Think you're a cunnilingus master, or just flailing around like it's a game of "find the clit"?
With over 70% of women needing direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, most guys are missing the mark.
Ready to eat pussy like a pro and give her orgasms she'll never forget?
Strap in for pussy eating tips that'll have her legs shaking—and begging for an encore.
In this article, we'll cover:
Why Bother Leveling Up Your Pussy Eating Skills?
You might be thinking, "Why go the extra mile with oral sex skills?" Well, here’s the truth: becoming a master at eating pussy is a game-changer for both of you.
It’s not just about her pleasure; it’s about building an electrifying connection that lasts way beyond the bedroom.
Let’s break it down.
Great oral sex can unlock levels of arousal she might not even know she had. When you know how to use your tongue to target those sensitive spots—like her clitoral hood or A-spot—you’re giving her permission to let go completely. And when a woman feels safe to express her sexuality with you, it’s an absolute game-changer. She'll feel more confident, bold, and ready to explore new things with you.
Let’s face it, penetrative sex can become routine if you’re doing it the same way every time. Leveling up your oral game breaks the pattern and introduces new dynamics to your sexual experience. By experimenting with different techniques, you keep things fresh and unpredictable, sparking the kind of excitement that makes both of you look forward to every encounter.
When you master eating pussy, she’ll start associating you with intense, unforgettable pleasure. Suddenly, you’re the one man who knows how to truly make her body sing. When she remembers the way you hit all her erogenous zones, the way you gently spread her vulva, the slow buildup to that moment, she’ll be thinking about you long after the session ends. Trust me, it’s a surefire way to keep that attraction burning bright.
Becoming skilled at oral isn’t just for her benefit. It also boosts your own sexual confidence. When you know how to get her to the edge and back with a simple flick of your tongue, you’ll feel like you can conquer the world—or at least the bedroom. This kind of confidence enhances the entire sexual experience, making every encounter more fulfilling for both of you.
Knowing how to read her body—when to gently insert your fingers or when to use more pressure—means you’re less likely to make moves that don’t hit the mark. The more you fine-tune your oral game, the easier it is to pick up on her cues. You’ll become fluent in her body's language, avoiding the awkward "Was that good for you?" moments.
Why bother learning these oral sex skills? Because no two orgasms are the same! When you know how to target the right spots with direct contact, match your rhythm with her heartbeat, or explore her vulva in different positions, you're not just giving her a basic orgasm—you’re giving her a tailored, unforgettable experience. This is something even the best porn star performance can’t replicate.
Leveling up isn’t just about performing tricks; it’s about becoming the partner she can’t stop thinking about.
When you master the art of eating pussy, you’re investing in deeper connection, adventurous intimacy, and mutual pleasure. And who wouldn’t want that kind of impact?
Think you're ready to graduate from "good" to "legendary"? Here are 7 pussy eating hacks to level up your game.
7 Game-Changing Pussy Eating Hacks Every Man Should Master
Most guys think they’ve got pussy eating down, but if her reaction isn’t mind-blowing, you’re missing something. These 7 pussy eating hacks will challenge what you know and take her pleasure to a whole new level.
Hack #1 - Try Edging
Edging is like dancing on the edge of pleasure—bring her close to orgasm, then back off just enough to keep her wanting more.
Watch for signs like quickened breathing and tense muscles, then change your technique or slow down to keep her on edge. Patience really does pay off when the final climax is explosive!
Hack #2 - Get Kinky
Kink is something that is not always paired with oral sex, but there is no reason it cannot be. If both of you are consenting parties, using spreader bars, adding a blindfold, handcuffs, or other BDSM elements can be a lot of fun.
The element of surprise and relinquishing control can be incredibly arousing for many women. Just make sure to establish boundaries and safe words beforehand.
Hack #3 - Use Your Fingers
While you focus on her clit with your mouth, use your fingers to stimulate her vaginal opening or G-spot.
This dual stimulation can create intense sensations and feel good, eventually leading up to climax.
Hack #4 - Combine with Toys
Add a G-spot wand to your oral routine for a serious upgrade. While your tongue teases her clit, use the wand to target her G-spot for dual stimulation.
Start with slow, rhythmic movements, and don’t forget to adjust the intensity based on her reactions. Pairing oral with the wand creates sensations that will have her on the edge—then all you need to do is finish strong!
Hack #5- Explore Anal Play
Why settle for one when you can have both—or even three? Start with one lubed finger in her anus, teasing her clit with your mouth.
Then, slowly introduce a finger into her vagina for a combo that’ll have her seeing stars. Just remember—never take a shortcut from the back door to the front. Cleanliness is next to sexiness!
Hack #6 - Encourage Self-Stimulation
Encourage her to touch herself while you go down on her. This can help her feel more in control and intensify her pleasure.
This could look something like while you eat her out, she uses one or multiple fingers to rub her clitoris. Your tongue can focus on other areas of her vulva, and she can concentrate on her own pleasure.
Hack #7- Use Sex Swings
The sex swing lifts her into the perfect position, allowing you to change positions and angles easily. It gives you full access to eat pussy without straining your neck or back.
Adjust the straps to have a better reach of her clit and vulva. With her legs free to move, you can explore every inch while staying focused on delivering mind-blowing oral pleasure.
Good? Sure. Great? Not yet. These 7 hacks will take your pussy eating skills from decent to legendary—time to prove it, mate.
To help you out, let me walk you through my personal checklist—because there's always room to level up your pussy eating game.
Andrew’s Checklist of Proven Pussy Eating Tips
Use this checklist to improve your pussy eating skills and give your partner the best oral sex experience possible.
With these tips, you’re not just giving her oral—you’re giving her a full-body experience she’ll be thinking about for days!
Ah, you think that's it? There's more. Now that you’ve got the tools, let’s ensure you’re not accidentally sabotaging all your hard work with a few rookie mistakes. Time for the ultimate pussy eating do’s and don’ts!
Pussy Eating Do’s & Don’ts To Enhance Pleasure
If you want to eat her pussy like a pro, knowing what to do and—just as importantly—what not to do is key.
Over the years, I’ve had plenty of clients share their stories, and these do's and don'ts can seriously elevate her pleasure.
Trust me—follow these tips, and you’ll go from average to oral legend in no time.
Do #1 - Start Slow
Begin with soft kisses and light licks, and savor the build-up. Don’t rush in like you’re racing to the finish.
Why She Likes It
I used to dive straight in, thinking faster was better. After Andrew suggested I slow down—game changer. My girl’s breathing got heavier, and when I finally reached her clit, she was already trembling. It felt like I was teasing her into a whole new level of pleasure. That small adjustment took things from ‘okay’ to ‘mind-blowing. — Steve, 33 AUS
Do #2 - Explore Her Entire Vulva
The clit is gold, but don’t neglect the rest—lick her inner lips, perineum, and the entire vulva.
Why She Likes It
We don’t talk much about sex, let alone oral. But when I started paying attention to every part of her vulva—her inner thighs, her lips—it was like she couldn’t get enough. She told me it was the first time she ever felt fully pleasured. Changed everything for us. — Ahmed, 34, LB
Do #3 - Mix Things Up
No one likes a one-trick pony. Change the rhythm, pressure, and speed to keep her on her toes.
Why She Likes It
I used to think the trick was sticking to one thing and riding it out. But nah, mixing up the pressure and speed? It blew her mind. One second I’m teasing her, the next I’m giving her everything. Keeps her guessing, and that’s when she really starts going wild. — John, 29, US
Do #4 - Love Eating Her Pussy
The golden rule: love what you’re doing. If you’re not into it, she’ll feel it.
Why She Likes It
You’ve gotta love it, mate. The more you’re into it, the more she is—it’s like you’re feeding off each other. — Paul, 40, AUS
Excellent work nailing the do’s, mate—now here’s where most guys trip up. Avoid these subtle mistakes that can throw her out of the moment because sometimes it’s not about what you do but what you don’t do that makes all the difference
Don’t #1 - Focus Solely On Her Orgasm
The rest of this guide is absolutely useless without this first part. After all, you can’t expect your woman to be in the mood if you can’t even take the time to prepare her body and her mind.
Why she doesn’t like it
Great stuff. Working with Andrew, I learned it’s all about the connection. When I stopped worrying about ‘getting her there’ and focused on loving every part of her pussy, man, the experience changed. The sounds she made, the way her legs wrapped around me—this wasn’t just sex anymore. — Nikolay, 31, BG
Don’t #2 - Dive Into Fingers Too Early
Keep your fingers out of the game—at least for now. Start with your mouth, and let your fingers come in when the moment’s right.
Why she doesn’t like it
Bruv, I used to think getting the fingers in early was the way to go, boy was I wrong. After waiting a bit and focusing on the oral, it was like her body just opened up. Timing, my man, timing is everything! — Dave, 26, UK
Don’t #3 - Be Stiff
Don’t be a robot down there. Loosen up, relax, and move naturally.
Why she doesn’t like it
I was so stiff, it was like I was performing a task on a checklist. But after learning Andrew's breath, sound, movement, and vocal expressions, I loosened up while eating her pussy. She went from quiet to practically yelling my name. Who knew that just relaxing could make such a difference? Now, it’s as much fun for me as it is for her. — Matthias, 35, GER
Pussy eating can be pure magic when done right as you just read.
Now, let’s see how she can take things up a notch. After all, it takes two to tango, and she’s got a few tricks of her own to make the ride even wilder!
A Woman's Perspective..
On How SHE Can Help You Make Pussy Eating Even Better
Receiving oral sex is about more than just lying back and letting him work his magic. Her role is just as crucial in making the experience pleasurable and memorable.
When she gets involved, it boosts the connection and makes the entire encounter feel tailored just for her. Here’s how she can maximize her pleasure when he goes downtown.
Ladies, read on this one is for you!
I. Wash & Shave Your Private Parts
This is less about “what he wants” and more about helping you feel confident and comfortable. Most women feel more at ease when freshly washed, which can set a more relaxed mood.
If you are worried about getting self-conscious down there, start with a gentle wash and consider shaving if that’s your thing. It helps keep everything clean and lowers the risk of irritations.
A hint of flavored lube can make things fun when he starts eating, adding to the sensory experience for both of you.
II. Move & Make Sound (Don’t Just Lay There Like a Starfish)
He needs to know you are enjoying it, so ladies, please don't hold back. Most women love feeling that rush of sensation when the whole body reacts.
Your verbal cues can guide him—moans, gasps, and even how your legs tense up all send the message that he’s on the right track.
You can even slowly insert your fingers if that’s what you enjoy, and let him watch. This kind of participation makes the moment feel shared, turning it into an experience that involves your whole body and soul.
III. Show Him What You Enjoy Most
Not every woman enjoys the same touch, so for you to guide him to what feels
good for you is key.
Whether it's his tongue relaxing and focusing on your clit or exploring other erogenous zones like your inner thigh, you need to tell him what works. You can use your hands to place his fingers inside or around areas you love being touched.
It's the biggest turn-on for him to precisely know what makes you feel amazing. Keeping him in the same place for a while or changing it up is all about what you need to enjoy the experience. Clear communication will help him tailor the experience to your body’s needs.
Maximizing pleasure during oral sex isn’t about perfection; it’s about communication and engagement.
By getting involved—whether it’s guiding him to your favorite spots or using your voice to show your enjoyment—you are creating an experience that’s unforgettable for both of you.
Make it about what you enjoy, and trust me, he'll be more than happy to follow her lead.
What If These Pussy Eating Tips Don't Get The Job Done?
First of all, remember practice makes perfect, and every woman’s body is different. Sometimes, you may need to adjust the intensity, pace, or techniques to find the right combination for your partner.
While technique is important, it’s about how you focus on her entirely. Sync your breath with hers, use your mouth, and pay attention to her verbal cues. Whether you’re focusing on direct clitoral stimulation or slowly inserting your fingers for internal stimulation, make her feel like she’s the only one that matters at that moment. This kind of attention makes great oral sex unforgettable.
Forget generic dirty talk. When you notice she is super sensitive to a spot, like how she gasps when you brush her vulva, let her know. Say, "I love how you melt when I use my tongue here." When she feels you’re tuned in, every touch and word heightens the moment.
Sometimes less is more, if none of those oral tips help, take a step back and focus on the basics of how to eat pussy like a pro.
Frequently Asked Questions
Let me help you one last time before sending you on your way. Here, you'll find some hot tips alongside answers to your burning questions.
B.V. (bacterial vaginosis) is common among women. Almost anything can upset the P.H. of her private parts and cause an overgrown of bad bacteria, which makes it smell. It could also be her diet. Some things, such as eating too many onions, cause a foul smell down there, too.
In those cases, be sensitive. Mention it with care and not judgment. For example, say, "I don't want to concern you, but I noticed you smell slightly different. Have you changed something in your diet or asked the gynecologist about it recently?"
It's easy—follow this guide to the letter T. Have you tried all of the techniques, tips, and advice yet?
I also have another complete guide on oral sex and a few videos on the topic.
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Get back to me in the comments section. I would love to hear how it went for you.
There’s no set time – it depends on her body and how she responds. Keep going until she reaches orgasm or indicates she’s satisfied.
Not everyone is comfortable with oral sex right away. Communicate openly and build arousal slowly. Pay attention to what she enjoys and respect her boundaries.
Absolutely! Eating pussy builds arousal and makes penetrative sex more enjoyable by focusing on her erogenous zones and getting her fully relaxed.
Involve cuddling before and after eating pussy to build intimacy. Hold her close, kiss her body, and show how much you care about her pleasure.
Yes, too much pressure can be a bad idea. Start with little pressure using the tip of your tongue and increase only if your partner's reactions show you enjoy it.
The Kivin Method is licking the clitoris from side to side instead of the traditional up and down motion. This technique, for some women, feels way better and can even lead to faster, more intense orgasms.
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