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What Is Dry Humping?

Looking for the ultimate ‘how to’ guide for dry humping?

Look no further, because you’re about to discover exactly what it is, and exactly how to do it right – (not the way you might expect…)​

When we say the words “dry humping” what are the first thoughts that come into your mind?

We would be willing to bet that most of you are thinking about those awkward first fumbles in the back of a car or on the sofa when your parents were out. It felt good, there’s no doubt about that, but it wasn’t sex by any means.

Furthermore, we’d be willing to bet that a lot of guys have stopped dry humping as they have become more sexual experienced and, dare we say, talented.

However, dry humping should not be simply dismissed out of hand as purely the domain of the inexperienced kid that you once were. In fact, dry humping can actually bring a whole new level of sexuality to your game.

So What Is Dry Humping?

For those who don’t already know, the term relates to a form of sexual expression that does not involve penetration of any kind.

In many cases, both partners will be fully clothed while dry humping, and it will usually happen in your adult life during the build up to full sex.

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However, if we are going to dig a little deeper then dry humping, in one form or another, is amongst the earliest forms of sexual expression, particularly for women.

Even before they began dating, many women would explore their early sexuality by humping pillows or blankets in an effort to achieve sensation.

The thing that guys need to remember is that they did this for one simple reason – it worked!

Many a woman has been able to achieve orgasm from dry humping inanimate objects, which is why it can be such a useful tool in your arsenal as an adult.

You probably already do it anyway, such as when you’re dancing with a girl in a club and she wraps her legs around one of your legs and you both grind away – that’s dry humping.

And it feels damned good, especially for her. It’s all part of the sexual build-up, that period before full intercourse where you’re both working to turn the other person on.

Furthermore, the grinding motion that works so well with dry humping doesn’t tend to work quite so well during sex.

You may be able to position yourself so that a little bit of grinding is going on, but the penetration is the main focus at that point in the game. As such, dry humping can offer a sexual stimuli beyond normal penetrative sex.

The Best Positions For Dry Humping

Of course, we aren’t suggesting you go straight back to those adolescent fumblings in an effort to get the most out of dry humping.

After all, no girl is going to be impressed with you awkwardly rubbing your erection on her until you accidentally spurt in your own pants.

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As an adult, you can take a more considered approach to your dry humping, so that it acts as the build-up rather than the main event.

Thigh humping is a particular favorite, and one that you have probably experienced when dancing with a girl. She’ll wrap both her legs around one of yours and grind away.

Match her motion and bend you knee slightly so that she has better contact and you’ll be dry humping in full view of everybody else, without anybody really thinking anything of it.

Of course, if things get a little bit too steamy then you should head to the bedroom.

Once there, you can start experimenting with a number of other positions.

The classic cowgirl position is probably the best for dry humping once you’re out of sight, and it is also the easiest way for a girl to achieve orgasm without actually having sex. It’s not like you get nothing out of it, after all, by this point you really ought to have an erection from what’s going on.

Get your girl to grind against your crotch and really push against your cock and you’ll find you both experience pleasure even without penetration.

Experimentation is key, so try a few other things as well. You just need to remember that gratification often comes at the expense of looking a little silly.

You may think you are making a fool of yourself with your dry humping, but if you keep it intense and focus on her pleasure you’ll find that what comes after is all the most explosive because of how turned on you both are.

Other Uses Of Dry Humping You Might Not Have Thought Of

While we’ve focused on dry humping as a build-up to full sex, it can also be used in place of penetration. While that is probably not your goal, there are a number of reasons why you might want to go this route instead of having full sex.

Have you ever gone to the club without any expectations of getting laid but end up clicking with a girl out of pure luck? You get back to her place and things start to get hot and heavy when you realise you don’t have a condom!

It’s situations like that when dry humping can get both of you off without having to worry about the hazards of unprotected sex.

best-dry-humping-positionsFirstly, as you will both have a layer of clothing on you need to worry less about pregnancy.

It’s important to note that this is not completely fool proof though. After all, if you cum and the fabric of your clothing allows some of it to leak through onto her crotch, particularly around the area of the vulva, then there is a slight chance that things could go wrong, so be sure to keep that in mind at all times.

In the same way, you should both also be more protected from STIs. Again, it’s not perfect but it’s better than plowing right in there with no protection.

You’re also going to find that a lot of girls simply enjoy dry humping when they first meet a guy and are unsure about having sex just yet, or they are in the mood for intimacy but not for full sex.

The Bottom Line

Dry humping isn’t the childish little sexual act that you grew out of when you started actually getting laid. Instead, it is actually the perfect way to get you both revved up and really turned on.

Trust us, if you have your dry humping technique down, you’re going to find it that much easy to get a girl turned on before you even get her to the bedroom.

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