Sex is complicated. There’s no shame in seeking a little advice to help you improve your sex life and up your bedroom game every once in a while.
But, given the number of mixed messages and misinformation out there about sex, it’s important to choose your sources wisely.
With that in mind, we’ve prepared a list of the most renowned sexperts the world has to offer. These guys are true masters in their fields and are the people to go to if you’re looking for science-backed, no-nonsense, professional advice on all things sex.
Check them out below!
1. Jordan Gray
Jordan Gray is a relationship consultant that focuses on helping people find their passion and live love-filled lives.
Jordan provides one-to-one consulting services and also runs a variety of courses, as well as a blog. Jordan explores issues like polyamorous relationships, improving your sex life, and having amazing sex without an erection.
2. Erika Lust
Erika Lust is an erotic filmmaker and female provocateur who knows a thing or two about kinks and sexuality. Her site plays host to her catalog of erotic indie films and Erika also provides expert knowledge through her blog the LustZine. She posts about everything from how to use nipple clamps to how to introduce BDSM into your relationship.
3. Dr. Emily Morse
Dr. Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality, on a mission to open up conversations about sex and pleasure. Her site, Sex with Emily focuses on topics like how to last longer in bed, and how to keep honeymoon vibes alive in your relationship. She really knows her stuff and hosts her own podcast, which is ranked #1 on Itunes.
4. Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross
Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross are experts in women’s self-pleasure and independent orgasm. After Betty honed the ‘Betty Dodson Method’ for self-love and orgasmic pleasure, the pair started a website based on user-submitted questions in 2007.
Betty and Carlin have achieved a number of awards for their contributions to sexology, and Caralin’s vulva has even been aired on national TV in Norway!
5. Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan
Erica Moen and Matthew Nolan are comic illustrators turned sex-toy reviewers. Their site, OhJoySexToy is a must-visit if you’re looking to spice up your toybox this year.
Not only do they provide in-depth reviews of the latest sex gadgets, but they also illustrate and publish kinky sex stories that are sure to get you hot under the collar.
6. Sean Jameson
Sean Jameson, the creator of Bad Girls Bible, is an authority on all things relating to sex and relationships. His blog provides illustrated guides for elevating your sex life, from how to give a great blow job, to how to talk dirty. He also hosts an awesome podcast that’s well worth a listen.
7. Andrea Barrica
Andrea Barrica is the founder of the awesome and informational site O School. Her site focuses on all things sex and relationships and tackles the tough questions without any embarrassment. Whether you need help tackling body insecurities, or you’re looking to try some kinky new things in the bedroom, you can find a ton of information on the O School blog.
8. Phil Steinweber and Mariah Freya
Phil Steinweber and Mariah Freya are the masterminds behind Beducated – a site offering a range of informative courses that can help you reignite the spark in your sex life.
Their courses can teach you how to please a vulva, give an awesome prostate massage, or ramp up the kink factor in the bedroom. If your sex life is in need of a little TLC, Phil and Mariah are your go-to gurus.
9. Justin Hancock
Justin Hancock is a qualified sex educator and the creator of Bish, an educational sex site that is aimed at everyone over the age of 14.
Justin started his site in 2009 after identifying a need for more in-depth sex education for young people. He now helps young people that are just starting their sexual journeys learn more about their own bodies, sex, and relationships.
10. Dangerous Lilly
Lilly, the owner of the site dangerouslilly.com, is an expert in all things sex toys. She’s reviewed hundreds of sex toys on her site over the years, and she can also help you learn how to use sex toys safely and care for your sex toys. If you’re looking for the perfect dildo or a new vibrator, Dangerous Lilly is the sexpert for you.
11. Cara Sutra
Cara Sutra is a sex blogger and expert in the adult industry. She’s worked for major adult brands like sextoys.co.uk and simplypleasure.com, and also runs her own, highly erotic and informative blog. If you want to read kinky stories, get sex advice, or get discounts on your sex toys, Cara’s site, Carasutra.com is a must-visit.
12. Juliet Allen
Juliet Allen is a sexologist and expert tantra practitioner. Juliet aims to help men and women embrace their sexuality and enjoy more pleasurable sex. Juliet is the pioneer of the 12-month Pleasure School™ course which helps people to elevate their sex life using tantric practices, pussy and cock worship, and more. She also runs her own podcast and has designed her own sex toy known as ‘The Pleasure Wand’
13. Dr. Jen Gunter
Dr. Jen Gunter is an OB/GYN turned blogger. She’s been hailed as Twitter’s resident Gynecologist and educates women about pressing issues like menopause, vaginal health, and more. She’s also the host of the informative podcast ‘Body Stuff’ which covers a range of issues and demystifies myths about health.
14. Deon Black
Deon Black is an experienced dating and sex coach. He is the founder of the site LetsTalkSex.com and the author of the book “The 47-Hour Premature Ejaculation Cure.” Through his blog and books, Deon helps men to enjoy longer and more fulfilling sex, and reviews sex toys like anal massagers that can help keep the spark alive in the bedroom.
15. Cath Hakanson
Cath Hakanson is an experienced sex educator and parent that tackles the tough issues surrounding teaching kids about sex. Cath believes you can take the cringe out of discussing sex with kids and educate them properly to make good sexual decisions when they are older. Cath’s site Sex Ed Rescue focuses on how to do this.
16. Dr. Jess O’Reilly
Dr. Jess O’Reilly is a bestselling author, sexologist, and public speaker. She’s the mastermind behind the hugely popular ‘Marriage as a Business program which helps married couples reform their married life in a no-nonsense and practical way. Through her books, blogs, and podcasts, Dr. Jess educates couples on how to keep the sexual spark in their relationship alive.
17. Layla Martin
Layla Martin, AKA, “The Headmistress of Pleasure” is a sexpert and founder of the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. Layla is an expert in all things mystical and through her blog and videos, she teaches people how to get more out of their sex lives, and have a little more fun in the process.
18. Girl on the Net
The anonymous founder of ‘Girl on the Net’ is a sexpert and self-proclaimed pervert who loves sex. Her kinky blog features everything from audio porn to guest posts about saucy sexual encounters. Girl on the Net aims to break down sex stigma and prove that it’s ok to love sex, masturbation, and everything in between.
19. Don and Angela Watson
Don and Angela Watson are the sexperts behind Doctorclimax.com, a hub for information about sex toys. Don and Angela constantly review the latest sex toys, so that their community only spends money on the very best toys. They cover toys for women and men so you’re sure to find something that will catch your eye.
20. Elle Chase
Elle Chase is a sex author, educator, and influencer in the sexual health community. Elle has written for major publications like Cosmopolitan and Huffington Post, and also runs her own informative sex blog Smut for Smarties. Whether it’s help with body confidence that you need, or guidance on giving an awesome penis massage, Elle can help!
21. Dr. Nan Wise
Dr. Nan Wise is a neuroscientist and author of the bestselling book why good sex matters. For Dr. Nan, good sex holds the key to mental well-being and happiness, which is why she helps people to improve their sex lives from a neurological perspective. As well as her book, she also offers therapeutic counseling services.
22. Dr. Barb DePree M.D
Dr. Barb DePree M.D is the founder of Middlesex MD and her blog focuses on helping women to continue enjoying sex after menopause. Dr. Barb uses her extensive knowledge and experience in the field of women’s sexual health to educate women and empower them to talk about their sexual experiences with doctors to improve their sex lives overall.
23. Nick and Amy Boyajian
Nick and Amy Boyajian are the founders of the awesome and inclusive sex blog Wild Flowers. Nick and Amy use their blog to open up conversations about important topics like gender and sexual inclusivity and also provide useful guides about sex toy safety as well as reviews of their favorite toys.
24. Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel
Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel are co-founders of the Somatica institute and its method of sex and relationships. They are also the founders of the educational blog sexcoaching.com. Their blog tackles a variety of sexual issues from sexless marriage to the psychology of sex.
25. Amanda Passciuco
Amanda Passciuco is a life coach and therapist that aims to transform the intimate and sexual lives of couples through coaching. Amongst her clients, she has been hailed the sex healer, thanks to her no B.S approach to rebuilding intimacy in relationships. Amanda and her team offer 1-1 support to clients in a variety of different formats.
26. Shan Boodram
Shan Boodram is a qualified sexologist and sex educator. She’s a 2x best-selling author in the sex industry. Her latest book The Game of Desire provides a fun and to-the-point perspective on dating and finding the right partner. She also shares her knowledge and expertise in the form of online courses and 1-1 coaching sessions.
27. Dave aka Mr. Racy
Dave, the founder of MrRacy.com is an advocate for men’s sexuality and uses his blog to write about ways to make sex more enjoyable for men. He explores and reviews sex toys like anal massagers, masturbators, and dolls, as well as providing insights on dating and relationships from a male perspective.
28. Alice Little
Alice Little is a digital sex worker and expert in all things intimacy. Alice offers a range of services to help people become more intimate and confident sexually. Alice offers dates as a virtual girlfriend, sexual exploration and flirtation over webcam, and much more. If a petite and pretty redhead is your type, be sure to check out her site.
29. Dawn Serra
Dawn Serra is a sex and relationship coach that believes that all relationships can be healed. She’s also the host of the awesome sex podcast Sex Gets Real which features new guests every episode and delves into topics like sexuality kinks and more.
30. Vanessa Marin
Vanessa Marin is a qualified psychotherapist and sex coach who specializes in sex therapy. For the last decade, she’s been helping couples and individuals to have better sex and enjoy the fulfilling sexual experiences they deserve.
Through her online courses and coaching services, she helps people to overcome their barriers in the bedroom, achieve better orgasms, and improve their sexual confidence.