Sure, penetrating her with your cock is great, but if you want to treat your woman to some special and unique moves, eating her out from behind is a must-have skill to learn.
To master it, I'll share with you proven techniques, the best positions, as well as the dos and don'ts of eating pussy from behind, so let's dive right in—no pun intended.
In this article, we'll cover:
Top 2 Techniques For Eating Her Out From Behind
The first and most important step any guy should learn to master oral sex from behind is knowing the right way of using your mouth and tongue on her pussy, rather than going at it with no clue of what you're doing.
Here are two proven techniques I teach my students in our programs that will guarantee an immensely pleasurable experience for the woman you are with.
I. Use Your Flat Tongue
First, have your partner get into a comfortable position, like on all fours or lying flat on her tummy.
Flatten your tongue and use broad, sweeping motions over her clitoris and labia. Don't focus only on her clitoris; be curious and explore every inch of her vulva.
Keep your tongue wide and flat for smooth, steady, and consistent stimulation that’ll have her moaning in no time.
II. Try A Sucking Motion
For this technique, use your lips to create a gentle suction on her inner lips, outer lips, and clit, alternating with the intensity of the created suction for more diverse stimulation.
Incorporating a sucking motion while licking and eating her out from behind adds a different layer of intensity.
It's a powerful technique that will quickly lead to a sweet orgasm.
Pro Tip To Spice Things Up
Or add some fingers into the mix, playing with both her holes for an extra bit of fun. But remember don't use the same finger you used in her anus to enter her vagina—this can cause infections.
Be open to experimenting with these techniques and alternate between both for an explosive experience; she won't even realize what's coming her way!
Now that you've nailed the techniques let's look into the best positions to eat her out from behind.
8 Sex Positions For The Best Oral Sex Experience From Behind
Even the best techniques are helpful only if you can actually use them. That's why selecting the right sex position is so important, because if you can't reach her spots, then, well...
Here are my favourite sex positions that are simple yet proven to make oral sex from behind so much more enjoyable and sexy.
Position #1 - Try Out Reverse Face-Sitting
Reverse-face sitting gives her control over the pressure and angle, making it easier to find the perfect spot. It also allows you to use your hands to touch her other erogenous zones.
To get into the position, she sits on your face with her back facing you, allowing you to reach her from behind. You can then gently spread her legs and pussy lips while laying on your back and using your hands to guide her hips over your mouth and taste her all over.
Position #2 - Go For Doggy Style
Simple, but it works! Getting in doggy style on the floor or edge of the bed gives you easy access to both her clitoris and vagina. It also gives you the prime opportunity to play with other special areas with your hands, like using your thumbs to rub her anus. She gets on her hands and knees, arching her back slightly with her pussy exposed towards your face. You will either kneel or lie down behind her, using your mouth to pleasure her.
Position #3 - Face Down, Ass Up That's The Way We Like To...
This position offers a great angle to reach her most sensitive spots.
It can also be easily enhanced by using a pillow under her hips to help elevate her pelvis, making her entire vagina more accessible to you from behind. To get into this position, she lies face down with her hips raised.
You position yourself behind her, lifting her hips with your hands firmly, and use your mouth on her pussy.
Position #4 - Explore While She Lays Flat On Her Tummy
This position is great for those who prefer a more relaxed approach to oral sex as you can both let your bodies rest comfortably on the bed. It also allows you to enjoy deeper, more intense sensations for longer periods of time as it does not put any strain on either of your bodies.
She lies flat on her stomach with her legs spread slightly apart, while you lay between her legs and use your mouth to pleasure her from behind.
Position #5 - Try Oral Spooning
This is another very comfortable and intimate way of enjoying oral sex from behind as it lets you snuggle up close, helping her relax while also giving you easier access to both her clitoris and vagina.
She lies on her side in front of you with one leg bent slightly forward. You then position yourself behind her, holding her extended leg up to open up her vagina towards your mouth while enjoying a good view of her pussy and anus.
Position #6 - Give Standing A Chance
This standing sex position is spontaneous and can be done almost anywhere.
Enjoy a bit of adventure, which adds to the overall arousal for both partners.
She stands leaning against a wall for support. You kneel or stand behind her, holding her legs in place spread slightly apart, as your mouth pushes in between her thighs to stimulate her vagina.
Position #7 - Bend Her Over
With your partner bending over a sturdy surface, you can enjoy so much more control over her body while performing the act from behind.
While she is bending over, you stand or kneel behind her spreading her legs apart as you use your mouth and tongue on her pussy.
You can even push her down on the table or kitchen counter with your free hand to add some extra spice to this position.
Position #8 - Go For Some Double Trouble With 69
69 is a classic, and there's a reason guys (and girls) can't get enough of it. This steamy sex position is all about mutual pleasure and deep connection.
She lies on top of you facing the opposite direction while giving you head. You lay on your back to return the favor, burying your face between her legs.
This allows you both to mutually indulge in oral pleasure. Grab her waist with your hands to support and hold her firmly in place.
Position #1 - Try Out Reverse Face-Sitting
Reverse-face sitting gives her control over the pressure and angle, making it easier to find the perfect spot. It also allows you to use your hands to touch her other erogenous zones. To get into the position, she sits on your face with her back facing you, allowing you to reach her from behind. You can then gently spread her legs and pussy lips while laying on your back and using your hands to guide her hips over your mouth and taste her all over.
Position #2 - Go For Doggy Style
Simple, but it works! Getting in doggy style on the floor or edge of the bed gives you easy access to both her clitoris and vagina. It also gives you the prime opportunity to play with other special areas with your hands, like using your thumbs to rub her anus. She gets on her hands and knees, arching her back slightly with her pussy exposed towards your face. You will either kneel or lie down behind her, using your mouth to pleasure her.
Position #3 - Face Down, Ass Up That's The Way We Like To...
This position offers a great angle to reach her most sensitive spots. It can also be easily enhanced by using a pillow under her hips to help elevate her pelvis, making her entire vagina more accessible to you from behind. To get into this position, she lies face down with her hips raised. You position yourself behind her, lifting her hips with your hands firmly, and use your mouth on her pussy.
Position #4 - Explore While She Lays Flat On Her Tummy
This position is great for those who prefer a more relaxed approach to oral sex as you can both let your bodies rest comfortably on the bed. It also allows you to enjoy deeper, more intense sensations for longer periods of time as it does not put any strain on either of your bodies. She lies flat on her stomach with her legs spread slightly apart, while you lay between her legs and use your mouth to pleasure her from behind.
This is another very comfortable and intimate way of enjoying oral sex from behind as it lets you snuggle up close, helping her relax while also giving you easier access to both her clitoris and vagina, She lies on her side in front of you with one leg bent slightly forward. You then position yourself behind her, holding her extended leg up to open up her vagina towards your mouth while enjoying a good view of her pussy and anus.
Position #6 - Give Standing A Chance
This standing sex position is spontaneous and can be done almost anywhere. Enjoy a bit of adventure, which adds to the overall arousal for both partners. She stands leaning against a wall for support. You kneel or stand behind her, holding her legs in place spread slightly apart, as your mouth pushes in between her thighs to stimulate her vagina.
Position #7 - Bend Her Over
With your partner bending over a sturdy surface, you can enjoy so much more control over her body while performing the act from behind. While she is bending over, you stand or kneel behind her spreading her legs apart as you use your mouth and tongue on her pussy. You can even push her down on the table or kitchen counter with your free hand to add some extra spice to this position.
Position #8 - Go For Some Double Trouble With 69
69 is a classic, and there's a reason guys (and girls) can't get enough of it. This steamy sex position is all about mutual pleasure and deep connection. She lies on top of you facing the opposite direction while giving you head. You lay on your back to return the favor, burying your face between her legs. This allows you both to mutually indulge in oral pleasure. Grab her waist with your hands to support and hold her firmly in place.
Each of these positions gives you unique sensations and experiences, and will surely add flavor to your relationship. Be open to trying new things and exploring her body from a different angle to find out what she enjoys most.
Remember, every woman is different, so what works for one may not work for another. To give you the option to mix it up and pleasure your woman from all angles, I'll share with you my expert tips on eating her out from behind vs. from the front.
Andrew’s Expert Tips: Eating Her Out From Behind vs. From The Front
With over a decade of experience and years of mentorship from professionals worldwide, I am going to share with you the secret tips you need to know to master both: Pussy-eating from behind and from the front.
Eating Her Out From Behind
Eating Her Out From The Front
Whether you’re eating her out from behind or from the front, make sure to pay attention to her cues and preferences. To make sure you are set up for success here are some of the most common mistakes men should avoid while eating pussy from behind.
A Woman's Perspective..
On Common Mistakes To Avoid While Eating Her Out From Behind
If you've tried to eat your partner out from behind but still feel like you haven't quite been able to satisfy her fully, chances are you're unknowingly doing things that she's not really into.
Small changes can greatly impact her experience, and allow you to truly satisfy her.
Mistake #1 - Neglecting Communication
Since you're not facing each other in this position, it's easy to lose sight of how your partner is feeling during the act especially when you ignore her facial cues.
What To Do Instead
Mistake #2 - Poor Positioning
An uncomfortable or incorrect position is a big turn-off for either partner while attempting oral sex from behind, as it's quite likely to strain your neck or back while trying to reach her private parts.
What To Do Instead
Mistake #3 - Ignoring The Clitoris
Forgetting about the clitoris simply because it isn't directly in sight when you're pleasuring her from the back is another common mistake any guy can easily make.
What To Do Instead
Next time you find yourself in the position to eat her out from behind, remember to avoid these mistakes and allow the woman you are with to melt in pleasure and bliss.
Frequently Asked Questions
Any questions not yet answered? I got you covered. Read on and explore the most frequently asked questions on eating pussy from behind.
There are a lot of things to spice up your sex life, here are some suggestions:
Spicing it up does not have to be difficult; have fun, be explorative, and don't take yourself too seriously.
Place your hands on her hips, thighs, or lower back. You can also use one hand to touch other sensitive areas, like her clit or breasts.
The view, angle, and dominance/submission can be more passionate or intense than eating her out from the front. It also adds to the variety of moves you use to pleasure her.
Yes, many girls can – and often find it easier to – have an orgasm in this position. Just pay attention to what feels good for her and keep the communication open.
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