This ‘Ultimate Guide’ offers a unique and in-depth look at how to make a girl wet using the 7 erogenous zones.
You are going to learn a comprehensive roadmap—from head to toe—of your partner’s most sensitive spots, that when stimulated correctly get her pussy dripping wet and begging for more
First, we’ll explore the 7 main erogenous zones that women are particularly sensitive to, as well as 6 additional hot spots, which can be similarly used for arousal and excitement.
Second, we’ll provide you with a foolproof way of finding out her favourite hot-spots that turn her on masssively. In other words, you’ll learn how to discover exactly what makes her tick.
Then once you’ve discovered the secret pleasure code for your partner you can continue to use that pattern again and again to get her in the mood and bring her to satisfying orgasm after orgasm.
With the information delivered throughout this guide, we guarantee that you can learn to unlock the sexual desire of any woman and learn how to turn her on and stimulate her in a way no other person can.
While sexual turn-ons are different from one person to the next, there are a few areas on the body, known as erogenous zones, which have been consistently linked to arousal.
These zones, when stimulated just right, can offer your partner unimaginable pleasure.
Fortunately, you don’t need to be an experienced lover to understand these spots and the whys behind the pleasure they bring.
So, to get started, let’s first discuss in further detail where these zones are.
Kisses are an international sign of love — from a simple peck on the cheek to a passionate make-out session, the lips can provide you with a number of ways to show your partner that you love them. But, did you know that the lips are also a point of arousal?
This is because the lips are one of the most sensitive parts of the exposed body. Just think of how many nerves must be contained within such a small surface, and it’s no wonder that kisses can be so electrifying!
The lips, however, aren’t the only spot above the shoulders, which can be used for spine-tingling arousal.
A whisper, a nibble, or a little puff of warm breath—the ear is just as sensitive to these stimulating sensations as it is to the spoken word.
From an exhilarating shiver to a hair-raising shudder, subtle manipulations of the ear can add a deeper sense of arousal to your lovemaking. Why?
Well, there are a number of nerves, both within and without, the ear.
These nerves are important for transmitting sound, allowing humans to pick up on even the slightest differences in pressure.
This bundle of nerves can also serve an additional purpose of stimulation and intimate arousal.
Now, proceeding south, we arrive at the nape of the neck and lower back.
These erogenous zones, when manipulated with the utmost care, are an excellent area for teasing and manipulation.
Both the neck and lower back/buttocks are intimate areas. These zones rarely come into contact with other people, except in private cases, which makes these spots extra sensitive and particularly sensual.
Further, these spots are easily accessible to you which means they can be easily stimulated whether you’re locked in a steamy embrace or simply passing by during the day and want to bring your lover a bit of excitement and anticipation for later.
In contrast to zone 5, erogenous zones 1 – 4 seem almost innocent in nature. After all, the lips, ears, neck, and back aren’t inherently sexual.
And, while the breasts and nipples certainly have their own biological purposes, this erogenous area is one, which is linked primarily to arousal and sexuality in much of the world.
And, while breasts are surely linked to male attraction, new research shows that nipple stimulation in females is also an effective arousal tool and lights up the same area within the brain that also lights up upon vaginal, clitoral, and cervical stimulation.
Finally, moving down below the belly button, we find the two last erogenous zones.
• The inner thighs, being one of the largest erogenous zones
• The clitoris, perhaps the most sensitive erogenous zone of all.
Stimulation of the inner thighs can offer goose bump-inducing arousal, and manipulation of the clitoris, of course, can lead to heightened excitement and, eventually, orgasm.
While the jury is still out on the exact number of erogenous zones on the female body, the seven zones found in Chapter 1 are the most widely accepted.
But, there’s one thing that’s for certain: While your companion may find stimulation of the above-mentioned zones to be exhilarating, there are a few “lesser” hot spots found throughout the female body that could drive your lover equally as mad.
Unfortunately, the lesser of these zones can be a bit more individual. While one woman may be turned on by a light touch to the inner wrist, another may find a scalp massage to be just as erotic as a nape-of-the-neck kiss.
Now, let’s explore.
The Unofficial List of Lesser Known Hot Spots
What is it that makes the seemingly innocuous spots listed above unusually sensitive and ideal for erotic stimulation?
Consider that such spots are rarely touched by those not close to you, and it’s easy to see how these areas on the body can be used to induce arousal and increase feelings of intimacy.
Your outer arm may brush against a passerby on the street, or your knee may bump into a fellow passenger on the train as you pass through the aisle, but the above six hot spots are rarely involved in public contact which makes them especially intimate.
The art of sexual arousal, and as a result, stimulation, is one that takes time and effort to learn.
The kinds of stimulation, which work for some women, may not work for others, so it’s important that you’re receptive to your lover’s cues (which we’ll discuss further in Chapter 4).
But first, prior to learning stimulation techniques, it’s important that you understand how female arousal works.
As you can imagine, there’s more to arousal than meets the eye. In fact, there have been a number of models produced over the years, which attempt to theorize the overall cycle.
While a number of linear models, such as the one below, have been proposed, it’s only in recent times that scientists and researchers have come to see that the science of female arousal is more cyclical than linear.
What does this mean, and how can you use this knowledge to your advantage?
Consider the linear model of female sexual arousal above.
According to such a model, women go through four stages of arousal in a seemingly straightforward manner. These four stages are excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
The above model has three separate lines to show how different women (or how the same woman but at different times) go through these four stages of arousal.
Now, let’s consider the cyclical (and more recent) model presented below.
When comparing the cyclical model to the linear model, it’s easy to see that there’s much more to sexual arousal than the physical sensations involved.
In fact, the linear model makes no mention of emotional intimacy, though the cyclical model has it front and center.
Further, as opposed to excitement-plateau-orgasm, there’s now a loop which directly shows the role that emotional intimacy plays in bringing a woman from “sexually neutral” to aroused and, finally, to satisfied (both emotionally and physically).
Why are these models so drastically different, and why is the circular model considered superior?
Consider that, for a good part of the female population, the end goal of sex is not to satisfy a biological drive.
Instead, according to the circular model presented above and proposed by Dr. Rosemary Basson, women have various non-biological reasons for engaging in sex, such as forming emotional closeness.
Men, on the other hand, have a much more direct route (which is illustrated below) from excitement to plateau and, finally, to orgasm.
This is because male sexual drive is more firmly based in biology and is not as closely linked to society and culture, as is the sexual drive of females.
Since women have a much more complicated route from arousal to satisfaction, it makes perfect sense for the female sexual arousal model to be more complicated than that of the male model.
So, how can you use this scientifically backed information to your advantage?
Well, first, by understanding how women respond to sexual stimuli and arousal, you can approach intimacy and lovemaking with an eye towards emotional support.
Second, you can use this information to direct your physical actions and respond to your partner’s feedback accordingly.
The section below will get you started and teach you ways in which you can bridge the divide between emotional intimacy and biological sexual drive.
While not every one of the suggested techniques will foster emotional closeness, the vast majority will provide you with a way to connect with your female partner on a deeper, more genuine level.
Now that you understand how female arousal works, you can use that information to stimulate your partner’s erogenous zones in an electrifying way.
This nerve-filled erogenous zone, used for everything from pronunciation to facial expression, provides you with a variety of stimulating options.
One of the funnest ways to stimulate is with the use of food.
Strawberries, cherries, and grapes are sweet and satisfying. With gentle stimulation, not only will you be increasing the blood flow to the lips and mouth, but you’ll also create further feelings of closeness and intimacy.
Take turns feeding each other, or even pass the sweet treats from your lips to hers.
And, remember, gentle grazes can be just as arousing as full-on contact. Keep this in mind with kisses, as well, and be sure to alternate between soft and sweeping pecks to full on, yearning kisses.
Looking back to the cyclical model of female arousal, we can see that emotional intimacy is at the top of the cycle and, therefore, should be in the forefront of your mind during lovemaking.
As mentioned in Chapter 1, a whisper can go a long way in arousing your partner and stimulating her sexual senses.
Use the sensitivity of this erogenous zone, as well as the knowledge that emotional intimacy is part of the female arousal cycle, to focus your efforts on stimulation and arousal.
Use this zone to focus on closeness and security. Stimulate with sweet whispers, gentle brushes of your lips on the lobe, and short, warm bursts of breath.
Take the time to let your partner know how you feel about her while simultaneously working on bringing her to arousal.
Such a sensitive and under-touched area deserves gentle caresses and light, feathery touches.
How you do this will depend on the tools at your disposal, and the amount of time you plan to focus on this one erogenous zone.
The use of a feather is one way to tease your lover, tickling her while simultaneously bringing her to great levels of sexual excitement.
Or, perhaps she would prefer soft kisses, running from behind her ear to the nape of the neck.
As is to be expected, the zone consisting of the lower back and buttocks, which are located at the base of the spine, is bursting with nerve endings.
There are a number of ways to stimulate this particularly sensitive zone, though we’ll discuss two.
Now, while the lower back and the buttocks are considered one erogenous zone for the purposes of this guide, they are two separate areas, which enjoy different kinds of stimulation and contact.
For the lower back, barely-there touches can drive your partner mad with lust. Use your fingertips, lips, or tongue, or for added fun, pieces of fabric, ribbons, or feathers.
Touch your partner in short bursts, and be sure to vary the time between touches to increase anticipation and sexual excitement.
On the buttocks, you may find that firmer touches will yield more arousing results than gentle ones. This is where the use of paddles, whips, and belts can be distinctly useful, but of course, it’s always important to discuss comfort levels with your partner prior to experimentation.
The stimulation of your partner’s breasts and nipples may make her hot, but that doesn’t mean that the method needs to be.
One interesting stimulation method, favored for its goose bump-inducing effects, is the use of an ice cube on and around the areola and nipple.
As you can probably imagine, the nipple is a very sensitive area, bundled with nerves which are close to the skin. The application of ice—in small doses—can exhilarate the neuroreceptors found under the skin.
Of course, ice is just one way in which you and your partner can venture into temperature play.
Whipped cream, hot fudge, and other hot and cold foods can be used for similar stimulating results.
If you think your partner would be up for some electrifying fun, then you may want to consider giving erotic electrostimulation (also known as e-stim) a try!
The inner thighs are the perfect place for e-stim, because the area is large and the nerves vary in sensitivity (becoming more sensitive as you get closer to the pelvic region).
There are plenty of e-stim options on the market, and the majority of these options allow for complete control of the level of intensity.
These multi-intensity wands and tools are the best, as it will allow you to tailor the experience for your lover.
If you’re just starting out, begin on the outer edges of the thighs, where the least number of nerves are located, and start with a small intensity level.
As your partner becomes more settled, move closer and closer to the inner thighs and higher and higher towards the pelvic region. You can change the intensity and location frequently to further arouse your partner, and you can even move to other erogenous zones for extended fun.
You’ve explored your partner’s body from ears to inner thighs, but now it’s time to focus on the most sensitive of the erogenous zones: the clitoris.
There are a TON of ways to stimulate the clitoris. From digital to oral, and even e-stim and temperature play, there’s something here for everyone. So, for this particular section, we’ll focus more on technique than tools.
The clitoris is a hooded organ, and is actually quite similar to the penis in form. It has a shaft, a glans, and a foreskin (the clitoral hood), and it even swells when stimulation is applied or arousal is felt.
How it differs from the penis, however, is in two main ways. One, the clitoris is 2x more sensitive than the penis (with nearly 8,000 nerve endings as opposed to the penis’s almost 4,000), and two, its one and only purpose is to provide its owner with pleasure.
The 6 Lesser Hot Spots
There’s one thing that these three hot spots have in common, and that’s that they occur at the bend of a joint.
For some individuals, this can mean that the nearby skin is especially sensitive and ticklish.
If your partner is one such individual, then stimulation of these three hot spots can be one way to add some time to your foreplay.
To see if your partner is ticklish, run the very tips of your fingers as lightly as possible over the inner wrist, inner elbow, and behind the knee. This light touch can be an indicator of things to come, and for many women, this can be a turn on in itself.
If your lover seems to be responding positively, consider using this stimulating technique throughout the day leading up to your lovemaking. This can add a hint of anticipation and keep your lover begging for more.
Whether it’s playing with her hair or directly massaging her head, gentle stimulation of the scalp is a great way to help your partner unwind and, for some individuals, even arouse her.
You don’t have to be a pro, though, for your partner to reap the benefits of a scalp massage. Instead, start massaging your lover’s head while she lies in your lap or sits on the floor below you. Use your fingertips and move in a slow, circular motion.
Start the circle small, and then continually build it larger and larger until you’re massaging her entire head.
This sensitive, and often guarded, area is perfect for intimate stimulation and can bring your partner to the peak of arousal and excitement.
To increase sensitivity and ignite passion, temperature play may be just what you’re looking for.
Apply whipped cream or hot fudge to your partner’s navel, and then slowly lick off. The combination of cold/hot and gentle, but deliberate, nibbles can throw your lover’s libido into overdrive.
While this can certainly be a hit or miss spot, this is definitely a hot spot that’s worth testing out on your female partner.
When many people think of feet and sexual stimulation, they probably think of a fetish.
However, the feet are just another part of the body, and one need not be turned on by the sight of feet to find their stimulation exhilarating and arousing.
Of course, the simplest method of stimulation is a simple foot massage, complete with moisturizing lotion.
Start gently, by bringing your partner’s foot into your lap and gently rubbing along the sides and soles.
Slowly move upwards, towards the toes, massaging each one individually. Vary the levels of pressure you apply, and have fun explore your lover’s most ticklish spots.
Are you feeling a bit more adventurous? Flutter light kisses across the tops of her feet, and then give a kiss to each individual toe. Then, work your ways back down to her soles, slowly spreading your kisses up her legs, to her inner thighs, and finally to her clitoris.
Now that you’ve picked up a few new techniques from the above sections, you may be ready to go.
However, it’s first important to drop a quick reminder that the above list of erogenous zones and hot spots is not a list to be worked through, mentally checked off one by one.
Just because you start at the scalp and work your way down to the feet doesn’t mean your female partner will be aroused by the end of your journey.
So, what CAN you do to spark her desire and fan the flames? It’s simple — two steps forward, one step back.
Remember, lovemaking for your partner is just as much (if not more) about emotional closeness and intimacy than it is the satisfaction of biological drives. The best thing you can do is to slow down and take your time.
So, what does this method look like in practice?
Let’s say you start at the ear. You give your partner’s lobe a little nibble, and perhaps you even whisper sweet words.
You slowly trail your way down to your partner’s neck, kissing along her hairline until you’ve reached the nape. Your partner is showing signs of approval, and even arousal, so you continue on your journey south.
Moving on, you reach your partner’s lower back. As you gently brush your fingertips along her skin, you notice her excitement has increased.
Her breathing has intensified, and she squirms closer to your touch. This means you should go for the more sensitive erogenous zones, like the breasts and clitoris, right?
This easy-to-follow method is about teasing your partner. You want to get her into a state of heightened arousal, but you also want to lead her to anticipate what’s to come next.
In the example above, we left off at the lower back. Now, let’s backtrack to the ear, and perhaps add in a few extra kisses and a soft blow of your breath. At this point, she doesn’t know what to expect of you anymore.
The anticipation builds, and so do her levels of excitement and arousal.
You can continue in this manner for as long as you (and, more importantly, your partner) likes.
You want to slowly work your way towards the more sensitive erogenous zones, like the breasts, inner thighs, and clitoris, while continually cycling back to the less-sensitive-but-still-arousing zones on your partner’s body.
Of course, the more sensitive zones aren’t off limits during this back-and-forth, but you do want to be sure not to start off with too much intensity, as that can be off-putting to your partner.
No matter the stage of your current relationship, communication is key to a happy and healthy partnership.
Communication, however, can also offer you and your partner a satisfying and thrilling sex life.
As mentioned previously, sexual arousal and sensitive areas are different from person to person. So, how can you know whether you’re hitting all the right notes or falling flat?
This perhaps isn’t the most erotic of the available options, but it’s one of the most direct ways you can learn of your lady’s likes and dislikes without making assumptions.
Provided are a few examples of questions to consider asking before, during, and after your next lovemaking session.
“How would you like to try [sexual act]?”
“What would you think about [being blindfolded, using handcuffs, a spanking paddle]?”
“Is there anything you’d like to try tonight?”
“Would you like me to go slower/faster/softer/harder?”
“How does this feel?”
“Did you like when I did [a particular sexual act]?”
“Was there anything you didn’t like?”
While asking questions can provide you with valuable information, one of the best things you can do for your relationship (sexual and otherwise) is to learn to read and understand your partner’s feedback without much instruction on their part.
This can be tricky, of course, and it does take a bit of time. But the importance of this cannot be overstated.
And, while you certainly aren’t psychic, there are a few ways that you can learn to better read and understand your partner’s sexual feedback and provide her with a better sexual experience, now and in the future.
Fortunately for you, facial expressions related to pleasure and displeasure is two things, which are not easily hidden or disguised.
So, what signals can you take from your partner’s expressions?
Take special notice of your lover’s eyes. The eyes truly are the windows to the soul, and this is especially true during a vulnerable time such as lovemaking.
Is your partner making eye contact with you? Is she initiating eye contact? When her eyes are closed, are they relaxed? If the answer to the above questions are yes, then your partner is comfortable and, most importantly, open to receiving pleasure.
With such a large concentration of muscles surrounding the mouth and lips, it’s no wonder that certain facial expressions can be seen most clearly on this region of the face.
This can be used greatly to your advantage, and can provide you with a good idea of how your partner is feeling during foreplay and sex.
During stimulation of a particular erogenous zone, are your partner’s lips pressed thin? Does she clench her jaw when you perform a particular act?
These could be signs of discomfort or dislike, and you should be sure to look at other cues to get a fuller picture of your lover’s comfort levels.
When you kiss her neck, does her jaw become relaxed and perhaps her mouth even falls open? These are signs of relaxation and, ultimately, pleasure.
Reading your partner’s facial expressions will clue you in to signs of immediate and obvious pleasure (or displeasure).
If you’re looking for a more subtle way of reading your lover’s feelings, however, then take note of some of these physical cues.
Perhaps one of the more obvious of the physical cues in this list, your partner’s moans can tell you a lot about how they’re enjoying (or not) the encounter.
Each woman expresses her pleasure in different ways, but an attentive partner can distinguish those, which are full of arousal and passion from those which may be half-hearted.
Pay particular attention to when your partner moans. Was it during a particular sexual act? Was it a moan of encouragement, or pure pleasure?
The answers to these questions will help to guide you as your respond to her and bring her to orgasm.
While your partner may want to physically be with you, sometimes emotional or mental stresses can pull her away. There is a way to bridge the divide, though, and that’s by taking note of her response to the stimulation of each erogenous zone.
How does your partner move when her neck is kissed, or her navel is licked, or her back is massaged?
If she sinks into you, completely giving herself physically and mentally, then the erogenous zone is certainly one which triggers her arousal.
Continue to explore your lover’s body, giving attention to each erogenous zone until you have a more complete picture of what your partner likes.
With a better idea of your partner’s likes and dislikes in mind, you can now begin to experiment with various methods of stimulation.
The entirety of this guide is focused on your female partner’s erogenous zones and how you can use the knowledge of these zones and stimulation techniques to bring your lover to arousal.
Keep in mind, however, that female arousal can be emotionally charged, and sometimes it can be difficult to open up with someone who may not be opening up themselves.
To give your partner the sense that you’re willing to listen to their feedback and follow their cues, take the time to discuss your own vulnerabilities.
What do you like, and what do you dislike? Are there certain sexual acts you’d like to try? Are there certain things that you’d like for your lover to focus more thoroughly on?
The simple fact is, communication is a two-way street. You need to be as open with your partner about your own vulnerabilities as you’re asking her to be with you.
Now that you’ve determined your partner’s most sensitive erogenous zones, and now that you understand how to use communication to alter your relationship and sex life for the better, it’s time to put that knowledge to good use.
Whether your woman shudders at manipulation of her nipple, or she shivers with delight as you trail a piece of ribbon down her back, there’s a position that will allow you to enhance the time you spend with her favorite erogenous zones and bring her to ecstasy.
If your partner has trouble orgasming with vaginal penetration alone, for example, then pick a position, which will give you access to a number of her erogenous zones.
Cowgirl is one example, as your partner will be facing forward, and your arm will have direct access to her breasts, navel, inner thighs, and clitoris.
In Chapter 3, various methods of erogenous zone stimulation were explained in great detail. Now that you’ve got the basics down, however, it’s time to move out of your comfort zone and explore all of the stimulation techniques and methods available.
Let’s say, that the breasts are an especially sensitive erogenous zone on your partner. You’ve done a bit of temperature play (perhaps with an ice cube, or whipped cream), but now you’d like to explore further ways to stimulate this zone to ignite passions.
Why not take another stimulation technique, which you learned in Chapter 3 and use it to further manipulate this zone?
Tickle your partner’s nipples with a feather, or use a low-level e-stim tool on her nipples to see how that type of manipulation arouses and excites her.
And, of course, if a particular method doesn’t work for her, then there’s plenty more to choose from.
The same can be said for less sensitive erogenous zones, too. Maybe your partner wasn’t aroused when her buttocks were spanked, but that doesn’t mean that your partner will never respond to stimulation of the buttocks.
Focus on different techniques, such as massage, to see how your lover responds. This can help you to broaden your arousal options, and it will also show your lover that you care about her pleasure and are willing to take the time to find the right tricks that work for her.
Just as your relationship changes over time, so too do sexual preferences and the willingness to experiment.
It can become easy to fall into a pattern, but it’s important that you continue to tune in to your partner’s wants, needs, and feedback cues. Your partner’s tastes may change, but so too may yours, and that’s okay.
Just be open to future adjustments, and you and your partner can continue to have an out-of-this-world sex life.
This “make a girl wet in minutes” blueprint provided above isn’t a cure-all for your relationship with your partner or for your sex life. What the above guide can do, however, is supply you with the information you need to create a sexual relationship, which is based on honest and thoughtful communication.
No one relationship is the same, and no one person is, either. That’s why it’s important that you use this guide however you see fit.
That may mean working through the guide piece-by-piece, applying each bit of information as you come across it. Or, it may mean that you ready the guide all at once and look to use all of the tips and techniques offered during your next lovemaking session.
Whichever way you choose to use this guide, remember that the ultimate key to unlocking your relationship’s true sexual potential and finding all of the spots on your lover that make her tick is communication, honesty, and the willingness to be vulnerable and open.
Over the years we have had this misconception that small penises cannot satisfy women. Irrespective of what porn videos proclaim, the average size of an erect human penis is between 4.7 and 6.3 inches long.
So a five-inch penis is average guys, and even that 2.8-inch penis is 4.7 inches when erect so it is rare to have a smaller penis. And putting aside the length debate, women are not interested in length that much, rather they are mostly satisfied with what they get.
However, there are best sex positions for guys with small penises or those who are worried that theirs are small. But, if you happen to have a bulge that is worth a pornstar Oscar award, the following positions are still applicable and will give your girl maximum and guaranteed pleasure.
This style is done with the woman lying down on the bed or table then you approach her while standing. Make sure your crotch is positioned slightly higher than that of the woman even if it means adjusting with a piece of furniture. Crouch down and penetrate her.
Have her slowly lift up her legs one at a time then rest her ankles on your shoulders. Her hips should move up some inches into the air then support her by cupping her hips or butt. To make this even tighter, grab her ankles in your hands and if possible, use pillows under her hips for a better angle for both your bodies.
This position is excellent because it creates a very deep stimulation for both of you. This position is very adventurous and acrobatic giving maximum enjoyment to you and your partner.
This style is a wonderful variation of the butterfly. Have the woman lie down on the table or bed with her pelvis positioned at the same height as yours. Penetrate her allowing her to raise her legs in the air. Her legs are then crossed at the ankles then both feet are rested on your chest. Get some leverage by holding onto her shins.
The act of crossing her legs makes her incredibly tight especially if your penis has a small girth. With both your pelvis at the same height, the depth is maximized resulting in record-shattering sex even for the guy with a small penis.
In order to achieve that extra depth in penetration with a smaller penis, this position comes in handy. Lie on your back and the lady on top of you with her back towards you straddling you with her legs like in the reverse cowgirl.
The lady leans forward all the way and lies on top on your legs with her legs forming letter X around your torso. It is more like the 69 but your penis is in her vagina instead of her mouth.
This seems common to most people but this is how it goes anyway. Get down on your knees and enter her from behind with her too on her hands and knees.
This is different from the traditional doggy style in that here the lady has her legs tightly shut so the man spreads his legs further in order to rest them outside her thighs.
The resulting fit is so tight your woman will never forget the enjoyment.
This version of the doggy style is great irrespective of the penis size because both your bodies are angled to allow you to hit her G-spot. Since it is so near the vaginal entrance, shallow penetrations will do the miracle.
A version of the missionary position, the nirvana is euphoric, to say the least. The lady lies on her back with you on top spreading your legs outside her legs and making her tighter than ever imagined. This position allows for greater clitoral stimulation and hair-raising sex.
Similar to the nirvana, this position has you lying on your back and the lady on top and your legs are tightly closed around hers. Then the woman slides up and down your body till both of you can’t take it anymore. This style is wonderful for clitoral stimulation.
In this position, the lady lies on her back with you kneeling in front of her straddling one of her outstretched legs. Lift the other leg up in the air and rest it on your shoulder or chest.
This position allows you to get in nice and deep and since you are on your knees it gives you more control to make the most out of every thrust.
Yes, its not a ‘sex’ position as such but this is a great position if you want to make your girl squirt. You can tongue her clit, whilst using one finger to work her g-spot and another finger to massage her backdoor.
With the lady lying on her back, kneel in front of her. From this position enter her then have her hold onto her hips as she lifts her legs to your shoulders. From this position, lean forward and rest your weight on your hands so that she can bend her legs backward towards her head.
This style requires communication about how much flexibility the lady has. She can try other positions with the legs till both of you finds what is comfortable. The added pressure of your weight bearing down on her provides her with more satisfaction.
In this position both of you gets onto your knees with you behind her. If you don’t have a carpet you can use some pillows for comfort. Have her drape her body over the edge of the sofa so she is bent at the hips. With your torso upright or slightly bent over with her, you can have great fun.
Try this in other areas around the house like on the staircase or against the bed.
This is the best sex positions for guys with small penises especially because the rear entry maximizes penetration and your bodies are pressed up against each other leaving you with the chance to reach down and stroke her clitoris for that explosive climax.
This style requires you to lie on your back, the lady sits on top facing away totally in control. This allows her to grind on you getting so deep she can feel you inside her. It gives her maximum clitoral stimulation so she can feel like a rock star.
This great style is a variation of the well known doggy style. The lady kneels and holds the ground she is kneeling on and you close behind her. As you enter, she leans over and lowers her body and forearms for that deep penetration even for the man with a small penis.
Leave a comment with your favourite position for big and small cocks.
Most women are curious about squirting and many would like to experience it for themselves. In this article I’ll answer the question ‘Can all women squirt?’ You’ll also find out why and how women squirt.
If you have any questions, please leave a comment at the bottom of the article so that I can reply with an answer. Although it may seem like a silly question to you, I bet lots of other women and men are wondering the same thing.
Squirting, also known as female ejaculation is when a liquid coming from the … is released during a powerful orgasm. The debate still rages about what exactly is squirting with a recent study claiming that the female ejaculate is pee.
However, it’s very clear to women who can squirt that this isn’t the case. After all, it doesn’t smell (or taste) like pee and it doesn’t come from the urethra.
For many women, squirting is incredibly satisfying and pleasurable, and has been described as adding another dimension to the female orgasm.
For the guys, imagine having an orgasm without ejaculating. Wouldn’t be as good would it? The female ejaculate usually coincides with an orgasm and the amount of liquid can range from a little to a lot.
Squirting is perfectly healthy and shows that a woman has a strong sexual energy, powerful vaginal muscles and a strong ability to have pleasurable orgasms.
Unfortunately, adult entertainment has given many wrong impressions about squirting and many people have gotten the wrong idea about it. It needn’t be confined to adult film sets. Squirting can be part of a healthy and fulfilling sex life.
You came to the right place if you want to learn how to make your partner squirt. School of Squirt teaches you exactly how to do it. We even have an in depth course on the subject.
If you’re a woman who wants to learn how to squirt, please read this article. Whether you want to be able to squirt for your partner, or just during masturbation, or you’re just curious, you came to the right place.
Squirting is fun, and you can get better and have more powerful ejaculatory orgasms the more you practice.
Only a few women do squirt regularly during penetrative sex, fingering oral. Many women are embarrassed, or worried that their partners might be confused or grossed out if they squirt. Many women feel the urge to pee during sex, when in fact they may actually be ready to squirt.
Almost all women can squirt because all women have the anatomy to do so. It just takes time and practice (and a willing partner who knows what they are doing .)
The good thing is, once you’ve done it once or twice, you’ll know the feeling and be able to do it again, often more easily.
The only problem will be the soaking the bed-sheets every night. In fact there is even a special massage you can use to become more orgasmic. There are also the squirter dimples that are an indicator that she can/ you can squirt.
So, to answer the question ‘can all girls squirt?’ Yes, they can, but it can often take time and practice. The woman should be comfortable with herself and her sexuality.
Shame, guilt and tension will all prevent squirting orgasms from happening.
Leave a comment or question below about your experience with being able to squirt or not.
A sexpert, or sex expert, is the title given to a person who helps singles and couples (of any sexual combination) with matters relating to sexuality and relationships.
Fifty years ago, there were very few sexperts available to the general public, mostly because the idea of discussing in detail what goes on behind closed doors was too taboo.
Today however, there are a number of sexperts on radio, television, and the internet, and each has their own skill set and unique personality. Here we have compiled a list of the 30 best sexperts in 2016, in no particular order.
Author, blogger, thrill seeker, and well regarded sexpert, Flox spends her days delving into the depths of sex, and all of the ways it touches our lives.
As the main contributor to Slantist, “where the slant is sex”, she is not afraid to investigate and discuss any and all topics related to our carnal lives.
Giving expert advice and opinions on the mundane, the eccentric, and even the violent, Flox will provide a level of candor that is refreshing.
As a celebrated contributor to publications such as the Los Angeles Times, Vice, and the Village Voice, readers will discover a witty, open, and disarming charisma in all of her sexpert writings.
As a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and therapist, Evans focuses her vast knowledge and training on the concepts of sexuality and empowering women.
With a private practice in Illinois and many online contributions, readers are welcome to contact Evans with thoughts and questions regarding their own sexuality topics.
Having spent many years addressing the issues that couples face in the bedroom, she offers a safe and reliable arena in which a couple can learn to reconnect and reclaim the intimacy they once had.
Her philosophy that a woman feeling empowered in life will translate to a stronger and healthier sex life has proven to be a great help to all who read her works.
When people of all ages and backgrounds have questions related to sex and sexuality, there is no finer place to turn than igniteyourppleasure.com.
This site, a mixture of self help and sex coaching for individuals and couples, is proffered by the famous sexpert Amy Levine. Levine, with her unabashedly humorous candor and approachability is ready and waiting to assist with all of your sexual health and relationship dilemmas.
Offering a unique perspective on sexual happiness and fulfillment, Levine is not afraid to draw from her own studies and personal experiences, therefore offering some of the best sexpert advice today.
With a name like Tracey Cox, it is little wonder that this famed psychologist/journalist became a sexpert.
Having spent the last two decades speaking, writing, and educating the public on all things sex, Cox offers valuable insight into the human psyche. As a bestselling author of books like Dare:
What Happens When Fantasies Come True and Hot Sex, her works are regarded as cutting edge and candid. Visitors to her website will find everything from advice to toys and products to heighten anyone’s sexual experiences.
Proving yet again that great things can come in small packages, therapist and sexpert Esther Perel has turned the topics of sex and sexuality into an upfront and honest discussion.
As a native of Belgium who speaks nine languages (ten if you count the language of love), Perel travels the globe, giving lectures holding group sessions relating to all manner of sex topics.
Her famed book Mating in Captivity, explores the intricacies and difficulties of loving, appreciating, and enjoying sex in a long term relationship or marriage.
Perel offers a blunt attitude towards sex discussions, often creating a level of discomfort in her audience which immediately triggers discussion.
Have you ever had a conversation with someone who was so completely honest about sex that you found yourself cringing at the embarrassing details?
Welcome to the world of Rachel Kramer Bussel, a noted author, blogger, speaker, and all around sexpert.
Bussel is not afraid to discuss anything pertaining to sex, and usually adds in her own two cents based on personal life experiences.
Her level of candor is engaging, though you may find yourself covering your ears and blushing at times. Her discussions on orgasms are something that every woman in the world should hear.
With thirty five years of experience in the business, Dr. Ruth epitomizes the term sexpert.
As the first “on air” sexpert personality in the United States, her frank discussions and quick wit endeared her to listeners around the world.
Since airing her first radio program in 1980, Dr. Ruth has become an international best seller, often considered the leading sexpert in the world. And let’s face it, hearing her say all kinds of dirty things in that thick German accent is giggle-worthy.
Oh the joys of being naughty. As a Los Angeles sex coach, Sienna Sinclaire is a self proclaimed Naughty Lifestyle Expert.
Relying on her extensive personal knowledge of the adult entertainment industry, and then her subsequent years of study under (not literally) qualified scientific experts, Sinclaire jumps head first into the worlds of sex, naughtiness, and female empowerment.
Open to discussing everything from the ordinary to the obscene, Sinclaire has gathered a loyal following of readers and listeners both on the west coast and nationwide.
Freelance writer and all around funny gal Caitlin Abber has recently started to make a name for herself in the sexpert business.
While her writings can focus on anything from current events to dating advice, her sexuality related pieces are poignant and refreshing, not to mention downright hilarious.
Her article titled “Seven Reasons Why Republicans Are Bad At Sex” will not only keep you in tears, it actually explores the psychology behind the ideology. Proving that being a sexpert is not all fun and games, Abber also tackles the topics of sexual harassment and the struggles faced by both sexes in the world.
There is one simple reason why Morse’s podcast, “Sex with Emily”, is the top rated and downloaded podcast in the world, there is no topic too risque for her.
With an education based in psychology, followed by years of political campaign activity, Morse knows how to screw people.
Her website, blogs, and podcasts will cover everything from Sausage Wraps to the Art of a Hand job, from Talking Dirty to Blow job Embargoes.
Her frank discussions, always tinged with an appropriate amount of humor, offer some of the best sexpert advise available.
Dr. Joe Kort is an author and therapist who specializes in relationships and sex. Having studied in his field and practicing for decades, he is an invaluable source of information on all forms of sexuality topics.
As one of the leading sexperts who focuses on the LGBT community, his books related to the needs of gay men are highly regarded.
In addition to his writings geared toward the LGBT community, his “Gay Affirmative Therapy for the Straight Clinician” seeks to aid straight therapists when treating the varied need of homosexual clients.
Taormino has made a name for herself around the world as a sexpert.
Keeping many irons in the fire, she divides her time between writing bestsellers about sexuality, speaking to private groups, and running Smart Ass Productions, her very own adult film company.
With a goal to allow every person from every walk of life the ability to find pleasure, without guilt or embarrassment, Taormino has an extreme flair for finding the erotic and carnal in anyone.
She has made it her life pursuit to help men and women engage fully during sex.
Kaitlin Menza did not seek out a career as a sexpert, yet through her many insightful freelance writing articles and blog contributions, she is now thought of as a go to expert in the area of sex and relationships.
Having contributed numerous pieces for major women’s magazines, including the likes of Redbook, Cosmo, Vogue, and Marie Claire, her ability to speak about sexuality is one of a kind.
Always addressing interesting topics from a female perspective, gals will learn how to have the best shower sex or what to really expect from anal and squirting.
With a Ph.D. in human sexuality and many innovative books to her credit, Dr. Gloria Brame has become an adored sexpert around the world.
Dr. Brame strives tirelessly to help all of her listeners and readers lead healthier sex lives.
Understanding that sexuality is far more than the act of intercourse, she has written and spoken about the importance of sexual identity, and embracing your true desires.
An advocate of the BDSM and fetish communities, Dr. Brame does not allow the common prejudices to disrupt her search for sexual wellness in the world.
The term “sex coach” tends to instill an image of tight shorts, dodge ball, and a whistle, yet sexpert and sex coach Amy Jo Goddard is anything but “athletic department creepy”.
In fact, this sexual empowerment expert has been applauded many times over for writings and lectures on sex and sexuality. Bestowed the title of Sex Blogging Superhero, Goddard takes it all in stride.
Her articulate and thoughtful writings can help singles and couples cope with the rigors of relationships, the struggles many face with sexual identity, and the desires that most people have for a more fulfilling sex life.
Sexperts come in all shapes and sizes, and from all backgrounds.
Turning the tragedy of her own sexual assault into a force for positive change, Jaclyn Friedman has become a beloved voice anyone who has dealt with their own personal violent demons.
Not only does Friedman act as an advocate for better understanding and safety training to counteract assault, she also works as a loud voice against gender related hate crimes and violence.
Those who follow her writings and lectures gain a deep perspective into the emotional, mental, and physical impacts that sexual violence and assault can cause.
As a member of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality and the AASEC, Dr. Trina Read offers scientific views on the topics of sex and sexuality that are easy to comprehend.
Providing the community at large with two websites, trinaread.com and vivaxo.com, her vast audience is exposed to a number of helpful insights and tips.
Her traveling lectures are celebrated for their focus on healthy sexuality and sexual relationships, while her writings are adored for their jovial take on adding excitement to the bedroom.
When nature combines the natural talents of comedian, magazine editor, and sexpert, the result is the enigmatic and always fun personality of Lane Moore.
As the sex and relationships editor for Cosmopolitan magazine, Moore knows all too well what it takes to be a sexpert.
Overseeing what is arguably the most popular section of Cosmo’s magazine, she has learned all of the nitty-gritty details about sex, including all of the blush-worthy tidbits that sell copy.
Her talents as a comedian ensure that her writings are always tongue in cheek, if not tongue in some other body part.
As the site director for Cosmopolitan.com, journalist and editor Korin Miller has seen her share of naughty topics.
Producing articles and blogs for a number of mass media publications, including the Washington Post, yahoo.com, and Womens Health Magazine, Miller has written about everything from urinating before sex to tips to make your partner’s penis feel bigger.
Of her many popular sexpert pieces, the articles she wrote for Cosmo about “making him last longer” have been appreciated by women all over the world.
Offering a two for one sexpert extravaganza, happily married couple Dan and Jennifer Baritchi have created a sexpert empire with their askdanandjennifer.com blog site.
Having authored a series of hit books relating to relationships and sex, it is popularly said that this power couple is “today’s number one resource for love and sex”.
On their site, readers will find answers to all of those burning questions, including the ones that we are normally too embarrassed to ask ourselves. Visitors will find everything from advice to videos and sex toys.
When we think of sexperts, Dr. Laura Berman is always near the front of our list.
As a well respected relationship and sex educator, Dr. Berman somehow finds enough hours in the day to host television and radio shows, keep an updated website, write books and a weekly newspaper column, appear on numerous other television programs as a sexpert, run her own Chicago practice, and teach at Northwestern’s Feinberg School of Medicine.
Through all of these avenues, Dr. Berman has helped countless couples to reconnect and build a stronger sense of intimacy in their relationships and their bedrooms.
Anyone who titles their bestselling book “She Comes First”, is a-okay in our opinion.
Ian Kerner has done just that, along with creating many other life altering works centered around healthy and adventurous sex. As a psychotherapist recognized by the AASEC, Kerner can back all of his cheeky banter with the science behind the pleasure.
Kerner is often found touring and speaking at the Ivy League universities, or writing for CNN. His lectures on relationships and intimacy have enabled him to become one of today’s leading sexperts.
Some may think that sexperts are only needed by people who are inexperienced, young, or naive.
This is a completely false theory, sexperts cater to people of every age and background, even seniors. As the official Love and Relationship Ambassador for AARP, Dr. Pepper Schwartz spends her days helping the AARP members improve their love and sex lives.
An avid author, Schwartz is well known for works such as “Dating After 50 for Dummies”, “The Great Sex Weekend”, and “Prime: Advice and Adventures on Sex, Love, and the Sensuous Years”. Putting her sociology and sexology degrees to the best use, Schwartz has been helping people have better sex since the 1970’s.
When the roles of feminist and sexpert fall into bed together, the resulting brilliance is a woman who knows what women want, and is not afraid to ask for it.
Acclaimed sex advisor and speaker Jamye Waxman is a multi talented sexpert on erotica, adult film making, sexual health, and so much more.
Waxman is a regular contributor to online and print publications, like YourTango and Cosmopolitan magazine. Currently, those who wish to learn from Waxman’s years of sexpertise can find her online working as the sex educator for the Lovers online video series.
The British brain trust of EmandLo.com, the dynamic sexpert duo of Emma Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey, are the ladies to ask about bedroom activities.
Presenting the famed UK series “Sex: How to do Everything”, and having authored a number of sex education books, Em and Lo offer answers to sex and relationship questions from around the world.
With a well respected blog that is updated twice a day, these gals spend their days teaching their followers the best ways to be naughty.
Tess Barker, comedian and co-host of the well loved Lady to Lady podcast, offers a brand of sexpertise that walks the delicate line between hilarious and vulgar.
In addition to her podcast scenes, Barker is a contributor and blogger, with many works in Women’s Health Magazine. Readers will appreciate her insights into topics such as “9 Things Sex Experts Really Want You to Know”, “The Lazy Girls Guide to Sexting”, and “4 Ways to Make His Penis Feel Bigger”.
Barker’s ability to bathe sexy situations in a layer of brevity allows her readers and listeners to connect with her more openly, endearing her into the hearts and bedrooms of many followers.
Having one of the busiest sexpert careers in the business, Dr. Sari Locker has been offering up advice on sexuality for close to three decades.
Dr. Locker knows a thing or two about having a great sex life, and the shear number of books she has sold proves that her tips and tricks are invaluable. Having been invited to speak about her forte on over one thousand different television programs, Dr. Locker is a go-to name in the sexpert industry.
While she still teaches psychology courses at Columbia University, she uses the remainder of her time touring college campuses, giving lectures on sex, and contributing to a number of print media publications.
Not so much a single sexpert, but a conglomerate of wickedly erotic sexpert contributors, Mistress Maxxsters created the Sexperts Lounge blog. Here, readers will discover a plethora of sex advice, with topics and opinions from a host of different experts and personalities.
If you have questions about dating, relationships, sexual health, or anything else related to sex, the Sexperts Lounge blog will have an answer for you.
What really sets this sexpert site apart is the many varied perspectives that are offered on each topic. A great way to ensure that the information you are reading is accurate from both a male and female standpoint.
Sandra Daugherty, better known to her followers as Sex Nerd Sandra, provides sexpert advise through her podcast and blogs.
With an eye for the quirky and obscure, Sandra creates a safe environment for sex discussions.
Removing the stigma of shame from our bedrooms, this lighthearted nerd offers amazing tips and tricks to heighten your sexual encounters, face the dilemmas of bedroom boredom, and cope with our own sexuality discomforts.
Painfully honest and contagiously enthusiastic about sex, Sandra will remind all of her viewers just how sexy a nerd can be.
Author, blogger, and contributor Kayt Sukel is a sexpert in the sciences of human behavior. Her fascinating books “Dirty Minds” and “This is Your Brain on Sex” investigate the mental and emotional responses in our brain, which then cause us to have physical reactions to those around us.
Through her works, we gain a better understanding of why were are what we are, a study in neuroscience and naughtiness.
Readers will fall in love with Sukel’s humor the moment they listen to her tell her story about masturbating in an MRI machine! As far as sexperts go, she is really one to check out.
There you have it, the 30 Best Sexperts of 2016. If you have sex, relationship, dating, or sexual health questions, surely one of these fabulous sexperts will be able to help you. Remember, sexperts are here to help everyone, from the most missionary mammas to the kinkiest.
So, you want to learn how to fuck a girl right…
To send her into outerspace with gushing orgasm after orgasm?
Good, let’s get started then shall we, because you’re about to learn the secret tricks, tips, techniques and mindsets to give any woman, or your girlfriend the best orgasms of her life.
If you never had sex before than this guide is especially for you – since we start with basics.
But for the ‘experienced’ players there are also some neat tips that will help you gain mastery in the bedroom and keep your girl coming back for more over and over again.
There’s a few things you need to prepare for before you make love with a woman. Firstly make sure you have protection close at hand. This means keeping a few condoms near to your bed. Condoms will stop STIs and prevent you getting her pregnant.
You’ll also want to make your bedroom, or wherever you want to make love as romantic as possible. For example, dim the lights, make sure it’s clean and tidy and smells nice. This is going to help get her turned on quicker and ultimately lead to great sex.
You won’t be able to fuck a woman properly if she isn’t turned on. This is one thing that so many guys get horribly wrong. They think you can just go straight in from kissing into intercourse. But wait… slow down a sec.
For women, sex is all about anticipation and sexual tension. If you go too quickly into penetration her then all the tension is lost. She might as well have just used a dildo.
Sex is all about emotions, so use foreplay to get the woman in a sexual mood before making love to her. To be good at having sex, you must help the woman to get into a sexual mood using foreplay and arousal. You can read all about how to make her horny here.
Start by touching kissing and caressing all the parts of her body. I also find the pillow fighting, play wrestling and physical things help to get her in the mood and ready for sex.
Ideally you want to get to the point where she is so turned on that she is practically begging to be penetrated by you – before you even think about getting her naked and having sex. Let go of the outcome of sex and just enjoy the process.
You’ll want to keep the lights dim, but still enough so that you can see what you’re doing. If it’s too bright she may feel self-conscious. Usually it’s a better idea to strip off yourself first. Take your shirt off. Then take her shirt off. Bit by bit and slowly as the arousal continues to build.
Now slip your own pants of, now take hers off. Eventually you’ll both be naked. If this all seems too quick for you then find out about dry humping first so that you can see what the sex will feel like without actually having sex.
Before sex, most couples use their fingers of mouths to get the partner even more in the mood. So you might want to finger her first. Or you could go and eat her pussy out. These are very good ideas to try before building up to the big finale of penetrative sex.
After you’ve performed cunninglingus on her, she will be dripping wet and ready to be made love to by you. At this point you need to put on a condom. Sometimes putting on a condom can interrupt the flow of arousal, but don’t worry, it needs to be done. Once you have put on the condom then go back to kissing her before going in.
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The best starter position is called missionary position. This is because the Christian missionaries taught it to the new cultures they came across as a good way to have sex.
Get her to lie on her back. Lie on top of her and hold your penis with one hand. Rub the head of your penis against her vagina, as you feel the opening to her pussy then push inwards slowly.
Don’t push into her pussy too hard to start with – as this could cause her discomfort to start with. Move slowly but rhythmically back and forth or side to side.
Your muscles may get tired after some time in this position – this is perfectly normal – it just means that it’s time to change position.
Many guys and girls agree that doggy style is their favorite position. This means having sex with her from behind. This is a great position for fucking her strongly and powerfully and many women enjoy this the most. It’s also a great position if you want her to squirt during sex.
At some point you’re going to want to ejaculate, unfortunately for most guys, this means the end of the session for the woman, even though she might want more.
If you feel like cumming, but you don’t want to, just take your penis out of her and start fingering or licking her pussy again. This method will keep her turned on, but will slow down your arousal so that you’re ready to go again soon.
For women, they usually like to have sex and enjoy the process for a longer time than most men. So if you want to fuck her properly than try and last for at least half an hour before cumming.
When you do decide to ejaculate (or it just happens) you have a few options. Contine having sex and come in the condom. Stop having sex and take the condom off so that you can come outside.
You may want to ask her for a blowjob, or finish yourself of by wanking. Some girls like to have sperm ejaculated on to them.
After having sex is a great time to relax and cuddle. Hormones are released after orgasm that cause bonding in humans. Girls love to be spooned after they have sex. That means lying side by side hugging.
Remember take the condom off, tie it up and throw it away, you may also want to have a shower.
It’s not uncommon make love to her 2, 3, or 4 or more times in a night, so have a little recovery and then you can go for it again.
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For all the debate on what women really want, you’d think the answer was an age old puzzle, wrapped inside an enigma and guarded by a wizened old mage who insists you answer a series of riddles before proceeding any further. But, really, it’s not.
It’s not that women want something mystical, it’s just that they want something MORE. Something more than most men. It’s a cliché and perhaps a bit sexist, but that doesn’t make it any less true.
It’s not that men will just settle for anything but, let’s face it, men definitely demand a lot less. Sure, they’re not going to complain about extra frills and spicing things up, but it’s hardly at the top of their list of demands – if they even have one.
That’s the real reason why so many men don’t understand what women want in bed – a woman’s expectations are simply higher.
Luckily, these high expectations aren’t actually hard to accomplish once you break them down. We’ve created a step by step way to plan and carry out a night of ecstasy that will drive you both mad and create a night that you’ll enjoy – and remember – for days (and nights) to come.
If you’re looking for a more detailed guide, we have an advanced video training course where I’ll show you step by step how to give your girlfriend or wife the best orgasms of her life.
Women secretly want a man who will ‘go the extra mile.’ For you, this could mean spending some time learning the techniques and methods it takes to give her a ‘truly loving orgasm’ as we like to call it.
Do you want to open her heart? Do you love and care for her so much that you want to give her an amazing sexual experience. If yes, please take a look at our exclusive training course because it’s a much faster way to learn. Okay, until then let’s continue with the article.
Some women insist they don’t need flowers and candlelight and romantic music and it’s true, they might not need it – but every woman appreciates it when her partner puts some thought into the festivities.
It doesn’t necessarily need to be tried and true (i.e. somewhat clichéd) romantic gestured, but showing that you put some planning into your evening is bound to win you some points.
Use what you know about your girl to make the perfect night. Maybe for your girl that does mean the traditional flowers, dinner out and rose pedals on the bed.
Or maybe she’s more of a deep dish pizza and an armful of video games and movies type-a-gal. It’s not about living up to some external ideal, but instead it’s about simply showing that you gave her some thought – it’s a move that will easily pave the way for an explosive night.
Any sex advice article worth its salt will tell you foreplay is incredibly important. Women love being turned on slowly, even when they’re begging for sex, there’s an enjoyment in the anguish of waiting.
Foreplay should be fun and it gives you a chance to show off your skills. Show her just how dexterous you can be with your hands, your mouth and your imagination.
Teaser her, massage her and use everything except your dick to bring her to the brink of an orgasm – only to then put on the brakes and coax her back from the edge.
Foreplay should be long, drawn-put, plenty of fun and a little maddening. The idea is to get her so turned on she’s quite literally begging for sex – and then making her wait just a little longer.
Foreplay is the perfect time to be ‘sensual’ with her. This means taking the time to enjoy her, touching her body softly, caressing her, enjoying her company and building anticipation and teasing.
Being playful, yet at the same time slow and sensual is often an award-winning combination.
At the same time, we could talk about foreplay all day, but sometimes a woman simply wants to be ‘taken’ quickly by you; She wants to be ‘ravaged.’
Most of the time foreplay, and a long build up will make her more likely to orgasm later, but once in a while mix things up. It’s important that you keep her guessing. Let her know by your actions that at any point when you’re together you might want to take her.
What women really want it bed is to forget about the worries of life. There are so many thoughts running through the female mind and sex can often be a way to escape from this and enjoy the connection with another human.
Sex is extremely emotional for women. Emotion drives everything and so it is very important that you are the one gets her in to an emotional frame of mind – (rather than a logical one.)
This is often why foreplay is so important – It gives her time to switch over from logic into physical/emotional. Sex is also about connection and communication. In our everyday lives we use words to communicate right?
Stay with me here because this is deep…
Well the words we use aren’t perfect. They are just symbols or maps for what we are trying to express, and during most conversations there’s usually a lot that is misunderstood or miscommunicated.
Have you ever noticed this? Especially in a relationship, communication and understanding is very important, but sometimes words aren’t enough, misunderstanding is inevitable.
Well during sex, usually we don’t communicate logically with words. Our bodies communicate with each other, so sex is time a time to show how much you love and care about your partner.
Sex opens up a communication channel that allows a deeper connection between you and your partner.
And that is what a woman truly wants in the bedroom – give her a connection to you – communicate with your body and your touch. They don’t call it ‘making love’ for no reason. You are literally showing her your love, communicating with her, during sex.
Okay, let’s get back to the practical side of things.
Once you have her right at the brink, give her what she wants. Sexual positions don’t always have to feature the same old standbys, though there’s nothing wrong with enjoying the classics.
When you want to show her a night to remember, however, mix things up with something new.
Missionary sex doesn’t have to mean boring sex. Spice up that missionary position by leaning back and holding her legs up at a 90 degree angle.
This will change the trajectory of your thrusts, allowing you to go deeper than before and increasing her enjoyment.
Knowing what you are doing makes all the difference to a woman. She will feel comfortable and relaxed when you are confident in your sexual ability. Thats why so many men who have girlfriends come to us when they want to know how to make her squirt consistently.
Try positions that give you a better angle on stimulating her G-Spot. The G-Spot is located hear the front of the vagina so hitting it in the missionary position simply isn’t an option. One of the best ways to stimulate her g-spot is using your fingers.
Instead, opt for positions such as doggy Style where you enter her from behind. Tilt your body so that your penis is making contact with the front of her vagina – essentially the underside of where her clit is located externally. Grind as you enter her fully and she’ll moan when you hit the right spot.
Let her get on top and take sitting on your lap to sexy new heights. Update the old woman on top position by sitting down and letting her ride you.
Use a straight back chair so she can use the back for leverage and to help her grind down on you however she wants. Maintain your own balance and let her go to town while you enjoy the show.
A woman loves a man who takes control, but not as much as she loves a man who hands over the reigns. Encourage her to get in touch with her wild, dominant side by throwing control over to her right in the middle of sex. Tell her you want to see her in charge and see what happens.
She may balk at first, especially if she’s not used to it, so don’t worry if it falls a little flat the first time – just pick back up and show her a good time. But the seed will have been planted.
Keep asking her – in and outside the bedroom – what really turns her on and it won’t be long before even the most sex-shy girl starts to open up in more ways than one.
No matter who’s in charge and what position you’re in, never forget how powerful your hands can be. If she’s riding you or if you’re driving into her, keep those hands busy.
Run your hands along the length of her body, play with her nipples, run a thumb over her clit or squeeze the places you love the most on her body.
Use your hands to show her just how much you love every inch of her – it adds so much to any sexual position as well as the experience itself. Chances are, she’ll remember where your hands were for days.
Having an orgasm is amazing – but that doesn’t mean it’s the end of sex. Sure, you’ll stop actually having sex, but the sexual energy in the room will still be thick.
Make the most of it and postpone cleaning up for a few minutes while you continue to run your hands all over her body, peppering her with kisses, licks and maybe the occasional nip of the teeth.
Tell her every moment that drove you crazy with desire and drive home just how much you love having sex with her. It’ll make your afterglow just as memorable as the act itself.
At the end of the day, women want more than sex – they want an experience. So give it to her!
A night of sex is about more than just having sex, it’s about the build-up, the fun of the act and how you handle yourself after.
Sex is meant to connect a couple and be fun, so it makes sense that it takes a fair bit of planning and energy.
Put some thought into it and make it something to remember and I assure you, it’ll be a night that keeps her happy and coming back for more.
You’ll even get a bonus – a girl that’s happy and a relationship that has that healthy sexy afterglow even when you’re not in the bedroom.
If you feel like you missed out on some part of sexual education, you’re not alone. Many of us learn the basics of sex but we’re often left to figure out the details through trial and error.
While that’s fine for some people, others of us need a bit more guidance, especially as we get older and inexperience becomes a handicap. After all, no one expects a young man to have a lot of game when it comes to sex, but once you hit a certain age, partners expect you to know what you’re doing.
That’s why we’ve put together this useful sex tutorial. It covers all the basics plus gives you some tips on how to take things up a notch and improve your confidence in and out of the bedroom.
if you’re looking for the more advanced guides, then we have a complete and in-depth course that will show you the step by step details of how to be the best lover she’s ever had.
If you care for your partner, if you love her then of course; You want to give her the truly amazing orgasms she deserves. i recommend you have a look at our video course to learn more. We will teach you everything you need to know to give her the best orgasms of her life.
Sex is, by its very nature, pretty intense. As a result, many people overlook the importance of foreplay. But, without a bit of a buildup, your sex game will always fall flat.
So what is foreplay exactly? It’s more than making out and not quite full on sex, which is why many guys skip it entirely, even if they don’t realize it. Foreplay is all about getting you both worked up and ready.
By going slowly and savoring this part of sex, men gain a few advantages. First, it prolongs the sex act, making it more satisfying overall for both partners.
Secondly, it gets your woman truly aroused so that she is more likely to experience a great orgasm – potentially more than one.
Getting a woman off during foreplay isn’t the objective, but it’s likely to happen. Don’t set out trying to make her orgasm, but if she’s building up to it and can’t stop, encourage her and make it a good one.
Most women can have more than one orgasm in a session, so if she gets off while you’re playing with her clit that won’t keep her from climaxing during penetrative sex.
As you begin, forget about yourself for a while. Focus all of your attention on her.
Not only will this make her happy, it makes you look good. Men who put their partner’s needs before their own are worth their weight in gold. Not sure exactly how to do that?
These simple techniques should get the ball rolling.
Your hands are one of the most overlooked sexual organs on your body. Learn how to use your fingers, thumb and even the heel of your palm to drive your partner wild. Run your hands all over her body, giving her a squeeze every now and again.
Don’t just focus on her breasts either – give those thighs a quick squeeze, let your hands massage the muscles that make her strong. Show her just how much you love her body.
You can use your mouth to tell her how much you love her, or you can use it to show her. Kiss the inside of her wrists, the backs of her knees, the gentle curve of her hip.
Let your lips graze over her neck, down her shoulder and take a nip at her upper arm. The mixed sensations will turn her on and have her begging for more.
Don’t be shy about telling her exactly what you’re thinking. Share with her how much you love the way she feels and what you want to do with her. If you’re new to talking dirty in bed, take things easy.
Use whatever language comes naturally and speak from the heart (and the pants) to get connected with that raw feeling she brings out in you.
Women love multi-sensational sexual contact. So use everything you can to show her just how much you love her as well as how much you WANT her. By using a mixture of tactile and auditory techniques you’ll be pressing all her buttons.
Of course, if you want to give her an orgasm first before moving on to intercourse then this is the ideal option – She will be just as much in the mood after an orgasm as before, (perhaps even more so.)
Just as you can work on your spoken vocabulary, you can also work on your sexual position library of options. Of course you’ll want some tried and true positions you’re comfortable with.
Most men have no problems with traditional missionary position as well as having their woman on top, facing him, cowgirl style. But don’t be afraid to mix things up a bit.
These positions are simple but improve your range of motion, flexibility and your sexual self-confidence. Mastering them is the first step in learning which advanced positions you’re more likely to enjoy.
We have a more in depth guide if you want to learn how to fuck a girl right.
This is like the more traditional version of having the woman on top. Instead of facing you, she faces away. This gives her a better position to adjust for depth and the angle of your thrust, making it easier for you to stimulate her G-Spot.
This is one of those classic positions that some people shy away from, presumably because of the name.
Call it anything you want, but entering her from behind boosts her orgasm power while reducing the stimulation for the man just enough to prevent premature ejaculation.
Start in the missionary position then kneel back and pick her legs up. Raise them 90-degrees and cross her legs at the ankle.
You can uncross her legs and spread them wide then bring them back together and cross them to alter the intensity for each of you.
For this position, you’ll need a simple straight back chair – a kitchen or dining room table chair is perfect. Have a seat and then invite your partner to lower herself onto you, either facing you or facing away.
If she faces away she’ll have the ability to control the angle which is helpful for that G-Spot orgasm. If she faces you, however, she can use the back of the chair to get better depth and grind down more while you’re free to tease her nipples and pepper her with kisses, licks and the occasional light bite.
One of the best things you can do to be amazing in bed is learn the technique to make a girl squirt for the first time in her life. Not only is this one of the most amazing and pleasurable orgasms for a woman to experience, but very few men know how to do it properly. That’s why we have an entire course dedicated to it.
When people have sex, their bodies release a ton of feel good hormones. Endorphins and dopamine flood your system, giving you that warm, fuzzy glow that comes after sex. Even if you know you need to get up and clean off a bit, don’t rush off right away.
Take a minute to revel in that feeling with your partner. Let your hands continue to caress her body lightly, slowly and in a way that makes you feel connected to her. For many women, this is the best part about an orgasm – that warm glow that leaves them happily recovering.
Human sexuality is meant to feel good – so don’t let concerns about inexperience keep you from enjoying it. This simple blueprint gives you a foundation for a positive and satisfying sexual experience, but it shouldn’t be the end of your journey.
Use what you learn from exploring these options to learn more about specific sex acts and different games and toys you can use to make it even better.
Once you get comfortable with these techniques, broaden your horizons by using our training videos, ebooks and tutorials to take your game to the next level.
Looking for the best sex positions that will make a man last longer, provide deeper penetration or give a woman her best chance at an amazing orgasm?
We’ve got you covered. We’ve scoured the internet and dug through the manuals to bring you the best positions for the most common sexual goals.
These are fairly simple and won’t require you to limber up, either, so don’t worry if you’ve gotten into a rut of missionary sex.
These positions can provide just the change you need to give you the charge you want.
Women report they are more likely to experience an orgasm if they’re on top. There are a few different reasons for this. First, of course, it allows them to grind down on their partner, stimulating her clitoris while controlling just how deep she is penetrated.
There’s also the thrill of simply taking charge which provides extra mental stimulation. And, of course, there’s the fact that it’s often different from what couples normally do which provides a level of novelty for both partners.
The most common position of having a woman on top is, of course, the cowgirl. In this position, the woman simply rides her partner facing forward and using her knees as leverage. The view for her partner is a bonus and the woman gets to control pacing, penetration and how hard she grinds down.
Sometimes called the Reverse Cowgirl, for this position the woman simply turns around. By going in from behind, so to speak.
She can give her partner a bit of a break from being over stimulated while still having fun. The angle this position provides also makes it easier for the G-Spot to be stimulated, making it a sure-fire hit.
The Beetle is less a position and more an approach. It’s still with the woman on top but instead of being on her knees she effectively squats so that she can quickly change the angle and position until she finds the perfect sweet spot to reach her orgasm.
Having her swivel around and try different angles quickly can be a bit overwhelming for her partner, so couples should be sure to establish some type of warning if a man feels as though he’s about to climax before both partners are ready.
Having the woman on top is a definite favorite but if you want to give her an amazing orgasm, the old tried and true Doggy Style is really the way to go.
Some women may roll their eyes at its corny name, but nail the position just right and she’ll be rolling her eyes for an entirely different reason. The trick with perfecting the Doggy position is the angle in which the penis enters her from behind.
Essentially, you want to angle your penis so that it’s sitting at the front of her vagina. That’s right – the front. That’s because the G-spot is located right around there and that’s the magic button, so to speak.
Go slowly until you find just the right angle then hone in and get focused. But don’t pound away or try to get rough, instead alternate thrusts that go as deep as you can with a little grinding swivel of the hips. Encourage her to reach down and stimulate her clitoris if she wants – the moans this creates will get you both off in no time.
It doesn’t matter what size a penis is – there are ways to achieve the deepest penetration possible simply by changing up your positions.
Going deeper does come with the potential for trouble, so be sure your partner knows she can speak up if things go too far. Penetrating deeper will mean you’re running the risk of hitting her cervix which is the ultimate mood killer. So once you’ve established all that, it’s time to have some fun!
This is a fun position that lets a woman just enjoy the ride, so to speak. The woman kneels down, the lays her head on the bed, arching her back and pushing her butt into the air. Her partner enters from behind and his angle coupled with the angle of her body means penetration as deep as you can possibly go. It’s a huge turn on for both partners and, once again, is gives her the ability to stimulate her clitoris if she wants.
Another favorite is the Anvil, which is a spin on the missionary position that most people know, even if they didn’t realize it. To achieve this position, get into missionary and then have her put her shins or knees on your shoulders – it’s that easy.
As you position yourself, her body will achieve an angle that gives allows for the hot and steamy deeper penetration. Since you’re facing each other, you can kiss and play with her breasts or encourage her to engage in some stimulation.
Anal sex can be pretty amazing, but some people are reluctant to try it for obvious reasons. If you’re keen to get your girl to give it a go, have this position at the ready.
Spooning is the ideal way to keep her relaxed and be able to stimulate her as much as you both want in order to make trying anal much easier. As the name implies, you simply assume your normal Spooning position – same as you would for sleep – with both partners on their sides and facing the same way.
Play with her clit, nipples and vagina to keep her aroused, wet and fully relaxed then slide on in. Go slowly and use plenty of lube as needed and simply rock your way to orgasm!
Whether you’ve got an issue with climaxing too quickly or you just want to prolong the fun, positions that improve a man’s stamina are always a good idea.
The trick to improving staying power has to do with lessening stimulation, but without stopping the fun in its tracks. Doggy Style is a great options for this – especially since it also stimulates her G-Spot – but that’s not your only option here.
The Spooning position is also a good option and if she’s not down for anal, it’s simple to use it for rear vaginal entry as well. Having her on top as a Asian Cowgirl also reduces your stimulation while still keeping her happy.
And changing positions often is a key as well. Simply by moving around to get into these positions will give men a momentary break that prevents things from going too far, too fast.
There are so many fun positions for couples to try that these starter options will more than likely whet your whistle for more. As you each develop your favorites, be sure to make them a regular thing.
Not only will this enhance your sex life as it is, it will also make it easier for you both to suggest new and fun positions in the future.
We’re Laura and Julien and we’ve run School Of Squirt for 4 years. We get a lot of questions about squirting!!
I know, it’s a complicated subject
Here are the most common questions we get asked about squirting.
Learning how to squirt more is a process that you can get better at over time. Many women find that kegels make their orgasms more powerful, so they inevitably ejaculate more liquid.
The orgasmic massage that we teach can also help you squirt more liquid. Having a willing and knowledgable partner can help considerably too.
It is also a good idea to stay very hydrated is you plan on squirting. Although it may sound trivial, female ejaculation and squirting causes the loss of fluid and you will be able to squirt more easily and more liquid when you are fully hydrated.
It’s also a good idea to go to the toilet before trying to squirt so that you don’t confuse the feeling of needing to pee, with needing to squirt.
The liquid that she ejaculates is not pee. One woman tested this out by eating lots of asparagus one evening. Later that night she squirted and smelled the fluid, knowing that if it was connected or made from pee it would smell strongly of asparagus, and it didn’t.
She later went to the toilet and found her pee smelling strongly of asparagus. Instead it comes from the Skene’s gland also known as the female prostate.
The Skene’s gland is located close to the G-spot and surrounded by the urethra. During sexual stimulation the glands fill up with fluid and are released when she gushes.
Female ejaculate is made from prostatic fluid and also contains water, glucose, creatine and very small amounts of urea. It could be described as very watered down male ejaculate without the sperm in it.
Squirting is like anything else in that you can get better (and have more control) over it, the more you practice. Exercising your vaginal muscles with kegels will help you have more control.
A willing and helpful partner will also make practice more enjoyable. You can practice ‘pushing out’ as you feel yourself about to squirt.
You should feel confident that you are about to squirt, and not pee, but lay down any towels so that whatever happens, everything will be fine.
Practically every girl can squirt, she just needs a partner who knows what they are doing to help them. Obviously some women find it more difficult, and some women can’t help but squirt.
Most women find it difficult to squirt, but a guy who knows exactly what to do can give her one of the most powerful and pleasurable orgasms of her life by learning the right technique.
Whilst she is experiencing a squirting orgasm it is a good idea to maintain your rhythm so that she continues to cycle through her orgasm – This will make it longer and more powerful.
Don’t freak out or look surprised or confused, just be there for her while she enjoys the pleasure that you’ve given her.
Make her feel comfortable and relaxed so that she can have another orgasm again, straight after. Some women like to feel pressure during an orgasm.
They want to feel your strength, and the feeling of ‘being wanted’. Hold her closely, lovingly and strongly whilst she enjoys her squirting orgasm.
Often novice squirters will confuse the urge to ejaculate with the urge to pee. They think they need to pee but really they are just ready to squirt.
Luckily it is very hard for a woman to pee when she is highly aroused, however she will be trying so hard not to pee that it will be preventing her from squirting.
If you girl says she needs to pee it means that she doesn’t feel comfortable enough to let go. At this point you need to comfort her and tell her if she pees then it’s alright but that it’s just her body getting ready to squirt.
Until the woman has more practice with squirting she won’t be able to distinguish the difference between the pressure on her bladder (needing to pee) and pressure from her skene’s gland (wanting to ejaculate) and will perceive them as the same thing.
The only way for her to tell the difference is to let go and try it for herself. Eventually she will be able to tell the difference between needing a pee and needing to gush.
Women can squirt multiple times in one session depending on a few different factors. Firstly and most importantly is how strong her vaginal muscles are.
If she has squirted before and does kegal exercises then this will greatly increase the number of time she can squirt before she gets tired. Sometimes yoga girls, or girls who ride horses are more likely to be able to have multiple releases because they naturally exercise those muscles anyway.
Secondly, she should be fully hydrated to be able to cum multiple times. The female ejaculate can discard large amounts of fluid from the body and she can get dehydrated quickly. Make sure she drinks plenty of water with added hydrating ions before a long session.
With practice, kegel exercises, adequate hydration and a man equipped with a good understanding of her body it wouldn’t be uncommon for her to ejaculate more than 5 times.
Definitely. The quantity (of liquid), intensity, frequency and ease of her squirts can all hugely increase with practice. Her sexual stamina, as well as your intimacy and knowledge of her body and how she responds to you stimulating her will all help.
All women have the capacity to squirt because they all have the anatomy that allows squirting. The only difference between woman who can and can’t is the strength of the muscles in that area of the body and the psychological aspects of female ejaculation.
The main reason most women don’t ejaculate is that they think they need to pee so they hold it back and refrain from squirting. Women can learn how to squirt here.
With a little coaching from a well informed man and the vast majority of woman will gush after a few sessions. Sometimes women are already squirting but they just think they are getting really wet.
With practice they can increase the volume and power of their ejaculations.Women who can squirt easily often have squirter dimples on their lower backs.
Yes you can, however there is only so far that technique can take you, when it concerns different girls. Once you understand the fundamentals of how women are turned on physically and you have mastered the right techniques then it essentially comes down to how you can make her feel emotionally.
Being able to read the subtle feedback that she gives you (non verbally) will be the main difference that increases your ‘success rate’ as well as how hard and fast she comes.
If she perceives you as non-judgmental, free from outcome and enjoying the experience with her whatever happens it will be much easier to make her come. Learn about the right way to finger a girl.
Generally when a woman releases her pussy juice she is having an orgasm at the same time, although or rare occasions and a small minority of women they can squirt without orgasming.
This usually comes down to an emotional block that is stopping it from happening and can be worked out over time if you are emotionally available for her.
After she has released is a great time to have intercourse. She will be fully aroused and more likely to orgasm during intercourse, or squirt during intercourse than if she hadn’t already squirted.
This is an interesting topic and one that it can take some practice to Master, but is well worth the time. Go and look at the full article ‘how to make a girl squirt during sex‘ to get the in depth guide.
Female ejaculation used to have negative connotations in terms of loving relationships. They somehow seemed unnatural or like something you would see in a movie.
Squirting use to seem unlady like or unromantic and therefore some people had reservations about trying it in a loving relationship.
Luckily the taboo is slowly being lifted as couples come to realize that a healthy, interesting sex life is so important for a great relationship.
Of course there is nothing unnatural or wrong about female ejaculation and squirting orgasms can and should be used to build a solid loving relationship. It also helps the man tune into the subtle variations of feminine energy which can help grow the relationship.
Squirt stacking has been described on the home page and is an advanced technique. Essentially the man helps the woman ‘stand close to the edge of arousal’ without going off it.
He brings her up to the point where she might climax, then reduces his stimulation back down, almost teasing her.
He can do this many times, bringing her up to the edge and then back down. When he finally brings her up again and ‘over the edge’ into the squirting orgasm it can be many times more powerful than the simple normal squirt and potentially the most pleasurable thing she has ever felt.
The woman can then potentially have multiple stacked squirting orgams.
Squirting done in the right situation between a caring couple can be both physically and emotionally healthy for both people. Physically the orgasm reduces stress and increases secretion of vital hormones. Some woman have said, ‘an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away,’ since squirting orgasms can boost immune function.
Emotionally, female ejaculation can help bond the couple and create intimacy. Occasionally squirting can bring up emotional challenges that have been repressed from childhood so it can present an opportunity to work through them and overcome them.
For men this means she won’t be emotionally open to squirting unless she feels she can trust you can handle and stick with her if any emotional scars come up. If she feels you will run away or be scared off then she will be less likely to let go.
It is very easy for a woman to consciously decide not to squirt if she thinks you will judge her, by simple holding back like she is holding back a pee.
So although it may appear to you like she wants to this may not be the case and either consciously or unconsciously one of the reasons she might not squirt.
OP massage stands for ‘orgasmic potential massage.’ It is a very advanced technique that uses specialist massage techniques to release the full potential of the woman to have multiple, full body, squirting orgasms quickly and easily.
Squirter dimples are dimples found on the lower back of some women. They indicate a higher likelihood of being able to quickly and easily release their female ejaculate.
Imagine going down on a girl just right… so she sprays her womanly juices all over your face…
Imagine giving any girl one of the most intense orgasms of her life using just your tongue
Damn, don’t you just love that word , ‘cunninglingus,’ it just sounds so sophisticated and proper, and like such an art form.
Well that’s exactly right because going down on a girl, munching out her vagina, is an art form and it is something that we should all learn to Master, for the sake of all the women out there.
In keeping with the theme of School Of Squirt, this will be about making your lady gush during oral sex, not just the simple female orgasm (although that happens as well.)
You might want to consider learning how to make your lady squirt during sex as well. If you’re wondering, what is squirting then go here.
A quick note: Of you’re not a fan on going down on your lady then you might want to learn how to make her pussy smell and taste like roses before going ahead with the rest of this.
The first point to note is that you will have to use your fingers as well whilst you go down on her.
The tongue simply can’t apply enough pressure (initially) to make her explode. Although, as you will read later on, once she is aroused enough and if she is easily orgasmic then a flick of the tongue may be enough to trigger her to squirt all over the sheets again.
I often use cunninglingus as an aid when I want to make her ejaculate with my fingers because for a woman it can be intensely pleasurable and build arousal faster than with just fingers.
For the first round however, the fingers need to be used since they apply pressure to the g-spot and Skene’s gland that result in her ejaculating and where the tongue cannot reach.
Fast Tip: Try This
As you go down to perform cunnilingus on your girl, take one of your fingers and put it in her mouth. Tell her to suck on it any way she wants. As she begins to suck, copy whatever she does on your finger on to her pussy.
Soon she’ll get the message and she’ll start licking, sucking and flicking your finger just the right way that turns her on – As you copy what she does onto her pussy.
You will need to have both your hand and mouth down by her vagina so it helps be able to position both her and yourself in a way that makes this comfortable.
Especially when we are talking about periods of time longer than 15 minutes it really pays off to get comfortable first. Maybe you will want her lying on the bed, with her butt at the edge, so you can kneel on the carpet and get good access to her ‘jade gate‘ as the Toaists call it.
Trigger & Release Using Fingers
The tongue is the perfect wet and sloppy mechanism to build arousal, stimulate her clitoris and get her to the ‘point of no return’ but it is not necessarily right for ‘triggering’ the squirting (unless she is very orgasmic/sensitive) Because we can flick our tongue’s quickly and gently across the clit, as well as motor-boating this makes it perfect for stimulating the clit and advantageous over a heavy finger. Our mouths are already nicely lubricated with spit so oral sex can be perfect for warming her up until she is nice and wet.
It’s easier to make her gush again in one session than to cause her to flow initially, so once you do all the hard work to get her to that point, don’t just make her pussy explode once.
Unlike most men, women can orgasm / gush almost indefinitely (with the right training.)
When she has just ejaculated will be the perfect time to see if you can make her squirt again using just a flick of your tongue applied to her clit.
This is an absolute beauty of a technique and if you do it right, it will blow her mind. It’s almost the opposite of applying pressure to her g-spot, instead you will create a vacuum causing her g-spot to pulse.
It will probably be quite a new sensation for her and extremely arousing. Wrap your mouth around her vagina making it as air tight as possible, but keep your two fingers deeply inside her.
Press your fingers softly into her g-spot (you should know how to find it by now) and then flick away from it.
The flicking sensation combined with the vacuum teases out and engorges her g-spot causing it to swell with blood, and engorges her Skene’s gland with the liquid she will eventually ‘squirt out.’
If you do this during the arousal period it will increase the likelihood of her pussy exploding as well as the quantity of liquid.
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