you’ll see you need to use a fair amount of force. Any kind of uncomfortable friction will almost certianly prevent her from orgasming.

I know you might be thinking “my girl gets really wet anyway so I dont need to use lube” but this is definately one area where you want to ‘err on the side of caution’. Grape seed oil is the perfect lube for squirting because it’s natural, easy to find and cheap. It’s also healthy for her vagina and it naturally antimicrobial. Use plenty of lube and dont forget to re-apply.

  1. Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her vagina, and to your fingers and palm.
  2. Make sure you warm up the lube by rubbing it in your hands before applying. Or put the lube bottle somewhere warm before using it. Applying cold lube will not be enjoyable for her.

Bedroom Preparation

It’s your job to erase all cares and distractions from your lover’s mind. Instead, you want her to only have thoughts of the pleasure that is to come.

So, what are some small preparations you can make which will have a big impact?

  • Get rid of distractions – Clutter, both physical and mental, can really put a damper on the experience before you even begin. This is why it’s vital that you clear the area of clutter and remove or hide electronic devices.
  • Aromatherapy as an arousal methodLavender has been shown to induce relaxation while, at the same time, bringing females to heightened arousal. So, whether you spark up some candles or place a bit of incense in just the right places, you can use sense of smell to get your woman ready.
  • Do away with harsh lighting – Soft, gentle lighting, such as from flickering candles and low-light lamps, will bring her relaxation and set the mood for later.

  • Make a playlist – Create a soft and sensual playlist for you and your woman to enjoy.
  • Take care of your grooming needs – From shaving your prickly beard to trimming your fingernails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter.


Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt.

With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood:

2 steps forward, 1 step back:

Foreplay is all about 2 steps forward 1 step back. It’s about increasing her level of arousal without causing her to pull back. This is a good analogy: men are like a light switch, they can be turned on or off easily. A woman is like water, she needs time to heat up, but once she’s hot she can stay hot longer.

Transition from login to emotion and physical:

We live in a logical world or work, chores, money etc. Sex is the opposite. It is primal, physical and emotional. But we can’t switch instantly from the logical frame of mind to a physical/emotional one. It takes time.

That’s why you need the foreplay period to not only warm up her body, and get her wet, but also to warm up her mind. She’s unlikely to have an orgasm if she’s still thinking about Friday’s deadline.

Massage based squirting:

Massage is my number 1 undisputed warmup method because it puts her in the mood, relaxes her and most importantly, when done right, releases the tension in critical spots that can stop her having intense orgasms. Further down in this article I’m going to reveal my 2 most important spots to massage that will help her squirt.

You can use these massage techniques for 10 minutes before going into the main techniques below for wildly more explosive results. (I actually created a whole step by step video program on this subject which is called Erotic Massage Mastery)

Locate her erogenous zones and work inwards

Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy.

The main idea here is to work inwards from the least erogenous into the most. Whispering in her ear, then nippling on her ear, then caressing her neck, then kissing her neck. 2 steps forward, 1 step back working your way towards her most erogenous zones works a treat.

Right, now you know what squirting is, and how to prepare, let’s get started on my 3 favourite squirting techniques.

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Technique 1: The G-Spot Finder

To make her squirt you’ll need to stimulate her G-spot with a firm and repetitive motion. The only problem for most guys is they often can’t exactly locate the right spot.

What makes it harder is that the location and size of the G-spot varies in different women. So making sure you find it is crucial to making her squirt.

That’s why I often use the G-spot finder technique which makes it easy and quick to be 100% sure you’ve located her pleasure point.

Here’s how it works…

  1. After foreplay, apply some lube to your index finger and slowly slide it inside her.
  2. Curl your finger upwards, with palm coming up, to rest on her clit.
  3. Take your other hand and tell your girl to wrap her hand around your index finger
  4. Now tell her to gently squeeze your finger when it feels really good to her.
  5. Now with your other hand and the finger still inside her vagina, move your finger up and down, curl the tip at different angles and generally start searching around for the perfect spot.
  6. She’ll squeeze your finger when it feels most pleasurable to her (without the need to talk)
  7. Once you’ve settled on the right location you can fine-tune the angle and exact spot further.

This is the ‘G-spot finder’ and it help you locate her G-spot, which we’ll use in the next technique. This is one of the quickest and easiest ways to find it, especially with a new partner.

Keep in mind that as she becomes more aroused her G-spot will start to swell and become more noticeable. Hence why I recommend taking your time with foreplay, which makes this technique easier.

Alright, let’s take a look at technique 2.

Technique 2: Pump and Release:

Having taught students how to make a woman squirt in live workshops for over 5 years there’s one thing that stands out as the biggest mistake people make that stops her squirting. Usually they don’t have too much trouble finding the G-spot. Their technique and finger position is good and the woman is in the perfect state to have an orgasm.

But the actual rythym of build up to the final release is wrong.

See most guys consider the female orgasm as a linear graph going up and to the right (kinda like the male orgasm).

But for women who want to squirt, this isn’t how it works, and that’s because of something called the ‘clench point’.

Look at the graph below and you’ll see, to start with the clench point is below the squirt point. That means that if you simple just increase the G-spot stimulation you reach the clench zone before you reach the squirt zone.

The clench zone is the zone where the woman isn’t aroused enough yet to squirt, and for whatever reason doesn’t feel comfortable or isn’t capable of squirting. If you move too quickly with G-spot stimulation you’ll reach the clench zone first. The girl will ‘clench up’ and your chances of making her squirt will rapidly diminish.

That’s an important point so read it again:

If you move too quickly with G-spot stimulation you’ll reach the clench zone first before you reach the squirt zone.

Alternatively, and this is where the Pump-Release technique comes in, you’ll want to go up towards the clench zone, raising her arousal level with G-spot stimulation (pump), but then go back down (release) before she clenches.

Each time you do this rollercoaster method of pump and release, her clench zone will move upwards. After a number of pump and release cycles her clench zone will eventually rise above her squirt zone.

Now you’re in the sweet spot.

Each pump and release pushes the clench zone upwards. Finally she’ll be ready for an explosive squirting orgasm.

From years of teaching squirting to guys (and girls) all over the world, I’ve found this is the most consistent and reliable technique I’ve ever taught. Watch our video to learn more about the Pump-Release.

Best Position for the Pump-Release Technique

  1. First, have her lie on her back.
  2. Now, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, have her spread her legs. If her knees are bent, she can let her legs hang in an almost frog-like position. This will stretch and relax the muscles in the thighs.
  3. Last, be sure to have a pillow resting just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse.
How to make a girl squirt using the inverted spiderman technique
The inverted spiderman technique lets you hit her G-spot at the perfect angle to perform the Pump-Release technique, after using the G-spot finder technique.

Technique 3: Massage Based Squirting

I’m gonna let you in on a little secret. What I’ve taught you so far is just the ‘starter’ to the main dish.

Out of all the things I’ve taught you in this article, massage based squirting is the most powerful, most effective and most enjoyable. (Which is why my students asked me to make an entire course, Erotic Massage Mastery, on just this topic.

And that sentiment is shared by almost all of my students.

So what is massage based squirting and why is it so highly approved?

Let me explain..

For a woman, an orgasm (and especially squirting orgasms) is about a release of energy that flows from her vagina and out into the rest of her body. That’s why you’ll here to term “full body orgasm” thrown around a lot.

The waves of sexual pleasure literally ripple out of her into her torso, arms legs, neck and head.

But most women have trouble just orgasming, let alone squirting, or having full body squirting orgasms.

Tension spots in her body stop this energy from rippling out. And this leads to weak, short and localised orgasms.

This massage based squirting technique helps remove these very specific tension spots throughout her body which makes it easier for her to squirt, and easier for her to have full body orgasms.

It really is the pinnacle for pleasure for any woman.

But she can’t do it alone. By massaging, and removing thses specific tension spots in her body she’ll be able to have better, longer and more instense orgasms. Not to mention she’ll be able to squirt much more easily.

We’ve actually created an entire video course on this subject along with all the other techniques you’ve read about and more, called Squirting Triggers 2.0, but I’ll quickly review the 2 most important tension spots:

The 2 most important tension spots

There are 9 tension spots in total.

However there are two that stand out as the most important ones to massage. Remove these two tension areas first and you’ll be well on your way to giving her a full body squirting orgasm.

Spot 1 is the pubic bone, just above the woman’s vagina. This tension area literally affects how powerful and intense her G-spot and clitoral orgasms will be.

Spot 2 is on the top of the buttocks. Tension here can stop her from even having orgasms at all. Both these spots are easy to find and easy to massage. There are various massage techniques which can be used for each spot, but that’s much easier to show you in a video format which is why we created Squirting Triggers 2.0.

The massage can work for either the short term or long term. By that I mean, you can give her a massage 10 minutes before the Pump-Release technique on any girl and it will improve her chances of squirting. Or you can use it with a long term partner to help make her much more orgasmic in the long term.

Okay, moving on…

Squirting FAQs

There’s quite a bit of mystery surrounding the subject of female ejaculation. Hoping to dispel these myths so you and your partner can begin to enjoy the adventure that is squirting, I’ve compiled a list of some of the most frequently asked questions on the subject.

Q1: What exactly is female ejaculate?

Contrary to popular belief, female ejaculate is NOT urine.

In fact, the fluids released during the act of squirting have actually been found to be quite similar to male ejaculate without sperm.

But if not the bladder, where does this fluid come from?

In a 2007 research study, scientists utilized ultrasound technology and endoscopy of the urethra to find the source. The ultrasound revealed the presence of a structure, similar to the male prostate.

This structure, known informally as the Skene’s gland, is located close to the G-spot, and surrounds the entire length of the urethra.

When compared to the chemical composition of voided urine, researchers found that the released fluid contained prostate plasma and shows that the fluid’s origin is the Skene’s gland and not the bladder.

Q2: Is squirting healthy?

Squirting can provide women with both physical and emotional health benefits.

Physically, squirting as a form of release will reduce stress levels and boost the production of endorphins, the body’s “happy” hormones.

Emotionally, squirting can increase the bond between you and your girl, and create a deep sense of intimacy and love.

Q3: Can all women squirt?

Biologically speaking, all women have the physical attributes necessary to squirt. Emotionally, however, there may be a few barriers in place which make squirting difficult or “impossible” for a number of women.

With the proper coaching and a good deal of trust, even the most bashful of woman can be brought to a squirting orgasm.

All women have a g-spot, so in theory they should all be able to squirt. Psychological and emotional issues are typically what stops her ejaculating, not the physical side of things.

Q4: Is there a way to tell if a woman is better able to squirt than other women?

The best indication of a woman’s capacity for squirting is the openness and trust she feels in her partner. Of course, any woman can squirt with patience and effort on the part of her partner.

Surprisingly, there is also a physical attribute which may indicate the ability to squirt more easily. This attribute is known as squirter’s dimples, and they are the small indentations located on both sides of the lower back, just above the buttocks.

Q5: How can I get my woman to squirt?

If your partner has yet to experience squirting, you may think that squirting just isn’t something she’s capable of.

As mentioned above, any women can squirt. There are emotional blocks, however, which can make squirting rather difficult and seemingly impossible.

There are a few things you can do to get her to squirt.

First and foremost, the trust which your partner has in you and in your relationship will make or break her ability to squirt. For women, arousal is just as much (if not more) emotional as it is physical.


This means taking the time to build up your partner’s trust, as well as connecting on a deep, emotional level, will make it possible for your partner to squirt.

Second, it’s vital that you create an environment in which relaxation and comfort is the main focus. The suggestions outlined in Tip #1 above will provide you with the information you need to create the perfect setting.

Q6: Can I make squirting easier for my lover to achieve?

Even women who have been known to squirt before may find it difficult or time consuming.

Practice does make perfect, so just taking the time to focus on your woman’s sexual needs will do a lot to improve her abilities.

Other things to keep in mind are stimulation techniques, as well as cue reading. You always want to focus on your partner’s responses to your touch, as this will guide you in the right direction. Once you understand her cues, helping her to climax will become a breeze.

The best way to make it easier for her to squirt is to get her to practice the kegel exercise.

This tones and strengthens the vaginal muscles allowing her pussy to contract more powerfully, and therefore squirt more easily.

One simple kegel exercise is to lie flat on the floor with knees bent up, then raise up the bum and contract/flex the vaginal muscles.

Q7: Why does my partner feels like she has to pee?

The main complaint of many women who have yet to master the art of squirting is the inability to distinguish between the need to pee and the urge to squirt.

The simple fact is, for beginning squirters, there is no difference between these two feelings.

As the Skene’s gland is located in close proximity to the bladder, women who have to yet to experience the feeling of squirting will assume they need to pee. As a woman becomes more accustomed to squirting, however, the feelings will become more distinct and easily distinguishable.

What can you do until she has gotten to that point?

If your partner feels the urge to pee and this is holding her back from squirting, there’s still some issues which need to be addressed. Ask your partner to talk about her fears, and use this time to reassure her.

Q8: Does squirting always occur at the same time as orgasm?

The squirting orgasm, so commonly depicted in pornography, isn’t always the way in which things go down.

While the majority of women will squirt during orgasm, it is possible for her to squirt between orgasms, or even without reaching orgasm at all.

Q9: How can I get her to squirt during orgasm?

If you find your partner is having trouble orgasming and squirting at the same time, there may be a psychological block which is limiting her abilities.

That your partner is able to squirt while with you is a fantastic first step. Now, it’s time to work on any stresses or troubles that may be blocking her from orgasming, or keeping her from experiencing a squirting orgasm.

Q10: What should I do while she squirts?

This may be the first time you’ve ever brought a partner to the point of squirting. If so, you’re likely worried that your actions during and after will turn her off from squirting again in the future.

Remember, as a natural and extremely enjoyable experience, your partner should never be made to feel discouraged for squirting. To foster positive feelings, be there – physically and emotionally.

Continue to perform the sexual act which caused her to squirt, such as intercourse of stimulation of the G-spot. This will prolong her pleasurable feelings and show her that you want her to enjoy herself.

After the encounter, ask her what she liked and what she wishes you would have done. Your partner knows her body, and she can best tell you what she’d like you to do in the future to intensify the experience.

Q11: How many times can my partner squirt in a single session?

Unlike men, women don’t have a refractory period. This means that squirting multiple times in a single session is absolutely possible.

If your partner is new to squirting, don’t expect multiple squirting orgasms during her first few sessions. As she becomes more comfortable, though, squirting more than once can certainly occur.

One thing to keep in mind is how dehydrating squirting can be. Provide your partner with ample fluids, preferably some with electrolytes, in order to replenish her hydration levels.

Q12: What can my partner do to increase the number of times she can squirt?

If your partner wants to improve the quality and quantity of her squirting, the best thing she can do is to work on her pelvic muscles.

Kegal exercises can provide your partner with the ability to better control her squirting, and it will make her more confident in her abilities.

Q13: Can sex take place after squirting?

Squirting is a sure sign that your lover is fully aroused. This means that intercourse after squirting can be the perfect time to bring your partner to vaginal orgasm, and it may also help her to squirt during intercourse as opposed to just squirting from G-spot stimulation.

Q14: Is there a technique I can use to prolong her pleasure?

The technique you’re looking for is called “squirt stacking,” and it takes a lot of practice to get just right.

Essentially, this technique involves you bringing your female partner as close to squirting as possible, and then backing off the stimulation.

Once you get the hang of this, you can perform this multiple times in one session, bringing your partner so close to squirting that she’s begging for release, and then toning back your stimulation so as to still pleasure her but avoid her climaxing as long as possible.

By the time she finally releases, however, the intensity and duration may provide her with the most pleasure she’s ever felt in her life.

Q15: Can I Combine Clitoral and G-Spot Stimulation?

I mentioned above that the right position will ensure you’re able to stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. But, what makes this so important?

The clitoris, while certainly the most sensitive part of her genitals, isn’t the only place she craves stimulation.

So, to provide her with a body-rocking, breath-taking, and moan-inducing orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention. Fortunately for you, there’s a well-defined technique for doing so, and here it is:

  1. Using your non-dominant hand, place pressure directly on her pubic bone. This pressure will provide you with better leverage, and also keep her stable while she squirms from delight.
  2. Now, with your middle and ring fingers gently grazing the G-spot (see tip #4 to learn how to locate the G-spot), you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clit. (For this to work, you’ll either need to kneel or stand facing towards her.)
  3. With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure to the clit, begin to move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, gentle stroking the G-spot.
  4. Move your hand up and down while still stroking the G-spot. This can be a bit tricky, but in time, you’ll get the technique just right.
  5. Eventually, you’ll want to speed up your movements. Don’t go so fast and hard that you lose control, but instead keep pace which allows you to continue in a rhythmic motion. At times, you may feel as if you’re being too rough. But, as long as your partner is enjoying the encounter, continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation.
  6. As she comes closer to climax, you’ll notice an increase in sharp inhalations, moans, and squirms. Keep up the same levels of speed and pressure, and in no time your lover (as well as your hand and the bed) will be dripping wet from her own ejaculation.
  7. As a bonus, once your partner begins to cum, keep your palm placed firmly against her clitoris. This will maximize the intensity of feelings and pleasure without causing overstimulation.

Q16: Can I Use a Sex Toy To Help Her Orgasm?

There’s no shame in needing a bit of help from time to time, and there’s a few tools you can use to make this process much easier.

After all, this might be your first time learning how to make a girl squirt, so why not get a little help?

First, consider bringing some toys into the bedroom. There are a variety of toys – from vibrators to G-spot stimulators to dildos – which can aid you in getting your woman to a screaming, squirting orgasm.

Second, if you’re having trouble mastering the above techniques, you may need a more thorough guide to female arousal and ejaculation.

Here’s what I like to do…

Go out and buy one of those vibrating cock rings (durex have some good ones that are available at most convenience stores…)

Durex vibrating cock ring

Now what you can do is, instead of using the vibrating part for your self, you can gently hold the vibrating part against her clit with one hand…

Whilst using your other hand to finger her in exactly the way I’ve described before.

This powerful combination of vibration stimulating her clit, and fingers hitting her G-spot is too much for most women to handle and they’ll almost always burst open with sprays of lovely pussy juice.

How do I know this technique works???

Here’s how…


If you’re feeling really cheeky (and experimental) you can see if she likes having an additional (lubricated) finger inserted up her bum.

This adds another dimension of pleasure to the equation…

and gives her an even stronger feeling of being ‘full’ which women love.

Or you could try using a butt plug, to give her that ‘full’ feeling without needing to use an additional fingers.

Q17: She Isn’t Squirting, What Should I Do?

You may be focused on bringing your partner to climax and getting her to squirt, but don’t let that be the main goal.

Instead, focus on the overall experience and let her pleasure and climax be a byproduct of the encounter.

Men find it hard to understand how women become aroused, because its so different from men.

For most men, its a sprint to the finish line – but for when the arousal cycle can go up and down, through plateaus and peaks.

Especially for women who have never ejaculated before, getting them to that point can take a lot of time and patience. You may need to tweak the techniques as you go along, but eventually you and her will get into the groove that’s right for you.

And, once she’s cum once, she’s bound to want to cum again and again.

So, take your time and really enjoy the experience.


Make Her Squirt Orgasm During Cunninglingus

Imagine going down on a girl just right… so she sprays her womanly juices all over your face…

Imagine giving any girl one of the most intense orgasms of her life using just your tongue

Sound good???

Damn, don’t you just love that word , ‘cunninglingus,’ it just sounds so sophisticated and proper, and like such an art form.

Well that’s exactly right because going down on a girl, munching out her vagina, is an art form and it is something that we should all learn to Master, for the sake of all the women out there.

In keeping with the theme of School Of Squirt, this will be about making your lady gush during oral sex, not just the simple female orgasm (although that happens as well.)

A quick note: Of you’re not a fan on going down on your lady then you might want to learn how to make her pussy smell and taste like roses before going ahead with the rest of this.

The first point to note is that you will have to use your fingers as well whilst you go down on her.

The tongue simply can’t apply enough pressure (initially) to make her explode. Although, as you will read later on, once she is aroused enough and if she is easily orgasmic then a flick of the tongue may be enough to trigger her to douse the bed sheets with her feminine juices.

I often use cunninglingus as an aid when I want to make her ejaculate with my fingers because for a woman it can be intensely pleasurable and build arousal faster than with just fingers.

For the first round however, the fingers need to be used since they apply pressure to the G-spot and Skene’s gland that result in her ejaculating and where the tongue cannot reach.

Fast Tip: Try This

As you go down to perform cunnilingus on your girl, take one of your fingers and put it in her mouth. Tell her to suck on it any way she wants. As she begins to suck, copy whatever she does on your finger on to her pussy.

Soon she’ll get the message and she’ll start licking, sucking and flicking your finger just the right way that turns her on – As you copy what she does onto her pussy.

Get Comfortable

You will need to have both your hand and mouth down by her vagina so it helps be able to position both her and yourself in a way that makes this comfortable.

Especially when we are talking about periods of time longer than 15 minutes it really pays off to get comfortable first. Maybe you will want her lying on the bed, with her butt at the edge, so you can kneel on the carpet and get good access to her ‘jade gate‘ as the Taoists call it.

Build Arousal Using Cunninglingus

The tongue is the perfect wet and sloppy mechanism to build arousal fast, stimulate her clitoris and get her to the ‘point of no return’ but it is not necessarily right for ‘triggering’ the squirting (unless she is very orgasmic/sensitive)

Because we can flick our tongue’s quickly and gently across the clit, as well as motor-boating this makes it perfect for stimulating the clit and advantageous over a heavy finger. Our mouths are already nicely lubricated with spit so oral sex can be perfect for warming her up until she is nice and wet.

Make Her Come Again With Your Tongue

It’s easier to make her gush again in one session than to cause her to flow initially, so once you do all the hard work to get her to that point, don’t just make her pussy explode once.

Unlike most men, women can orgasm / gush almost indefinitely (with the right training.)

When she has just ejaculated will be the perfect time to see if you can make her have another squirting orgasm again using just a flick of your tongue applied to her clit.

G-spot Vacuum Method

This is an absolute beauty of a technique and if you do it right, it will blow her mind. It’s almost the opposite of applying pressure to her G-spot, instead you will create a vacuum causing her g-spot to pulse.

It will probably be quite a new sensation for her and extremely arousing. Wrap your  mouth around her vagina making it as air tight as possible, but keep your two fingers deeply inside her.

Press your fingers softly into her G-spot (you should know how to find it by now) and then flick away from it.

The flicking sensation combined with the vacuum teases out and engorges her G-spot causing it to swell with blood, and engorges her Skene’s gland with the liquid she will eventually release all over your face and bedsheets.

If you do this during the arousal period it will increase the likelihood of her pussy exploding as well as the quantity of liquid.

45 thoughts on “How To Make A Girl Squirt Effortlessly – 6 Steps To Mega Pleasure”

  1. I’ve personally only ever had one guy make me squirt, and it was using his tongue and fingers. It was my first time so I was a little unsure to start with but, when he did it again I started loving it more and more. I wish more guys knew how to do it properly.

    • You need to add after-care lessons for all these men on a squirt quest. She will need to be re-hydrated, so water and electrolytes are essential. As a squirter, it’s blissfully exhausting work 😉😘

      • Great point, there’s so much more to great sex than the just the orgasm. Everything that happens after, caring, cuddling, playing, rehydrating is all part of the fun. Thanks for sharing.

  2. I really want to make my girlfriend squirt. We’ve only been together a few weeks but it sounds like so much fun. Thanks for the tips

  3. Once I was in Kiew, Ukraine on holiday. I met this beautiful blonde girl and we ended up going back to my apartment after a few drinks.

    To my complete surprise, after about 5 minutes of having sex she abruptly squirted, literally drenching the bedsheets (and me.) It was totally awesome. I don’t know if it was really anything I was doing, maybe it was the perfect angle.

    After that happened I really wanted to do it again with every other girl, so I found myself looking for more information on how to make a women squirt online.

  4. What’s the best way to introduce your girlfriend to squirting? I mean, do you just come straight out and try it immediately, or do you tell her what you’re going to try and do. Maybe we could just go through your squirting course together?

    • Honestly it changes for each situation, but if you have a long term partner I would recommend going through our Triggers course together.

    • Well being a lady I think telling her about your plans will be more exciting and it will help her guide you on what you’re doing correct and wrong.

    • Thanks Harrison, good luck. Check out our Squirting Triggers program for the learning fast track if you want to become an absolute master of the bedroom.

  5. Hi Laura and Jakob, I bought your Triggers course last weekend and last night my gf had ‘the best orgasm ever’ as she put it. You both rock!!

    • Thanks Alex, glad you’re taking what you’ve learnt and putting it to use. Sounds like you both had a great time.

  6. My girlfriend cums like literally up to 20 times from sex and foreplay but it never seems to be much fluid, more like my cum than squirt juices. What am i doing wrong? She never complains and she gets crazy wet and swollen but im pretty sure she hasnt squirted properley yet. Should i build it up more dya think? Or what? Got a feeling shes scared to pee herself but i already told her she wont and even if she does i dont care really. Lol wish i could move on but im so damn turned on by squirting i dont think i can imagine NOT doing it. Help meeeee

    • Hi Jay, it certainly could be that she’s holding back from fear of peeing. It’s common for a girl to get really wet, but that’s a different thing from a full-on squirt. One thing you could try is going to the toilet together. As she pees hold her hand and let her know you don’t judge her and are totally comfortable with it. This should help get rid of her fear. Then next time you’re winding up for another session in the bedroom have her go to the toilet so she knows her bladder is empty. If she feels the need to pee again while you’re stimulating her then you know she’s ready for the full squirt.

    • Pure, high quality grapeseed oil can be a good choice. If not then a water based lube from your local pharmacy is also good.

  7. Hi I have read alot on this and have tried almost everything and she gets to the point where she feels like she has to pee but then nothing she thinks were getting close we been trying for weeks now my wife is on a few psych meds that mess with her libido so im at a loss I am able to make her cum 4 or 5 times by licking her clit any help would be great thanks

    • Hi Keith, if she thinks she needs to pee this could be a sign she’s close. Women often confuse the feeling of needing to squirt with needing to pee. She needs to feel comfortable enough to pee in front of you to be able to ‘let go’.

  8. My man came to me with this and I told him there’s no way, Well I have to thank you b/c yes there is a way. I’m 40 and I’ve never felt such pleasure in my life! I literally woke up wanting to do it again! We are just beginning but I’m a happy woman! I love him to death for thinking of me in this way! 😁

  9. Thanks a million to you, I managed to experience it for the 1st time in my life after I shared it with my husband yesterday. The feeling is so out of the world. Thank you!

  10. With the vacuum technique, how do I totally make her pussy airtight while also having two fingers in , won’t there be a gap ? 😳

  11. I have been with my girlfriend for 11 months, I have never gotten to see her in person yet, its a long distance relationship. We are going to meet up soon (within the next couple of months when we get time). We have talked about sex, and we have sent pics back and fourth a lot! We both have said we really want to have sex with each other. She’s said how much she’s wanted to squirt and has tried before but felt like she has to pee and then after awhile the feeling went away. I’m thinking the first time we have sex I really want to try this stuff and get her to squirt and stuff. Would you guys say this is good idea to do/try the first time we have sex??

    • Hi Grayson, thanks for sharing your story. It’s an interesting question. My question to you is how comfortable are you with each other? It’s good that you’ve already talked about it and that it seems she would be ready (needing to pee) so with the right technique you could definitely make it happen. I’d also say that giving her a squirting orgasm on the first date would be amazing, and something she would never forget. She’d love you for that, no doubt.

      I would add though that it’s good not to be too outcome dependent, or try too hard to give her an orgasm. You will want to do the buildup/foreplay right and if you feel like the right moment comes up then use the trigger finger technique and I would be very confident you cause her to squirt. Just make sure your comfort level with her is high enough when you try and I’m sure it will be amazing.

  12. Wow this is great information, my wife and I have been married for 27 years over that time I have learned to give her the most amazing multiple orgasms she loves every second of it and can literally soaked a bedsheet I have tried in the past to get her to Squirt but we just haven’t got there yet perhaps with this information we can take it to a new level.

  13. Ugh! I want to send this to my husband!! But it’ll be just another article he doesn’t read because he “thinks” he can do this. I’ve been with men (and women) that were quite educated in this department and knew my “buttons”; so when he says he knows how to do this, I really don’t have the heart to tell him that he doesn’t quite have it down. I’ve given subtle clues, like after sending a previous article, give his above response, I would say “there’s always a better way, especially since women’s body’s change over time”. Given I don’t ever drench the sheets unless I take over from being on top you’d think that would be enough of a clue…

    • Hello Constance, thank you so much for your comment. It’s really insightful to see it from a woman’s perspective. There are so many women out there wishing their man could learn more about this subject… and what a big difference it makes to our lives. You’re definitely right, our body can change over time, which is why it’s so important to be adaptable and learn about the signals.

  14. I’ve been using your tips and my wife gets super wet. Problem is she gets off without squirting then gets too sensitive for me to continue foreplay. How can I get her to squirt before getting too sensitive?

    • Hey Taylor, great question. This is a common issue actually. The trick is about bringing her up to the point of climax, but not over it, and then back down again. So just before she gets off, you want to reduce the stimulation slightly to bring her back down again. You can go through this rhythm a couple of times. For the final time you bring her back up to climb you’ll need to go hard and make her squirt on that attempt. Sometimes you’ll need to ‘catch her by surprise’ since sometimes she will resist squirting automatically. We have more information about this and some useful diagrams in the course.

      • Thanks for the pointer. I’ll test it out and let you know how it goes. By the way, putting my finger in her mouth was fantastic, I could really tell she was enjoying it and in to it. Thanks again

  15. Hey guys i have read your post .. i really like it .. my experience is almost same as yours .. be patient .. be hungry for her .. make her love you .. care about her pleasure not yours .. women is something beautiful.. feel her while you talking .. let her come for you .. don’t make anything disturbing her while in bed … my girlfriend squirt 8 times every sunday .. pleasure then sex … enjoy all

  16. My boyfriend isn’t doing it right.. Time to go for someone who can just fuck me hard and make me squirt several times.


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