Have you ever wondered if anal play could lead to that mind-blowing squirting experience?
Believe it or not, about 40% of women say it’s happened to them.
Intrigued? Stick with me, and I’ll show you how this unexpected duo could unlock next-level pleasure.
In this article, we'll cover:
- Find out if squirting during anal stimulation is real or just a myth.
- Learn tips to enhance pleasure and the chances of squirting during anal sex.
- Discover the best positions and techniques to try for maximum enjoyment.
Is it possible to squirt from anal stimulation?
Yes, squirting from anal stimulation is totally possible!
Research in The Journal of Sex Research shows that some women can squirt through different types of stimulation, including anal play.
This happens because anal stimulation can indirectly hit the G-spot or other sensitive areas that trigger squirting.
So, don’t stress—I will teach you exactly how to make it happen. Get ready to take notes!
A Step-by-step Guide on How to Make Her Squirt During Anal Sex
Are you ready to explore a whole new level of pleasure? I'll walk you through the preparation, warm-up, spots to stimulate, penetration techniques, and how to make her squirt during anal sex.
Step #1 - Preparation
Great sex, and especially squirting, starts with the right preparation. But what and how to prepare? Follow this guide below.
- Squirting Mindset: Reduce pressure and approach the experience with no expectations. When expectations are too high, it paradoxically creates a high-pressure situation where squirting is impossible. In other words, you make it harder for her to reach a squirting orgasm by wanting to make her squirt. Instead, focus on enjoying the moment and being present with each other with no particular goal in mind.
- Anal Hygiene: Clean the anus and anal area thoroughly with warm water. One of my favorite moves before any anal squirt action is to shave my partner's butt hole while having a shower together— it's great foreplay and also serves the purpose of cleanliness.
- Lubrication: One of the most important aspects of preparing for anal sex, especially when aiming for squirting, is ensuring that there is enough lubrication. The anus does not naturally produce its own lubrication like the vagina, so using a high-quality lubricant is a must. It reduces friction, increases pleasure, and makes it easier to stimulate the necessary spots for squirting. Plus, it can also prevent tearing or irritation in the sensitive anal area.
- Water-base is a great all-around lubricant for vaginal or anal sex
- Silicone-base is longer-lasting but does not pair well with silicone sex toys
- Oil-base is the longest-lasting lube, but it can degrade condoms
Reapply as needed during the session, too.
- Set the Mood: Creating the right ambiance can make all the difference. It helps her get in the right headspace. It does not require much effort. Dim the lights, play soft music, light candles, or use scented oils or incense. These simple steps can help you create a more intimate setting for her actually to be able to relax and ultimately squirt during anal play.
- Cover Your Bed: One often overlooked aspect of preparing for anal play and squirting is covering your bed with a protective sheet or dark-colored towels. This may not seem like a big deal, but it can make cleaning easier. Anal play combined with squirting can be messy, especially once she reached her first squirting anal orgasm.
Step #2 - Warm Up
Before going straight into her butt, take some time to warm her up—physically and mentally—both of which are needed for her to achieve squirting.
- Foreplay: Explore her entire body to prepare her for a combined anal squirt experience by giving her plenty of foreplay. Kiss her, give her a booty massage, caress her soft skin, stimulate her G-Spot, and focus on multiple erogenous zones (neck, breasts, inner thighs) to build arousal and anticipation. Don't just focus on her ass.
- Giving Her a Steamy Rim Job: Rimming, which is also called "tossing a salad" or "anal-oral play," can be a great way to build anticipation before anal penetration. Use your tongue to play with her anus, this sensation can be mind-blowingly pleasurable.
- Use plenty of saliva or a flavored lubricant
- Gently kiss her ass and cheeks
- Start to lick around the anus slowly, using a flat tongue
- Use the tip of your tongue to explore the area.
- Use Your Fingers: Start exploring the anal area with your fingers. Lubricate your finger, and start to massage the outer rim of the anus. Slowly insert one finger into the anus. You don't want to push it inside, move it with gentle pressure at the entrance of her anus. When she is ready she will pull your finger inside. Pay attention to her body language. She might need more time to relax the muscles, this helps to increase blood flow and get her body ready for penetration.
- Kick It Up a Notch with Anal Toys: This can be a great option to warm her anal canal up before anal penetration. My suggestion is to start with either a butt plug, one of the best all-around anal toys, or a vibrating butt plug, which is great if she needs more intensity. In case you are just starting out anal beads are a great option for beginners.
Now that she is warmed up, let's check out which spots you have to hit so that she can experience an anal squirting orgasm.
Step #3 - Know Where To Stimulate
Helping your partner squirt during anal requires just three special spots to focus on. These spots maximize her pleasure and increase the likelihood of squirting during anal play.
I. Anal Opening (AO-Spot)
Start with the anal opening because it has many nerve endings that respond well to multiple types of stimulation.
It's also the easiest spot to find, as it's right there in front of you. Use your fingers or a small sex toy to gently massage and stimulate this area, paying attention to her reactions.
You increase her chances of squirting with anal because it helps to relax her muscles and build sexual tension.
II. Anal Canal (AC-Spot)
The anal canal is the part of the anus that leads to the rectum. This part is internal, so apply plenty of lube before entering.
If you are interested in learning how to have anal like a pro, have a look at my videos on "How to make anal play enjoyable" and "Ultimate Guide For Pleasurable Anal"—now back to the main topic.
She's more likely to have an anal squirt experience when you focus on slowly entering her anus and taking your time as it allows deeper penetration which will help you to hit the next spot.
III. G-Spot
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, about 2-3 inches in, and when aroused and wet, can lead to intense orgasms and squirting.
During anal play, you can indirectly stimulate the G-spot by applying pressure to the front wall of the anus, since the wall between the anal canal and the vaginal canal is very thin you can reach her G-spot without having vaginal sex.
Take your time, and try to stimulate all three areas (anal opening, anal canal, and G-spot) during anal play to increase her chances of squirting.
Step #4 - Penetration Techniques
Using the right techniques can make all the difference in helping your partner squirt. These are my top-rated techniques that you should keep in mind.
- Soft Entrance Hard Exit: Start off by inserting your cock mildly erect, meaning it is still soft and not fully erect yet. Gently move inside her anus and allow her to adjust to your slowly growing manhood until fully erect and hard. With this method, you can use your cock similar to an inflatable butt plug, where the intensity of penetration and therefore pleasure rises over time.
- Enter & Hold: Slowly insert yourself into her anus, using plenty of lube. Once fully inside, hold still for a moment and breathe with her. This step reduces discomfort and builds anticipation. Moreover, the feeling of "being full" can be pleasurable to many women.
- Slow Thrusts: Instead of quick, fast movements, try slowing down your thrusts to a more deliberate pace. This allows for deeper penetration and can help stimulate her G-Spot. Slow thrusting also allows you and your partner to savor the moment, enjoy the sensations, and build up to a powerful climax.
Try all three techniques one by one or combine them together, and watch how she moans and writhes in pleasure, getting closer to squirting.
Step #5 - Get Ready to Make Her Squirt—This is Where the Magic Happens!
Now that you've laid the groundwork, it's time to bring her to the peak of pleasure. In this step, we’ll fine-tune the depth, angle, and intensity to help you make her squirt during anal play.
Let’s get into the details!
Depth & Angle Of Penetration
- Pay attention to her reactions and adjust accordingly.
- Try different angles to stimulate her G-spot and anal canal.
- Tilting your hips or adjusting your sex position can help to find the right angle for your and her body.
- Find the right depth to properly stimulate her G-spot and increase her chances of squirting.
- Start with gentle and rhythmic motions stimulating her anus.
- Try rougher and more intense thrusts and observe her body language.
- Tick-Tick-Boom describes the rhythm of gentle thrusts followed by a deeper and more intense thrust.
Experiment with different intensities of thrusting to see what works best for her. The goal is to build up pleasure and sensation to help her reach that squirting climax.
Squirting Anal Orgasms
With enough indirect G-spot stimulation, foreplay, and thrusting, achieving a squirting orgasm through anal intercourse is possible and can be a unique experience.
Although squirting with anal is not as common as squirting with vaginal intercourse or fingering, it is possible.
Since the foundation of enjoyable anal intercourse is relaxation and full surrender of the receiving person, it can also create a higher capacity of emotional openness and vulnerability.
This however can allow women to more easily overcome the embarrassment they may feel when the sensation of having to pee arises which is normal close to squirting.
Instead, the depth of surrender allows them to let go which can result in intense squirting orgasms.
After an intense anal session, engage in aftercare. Spend time cuddling, talking, and relaxing together.
However, don't stress if she doesn't squirt. This isn't necessarily for beginners. It may take practice and communication to achieve the desired results.
Best Positions To Squirt With Anal
Some sex positions are more likely to make her squirt during anal than others. These are just a few of them. These positions are my go-to ones and rarely fail, assuming all other steps have been properly taken.
Position #1 - On Her Back This one is a favorite because of the deep penetration and easy access to stimulate the G-spot on her upper vaginal wall. Elevate her ass with a pillow while she lays on her back with her legs up or spread apart. This position allows her to relax and gives you easy access, it also helps with good eye and close body contact, making it more intimate.
Position #2 - Doggy Style: Doggy style has a great angle for deep penetration and G-spot stimulation—her G-Spot is now facing downward. She kneels on all fours while you enter from behind. This position gives you strong, controlled thrusts and the ability to stimulate other erogenous zones or pull her hair. Not to mention, there is a spectacular view.
Position #3 -Spooning: This is a slow, controlled sex position that works best for women who need slow, deep, and steady anal penetration to climax. To get into position, both of you lie on your sides, facing the same direction, with you behind her. You can stimulate her G-Spot with deep thrusts, it might be a bit more challenging tho since your range of motion is a bit more limited in this position.
Experiment with different positions to find what works best for you. Split-test each position to see which one provides the most pleasure and comfort for both of you.
Andrew's Expert Tips For Anal Squirting
After teaching men everything about sexuality for over a decade now, there are a few more things I want to cover on the topic to give you the best chances of making your partner squirt during anal.
This can be an incredible experience for both of you, so I didn't want to leave anything out.
- Tip #1 - You have better chances of hitting the G-Spot with the intensity needed for squirting with double penetration (anus and vagina) using fingers or toys.
- Tip #2 - Increase your chances of squirting by adding clitoral stimulation. I suggest using a Hitachi wand or clit sucker during play.
- Tip #3 - Breathing deeply, making sounds, moving your entire body, and vocal expressions help to relax and intensify the sensations. Give her space to scream, moan, talk dirty, or whisper whatever might be on her mind. Likewise, do the same.
To be able to squirt and especially to be able to squirt during anal intercourse, women need to be highly aroused and turned on. Oftentimes it requires additional direct stimulation of either the G-Spot or clitoris to reach a squirting anal orgasm.
Frequently Asked Questions
Still have questions about squirting with anal? You'll find the answers to your burning hot questions here.
Can women reach orgasm from anal sex?
Yes, some women can
reach orgasm from anal. The anus has many nerve endings. Also, anal intercourse can stimulate other areas, like the vagina, indirectly.
Does anal make women pregnant?
No, anal sex does not make women pregnant. Pregnancy happens when sperm fertilizes an egg, and this process has to happen in the uterus, not the anus.
Anal play can be painful if not done properly. Pain can be reduced by using lubrication, going slowly, and taking the time to allow her to get comfortable and relaxed.
How to convince a girl to do anal?
Open the conversation. Ask her views and feelings about it, and listen to her concerns. Never pressure her.
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