It’s 37 weeks, and your wife's done being pregnant. After trying spicy tacos, curb walking, and even squats in the living room, your Google history looks like: “Can sex induce labor at 37 weeks?”
Guess what—nearly 1 in 4 moms-to-be try having sex to induce labor (it’s the #2 DIY method after walking). So, can sex help induce labor, or are we just really looking for excuses? Strap in (or strap on?) and we’ll separate fact from fantasy—and maybe save you from hanging your wife upside down in weird positions.
In this article, we'll cover:
What Science Says—Can Having Sex Really Induce Labor (Short Answer: Unlikely)
Let’s get nerdy for a sec. Everyone from your great-aunt to that one mom on Reddit swears having sex can induce labor. But does science back it up? In a nutshell: well, not really. Here’s the lowdown.
Studies Showing Little To No Effect
First, the party poopers: research that says sexual intercourse doesn’t induce labor naturally.
Study #1 - Large Study Finds No Link Between Sex & Earlier Labor
Study #2 - 2007 RCT Finds No Evidence That Sex Induces Labor
Another obstetrician reviewing the data agreed, noting the findings provide “good support for the idea that sex won't induce labor naturally” and suggested there’s simply not enough research supporting sex as a reliable method.
Studies Hinting It Might Help
On the flip side, a few smaller studies throw guys a bone, hinting that sex could do something.
Study #1 - Couples Who Had Sex After 36 Weeks Delivered Sooner
Translation: Regular sex meant fewer women were still pregnant at 41 weeks, possibly skipping the need for synthetic oxytocin or other hospital induction methods.
Study #2 - 2015 Data Shows Sex Might Gently Nudge Labor Along
The researchers suggested late-pregnancy sex could gently speed up the onset of labor, reducing the likelihood of your partner needing artificial help (think synthetic forms of labor triggers).
Most big studies and extensive meta-analyses still tell guys that sex probably won’t bring labor sooner. But a few studies wave a tiny flag saying, “Maybe, under certain circumstances.” Before you suggest other (sketchy) natural methods like castor oil, red raspberry leaf tea, or evening primrose oil, keep expectations realistic.
Still wanna give sex a shot? Alright, man, here's how it might help (just don't bet the crib on it).
How Sex Might Help Induce Labor (But Don’t Count On It)
Alright, so sex isn’t a surefire labor trigger. But why do so many people think it is? Let’s break down the theory behind it. If doing the deed could jumpstart labor, it would be thanks to a few biological perks: nipple play, semen, and orgasms. Here’s what each brings to the table (in theory).
The Nipple Stimulation Bonus
Here’s something wild most guys don’t know: your partner’s nipples have a direct hormonal hotline straight to her uterus—yeah, no waiting, direct line. Even gentle stimulation (kissing, soft licking, careful rubbing) triggers a surge of oxytocin, the hormone that is needed in labor. Btw, hospitals pump in Pitocin, an artificial form of oxytocin, when inducing labor.
Nipple Play & Labor
Semen’s Cervix-Ripening Power
Alright, dudes, here's your personal contribution to the labor conversation: semen—the original, all-natural cervical ripener. Your swimmers are loaded with prostaglandins, powerful hormone-like substances that naturally soften and dilate her cervix.
Here’s How It Works
Orgasms & Oxytocin Surges
Last but definitely not least: the female orgasm (the holy grail, right?). When your partner climaxes, her body floods with oxytocin—the same hormone doctors use in an artificial form for labor induction. Late in pregnancy, orgasms can trigger mild cramping known as Braxton-Hicks contractions. Relax—they’re mostly just practice runs.
Can Female Orgasms Truly Trigger Labor?
So... Does It Work Or Not?
Sex has some built-in ingredients that could induce labor—oxytocin from nipple and orgasm, and prostaglandins in semen. Those are legit labor triggers. BUT (and it’s a big but), all of them only help if your wife's body and baby are ready to go into labor. If the baby isn’t done cooking, no amount of nookie will budge them.
In short: Have some preggo playtime because you want to or because it feels good, not because it’s a guaranteed labor-induction method. Worst case, you bond with your partner and relieve some stress. Best case, you trigger some contractions and get this show on the road. Win-win, really! But if triggering labor tonight isn't on your to-do list, here's how to keep the sexy time safe.
Don’t let the fear of labor ruin your love life. The vast majority of the time, sex will not send your wife into labor—again, IF THE BODY IS NOT YET READY.
By now, you’ve got my take—a male sexologist dishing out advice. But I’ll be the first to admit: I’ve never pushed a baby out of my body. 😅 So, for a balanced view, let's have a woman weigh in.
A Woman's Perspective..
On Myths About Sex & Labor
Gentlemen, as your partner navigates pregnancy (from the first to the third trimester), it's natural to have questions—and perhaps a few misconceptions—about intimacy during pregnancy. Let's tackle some common myths with factual clarity, so you can support her with confidence and care.
Myth #1 - Sex Will Hurt The Baby
Some folks worry intercourse might poke the baby (ouch!), scare them, or cause some kind of in-utero “trauma.” It’s understandable—your baby’s right there, after all.
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Myth #2 - Sex Can Trigger Miscarriage Or Preterm Labor
Many couples stress about this, especially early on, worried that sex during pregnancy might trigger a miscarriage or start labor too soon. Totally understandable concern, but here's the deal:
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Myth #3 - Having Sex While Pregnant Can Cause Harmful Infections
Some people worry that sex could introduce bacteria that might harm the baby or impact the placenta's blood supply. Pregnancy myths love to go wild with this one.
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Myth #4 - Post-Sex Contractions Mean Labor Has Started
It's easy to panic if contractions kick in after sex. Did we just accidentally start labor?!
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Navigating intimacy during pregnancy can feel tricky—myths everywhere, lots of uncertainty. But remember, sex is safe, normal, and healthy for most couples right through the third trimester. Talk openly, trust your body, follow your health provider’s guidance, and ditch the unnecessary stress. You’ve got this, confidently.
Now that we’ve dispelled the scary stuff, let’s tackle a few rapid-fire FAQs I often get from expecting parents about sex and inducing labor.
Frequently Asked Questions
Got late-pregnancy sex questions but too awkward to ask your buddies? Relax, I’ve heard it all—let’s break this down fast, simple, and crystal clear.
Not really. More frequent sex won’t fast-track labor unless her body’s already primed. Regular intimacy can help gently promote cervical ripening, but sex isn’t a shortcut—no matter how much you try.
Despite popular old wives' tales, no position guarantees labor. Still, positions that get semen closer to the cervix (like doggy-style) might slightly help cervical ripening. Comfort beats contortion every time.
Yep, sex can trigger Braxton Hicks (uterine contractions)—basically practice runs. They’re irregular, brief, and fade quickly. Real labor contractions stick around and get stronger, no matter how chill you try to get.
Solo sessions can spark similar contractions due to orgasm-induced oxytocin release, but no semen means less cervical impact. Think of it as half the equation: good practice, less likely to kickstart full labor.
Oral sex won’t directly induce labor—sorry, guys, no magic there. However, it can relax the pregnant person, reduce stress, and keep intimacy alive—never a bad thing at this stage.
Look for steady, strengthening contractions, spotting, or changes in discharge—those can signal labor’s starting. Sex late in pregnancy sometimes stirs things up, but if contractions fade away, it's a false alarm. Real deal sticks around, trust me—you’ll know.
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