Life—and sex—doesn't come with a manual, but what if it did?
Have you ever wondered what truly makes for a fulfilling and healthy sexual experience?
Here's an eye-opener: 65% of adults think sex education should go beyond basics, covering sexual health and relationships in depth.
Keep reading and discover these 8 core principles that will empower your sexual well-being, enhance your intimate life help you to last longer, and increase stamina.
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8 Core Sex Education Principles for Enhanced Sexual Health
The sex education we got in school barely scratched the surface, focusing mostly on biology and STI prevention.
But sexual health is about more than just the basics—it’s about understanding and enhancing sexual pleasure too.
These 8 core principles go beyond the classroom to help you achieve a more fulfilling and informed sexual life.
Core Principle #1 - Build Your Sexual Confidence
Take charge of your sexual self-assurance by embracing your body and abilities. Explore what brings you pleasure and focus on your strengths in the bedroom.
Build self-assurance in your sexual abilities and body image. This is important because confidence isn’t just attractive—it’s the foundation for a more satisfying sexual experience for both you and your partner.
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Not only is having confidence the first step, but it's also life challenging, and something I wish was taught to me long before I had to learn it the hard way through trial and error in several failed relationships.
Core Principle #2 - Cultivate Sexual Leadership
Sexual leadership means taking charge in the bedroom, setting the tone, and guiding your partner toward mutual pleasure.
These are a few tried and tested tips to help you become a more confident and assertive leader in the bedroom:
By taking this step, you are showing your partner that you are in control and confident in your abilities, which can be a major turn-on for both of you.
Core Principle #3 - Master Self-Pleasure for Better Performance
Self-pleasure, or masturbation, is a crucial aspect of becoming better in bed.
Research shows that 74% of men and 48% of women who regularly engage in self-pleasure report a better understanding of their sexual preferences, which leads to more satisfying sexual experiences with their partners.
Here are some tips on how to practice self-pleasure effectively:
Regularly practicing self-pleasure can help you communicate your desires to your partner and enhance your sexual experiences together.
Core Principle #4 - Perfect Your Oral Sex Skills
Oral sex is an important aspect of sexual pleasure and intimacy.
For those giving oral sex
For those receiving oral sex
When you do, you'll both have a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience.
Core Principle #5 - Refine Your Fingering Techniques
Fingering is a great way to stimulate your partner and enhance their pleasure during sex.
Tips for Pleasurable Fingering
Core Principle #6 - Experiment with Sexual Positions
Trying different sexual positions can add variety, excitement, and pleasure. These are some popular positions to try out.
Experiment with different positions until you find the perfect one.
Core Principle #7 - Introduce Sex Toys to Enhance Pleasure
Introducing sex toys into the bedroom can help spice up your sex life.
In fact, a recent study found that 53% of couples who use sex toys report increased satisfaction and communication in their sexual relationships.
Here are some beginner-friendly toys to consider:
Experiment with different toys to find what works best for you and your partner.
Core Principle #8 - Boost Erections and Increase Stamina
Having better erections and more stamina can greatly improve your sexual experiences. Here are some tips to enhance your performance in bed:
By practicing these essential sex training principles, you'll become more confident, skilled, and knowledgeable in the bedroom, leading to better intimacy and connection with your partner.
Think you've mastered the basics? That's not all...
More Advanced Sex Practices & Techniques
Let's take things up a notch with some more advanced sex practices and techniques that will elevate your experience to new heights.
Advance Technique #1 - Practice Effective Sexual Communication
Effective sexual communication involves openly discussing desires, boundaries, and feedback with your partner.
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Advance Technique #2 - Learn and Explore Squirting Techniques
Squirting is the release of fluid from the urethra during intense arousal or orgasm in women.
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Advance Technique #3 - Master Safe and Pleasurable Anal Sex
Anal sex involves penetration of the anus and requires careful preparation and communication.
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Advance Technique #4 - Experiment with Advanced Sexual Positions
Advanced sex positions add variety and can target different pleasure zones, but be aware they are called advanced for a reason. Make sure you are warmed up and well-lubricated before you jump into the following positions.
Superman: To get into the position you want her to lay on the bed first, then you insert yourself and lift her up carefully. She can support you by grabbing your thighs and pushing her upper body upwards.
Limber Lean: This position requests you to be able to hold yourself upside down leaned against a wall while she backs it up.
Nelson: Flexibility is key here. You can start by positioning her sitting on top of you before you then slowly lean back stretching her legs while locking your hands behind her head.
Standing 69: This one requires a lot of strength and also for her to be comfortable being upside down. Start sitting and allow her to get into position before you slowly stand up.
Advance Technique #5 - Explore Advanced Toys and Combinations
Advanced toys, like fuck machines or remote-controlled vibrators, offer unique sensations and experiences.
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Advance Technique #6 - Incorporate Tantric Practices
Tantric practices are slow, meditative approaches to sex that focus on deep connection and prolonged pleasure.
Interestingly, surveys suggest that around 38% of couples who practice Tantra report significantly increased intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships.
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Now that you've learned the advanced principles, do you think you can push the boundaries even further?
Let’s exhilarate your lovemaking by exploring the thrilling world of kink and BDSM.
Level Up Your Lovemaking With Some Kink & BDSM Training
Adding a bit of kink or BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) might not be for everyone, but many couples enjoy it. With the right techniques, you might as well. This is how you add kink and BDSM to your sex life.
I. Try Role Playing
Role play involves taking on different characters or personas to explore fantasies and scenarios.
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II. Add Sensory Play to Your Routine
Sensory play involves using different sensations to enhance arousal and pleasure during sex.
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III. Discover Power Dynamics In The Bedroom
Power dynamics (Dom/Sub, Master/Slave, etc.) in BDSM play involve one partner taking on a dominant role while the other assumes a submissive position.
In fact, a study found that nearly 47% of people who engage in BDSM enjoy both dominant and submissive roles, showing the fluidity and versatility of these dynamics.
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IV. Get Roped into Bondage Fun
Try Bondage or Shibari tonight.
Bondage is restraining a partner for pleasure, often using ropes, cuffs, or other restraints.
Shibari, the art of Japanese rope bondage, involves intricate tying techniques that can be both aesthetically pleasing and intensely arousing.
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V. Safely Explore Consensual and Non-Consent Practices
Consensual non-consent involves playing out scenarios, like rape fantasies where one partner "pretends" to resist under strict rules and boundaries.
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Kink and BDSM training can significantly spice up your sex life by introducing new and exciting dynamics. Keep in mind clear communication and consent are key to a positive experience.
Want to keep the passion going? The Lasting System might be your key to lasting longer in bed.
Last Longer In Bed With The Lasting System
Struggling to last longer in bed can be frustrating and impact your confidence. Research shows that nearly 1 in 3 men between the ages of 18 and 59 experience issues with premature ejaculation at some point in their lives.
With the Lasting System, you can learn practical techniques to improve your stamina and prolong your sexual encounters. It is designed to help you gain control over your ejaculation and overall sexual performance.
I'll teach you to take control of your sexual performance and enjoy longer, more satisfying sex. To learn more, check out The Lasting System.
Increase Your Libido With Semen Retention Training
Speaking of lasting in bed, boosting your libido can turn up the heat and keep the excitement going strong.
Semen retention training can help you achieve just that. By practicing semen retention, you can increase your desire, improve your performance, and experience more sexual satisfaction.
Semen retention training involves techniques and lifestyle changes designed to help you manage your sexual energy more effectively.
What if you've played all your cards, and lovemaking still feels like a rerun?
It’s time to spice things up with higher-level relationship dynamics that will leave boredom in the dust.
Challenge Yourself with Higher-Level Relationship Dynamics
Exploring advanced relationship dynamics can open new avenues of intimacy, trust, and connection, offering a unique learning journey for those curious about deepening their relationships.
Whether you’re interested in threesomes, open relationships, or polyamory, understanding these dynamics is crucial for navigating them confidently and respectfully.
Whether you’re considering a threesome, open relationship, or polyamory, the key is clear communication, trust, and respect for everyone’s boundaries and feelings. As with professional training, success in these dynamics comes from understanding, mutual respect, and continuous development of all partners involved.
Frequently Asked Questions
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