I think you’ll agree, giving any girl her first ever squirting orgasm isn’t easy:
And that’s why we created School Of Squirt – to show you exactly how to do it right.
And when I say ‘right’ – I mean, properly drenching the bedsheets.
…turning the mattress into a slip-n-slide
…making your girl weak at the knees
… pussy juice all over your face
(Got the message?)
Let’s face it though; most of us men suck in the bedroom.
The statistics don’t lie, most women are dissatisfied with how we perform in the bedroom.
The main problem? – We’re never taught what to do!
We have to learn our bedroom skills on our own… and that’s where it all goes wrong.
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Most of us learn our methods from other friends, from bad romance movies
Or even worse; From porn
They teach us algebra and Shakespeare at school. But giving women enourmous amounts of pleasure hasn’t been on the syllabus
Yes, unfortunately trying to learn the ropes of female sexuality and arousal isn’t Rocket Science…
It’s MUCH HARDER.
But if you want to learn how to make your girl go off like a rocket
Then listen up. Because what you’ll learn on School Of Squirt isn’t for the faint of heart.
The thing is… squirting shouldn’t be something that’s confined to the halls of seedy adult film sets.
It should be just another part of an amazing and fulfilling sex life.
Men usually ejaculate during sex, so why shouldn’t every women?
For women, having an ejaculating orgasm is as good as it gets – It’s the most powerful and intense orgasm women are capable of. So I applaud you for searching out this information.
Most guys are way too lazy to bother, so I’m guessing, that you’ve taken the time to figure this stuff out, means you’re already in the top 1% of guys.
But let me ask you!! Is that good enough?
Do you want to be in the top 1% or do you truly want to give women the best orgasm of their lives.
An orgasm that’s in a different category
Nay… a different Galaxy
Well to give a girl a squirting orgasm that takes her in to outer space… read on!
The first thing to keep in mind when making girls bust their juices, is choosing the right girl.
Now if you already have a girl in mind, then you can skip this section and go right to the business end of things.
But if you don’t already have a girlfriend, wife or even a f**k buddy, read on.
Girls who can easily ejaculate often have what we call at School Of Squirt, squirter dimples.
Read more about squirter dimples here.
These cute little dimples are a sure sign you’ve got a crazy squirter on your hands (even though she probably doesn’t know it)
By the way, this is a great topic of conversation when meeting girls. Talking to a girl about her dimples, lifting up her shirt to see if she has any and generally discussing squirting is a great way to get the conversation flowing (and her pussy wet) By the way, if you’re still not sure what squirting is try this.
SIDE NOTE: If you don’t have a girlfriend be sure to check out my this amazing Dating Metrics article about how to get a girlfriend.
NOTE: If you want to cut right to the chase and watch the video – then GO HERE.
How to set the frame
“Just get me to the damn technique” I hear you say.
Patience young Padiwan
First you must set the frame of the relationship. But if you really can’t wait, you might want to go and check out this video now.
When you set the right frame with the girl you intend to give a squirting orgasm to, everything else becomes a whole lot easier.
Get this wrong, and you’ll be bashing your head against the wall. Get it right and the techniques we teach work like a charm.
The frame is the way you and girl relate to one another. If you think the girl would be embarrassed or shy if she squirted in front of you (girls, find out how to squirt here)…
Or if you might feel awkward if she did, then your frame has been setup wrong.
A couple could be having sex everynight, but still have a frame where her female ejaculation would be considered weird.
I want you to take special notice of the frames you have with the women/ woman with whom you have a sexual relation.
Let’s not get bogged down in frames too much here, as the topic is quite large, but keep in mind, if you intend to make plenty of different girl squirt, you must understand frames.
How to set the mood
The mood is the environment you’re in when you use the techniques we teach. Women are incredibly attuned to their environment, and a good mood will set the scene, help her relax, and let her attention come into her body.
This is exactly what you need to make her squirt.
So how does one set the mood?
This isn’t hard to be honest. You want to be thinking; Lighting, Candles, Music (sometimes), Temperature.
The lighting should be dim, but enough to see what you’re doing. Too bright and she feels self conscious and like she’s in an adult film set.
Candles, if you’re allowed them, help with smell, the flickering flames create a very romantic mood too.
The right music (I love Bonobo for this) will help to relax both of you. Girls love music and often they’ll feel the pulse much more strongly in their body then men. As you’ll see, we really, really want to get her out of her mind (logic) and into her body (physical/emotion.)
And finally, temperature. Keep the temperature, if possible on the hotter side, that tends to make arousal easier and obviously means you won’t have to hide under the bed sheets all night.
Okay, all set? Good, let’s push forward!
Preparation is important, but you won’t need to spend hours on this part, so let’s whizz through this quickly. If you’re dying to see my videos then click here.
Step 1, get hold of a good lube, there are plenty of great ones out there. Personally, I’m a big fan of grape seed oil. But I know, trying to get hold of grape seed oil at 1 in the morning is not the easiest of taks.
There are other lubes that work great too, and you can read more about them here.
Step 2, trim you finger nails. This is IMPORTANT. Trim and file your nails before putting them inside her vagina. No girl wants’ to be scraped down there and you will immediately turn her off if you do.
All sorted? Excellent!
Lets talk about a very important step now
How to get her turned on enough to squirt
Getting your lovely lady turned on enough to squirt is where the men are separated from the boys. And there’s an entire guide I wrote about how to make a girl horny which you can read if you’d like!
No? Okay well let me summarise it quickly for you here.
Firstly, most guys underestimate how long it takes to turn a girl on using conventional methods. Oddly enough there are ways to skip the foreplay, but that’s a more advanced trick I’m not going to elaborate on now.
For a woman to ejaculate, her Skene’s gland must be filled up, and this is typically a process that happens over time, as you make her more and more horny.
A wise man once made the analogy that men are like the flame; We can get turned on and off easily. Women are more like water because they take longer to heat up, but also stay warm for longer.
That’s a great way to think about it.
So… let’s talk about getting her turned on.
There’s really on 3 things to it. TOUCHING, TEASING & ESCALATION
Touch is the most important part of arousal (well, I’m sure that’s obvious to you) but where and how you touch is where most guys go horribly wrong.
You don’t want to go right for her most sensitive spots straight away. You wouldn’t try and boil water with a flamethrower now, would you?
Explore the rest of her body with your touch before moving onto her pussy and nipples. This way you’ll build anticipation without over stimulating her. Foreplay takes place in the mind for most women.
No in the genitals, like most men experience.
Teasing is critical. Like I said, you want to build anticipation. You should have her aching to feel your touch. He should be dripping wet before you’re even got to her pussy.
So… both physically and mentally tease her. Do this right and she’ll be begging for you to make her cum.
Let’s see. Where are we?
You’ve found the girl, you’ve set the frame, you’re prepared with lubrication, perfect smooth fingernails, condoms, and the mood is perfect.
Okay, well shall we continue then?
Escalation is the third step in arousal. Of course, you can’t tease her forever, eventually you must increase your level of intimacy. Now it’s time to suck on her nipples and touch her vagina.
Time for a quick tip: When you know how to eat pussy the right way, turning a girl on and making her squirt will become super easy.
Not to mention, she’ll probably want to repay the favour with an epic blowjob.
Going down on a girl is one of the best ways to get her to the point of no return, and if you do it right all your have to do is slip your fingers in and you’ll be off to the races with her first squirting orgasm.
Oh yeah, and in case you aren’t going to read that article on female ejaculation & cunninglingus, the key to being good at it is PASSION.
Okay so, let me see. She’s now dripping wet and begging for you to penetrate her. You could do, but unless you know how to make a girl squirt during intercourse, you must avoid this route for now.
To a certain extent you must try and NOT make her orgasm until you have your fingers inside her and she is ready to squirt.
For the purposes of this article, I want to keep things straight forward because we have videos that explain exactly what to do in more detail so having a look at them is going to save you time and make sure you get this part right.
The jist of the technique is that you’re going to need to hit her g-spot in rapid succession using your fingers. If she cooperates and pushed out when she feels herself about to orgasm then it’s highly likely she’ll completely bust, and squirt her lovely juices all over your face.
Pressure, speed, timing, rhythm and using the right fingers are all critical, so make sure you know exactly what you’re doing.
Remove your fingers too early, and she won’t have built up enough pressure to squirt, so the orgasm will just be very wet. Remove them too late and she may not orgasm at all. You need to keep an eye out for indicators that show how far she is from squirting.
After she squirts
After your girl has had a massive squirting orgasm will be one of the best moments of yours (and hers) lives. She will be in complete ecstasy, and if you’ve done it right – Barely able to walk.
She will also be emotionally vulnerable, so please don’t take advantage of her in any way. This is a time to be a strong, masculine and caring figure for her.
Kiss her on the forehead, tell her how much it turned you on to see her squirt. Tell her how beautiful and feminine she looks.
She should be sweaty and exhausted and absolutely beautiful.
Congratulations good Sir, you’ve just given a girl her first ever squirting orgasm… And probably one of the most powerful orgasm of her life.
You’ve also unleashed a beast because this girl will probably demand that you give her these kind of orgasm over and over again.
But then again – I’m confident you’ll be able to cope with that.
Some girls can bust there juices so hard that they squirt a couple of feet across the bedroom, but all girls are different.
There are a few things you can do to make her orgasm more powerful. Let’s briefly cover them now.
Get her to go to the toilet beforehand. This means she’ll be able to squirt with the confidence that she’s not going to pee.
Get her doing kegels. These are the little exercises that both men and women should both be doing daily. They’ll help you maintain your erections and stop premature ejaculation.
And they’ll also help her have much more powerful orgasms (particularly female ejaculatory orgasms) by strengthening her vaginal walls. This can make quiet a difference after just a few weeks of practice.
And finally, learn about how to give multiple and stacked squirting orgasms. This is the Jedi level of squirting orgasm mastery and the type of orgasm she will never forget.
Learn this stuff and you will be a King amongst men. A God in the bedroom. You’ll be the best she’s ever had, and you’ll have the keys to her heart.
You’ll have the confidence to meet any girl, any place because you know you’ve got what no other guy is offering…
… And she’ll be able to tell from a mile away that you’re a guy with sexual confidence who knows exactly what he’s doing in the bedroom. Another thing you can try is making her squirt during sex.
I think you’ll agree, giving any girl her first ever squirting orgasm isn’t easy:
And that’s why we’ve come up with this epic guide.
Squirting shouldn’t be something that’s confined to the halls of seedy adult film sets, it should be just another part of an amazing and fulfilling sex life. Us men usually ejaculate during sex, so why shouldn’t every women?
For women, the gushing orgasm is the most powerful, explosive orgasm they can achieve, and that’s why we focus on helping you learn through instructional videos that teach the exact emotional and physical arousal techniques needed to get her turned on and gushing buckets.
Why gushing orgasms?
The mainstream may consider female ejaculation no more than a fad or a gimmick but only those lucky women who have experienced it can give testimony that an ejaculating orgasm is one of the most powerful and intense orgasms she’s capable of experiencing.
Most women say it’s a feeling of complete release, and relaxation, much like the male ejaculation but without the purpose of reproduction. In fact I’d go as far as to say that any women who hasn’t experienced it is truly missing out on her full sexual potential.
I mean, if you’re a guy reading this then imagine having an orgasm without ejaculating, unless you’re a tantric master then it doesn’t sound that appealing. Well the same is true for women, ejaculation is the ultimate release and can add another dimension to the female orgasm. If you haven’t yet found a partner to practice with then we recommend reading about the ways to get a girlfriend.
Good preparation will drastically increase the chances of helping your girl gush. Of course, the preparation is not absolutely necessary but if you want to stack the odds in your favour (if you have a new girl, or a regular partner who has never squirted before) then these preparatory steps are recommended.
Make sure you trim your fingernails and preferably file them down nice and short and smooth. Make sure you actually go and do this because otherwise it can be really uncomfortable for your partner.
Ideally you’ll also want to make sure the location has a nice ambient temperature where you can both comfortably be naked. If it’s too hot, that’s fine, but being too cold can be annoying and slow down the warmup. Ideally have a few spare towels on hand, especially if it’s your own bed and you don’t want crusty bed sheets
Get a decent lube. Yes you can always spit on your hand if you don’t have any but sometimes it can take a while for her to cum and you might run out of spit. A proper lube works much better and is more enjoyable for her.
The lube will help avoid friction burns that will turn her off and also help transition heat evenly to her skin which will engorge her clit and g-spot and turn her on. With a good lube you can increase the speed and intensity of the motions that will help her reach climax without worrying about causing her any pain or irritation.
Get her warmed up & turned on
Most men underestimate the importance of warming up both for having great sex and helping a woman squirt. Men can get horny and turned on much quicker than women. We might see a flash of boobies for 3 seconds and start getting an erection. Women however are like water, it can take much longer to warm them up, but they stay warm for longer.
There are both emotional and physiological reasons why it’s so important to take warm her up properly before attempting to make her gush.
The emotional aspect of this is that the woman must feel comfortable, relaxed and totally at ease with you and with her self in a sexual situation before she will be open to letting go and squirting in front of you. For a partner you have not had sex with before the emotional side of female ejacuation will be your biggest challenge, simply because most women are shy about gushing in front of a new man.
The warmup and preparation are all about showing her that she can trust you and you won’t freak out if she pees on the bed or something unexpected happens. Once she feels she can trust you emotionally then you can move on to warming her up physically.
For men with regular partners the emotional aspect of the warmup will be less important because she already trusts you and is familiar with you.
Women must be turned on to be able to ejaculate.
The Skene’s gland is where the female ejaculate comes from when she squirts. Under normal everyday conditions the gland is empty, and un-inflated. When the woman becomes aroused the gland actually begins to balloon and fill with the fluid she will hopefully gush buckets out later on. The gland fills slowly over time as she gets more and more turned on.
Often when women are really turned on they will complain they need to pee, in fact they are mistaking the pressure in the Skene’s gland for that in the bladder.
Over time they will come to perceive a difference between the two. It’s a good idea to remind her to go to the toilet before you get her turned on so she will be more relaxed and more confident that the feeling isn’t a full bladder. Understanding how the Skene’s gland fills up over time will show you clearly how important turning her on and getting her horny is to having success later on. This all about working hard now so when it comes to the moment she is ready to blow.
So how do you get her turned on?
Foreplay and turning a woman on comes down to 3 things: touching, teasing and escalation. Touch her lightly and softly, avoid the errogenous zones to start with and then move on to them when she becomes more turned on. Tease her by making your touch unpredictable and vary between soft and hard touches.
Use pauses and expectation to build tension and anticipation. Your aim with teasing it to get her consciousness focused on her body and the touch and sensation coming from her body, instead of up in her head where she will be thinking logically.
The combination of teasing and escalation is award winning. You can’t just touch and tease, that would get boring and frustrating after a while. You have to start by avoiding the erogenous zones and slowly build up to include them. Turning a woman on is like the economy, the overall trend is always going up (escalation) but there are highs and lows along the way (teasing). So, to turn a woman on, touch, tease and escalate.
So how can you tell if a woman is turned on enough and ready to ejaculate her lovely female juices. Of course there are physical indicators such as a wet pussy, warm body and flushed face these are all excellent indicators that she is ready to go. There are even more subtle yet accurate indicators however that show she is ready. If you look at her eyes you will be able to tell (after some practice) if she is ‘in the moment’ or in the thinking, logical part of her brain.
If she looks like she is thinking and stuck in her head, instead of her body, then you may have more work to do. Ideally she will be fully immersed in the sensory experience of her body, she will be in the moment without and ‘little voices’ talking in her head. If she looks like that then good job: you’re ready to go. A good ball park figure for a new partner who hasn’t squirted before would be a 30 minute warm up until she is ready for you to apply the method.
During the preparation & arousal building phase it will help if you know how to eat her Pussy.
What is the best technique?
Throughout the squirting technique it is useful to establish a relationship where she feels open to giving you feedback, and isn’t afraid to say ‘harder’ or ‘softer.’ Women are very individual about what turns them on and makes them gush that using the feedback she gives is the only way to ‘guarantee’ she busts every time.
After some practice you will become good at reading non verbal feedback, even with different women, as a result she will wonder how you know exactly what to do and when and your ‘squirt rate’ will increase.
“Sometimes it can be a good idea to tell her what you’re about to do to her. If you’re about to slide a finger into her vagina then you can let her know, this can help reduce her nervous anticipation.”
However, I would only use this technique with girls that you think might be slightly uncomfortable. With women who you have already established a sexual relationship with or are clearly relaxed and enjoying the process, it can be a good idea to build anticipation and surprise.
Throughout the entire process use plenty of lube, and remember to replace it throughout the session. You should never feel dry skin rubbing on dry skin. Make sure the lube is at body temperature before it comes in contact with her erogenous zones.
Stimulate her clit
The first thing you’ll want to do after the warm up is to stimulate her clit. The clit is delicate. Especially to start with you don’t want too apply much pressure. Lightly stroke it with your pointer finger or suck on it. You can build speed and pressure as she gets more aroused. Light rhythmic and quick strokes are best for the clit, but build up the speed gradually. Be responsive to her feedback at this point, if she looks in any discomfort, decrease the pressure and speed, and then build from there.
At first you may want to use just one finger slowly inserted inside her with your palm facing the roof. Make sure the finger is well lubed and the lube is body temperature. A cold hand will sharply reduce her arousal, and you will have to build her arousal back up again.
There are 3 basic motions that can be used to stimulate her g-spot with your finger(s). The 1st motion (and most important one) is the come hither motion. The fingers are curled upwards and moved in and out towards your palm. The 2nd motion is the windscreen wiper motion.
The curled fingers are moved from side to side across the g-spot, essentially wiping her g-spot. The tips of your fingers will be pointing towards her left hip then her right hip. The 3rd motion the barrel roll inside her. Use the tips of your fingers to make a circular motion inside the vagina. Use the 3 motions with either one or two fingers to stimulate her g-spot.
Double stimulation means stimulating the clitoris with one hand and the g-spot with the other hand. This can bring about more powerful and pleasurable orgasms, and help her reach orgasm more quickly. Many women who have had the double stimulation orgasm purport that is their favourite kind of orgasm.
When you have a rhythm that she enjoys, keep with that rhythm. Speed-up as she gets more turned on, when you feel her g spot start swelling up it will put more pressure on your fingers, this is the sign she is really turned on and almost ready to start ejaculating, maintain the rhythm or increase the speed and pressure slightly, with the come hither motion hooking round the g-spot. You can also use a vibrator on her clit if you find it hard to make different motions with both hands.
It’s very important at this point to remember no to be goal oriented. If she feels in the slightest that you will be disappointed with yourself or with her if she doesn’t cum it will make it much harder for her to do it. Sometimes you can even tell her ‘don’t come now,’ with a smile. This completely removes any psychological pressure to ejaculate but also has the hidden command of ‘squirt now,’ however you must have the relationship where she knows you’re just being cheeky and not serious.
As you continue with the g-spot stimulation you will want to transition into a stronger up and down motion, with your fingers curled upwards (palm towards the roof.) As she gets ready to squirt the pressure on your fingers inside her vagina will increase as the skene’s gland fills and the PC muscles contract. The pressure is an indicator that she is about to squirt and if you remove your fingers now she may do so.
Timing is very important
Remove your fingers quickly when you feel the pressure and continue to rub her clit with the other hand. At this point she should be squirting. If she doesn’t doesn’t, that’s ok, just go back to the g-spot stimulation techniques and build from there. Some men remove their fingers too early so not enough pressure has built up.
If she still doesn’t come after a few tries then don’t be disappointed and put pressure on her, this won’t help. You can transition into intercourse and come back to the technique later, or wait until next time.
A common mistake that I believe many guys make is that their timing is out of sync with the woman, and they are disconnected from her. Connection with the woman you are hoping to release her ejaculate is hugely important for a number of reasons but the main one that I want to discuss in this article is timing when to remove your fingers from her vagina.
It’s especially important to get the timing right because if you remove your fingers too early, her squirting orgasm will either be non-existent or it will be much weaker than what it could be, resulting is lacklustre ejaculatory volume and decreased pleasure for her.
On the other hand if you hold your fingers in her vagina you may prevent her from being able to squirt altogether because your fingers will be blocking the vaginal opening and prohibiting the orgasm.
So how do you know when to remove your fingers?
Sorry, but the answer is not a simple one. The best way to get your timing right is to practice making your partner squirt as many times as possible (or with as many different partners as possible.) Over time you’ll build up reference experiences that will help you be a better judge of when to remove your fingers. There are some indicators that the woman will give you that it’s useful to be aware of however.
The biggest tell-tale sign that she is ready is a building pressure coming from the walls of her vagina and g-spot. It varies for different women but sometimes it can feel like her vagina is literally pushing your hand out. Often she will explicitly tell you to remove your fingers as the pressure/pleasure becomes overwhelming.
It’s also common that her body begins to wriggle and writhe during an orgasm that you won’t be able to keep your hand in contact with her pussy. As you begin to know your partner better, you can hold your fingers inside her for longer allowing the pressure and volume of female ejaculate to increase.
When you do remove your fingers (or penis) from her vagina, remove it quickly and with some pressure towards the roof of her pussy (against her g-spot) brushing it as you retract your hand. This, combined with the vacuum that the removal of your fingers creates, often triggers her to cum immediately.
It’s a good idea to keep your hand close to her vaginal opening while she releases because as her orgasm tapers off she will at her most orgasmic, so just a few more quick ‘come hither’ motions can trigger another squirting orgasm.
Creating a vacuum when the fingers are removed is also a technique that we use to make the woman ejaculate her pussy juice during sex because as the penis removed quickly and then a finger (your or hers) or a vibrator rubs the clit she will often cum hard and wet.
One way to increase the intensity of her ejaculations is to briskly rub her vaginal opening with your two fingers as they are removed from her vagina (in addition to the other hand rubbing her clit.)
Always be aware of feedback that your partner is giving you and try to adjust accordingly. Most of the time this will be non-verbal feedback because the woman won’t want to jump back into the logical part of her mind with verbal communication.) This doesn’t mean to be ‘hypersensitive’ and respond to her every movement.
You have to be masculine and lead the interaction and guide her through her journey, but still adjust your method and pressure accordingly.