Top 30 Sexperts Worth Listening To in 2023

  • Laura Rose Halliday
  • Published: November 28, 2022

Sex is complicated. There’s no shame in seeking a little advice to help you improve your sex life and up your bedroom game every once in a while.

But, given the number of mixed messages and misinformation out there about sex, it’s important to choose your sources wisely.

With that in mind, we’ve prepared a list of the most renowned sexperts the world has to offer. These guys are true masters in their fields and are the people to go to if you’re looking for science-backed, no-nonsense, professional advice on all things sex.

Check them out below!

1. Lucie Blush


Lucie Blush is a porn creator and blogger. After searching for years for porn that was erotic and sensual enough to satisfy her, Lucie took to creating her own pornographic content. She now shares the details of her sexual journey and information about finding great porn online on her blog

2. Erika Lust

Erika Lust is an erotic filmmaker and female provocateur who knows a thing or two about kinks and sexuality. Her site plays host to her catalog of erotic indie films and Erika also provides expert knowledge through her blog the LustZine. She posts about everything from how to use nipple clamps to how to introduce BDSM into your relationship.

3. Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality, on a mission to open up conversations about sex and pleasure. Her site, Sex with Emily focuses on topics like how to last longer in bed, and how to keep honeymoon vibes alive in your relationship. She really knows her stuff and hosts her own podcast, which is ranked #1 on Itunes.

4. Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross are experts in women’s self-pleasure and independent orgasm. After Betty honed the ‘Betty Dodson Method’ for self-love and orgasmic pleasure, the pair started a website based on user-submitted questions in 2007.

Betty and Carlin have achieved a number of awards for their contributions to sexology, and Caralin’s vulva has even been aired on national TV in Norway!

5. Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan

Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan are comic illustrators turned sex-toy reviewers. Their site, OhJoySexToy is a must-visit if you’re looking to spice up your toybox this year.

Not only do they provide in-depth reviews of the latest sex gadgets, but they also illustrate and publish kinky sex stories that are sure to get you hot under the collar.

6. Sean Jameson

Sean Jameson, the creator of Bad Girls Bible, is an authority on all things relating to sex and relationships. His blog provides illustrated guides for elevating your sex life, from how to give a great blow job, to how to talk dirty. He also hosts an awesome podcast that’s well worth a listen.

7. Andrea Barrica

Andrea Barrica is the founder of the awesome and informational site O School. Her site focuses on all things sex and relationships and tackles the tough questions without any embarrassment. Whether you need help tackling body insecurities, or you’re looking to try some kinky new things in the bedroom, you can find a ton of information on the O School blog.

8. Karley Sciortino

Karley Sciortino is an acclaimed sexpert and columnist for the vogue sex column Breathless. She also has her own website, Slutever which explores topics like pro-sex feminism, BDSM, sex parties, and more. Karley also authors the book Slutever: Dispatches from an Autonomous Woman in a Post Shame World.

9. Justin Hancock

Justin Hancock is a qualified sex educator and the creator of Bish, an educational sex site that is aimed at everyone over the age of 14.

Justin started his site in 2009 after identifying a need for more in-depth sex education for young people. He now helps young people that are just starting their sexual journeys learn more about their own bodies, sex, and relationships.

10. Dangerous Lilly

Lilly, the owner of the site, is an expert in all things sex toys. She’s reviewed hundreds of sex toys on her site over the years, and she can also help you learn how to use sex toys safely and care for your sex toys. If you’re looking for the perfect dildo or a new vibrator, Dangerous Lilly is the sexpert for you.

11. Kim Anami

Kim Anami is an LA and Bali-based sexpert that is an expert in all things Tantra. From a young age, Kim was exploring the exciting world of tantric sexuality. Now through her blogs, courses, and podcasts, she helps men and women get more pleasure out of their love lives. 

12. Epiphora from Hey Epiphora

Epiphora is the creator of which focuses on all things sex toys. Epiphora and her self-claimed ‘discerning vagina’ have reviewed hundreds of different sex toys including dildos, vibrators, and anal toys. Epiphora’s site is both informative and fun, with sections about her favorite porn and general banter. In our opinion, it’s well worth a visit!

13. Dr. Jen Gunter

Dr. Jen Gunter is an OB/GYN turned blogger. She’s been hailed as Twitter’s resident Gynecologist and educates women about pressing issues like menopause, vaginal health, and more. She’s also the host of the informative podcast ‘Body Stuff’ which covers a range of issues and demystifies myths about health.

14. Deon Black

Deon Black is an experienced dating and sex coach. He is the founder of the site and the author of the book “The 47-Hour Premature Ejaculation Cure.” Through his blog and books, Deon helps men to enjoy longer and more fulfilling sex, and reviews sex toys like anal massagers that can help keep the spark alive in the bedroom.

15. Cath Hakanson

Cath Hakanson is an experienced sex educator and parent that tackles the tough issues surrounding teaching kids about sex. Cath believes you can take the cringe out of discussing sex with kids and educate them properly to make good sexual decisions when they are older. Cath’s site Sex Ed Rescue focuses on how to do this.

16. Dr. Jess O’Reilly

Dr. Jess O’Reilly is a bestselling author, sexologist, and public speaker. She’s the mastermind behind the hugely popular ‘Marriage as a Business program which helps married couples reform their married life in a no-nonsense and practical way. Through her books, blogs, and podcasts, Dr. Jess educates couples on how to keep the sexual spark in their relationship alive.

17. Layla Martin

Layla Martin is a thought leader in the intersection of sexual wellness, Tantra, erotic empowerment, and personal development. Named the Headmistress of Pleasure by Women’s Health Magazine and a Sexpert Extraordinaire by Cosmopolitan, Layla has spent her life studying the science and deep magic of sexuality and human relationships.

As founder of the VITA™ Method, she’s been certifying professionals in a Tantric approach to Love, Sex, and Relationships for over 7 years and has worked with over 15,000 paid clients. For 20 years, Layla traveled the world as a devoted student of Tantra, training with the most high-level teachers of this powerful tradition. She studied human sexuality, neuroscience, and biology at Stanford University, and immersed herself in the energetic traditions of Taoism and early witchcraft.Along the way, she personally curated a dynamic, holistic system from over 10,000 hours of practice that blends ancient traditions with modern techniques.

18. Girl on the Net

The anonymous founder of ‘Girl on the Net’ is a sexpert and self-proclaimed pervert who loves sex. Her kinky blog features everything from audio porn to guest posts about saucy sexual encounters. Girl on the Net aims to break down sex stigma and prove that it’s ok to love sex, masturbation, and everything in between.

19. Don and Angela Watson

Don and Angela Watson are the sexperts behind, a hub for information about sex toys. Don and Angela constantly review the latest sex toys, so that their community only spends money on the very best toys. They cover toys for women and men so you’re sure to find something that will catch your eye.

20. Joan Price

Joan Price is a senior sex expert who believes that sex should be ageless. 

A prolific author and thought leader in her field, Joan has penned many insightful books on the subject of sexually active aging, including ‘the ultimate guide to sex after 50′,’naked at our age’, and ‘ageless erotica’.

If you’re looking for some advice on how to enjoy sex in your retirement years, she’s the woman to go to!

21. Dr. Nan Wise

Dr. Nan Wise is a neuroscientist and author of the bestselling book why good sex matters. For Dr. Nan, good sex holds the key to mental well-being and happiness, which is why she helps people to improve their sex lives from a neurological perspective. As well as her book, she also offers therapeutic counseling services.

22. Dr. Barb DePree M.D

Dr. Barb DePree M.D is the founder of Middlesex MD and her blog focuses on helping women to continue enjoying sex after menopause. Dr. Barb uses her extensive knowledge and experience in the field of women’s sexual health to educate women and empower them to talk about their sexual experiences with doctors to improve their sex lives overall.

23. Nick and Amy Boyajian

Nick and Amy Boyajian are the founders of the awesome and inclusive sex blog Wild Flowers. Nick and Amy use their blog to open up conversations about important topics like gender and sexual inclusivity and also provide useful guides about sex toy safety as well as reviews of their favorite toys.

24. Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel

Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel are co-founders of the Somatica institute and its method of sex and relationships. They are also the founders of the educational blog Their blog tackles a variety of sexual issues from sexless marriage to the psychology of sex.

25. Amanda Passciuco

Amanda Passciuco is a life coach and therapist that aims to transform the intimate and sexual lives of couples through coaching. Amongst her clients, she has been hailed the sex healer, thanks to her no B.S approach to rebuilding intimacy in relationships. Amanda and her team offer 1-1 support to clients in a variety of different formats.

26. Shan Boodram

Shan Boodram is a qualified sexologist and sex educator. She’s a 2x best-selling author in the sex industry. Her latest book The Game of Desire provides a fun and to-the-point perspective on dating and finding the right partner. She also shares her knowledge and expertise in the form of online courses and 1-1 coaching sessions.

27. Dave aka Mr. Racy

Dave, the founder of is an advocate for men’s sexuality and uses his blog to write about ways to make sex more enjoyable for men. He explores and reviews sex toys like anal massagers, masturbators, and dolls, as well as providing insights on dating and relationships from a male perspective.

28. Alice Little

Alice Little is a digital sex worker and expert in all things intimacy. Alice offers a range of services to help people become more intimate and confident sexually. Alice offers dates as a virtual girlfriend, sexual exploration and flirtation over webcam, and much more. If a petite and pretty redhead is your type, be sure to check out her site.

29. Dawn Serra

Dawn Serra is a sex and relationship coach that believes that all relationships can be healed. She’s also the host of the awesome sex podcast Sex Gets Real which features new guests every episode and delves into topics like sexuality kinks and more.

30. Vanessa Marin

Vanessa Marin is a qualified psychotherapist and sex coach who specializes in sex therapy. For the last decade, she’s been helping couples and individuals to have better sex and enjoy the fulfilling sexual experiences they deserve.

Through her online courses and coaching services, she helps people to overcome their barriers in the bedroom, achieve better orgasms, and improve their sexual confidence.

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