How To Make a Girl Horny Fast – 9 Easy Tricks

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How To Make a Girl Horny Fast – 9 Easy Tricks

How do you make a girl want you so bad that her pussy starts to drip?

How do you turn her on without being cheesy?

How do you make her beg you to make love to her?

THIS IS HOW​

Learning how to make a girl horny is easy, as long as she already likes you, and especially if the two of you have never had sex. We women are not that hard to figure out, at first.

If we like you, and are attracted to you, your presence, your smell, and your fingers are all it takes. Honestly, we do the work ourselves in the beginning.

We are constantly day dreaming about your kiss and your touch everyday, we are already horny before you even pick us up for the movie.

Getting us horny is no great feat, getting us in bed is another story! But, know this, if you’ve got our attention, and you turn us on, keep doing what you’re doing, and eventually you’ll score thee elusive pussy.

Patience is the key. But this article is about making a girl horny; so let’s go at least a few months into the future. We’ve been together for a while, maybe even live together, and we’ve had sex at least a hundred times.

And then it happens. You come home from work, start kissing me, and I say, “not tonight”. THAT is the moment that you lost the ability to make me horny! Let’s start there. How do you make that woman horny?

QUICK TIP: One of my favourite methods to get any woman in the mood for sex is an erotic massage.

My boyfriend and I have been together seven years, and together for nine years. It only took about three months before I started coming up with excuses for why I didn’t want to have sex.

It wasn’t that he wasn’t good in bed, he was, he is. The problem we had, was the same problem that at least ninety percent of couples have.

I got bored. He would do the same thing over and over. It wasn’t the sex, it was his way of initiating sex.

He would wait until everyone was in bed, go into the bedroom, take his clothes off and yell for me.

Or, I would kiss him, and he would walk me into the bedroom as we kissed and say, “turn the tv on.” and then he would get undressed. He would get naked, that was my clue that it was time to sit on his dick.

Let me speak honestly. That is every man’s problem. I am betting that it is your problem too! Men simply stop trying. So here it is, the answer.

This is how you get your woman to start fucking you again, regularly, whenever you want it. This is how you get a girl horny!

Use these 10 tricks, and I promise you, you will be the one telling her, “not tonight”.

Oh and by the way, we are Laura and Jakob and we started School Of squirt to help people just like you. But we don’t just write articles, our in-person training seminars and online courses help thousands of men (and women) reach ‘Jedi’ levels of sexual mastery.

More on that later, for now, let’s get back the article and our tip numero uno…

The Female Sexual Arousal Cycle

If you want to make her horny, you must first understand the physical process. This is known as the sexual arousal cycle, and it differs slightly between men and women.

So what does the sexual arousal cycle look like for women?

  • Excitement: It is at this stage that the genitalia begins to engorge with blood. This includes the clitoris, vulva, g-spot, and nipples. Other areas of her body, known as erogenous zones, will also become more sensitive to touch. Biologically, her heart rate and blood pressure will increase as testosterone and dopamine are released.
  • Plateau: It is at this point that the sexual tension builds up and the individual is focused exclusively on the sexual stimuli they are receiving. Her heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing will continue to increase.
  • Orgasm: Once the sexual tension has reached its peak, it will release in a series of contractions. These begin in the uterus, vagina, and pelvic floor muscles. She may also experience muscle contractions throughout her body, as well as a feeling of warmth radiating from the pelvis and out into the rest of the body.
  • Resolution: After climax, the body will slowly come down from the high. The body relaxes, which means blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing return to normal. Blood will also flow away from the genitals so they are no longer engorged.

Now you may be thinking to yourself, “Great! So, how do I get her excited?”

That’s the million-dollar question.

While the path to sexual arousal will differ from person to person, there are some general things that we know to be true.

One of those truths is that women require both physical and mental stimulation.

That’s not to say that men don’t benefit from some mental stimulation as well. However, for the majority of women, it’s a necessity.

Fortunately, we’ll cover mental arousal – and more – below.

10 Tips for Turning Her On

Are you ready to get her dripping wet? Then look no further than the 10 tips outlined below.

1. Arouse Her Mentally

It is often the case that, with enough physical stimulation, men can turn off the “thinking” part of their brain and give way to the “doing” part of their brain.

The same cannot often be said of women.

Even if a woman is physically aroused, she may not be in the right mental state for full arousal.

So before we get to our physical arousal techniques, let’s talk about mental arousal.

This often requires some forethought. Give her a call during the day to let her know you’re thinking of her. Or leave her a sticky note in the morning with a sweet or sexy message.

This will get her thinking of your encounter for hours before it even takes place.

You will also want to help her to unwind from her day before you even start to initiate physical intimacy.

When she gets home or arrives at your place, ask her about her day. If she has any stressors from the day, speaking them to you will help to unclutter her mind so she’s fully able to focus later on.

Even during physical intimacy, it’s a good idea to check in with her.

Let her know you’re enjoying yourself. Ask her how she feels. This connection will only further arouse her mentally – and physically.

2. Use Your Fingertips

When you are ready to get her ready, barely touch her anywhere on her body with your fingertips. When the chills start to appear, you are on the right path. Listen up men, we women absolutely love this type of touch.

It is extremely erotic and hits all of the pleasure signals in the brain. In fact, you could take it a step further. Touch her like that while just watching tv on the couch, but DO NOT make any advances.

Do that for a couple of days and she will want you so bad that she won’t be able to wait for you to make the first move. That’s guaranteed pussy…guaranteed!!!

3. “Inappropriate Touching” in Public

Touch her ass, walk in front of her and rub your hand against her pussy or tits. Do it a lot. She can’t really do anything about it because you are around people.

She’ll think you’re being silly, but her panties will be wet by the time you are home alone.

4. Kill the Routine & Keep Her Guessing

Sometimes, when our men want sex, we give it to them even though we aren’t horny. We, of course are very dry then. How do you get your girl horny even when she’s obviously not?

Listen up! If after the making out she is still dry, you need to do something more creative, something that speaks to her sexuality.

Trick her mind. This gets me every damn time! Undress her, kiss her slowly, lick down her body, push her hands above her head, and then stand up.

Tell her how much she turns you on and how much you love her body. Tell her how good her pussy feels, oh, and the most important part, say it all while you’re jacking off.

She will love the compliments, but she’ll love how hard SHE makes your cock.

5. Dirty Talk and Tease

This is something my man did a couple of years ago, and I’ll be honest, the first time he said it, I laughed. The words weren’t funny, it was just so random.

While you and your girl are hanging out doing whatever (let’s just say you’re watching TV), don’t even look at her, simply say,

“Baby, (she’ll respond), I wanna eat your pussy”.

Still don’t look at her. As long as she enjoys a good pussy licking, you’re golden! She’ll be ready instantly and it’ll take all of thirty seconds worth of work before she’s ready to be fucked hardcore!!

On the other side of the coin, read this article about cute and romantic things to say to  your girlfriend.

6. Be Forceful

When your woman is playing on Facebook instead of paying much-needed attention to your cock, grab her by the hair. Tell her,

“that pussy belongs to me and I want it, now.”

Women, regardless of how much of a feminist, typically like a man who takes control! So take control. Show her why you are the man. Throw her beautiful ass on the bed and pull her clothes off. Remind her how much she loves feeling you inside of her.

Of course, there are some crazy women out there who absolutely do not like that kind of thing and would be mad/upset if their man did this. If you know your woman doesn’t like this kind of thing, don’t do it. We women are way too emotional and she will surely feel hurt.

7. Be Dominant & Decisive

I am a woman who loves to be told what to do in bed. The more control from my bf, the better. We fell into a bit of a slump again for a few weeks, and he did the hottest thing to get me going just a couple of weeks ago.

He did his usual; he went into the bedroom, got naked, but this time, he opened the door with his cock standing tall and said,

“I need you to come sit on my cock, right now.”

Holy shit! That was hot! My pussy was wet instantly. It wasn’t just the words he used. It was the fact that his dick was already hard. Every woman loves thinking that she so turns her man on that he looks at her and gets a hard on.

Fake it if you must. Jack off for a minute and then walk up to her, or call her into the bedroom. As long as she doesn’t know you jacked off first, she will totally love it.

Another great way to show dominance, whilst still giving her a tonne of pleasure is the ‘oral choke’.

You basically perform oral on her but at the same time, use one hand to grip around her neck (lovingly).

Some women love this, see diagram below:

8. Dry Humping

Yep, I went teeny bopper on you! I’m telling you, women love dry humping. Make out with her like you used to. Clothes on, you on top, on the couch, on the bed, whatever.

Just make sure that you’re grinding and kissing passionately on the lips and the neck…. and then whisper in her ear!

If that doesn’t make your girl wet, and I mean soaking wet, you’ve got some deeper problems in your relationship!

The feel of your breath on her neck and ear while you are grinding and intermittently kissing her will surely push her completely over the edge.

9. P**n

Now, I know that a lot of women supposedly don’t like porn, but if you go about it the right way, you should be able to get her to watch it with you. If she does, science takes care of the rest.

Our bodies automatically react to naked people, so regardless of what she says, adult entertainment will turn her on. Suggestions: “Not The Wizard of Oz”, “Squirting”, and “Lesbian P*rn”.

The first one is a porn spoof, and happens to be hysterical as well as hot. The other two are two types of porn that typical make women horny.

Women don’t usually like to stare at cock, so lesbian porn is a good way to go. Squirting porn is just damn hot, and if she’s never seen it, it’s a great way to get her to watch it with you.

You can then match it up with, I want to try to make you squirt. Which brings me to…

10. Finger Her…The Right Way

Women LOVE to be fingered and it will definitely make her horny. When you finger her, don’t go slow, go fast, bang hard, and use your other hand to play with her clit.

If you want to try to make her squirt, which can be done, simply use two fingers, cupped and turned up. Rub with pressure back and forth (preferably quickly) the g-spot (it feels like an inflated balloon), rub her clit at the same time.

So many sites will tell you that she needs to trust you and blah blah blah. I call BULL SHIT! She doesn’t need to trust you, she simply needs to be using her muscles as she cums.

I’ve written an in-depth guide on how to finger her right here.

Women often prevent themselves from female ejaculation, aka squirting, because it feels like they’re getting ready to pee. If they allow the feeling to continue and progress, and then, instead of just letting it “cum” out, push at the same time, she’ll spray a clear liquid….female ejaculation at it’s finest.

If you know how to make your girl squirt, she’ll be horny all the time!

In conclusion, women really just want to feel like you’re trying. They want to feel special. If you can make your woman feel these things in your sexual advances, you are sure to make your girl horny every damn time!

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you have more questions about how to make her horny? We have the answers to some frequently asked questions on the topic. Let’s dive in!

Why does it take so long to get her wet?

While it may seem like it takes a while to get her aroused, remember that you’re likely starting from two very different places. Especially if you’re initiating sex, you’re already starting from a place of arousal. If it does truly take her a long time to get wet, it could be one of two things:

She doesn’t naturally secrete a lot of arousal fluids. This varies from woman to woman, and if she’s otherwise engaged, it doesn’t hurt to add some lube to the mix.

What you’re doing just isn’t working for her. Ask her explicitly what she would like you to do. You may be surprised to learn that your “surefire moves” aren’t a turn-on for her.

Is lube a replacement for arousal?

There are more physical changes required than just vaginal secretion to make penetrative sex enjoyable for your partner. Before you add lube to the mix, be sure your partner is otherwise engaged and aroused. You can use the physical signs of arousal we outlined at the beginning of this article, or simply ask your partner if she’s ready for the next step.

The Next Step

Reading articles is s great first step, but to really take your sex life to the next level, learning directly from an expert is the best way to go.

We have a new video program where our “sexpert” teachers show you exactly how to please any woman, and give her the best orgasms of her life. This exclusive program shows you step by step what to do, and is frankly, the best way to learn these amazing techniques. So, give your woman the gift of amazing sexual pleasure and join the program today.

Laura Rose Halliday

Laura Rose Halliday started The School Of Squirt back in 2012 and has been running the website and digital courses along with Jakob Wulfe since then. She is a full time sex writer, researcher and practicer.


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  1. Wow, this is so useful – getting a girl turned on is the best way to be able to have sex whenever you want – Girlfriend not in the mood? First learn how to make her horny and then she’ll be more up for it. This is especially true for girls who aren’t you girlfriend who you want to sleep with 🙂 Keep it up Laura and Jakob.

  2. The best way to make her horny is with eye contact. Stare deeeply into her eyes and be in the moment. A girl can tell whether you’re in the moment and focused on you, the intensity of your stare will make her pussy wet. And the best thing is only you and her know what’s going on so you can use this ‘trick’ in any situation. Keep up the good work Laura and Jakob.

  3. My guys says he always feels degraded when we have sex and i dont cum.. We’ve tried everything.. at times i think some women like me were never ment to xum

    1. Every woman can do it. usually tension and stress are the main factors stopping the female orgasm. It takes time to work through them and often comes from lifestyle changes, not directly what you or he does in the bedroom. A good place to start for women who have a hard time orgasming is the orgasmic potential massage 🙂

      1. I think that the more you love to read these article the more you can be the best man for all women who need a good man.

    2. Same with me my guy feels he is doing something wrong but I told him he’s doing everything right I think it’s just me!!!!

  4. really really helps me out improves my sex relation as well thank you so much 4 great good lessons n topics

      1. I’d say I’m pretty at satisfying women’s but how about an article for women. I feel a lot of them is not good at sex at all.

  5. My wife told me she is willing to watch porn with me, but only Men jacking-off, cuming on girls face or watching girls give “BJ”. But I am worried that this might be a start of something worst! like wanting to have sex with another man all together!.. What do you suggest me doing?

    1. My question for you is, why do you want to watch that kind of material together? Is it to get her in the mood for sex? Is it to spice things up and make things more exciting. Ultimately knowing how to get her and keep her sexually satisfied is the absolute best way to keep her addicted to you (in a good way) and prevent any kind of ‘wandering eye.’ Keeping her sexually fulfilled is the number 1 way to keep her mind off other guys.

  6. Another sure way to get her wet and ready. While she is a sleep or resting, rest your hands on her pussy. Just cup your hands over her pussy and over her clothes. Do nothing else and just wait. Her mind will do the rest.

    1. Brilliant tip, thanks. When you are getting her mind involved in foreplay, that’s when you’re reaching mastery level.

  7. My guy need to read this, cos he doesn’t make my body feel good before f***ing. And I really love licking and fingering but ??.

    1. Women ….well I seem to think that they seem to want shit to happen without asking or telling thier partner. And they expect it to be hot and turn her on and get her off but she wont tell you how to get her off and what turns her on . They complain that men need to do more foreplay to get them in mood . Yet they expect you to be rock hard Without any action from them. She wants you to just get hard looking at her or buy you touching her . She has slutty thoughts ut dont want you to know how big of a slut she is so keeps silent . Other women know because they have the same slutty freakish thoughts and so they do each other without having to explain or guide ect… and thats why there are so many womrn with women and even the straight women will do it with another woman . But female female sex isnt consittered cheatting somehow its the guy trying to be a pig a have a threesome but mostley its the woman because women control sex and before you tear me a new asshole for my thouhts I will say that 2 women or more do go out and pick up hot men or hung stds just to fuck and since they r bisexual couple and the man is just candy for the night he wont follow you and bug you to go ut and force you to tell him off . Females are silent but from my point of view they suck . Most marry men that are not thier best friends and expect too much from men without giving and im not talking phicically but emotionally . They see men who want to bond and be friends as beta they want alpha.

      1. Dude, what woman left you like this? This is all just misogyny and it reeks of personal experience and absurd generalization. 😅

  8. my wife doesn’t really get horny unless she’s coerced into threesomes, especially a spit roast. For some reason, she loves this and begs for more and later masturbates to it even more.

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